i have read a number of the replies to this topic: man and woman, who is more unfaithful in a relationship, and I only trend through out. While most of the females were saying males, the males on their side did not spare the females.

there is something that i want all to observe and to note well. No body and i mean nobody would accept the blame. the men would not. the women would not also accept the blame. But definitely, one this group is more the problem.

Before I would even continue with my submission, i want to ask a question. Men and Women, Who are more Faithfull?

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sometimes i find it really hard to understand some women. I always say that women are unpreditable and people think its a joke. Now you see the evident of what I say over and over again all the time. To me, one need to be extra careful when trying to fall in love.

Why should your Christainity end our relationship? I did not force you to be born again but why should our relationship end as a result. I dont want to believe that she was advised by her pastor. It is true that God want men to have a relationship with Him but should that separate our relationship with people.

My brother, take heart.

the question that you all have refused to ask is what made that relationship bad?

You see, i believe that the relationship was not bad at the beginning. So what makes is bad now? Why is it bad now? Do we like it to be BAd?

If the relationship was not bad and you loved each other as you say, then why dont you sit and find out what makes it bad and find a possible solution to it.

Love should be maintained at all times ( that is my belief). People in "bad" relationship should find the cause and settle things out.

love is love and it is important to note that anything can happen as far as love is concern. In a way i share with you your concern and i believe it is a good you are thinking about.

True love knows no boundary as they say, however, one ought to be doubtful some times. Pause now and ask yourself these questions: 1. what has no boundary on earth? 2. what last eternally? 3. will all things remain as they are now? These legimate questions i believe should have an answers.

Many people have been disappointed by the women they loved most. Most have died as a result of this. A lot too have gone mad. i dont think you are wrong as people are saying. Your life is important to me and to a thousand people who sees as their mentor. Please think very seriously about this.

Now to the issue, "will my career affect my relationship". the answer to your problem is a Big yes and No. Your career can be a hindrance to your relationship and it can also not be a hindrance. Why do I say this. It is simply. Look around you and the evidence is clear.

Naturally, all women love to be where thing are good, enjoying,pleasant, and all the adjective you can think about. With this their love is defined. They love you because you have what they want, and possess all they wish to have to enjoy life to the full. What do you think would happen if the opposite occur? well, your guess is as right aa mine. they would surely leave.

On the other hand, as i stated above true love can withstand all situations,good or bad.

Dont worry my brother, love can do some funny things some times. It is all for the good of man.

Think deeply about what I have said so far and I think you can get some sense out of it.

Always remember that women are unpredictable.

my dear, this is one thing that i have for some time now been trying to understand. Women and money. You see i am not surprised at all about your experience. It me say that you are the only one to experience this. On many ocassion i have experienced this same "unfortunate" incident.

I dont want to say that that behaviour is normal. I believe that some thing is wrong somewhere. Most women seriously need deliverance.

I want we should ask ourselves is, what is the proximate cause of this behaviour? Why do most women all over the world love to ask for so much money from people they directly or indirectly know? Why has it become problematic to take a women out? Why has most women turning into, excuse me to say, beggars when they should not?

My dear, we can trace this to our up bringing morals. Most parents are to blame for this unfortunate situation. It would surprise you to know that most parents do not correct their children when they do the wrong thing. you would parents making comment like: "dont mind Akos that is how she behaves, my girl loves to do that.
" . when this happen most the young women turn to think that it is the right thing.

Those to blame for this problem is the women themselves. To be frank some are money conscious and the funny thing is that they are not ashame when asking for money. they should rather be focused and work for their own money instead of alway begging like beggars.

I believe that it is a problem that we should seek solution to. however, i dont think that this behaviour is normal.

Let not even think that it is normal with women. I believe we can do something about it.

a lot of things has been so far about the decline of our mother tongue. I believe the ideas from people are equally great and worth noticing.

I believe that no one will want to change his/her identity just because of language. No one is saying that speaking english is bad. Indeed, it helps in so many ways and in so many areas of life. But tell me, "what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and loses is identity".

I am proud to be a Nigeria and forever i will be. My identity is important and I will preserve it the best way that I can.

Let us all not throw our identity away because we can communicate in exchange of it.

God bless Nigeria, God bless us all