Politics / Re: The Defence Flag, The Presidential Standard And The Russian Flag by juddybrown(m): 7:00pm On Aug 06 |
My Own na say make una no involve Russia |
Sports / Re: Olympic Games: Team Nigeria’s Bag Of Scandals by juddybrown(m): 9:03pm On Aug 03 |
Quite a Disgrace 25 Likes |
Sports / Re: Nigeria's Olympic Games Opening Ceremony Attires (Photo) by juddybrown(m): 6:08pm On Jul 26 |
This wan no follow abeg , tufiakwa |
Romance / Re: How Do You Handle Randy Jokes From The Opposite Sex by juddybrown(m): 10:02pm On Jul 21 |
Where are you working , make I help you since you no wan help yourself |
Politics / Re: Police Ban ‘7/7 Gang Celebration’ In Anambra, Warn Hotels, Bars, Others by juddybrown(m): 3:36pm On Jul 07 |
Easier Said Than Done , Just Give Police Small Thing ,The Rest is History 7 Likes |
Politics / Re: Minimum Wage: NASS May Propose Seizing Defaulting States, LGs’ Allocations by juddybrown(m): 1:59pm On Jun 15 |
If it's True ,Nice Move 2 Likes |
Fashion / Re: I'm 63 And I'm Only Ageing Backwards - People Think I'm Still In My 20s by juddybrown(m): 11:30pm On Jun 13 |
You are very wicked and heartless 😁, That Odede and Edede got me laughing |
Crime / Re: Inmate, Paul Michael, Escapes From Delta Correctional Centre by juddybrown(m): 12:58pm On Jun 06 |
Otilor |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Arsenal Vs Chelsea (5 - 0) On 23rd April 2024 by juddybrown(m): 8:58pm On Apr 23 |
Odegaard to score |
TV/Movies / Re: Name An Actor or Actress Who Was Perfectly Cast In A Movie Or TV Show by juddybrown(m): 9:48pm On Apr 16 |
T- Bag In Prison Break 6 Likes |
Music/Radio / Re: Davido Features Vinicius Jr, Bellingham, Others In 'Away' Music Video by juddybrown(m): 11:21am On Mar 14 |
Confirm 2 Likes 1 Share |
Celebrities / Re: Mr. Ibu's Corpse Arrives Enugu Ahead Of Burial (Video) by juddybrown(m): 9:26am On Mar 12 |
It's really strange and difficult to come to terms with the fact that Mr Ibu is gone , May God Accept his Soul |
Celebrities / Re: See Nigerian King Who Was Killed Because He Refused To Bow To Queen Elizabeth by juddybrown(m): 12:05am On Mar 08 |
This story is deep |
Politics / Re: Public Complaints Commission sues staff over industrial action by juddybrown(m): 3:23pm On Mar 04 |
It's Quite Unfortunate and Shameful |
Sports / Re: Ivory Coast Goalkeeper 'Wore Charm' During AFCON: Shehu Sani Calls For Probe by juddybrown(m): 5:38pm On Feb 14 |
Forget charm ,they outplayed us 36 Likes 4 Shares |
Health / Re: NAFDAC Raises Alarm Over Circulation Of Fake Dano Milk In Nigerian Markets by juddybrown(m): 11:39am On Jan 25 |
Life are being endangered cos of quest for money, May God Help Us 2 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: FG Budgets ₦5bn For Presidential Yacht by juddybrown(m): 2:36pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
And they can't settle with labour demands 5 Likes |
Phones / Re: What Phone Is Best For 170k Budget? by juddybrown(m): 7:48pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
[quote author=BigDickProblems post=124719299]Kindly recommend a good phone for 170k
Redmi Note 11s |
Politics / Re: APC Condemns Barbaric Attack On Members In Port Harcourt by juddybrown(m): 9:23am On Apr 05, 2023 |
Hmm |
Career / Re: Mechanic Returns N10.8m Mistakenly Sent To His Account, Gets Rewarded With N50k by juddybrown(m): 10:35am On Mar 23, 2023 |
Play 2odds ,Get over 20 million,Return the 10. 8 million,gets #50k reward,it's a win win situation 2 Likes |
Phones / Re: Best Phone Of 150k by juddybrown(m): 4:29pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
[quote author=chidirobert post=119887679]Good morning guys, am planning on getting myself a new phone. I ve been using Samsung galaxy for the past 3 years and I like it as am nt a phone flik Go for Redmi note 11s 128g,Thank me later |
Romance / Re: Man Divorce His Wife Of 77years Because She Cheated 60years Ago (pics/video) by juddybrown(m): 11:56am On Dec 28, 2022 |
