Not a regular church goer but if there's one thing girls hate is when a guy can see through her bs attitude to what she truly is

The coursemate.

ProudtobeaMUMUM:

my ipob brother don't let Nnamdi Kanu deceive you, join the moving train, baba till 2023

Upon brother!! WTF! Would being a part of your train grant me a job with the big six sisters or pay my bill? Tell u what, ride that train and shove it up your as*

LadyGoddiva:
Cool story but classy, exquisite chicks will never go for the typical Nairaland guy. I mean, they're out of their leagues. Peacocks don't roll with pigs. So they should stick to chasing the average plain Jane out there.

Peacocks? Or You mean high class hoe sellers?

See wetin our useless leaders dey do to our youths. Bunch of useless, worthless, unambitious niggers

The more I interacted with people the more I realized that being introverted was a blessing. No need having 100 friends and still feel hollow inside. But on my own, I'm either programming or presently participating in total ifp MOOC. No dull moment when I'm alone

Lordygram:
when you roll and befriend a lady that do not need your money for her to be able to buy herself a car.... A working class, self dependent lady or a lady that comes from wealthy home....Everybody should stick to their class, let the rich marry the rich and expand their empire and let the poor marry the poor and hustle to build their empire together..

3 gbosa for you

Don't listen to those telling you to let it go. You need to change the inside to balance the outside. In that way, you can win the game without having to feel regrets later. Most people don't know how to be successful on their own therefore they make excuses on why they can't be who they want to be. But there's something different about you, the emotions you express, your desire to change and your passion to be successful. If you don't change now, they would probably wreck you when you succeed.

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lebete3000:


I never said I'm fighting what I don't like...it is you who has decided to see it that way. I've decided to join them since its obvious we aren't gonna stop cheating ourselves...Civility is an illusion, savagery is the default state of humanity. There's no sense in reaping where you haven't sown. You guys just can't understand that revenge doesn't necessarily mean you're bitter. Even God is a God of vengeance when He said Vengeance is Mine...does that make God too bitter? No! In my case I have simply decided to love myself only and no one else. I don't think it's by force to love people oh! I will take advantage of anyone's weakness I perceive for my own good. There is no bitterness laced with it oh. It's just the way I've decided to live my life.

Join them? You're way better than them and if you continue being emotional, you are going to lose steam before you begin. That emotion that you feel now, bottle it up. Every morning you wake up, call on it, let it feel u up, numb yourself in it and tell yourself "Never Again". Remember that for you to achieve what you are gunning for, you need money (lots of it). Start building a career and when things gets tough, remember how they mocked this you, remember the pain you feel right now and dig deep for success. Then you can break as many hearts as you want but never change your outward naive appeal. You want to create the illusion being ignorant and not that of being a threat. Hoes love the white RICH knight.

Fair warning though, at some point, you begin to see people as either liability or asset and not who they truly are. Your mind becomes so numb that you may probably never care about what people think about you. Welcome to the dark side and I hope you do know that this is an extremely lonely road.

People like us have so much inbuilt abilities. Shy and good is another word for manipulative and deceptive, people never see it coming. I used to be like you, humble, shy, trying to please everyone until I discovered the truth about people. No body really cares about anyone if they won't benefit in anyway. Though I still exhibit those traits, deep down. You don't even want to know what I am capable of. That feeling when someone thinks you weak and vulnerable and you play along only to gradually turn the tables on them in an almost seemingly natural way, never gets old.

bamisepeters:
Well, you guys are taking this issue for joke which is not. Do you think some girls that are yet to make it are not trying their best to be successful too, you think they are just lazying around without dreams, right? You said some go around using their private part as ATM. Don't you think we men made them believe they can make living out of it through our acceptance of their belief? If you know how hard some ladies are trying legally to be successful you will not talk the way you have talked. Success draws not just even women but men too, don't be deceived that women don't want to leave successful men because even men don't want to leave another successful man. There is nothing wrong if a successful man help another woman to achieve her own successful dreams too, when you start thinking like this you might have issues in your relationship not even marriage.

You really don't get it, do you? We are not talking about being friends, business associates or even a mentorship relationships. Full blown seductive kind of approach from girls who might have slapped you if you had approached them prior to becoming loaded.

Faeton:
Marriage is a myth

A myth propagated by childish movie fantasies

This is the dream. Can't wait to make solid papers. Oh lordy lordy lord. C tins

Partnerbiz3:


No kissing, cuddling, smooching etc.
Haba

Who kissing, cuddling, smooching epp. I would rather not do anything at all but my brain just won't focus on important things when I feel the need.

