All these new comers' to women's world will not seize to amaze me..

How can you profess love to a random girl you don't even know well.. And you expect her to give in?

You know what? You really need to up your game. You are nothing but an AFC ( if you know what that mean by the way).

There are better way you could have gone about it that would make the girl to assume she has found her Prince Charming...unfortunately you don't have such a charisma.



Wonder why you are blaming the innocent girl for you misfortune. See, you need to blame yourself for being a bunch of ignoramus. You are a total novice in the dating game.

Let me whisper something to your ears... you see, I have never asked a girl out, let alone waiting for her to give me a reply.. It is like handing her my balls, the most expensive thing I have got in this world. Never! I would not do that. And you know what, I get them stuck with me and beg for my love..

Your dressing fine, cash to spend and all those are craps you mentioned will not even get her interested in you.. well it can attract some fake ones to you anyway...

What to do?
First un-learned that craps in your brains on how to get a girl, then we can talk about way to go

Saffi:
Every time women should do this
Women should do that

Just because men are flocking, does this now mean we have to succumb to their offer? Out of 100 guys that you know, only 2 are reasonable and still it’s very hard to figure them out. Most of my married female friends are not even happy. My advice to any female is yes, be open to meet new guys but do not make it a top priority in your life. Instead work on yourself, your finances, character and energy and you will attract your compliment. If it means marrying above the so called normal age, then so be it. My sanity, my growth and peace is what matters the most to me. When you are trash you normally attract trash. Work on YOURSELF biko!!!

What happened sister, this is the first time you made a reasonable comment. Thumps up!

You probably did not know your friend well.. That was your undoing.

Next time, never trust anyone including yourself

boxer022:
I beg to disagree to your opinion on "no destined partner". I will like to site my reasons from the Bible. God created Eve from Adam's rib and when Adam woke from the deep sleep he saw Eve and said this is the bone of my bone and the flesh of my flesh. From this point alone, every man has a missing rib and it is the destined lady or female that will match that missing rib. Another good example is Samson the strong who was warned not to marry from outside his tribe but refused and went ahead to marry Delilah. Everybody knows what happened to Samson after that. For you to know who the destined partner is all you have to do is pray and beg God to reveal to you and at His time He will. Where you may have problem is where you get a girl pregnant then there is nothing left to ask for as she automatically becomes your destined partner.

Blantant lies!

Adepressedsoul:
If there's any worst year in my life, it is the year 2018. Why?
Because I made a silly mistake!

Last year, as an undergraduate i and my friend (course mate) decided to be doing project work for fellow finalists on campus.

The business started successfully and we were able to get over 80 students whom we did project for.

After 2 months of sleepless nights, we were able to complete all the projects (from typing to binding)

When it was time to settle all the people we are owing (those who helped us in printing and binding the projects). It was then I know that something horrible has happened to me....!

My business partner was doing "the boy is good" to almost everyone he collected their project contract, in short He was doing it on credit for them because they promised to pay him soonest and the money is over 90k!

The amount we are owing the binders and printers initially was around N120k but after hustling and selling some of our private stuffs, we were able to pay N70k and we're still owing 50k

The truth of the matter now is that ever since November 2018 till date, my partner is yet to recover 90% of the money outside (90k plus)
Most of them don't pick calls anymore, even the few who manage to pick, they'll keep posting and posting.

Almost everyday, the people we are owing keeps messaging us concerning the money but we couldn't provide anything.

That my friend is deeply broke now, I have also engaged in some hustles since that time but all to no avail.

In a bid to make money to pay off the debt, I have spammed everywhere on Nairaland and my social media accounts to get an article writing and logo design job but I still couldn't get any order. The little ones I managed to get is not even up to N8k


It's a new year again and all the people we're owing are already threatening to do the worst. But there seems to be now way out for now


I can't sleep with my two eyes closed again, I'm always thinking on how to get out of the debt.
I've thought to an extent that suicidal thoughts began to dominate my mind.

I'm an introvert, I have no brother or friend or sister to approach for money.

My father is a retired teacher (the last time he got paid is July )
My mother is a teacher (the govt. Is still owing her more than 5 months salary)
I have no hope anywhere else

I have tried blogging, Fiverr, affiliate marketing, and other internet business. I couldnt gather something tangible from it.

What can I do please?
I'm already developing high blood pressure on this matter...
I'll appreciate any advise sir/ma
Thanks...