It's alright |
Romance / Re: For Guys In Relationships by juddybrown(m): 11:55am On Dec 28, 2022 |
Omoh I no even understand |
Forum Games / Re: Can You Provide The Correct Answer To This Puzzle? Photo by juddybrown(m): 4:54pm On Dec 10, 2022 |
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Wolves Vs Arsenal (0 - 2) On 12th November 2022 by juddybrown(m): 8:09pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Must win for Arsenal |
Travel / Re: Married Guys That Relocated To The UK, Whats Your Experience by juddybrown(m): 6:30pm On Oct 29, 2022 |
kbower: Hi Nlanders
We all know no marriage is all that smooth and rosey, we all that are in it have challenges here and there, and for almost 11 years now, out of tolerance, ruggedity, minding my business in terms of taking care of the family have always been something that has held my marriage down, because the majority of the issue I have with my wife have always been issues of trust, transparency, accountability, respect and loyalty.
You might find it hard to believe it,your wife is cheating on you
Some people will say with these things I have listed, that I may be asking for too much, but I can tell whoever would reason that way that it's not too much because am a responsible father/husband that have never for once strayed the family in anyway that will make me lack any of the above stated qualities a man can enjoy from a wife.
Why am I here? Ok.. After enduring so much for 11 years, we are relocating to the UK, she is the main applicant, myself and the 3 children are dependants, she traveled first, leaving myself and the 3 kids behind until she can secure accommodation b4 we leave.
I have heard about countless incidences of how SOME women treat their husbands and the POWER zoned to women in that country which makes it almost impossible for a man with a wife that gives him constant problem to be able to thrive in that country.
I just want to state three peculiar incidences that occured during her 1month stay over there that is already making me feel I have alot to face over there, though I know my God is bigger than anything, I just want people that are over there, or people that are experienced here and all over who are capable of handing a good advise for me on getting there to know how I can fare and withstand what is to come.
Based on the above from the major incidences I have experienced with her, first two weeks of being there, she had gone to check a house b4 heading to school, on her way back to school, she claimed she didn't take enough money and going back home might not be possible, I asked how she would wanna go about it and she replied saying I will borrow money from Mr Mike, a man she just met at school on her first day of registration. I was like that's wrong, you don't form familiarity with someone you just met in another man's country, I said I will call a friend in liverpool to send you money and you could get your train ticket. She fumed, but I stood my ground and said that's how its going to be. I have asked her to collect a friends account details, since she has not opened an account yet, she said when her class finishes by 8.30pm she'll request details from her friend so the money can be sent. Fast forward to closing period, I messaged her to send me details, she ignored, I called ad she said nobody has an account that I should not worry she will sort herself, I was now like you just got to that country, u have no friends that u know too well to rely on, I am ur hubby and I opened a way for u to get money easily, yet u didn't make any effort to redeem the opportunity, omo she hung up on me then later called back that she gathered few pennies she had to get the ticket, I was now like why didn't u just say this instead of putting me on pressure over how to get money to convey u all the way from london to Luton, over an hour journey at night.