Code red, op, I repeat, code red. Don't allow it, there's a limit to even bitchcraftcy. Op, don't allow it. Go full cersei lannister mode and stop it. Jeez, my bro n my ex, what's this world turning into. Even dating a friend's ex is a no no. Wtf

Hmmmmm. For those interested in the oil and gas industry, go register for MOOC. For the literates amongst you, go and learn a programming language. Sex is overrated, marriage is overrated. Stop killing yourself over situations you can't control, like finding a worthwhile partner and actually do something meaningful with your life. The best of the best of partners are usually higher up the intellectual pyramid. (those making decisions based on logic and not emotions)

If I wanted to give money for sex, I am pretty comfortable, I don't need to turn an innocent girl into that. Sex is the easiest commodity and I am looking for something much more deep. Giving a girl money have never really bothered me (as long as it is for a good reason). I stopped when I realized that they usually abuse it. And frankly speaking, I don't have a gf and I don't want one. I have had one intimate relationship and that was enough for me to realize that there was more to life than sex. SEX IS OVERATED and keeping a girl around just for sex is the most unlovable thing any man can do

Jimi23:


Cost management is s term used to hide the word stinginess... Going through your profile and posts you cut across as someone who is either plain mean or has been badly bruised emotionally making you bitter towards the female gender. Whatever it is take life easy bro. Baby mama? Its obvious you don't know how much bitter curses those ones reign on men who made them so. Don't even go there.

Plain mean, no. Bruised, not that much. I simply learnt from my mistakes and prioritized things accordingly. I just don't see the point of taking part in events that doesn't help me grow

Jimi23:


Because you threw your heart to the dogs...dirty lifestyle and being stingy is indeed destructive... Smh. Since you don't want to trust...don't get married nah let alone raising a family. Yeye dey smell.

Threw my heart to the dogs (don't make me laugh), better than wasting my time ruining the life of someone I absolutely have no plans for. Trust ain't given, it is earned. Marriage is not an accomplishment, if I become privileged enough to meet someone that I can be compatible with, fine. If not, baby mama. As long as I can further develop my career, I'm happy and that's all that matters. And it's not being stingy, it's proper time and cost management

5k for extra kpekus (say Erin happen). Dash her 500 make she vamoose, no u born her?

Jimi23:


May the same treatment be meted out to your own daughters. You are a monster bro

If my daughters are stupid enough to put their relationships before their careers, then they will deserve everything that is going to come to them. From a guy who wishes to give birth to all sons but one daughter (their wahala too much)

Jimi23:


Dumb. Make dem infect u first you go know which is more cost effective. Some of you reason with your dicks.

Infect who, 5 minutes of an overprotective sex once every 2-3 months with someone I absolutely don't trust in order to appease the brain so I can focus on my career, or lashing (sometimes unprotected) someone you (claim) to trust 30 minutes/round more than once/week for your lustful pleasure. Who runs the risk of getting infected?

FYI, no calls, no drama, no going out, no responsibility. Just pure focus and determination afterwards.

Ibabo, where their embassy dry for naija? Make I confirm.

mgbadike81:
the cheapest is an open ended relationship. everybody is free to sleep with who ever else they want.a morally bankrupt country.

People who preach morality are usually hypocrites.

Bro, you have nothing to worry about as long as your ego is bigger than your appetite for sex. During my time, I was a boarding house master as well and it was extremely difficult. As time went by and as I became popular with the students, the age gap just disappeared. All I began to see were matured ladies and the temptation grew. I was so happy to finish before I soil my hands and name. Just relax and be professional, you're gonna be OK, at least until you pass out

Oloshos are much more cost effective than a gf. From research.

I love cooking even as a teenager but to Wash undies kwa. I Go jejely go collect my bride price back, for what. Can throw them in a washing machine when she is incapable of doing that herself (illness, pregnancy). But to used my 5 fingers, never

Why would a girl dress like a slut? Isn't it obvious

When someone or something tries to annoy me, I remember 3 things. I have comfortably taken care of myself since I was 12, everything/ everyone lost can be replaced and time/God can heal all wounds. Take 3 breaths and walk away but I never forget so that it doesn't happen again. You're not alone

Do no pass, Bitchcraftcy at work. Hope you never give her the tp o. Or tell her to borrow with a promise to pay when she comes back, then disappear

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