Sha calm down bro, it will pass. Don't give up.

Whatever you do, don't take away your precious life.. soon, you will remember this and thank God for taking you out..

Wish I could do something to help you out of this ordeal, but I don't have a job..

I hope other Naira land could come to your rescue.

Massage4health:
Pls continue with the massage, make it regular like once a week or twice a week depending on the pains. Then gradually the pains will subside and you can massage once a week. We all engage the body daily with activities thereby resulting to tensed muscles and tired nerves which caused pains. Most times these pains build up in our body without our notice until it becomes full blown. That's what you feeling right now. Please i don't recommend pain relieve tablet. Its counter productive. Pain relieve drugs are sedative in nature, weakens the muscles and makes you feel the pain is gone. There are only known to relieve pain not cure. The pain is still hanging around the body. SO MY SUGGESTION IS, HAVE A REGULAR BODY MASSAGE, STOP TAKING PAIN RELIEVE DRUGS SO YOU CAN BE ABLE TO ASSES THE PROGRESS, HAVE A REGULAR EXERCISE ESPECIALLY TRY JOGGING. EXERCISE STRENGTHENS THE BONES AND KEEP YOU ACTIVE ALL DAY. THERE LOT MORE BENEFITS TOO. You can chat me on 08094982576. I'm a Massage Therapist(male) . Pls continue with your massage if you prefer a female

Thanks for your input, I will definitely contact you

Laird:
Go to a good hospital and see a Doctor

Thanks bro. I think I will do that tomorrow.

Hello, Healy professional in the house.

Just last Friday, I was trying to lift a heavy load without positioning myself very well and as a result, hurt my back so bad..

I have been experiencing pain at my lower back. I got a neurogesic cream to massage it and also took some pain killer tablet to reduce the pain.

Though the pain has reduced, but I find out that if I sit in a place for so long, and I make an attempt to stand th pain will be so much.

Meanwhile I have had similar incident about 4 years ago. I was trying to lift a heavy cooler and hurt my lower back as a result.. went to the clinic, a lady massage me, I can't remember how long the pain was before it disappeared.

Now this is the fourth day since the incident happened, I still feel the pain, especially if I sit in a place for so long.

Please, what do you suggest I do at this point?

Hey fellas,
Let catch some fun. I believe many of us have one or two things that we been praying to God to grant us this coming new year, 2019.

Some people have been blessed in the year 2018 beyond their imaginations while others are still hoping that one day God will hear their outcry.

Make one wish ( that things you are having praying to God to give and you are yet to receive) and see if God will use someone here to turn that wish to a reality.

I will open the floor... Ok, let go there

My greatest wish for 2019 is to get a job good enough to pay my bills and help others. And of course I am making a real effort to make that a reality comes 2019.

N:B : please, the aim is not to beg for money but to help one another in the spirit of the season.


Thank you.

Lalasticlala, front Page please

I have a similar experience to share. It happened this years.

There is this woman in my locality, she sells raw plantains and roasted ones by the road side.
The woman was looking for a tutor to help her son in Physics and Mathematics for summer class because he performed poorly in the previous exams.

A friend introduced me to her. As per say I don't have a job, I decided to take it up. I did not want take it up initially because I was skeptical about the ability of the woman to pay considering that she is a petty trader..

I charged her 15k monthly, but she begged me to accept 5k, and promised to introduce two other students to me, so the total will be 15k since the student's will be coming to my house. Since it would last for a month I decided to accept. The students would be coming 3 times in a week. So, the lesson started with the 3 students. I was happy because I felt at least I would make 15k from it.


Now about 2 weeks after the lesson commenced, one of the students stopped coming. So, it was just only two students that attended the lesson until it ended.


Now time to get paid. The woman started giving me stories. Meanwhile In my mind I had concluded that the boy that left half way would not pay, so I was hoping to get just the 10k..

Two weeks after, while passing around the spot where she sells, she called me and paid 5k, and begged me to be patient for the remaining 5k as she would not like to pay me bit by bit.

After some weeks again, she saw me and said the parent of the other boy was only able to give her 3k out of the money and promised to pay the rest in the following week. I did not say anything much.


The following day, I learnt the last son of that woman had an accident and his left leg was broken. And that she had already spent so much of money at the hospital.