Secondly, on her next school day, she had previously told me prior to her closing hours that her data has finished and she's using schools wifi, that the moment she steps out from school to head home, she won't be having access to internet, etc WhatsApp and all of that, but importantly was to make use of GPS google map, that's what people over there use to navigate their way in order not to get lost, I was like without internet how do u intend to get to ur destination when u know how stressful it was for u getting lost the other day, now the same statement she made was, I will sort myself. I was raged and said woman I will ask my friend to buy u data so u can get home easy and safe, she said no proble, that she's leaving now, I said well since i wont be able to reach you on whats app, I will definitely call you on normal call shortly to give you the data pin to load. She said no P and hung up.
Moments later, my friend had sent me the data pin, na so I begin dey call wifey oo, over 15 missed calls she nor pick. Later she called back and said her phone was in her laptop bag and her hands were frozen so she couldnt put hands in the bag to pick the call and that she didn't even hear it ring.
The issue I posted up there are issues of not being accountable, and attitude of not showing that you don't need me when its not just about that but for security and your well being knowing fully well you are new in the country and proper guidelines needs to be taken.
Another incident happened 3rd week after her arrival, we were video chatting while she was on a train station waiting for train, next thing I noticed was a guy sitting BEHIND her, the guy boldly took a peep into her phone directly, seemingly trying to see who she was on video call with, immediately i called her attention to it, she just smiled and looked back and said silently, nawa some people for this London nor go mind their business. This very day developed a story that transitioned towards few things I will be stating.
The next sunday, I called her in the morin to say hi and all that, next thing I know she dun dey go church, she nor even discuss am with me and na wetin we dn agree on sey we fo jointly choose church wey we go dey go. After church service, she call me sey that guy wey i talk sey dey peep into her phone, sey the guy that very day asked her how long shes been there for, she said, just 3 weeks, sey how come she come take know road when him don dey 3months he nver know road, sey that same guy him coincidentally meet am for the new church wey she come so, sey the guy dey look am, she comot eye, but later the guy come meet am sey are u not the one that showed me way to where I was going. Sey as him meet the guy coincidentally for church, he fit be sey he get why, maybe for job connection or what not. I nor say anything, cos coincidences arent something new in this world. Then the next day, she call me sey that same guy needs an apartment, sey na married guy with 4 kids, but him wife and 1kid dey here, 3 dey nija them nor fit come yet until house is ready, sey him dey ask her if she can help him get someone that can reference for him to get a house, ha him my wife come dey ginger me sey make i help am talk to my friend wey help us reference if him go fit help the guy too. I come sey no problem, she sey she go call the guy now and put us on 3 way call, i sey no p, i come dey wait for call, no call come and madam nor talk again, i come ring her sey hafa u nor do the three way call again? She sey the guy dey work, him nor fit talk,sey she don give the guy my number to call me later, me come sey no p, send him number I go save am down so if he calls i go know sey na him, madam nor gree send number, I come dey wonder sey wetin dey sup sef, normally I nor spose reason ahead, but me my instict dey very strong, i come begin dey put two and two together sey maybe the guy intention was never to get help but to use style dey hit on my madam maybe na why him nor wan talk to me but wan use my madam dey take communicate.
I come ask madam some some questions on previous ish, I come find out sey small lie dey, so I tackler her sey the way she take explain to me about how him meet the guy for train station nor join, she come vex sey me i come am liar, omo as we dey talk for whatsapp, i nor blv sey my madam added this guy to the call without my consent or my knowledge, so as I dey talk, the guy dey the background, i nor even know anything and the dude himself kept quiet, na after the call finish, I see am for call details sey the guy was added to the call, infact the dude even called me directky i nor pick. Now i got very angry, come call madam sey wetin dey sup, u added this dude wey talk sey him dey work him nor fit talk to the call wey me and u dey on and u didnt even notify me, ok lets agree sey if to sey u wan tell me sey u wan add the guy for call sey i nor go gree sey maybe na why u add am without my consent, at least after u add am secretly, u are suppose to talk and sey bae, since u are accusing me wrongly.
I have added the guy to this call so he can clear me out, but she didnt, she just added the guy and the dude himself kept quiet and didnt say a word until I hung up. I got very furious and told her this is the highest level of see finish and dragging in the mud, wetin u want that guy to dey feel like now? She said shes sorry that she only wanted to clear herself, I was now like even if u wanted to clear urself, if that the best way to go about it, the person who is the subject matter is the best person u need to introduce to clear u out? Later on i just bone the matter come apologise sey make we move on, na so she come begin dey yarn plenty, sey she call the guy that my hubby said that the way we met is unreal, sey the guy sef come talk sey wow, so your husband already thinks am sleeping with you, but i cant blame u though, u know u have a big back side, so thoughts like that from him is likely not a surprise, i was hmmmm to hear that, i come tell madam sey if na true this guy talk this thing, shouldnt u already know he has corny itentions, she said well she too dey wonder cos the two times wey them meet she nor wear wetin fit show her bkside so how d guy come take know. The matter end there, next day madam still dey worry me sey shey I go still help d guy, I was like I cant even talk to him, u dun useless me already for him presence, she dey claim sey she nor do anything wrong by adding him to the call, sey the guy know of agency wey fit help me get better job if i arrive, and sey the guy talk sey if me fit connect am to my friend to reference am for house, him go link me up fr the agency. I talk sey i nor dey interested. Omo I weak. Guys I need advise on how to handle issues over there, cos me nor dey take nonsense for nija here, but for there, one needs to chill, but then should it now be sey because we dey live for country wey give woman power, make woman come use that opportunity come dey fumble? |
Forum Games / Re: NGN30,000 (30k) to be tansferred for the Correct Answer: by juddybrown(m): 6:37pm On Oct 23, 2022 |
DaddyCK: NGN 30,000 (30k) WILL BE NOW TRANSFERED TO WINNER OF THE CORRECT ANSWER AS EVERYONE STILL STRUGGLING TO GET THE CORRECT ANSWER PREVIOUSLY AT NGN 20.000 (20K) ANSWER IS SO SIMPLE ITS SUPRISING WHY NO ONE CAN GET IT:
What is the exact color of a Mirror?
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M.O.D FRONT PAGE SIR/MA!! ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png)
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Car Talk / Re: Ezra Olubi Buys Tesla With Vanity Plate Number R3T4RD. by juddybrown(m): 5:55pm On Oct 23, 2022 |
It is well oh |
Family / Re: No Family Planning, No Sex by juddybrown(m): 8:59am On Oct 23, 2022 |
My wife says– No family planning, No sex. for the past four months, my wife has been mounting series of pressures on me concerning family planning and I kept on ignoring her, but these past weeks, she has shown me what shege really looks like.
Up to three weeks, my wife has denied me access to her sacred part, insisting on her "No family planning, No sex" rule, anytime a tried to make love to her.
I've Three(3) beautiful Angels with her and my last child clocked 4 Years old. She said, she's not ready for another child despite our last child who's our only daughter being 4yrs old and my second son is 6, while my eldest child is 10years( that's 4 years gap). she said she's done with giving birth.
I got the shock of my life this night, that she asked me to go and get c*ndoms, if I want to have my way to her sacred part or otherwise we visit the doctor for counseling or do the family planning, reason why I picked up my phone to write this. I'm fed up because I don't subscribe to this idea of family planning or anything related to it, due to it's several after effects.
But it seems like she's winning, but either ways, I would sincerely like to see some opinions from here before going to see the doctor whether to give in to her request or not.
Please assist me for wider audience.[/quote]
What if she contacted HIV from away match,and she is trying to avoid infecting you |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Arsenal Vs Bodoe/ Glimt: Europa League : (3 - 0) On 6th October 2022 by juddybrown(m): 6:52pm On Oct 06, 2022 |
My darling arsenal on da beat,3 sure points |
Politics / Re: APC Postpones Screening Of Presidential Aspirants Indefinitely by juddybrown(m): 5:29am On May 23, 2022 |
Movie unfolding 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Doyin Okupe: Secrets To Winning A Delegate Election In Nigeria by juddybrown(m): 5:25am On May 23, 2022 |
Money money money 5 Likes 1 Share |