I felt so bad about the news because I was wondering where the woman would get money to take care of the child at the hospital... the following week she saw me, called me, trying to explain why she has not paid me.. before she even land I just told her not to worry about the money, that I heard about what happen to her son.. I cannot explain the look on her face that day.

Nice story ... That name "Matete" sounds like where Nigerian soldiers were ambushed by Boko Haram

Your sister is a fool here... Tje FRSC was just doing his job..


Next please

I learnt the secret of avoiding friendzoneship about 7 years ago... Oh God, thank you for the insight.

There is no way a girl can friendzone me again. I solely determine if a girl is worth to be with me or not. It is a secret that took me many years to learn..

If you wanna learnt, contact me. Of course it is not free.

PerfectlyPerfect:

contact me about this, let's see if we can partner on this project

Alright bro, I have sent you a Pm

InvertedHammer:

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Many people taken were the ones who were out to give a chance.


Read the story again to understand the plot. He didn't give him a chance.

He was about to bait him thinking he was a scammer but it turned out well.

His initial skepticism explains all there is to learn about the damage "online scams" have done to Africans' reputation.
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Yeah, I quite understand the story.

I see the plot as a chance too because he could have just said " hey, this is a scam" and moved on.
But then, for him to plot to catch that boy means he still had at least 10% belief that it was not a scam. So, I call that 10% a chance.

This is great ! But how many people would have done what this white man did, giving that poor boy a chance.

I think I learn something new from this story: selling of picture story..

And I have been complaining of been jobless. Time to do something meaningful with my phone.

Who can explain further how this guy sold the picture on the internet? I need to know please

I don't have a job as old as I am... It's so annoying

romenalex:
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Some shop owner too lost to the inferno

More photos

When the man, the owner of the cars I guess, saw the magnitude of the loss, he placed his hand on his chest and collapsed. He has been rushed to the hospital. May he get better soon...

The picture was taken while effort was being made to resuscitate the man.

Many people lost to the unfortunate Abule Egba inferno.
But a particular man got my attention this morning, a car dealer who lost about 15 cars to the inferno. Someone said the worth of all cars is around 80 million naira... so sad.

Colourich:
That's not true, in the school I worked as a trainee teacher, there is this girl in my class, her daddy and mummy are both doctors but guess what? she is not intelligent, not even close, when I was scoring their exam scripts, she scored 6/60 in one of her exam scripts, not to talk of other papers, this girl has American accent, its no joke but not intelligent and she is a slow writer. This thing happened this year.

I believe the reason for that is 'cause doctors are always busy and they don't have time for their children, in my class, only few parents check their children's books and assignment, the overall best pupil in that class has an attentive mother that always check her home works and class works.

As an educationist who did child and development psychology as a course, I don't believe intelligence is hereditary, I believe it is acquired. I believe in catching them young when they are still in nursery and primary school, that gives them a good foundation cause that's where they start from. If I'm made Minister of Education tomorrow, I will make sure primary and nursery school teachers are well paid ,they are doing a great and hectic job.

I don't know who you are, but I love you

rottennaija:


I'll contact you

Alright thanks... will be expecting you

rottennaija:


Yes, we can. Send me your number

This is my Whassup number:

Thanks bro

rottennaija:


EA means expert advisors. They are computers programs that are designed to enter trades and take profits based on a certain idea. It simply obeys its instructions and enter trades, take profits with any human interference

That sounds good... Can we chat more on whatssup? I would like to know more


Thanks for your prompt reply

rottennaija:


I'm still learning. I have blown two accounts already. But I'm currently subscribing to EA for trading and it's working well so far

Which one is EA, kindly tell me more about it

rottennaija:


Don't look for anything possible. You need to have an idea of what you want. You try it, it don't work, you move on to something else.

For me, I started with mmm, became a guilder but was too trusting of the system and everything I made, was lost to the system. I quite anything ponzi (mmm was my first and only)

Then I tried mining, invested a lot of resources on it. Didn't quite turn out well. I abondoned the idea. Now, I'm fully focused on forex. If I had known, I would have used the money I invested on mining on forex.

My point is, you need to have an idea of what you want to make work. And you works towards it. Nothing illegal ooo

Bro, can you show me how to trade on forex?
Don't mind meeting you one on one for the training... thanks

stevedre:

The money na Police evidence

Yeah, ok... now dem do die, so the money dey go police account now, abi where....

Someone sha must spend the money

Hope the police go return all the money to the owner, abi dem go chop ma