Hmmm, Am a white gurl myself, and I can only say that I taste like strawberry ice cream,

So *warning* only eat white kitten if you are in the mood for dessert,

LOOOOOOOOOL - Yes, this is cream for making you taller,

@OP:

After reading this, I have been thinking bout some things,  You talk about all this with what is wrong with her bla bla bla,  But the lack of one very important question is missing:

Are you(!!!!) sure that she(!!!) is the right girl for you You have not written one positive word about her, only negative, What is so great about her anyway??

lilkech:


Plus there is a hymen . . . Ive confirmed it personally. If u didnt have/notice urs then question your houseboy or uncle who was living with u while growing up.

LOOOOOOL - Ignorance is a bliss for you, I guess! This comment is the biggest b.ullsh.it I've heard in a loooong time!

Let me ask this question: Dont you get se.xual education in school??

Why did you write this post

Seems like you already made up your mind, And oh yeah: be sure to remove the indigestible corn from your d.I.cK,

Haahaaa, this is somewhat sad and funny at the same time,

So many things to comment on this one, :
1: What kind of wierd!!! mother does this girl have, that her mother checks her down there?!?!
2. There IS NO SUCH THING as the hymen. It is a MYTH, and everyone needs to know it!
3. This one cracks me up "start developing 'bisexual' feelings or tendencies", Dude, are you not with a woman? How can you think that you would want to b.ang a man after trying this??
4. I understand if you dont want to do it in the back entrance, It can be a n.asty xperience for both, But she seemed ok with it, then give it a go lol!
5. This is for her family: THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS THE HYMEN! (cant be said enough!)

lefulefu:

Go and learn his language and quit whining

Haha, Could you please provide me with the address of an belgian (speaking english is ok) igbo teacher? Good luck with that!

tom28:

She is asking if i can handle it ; their D
What worse can u say about nigerians that i havent heard?.Look jumgurl i live in the USA and the USA is a place were ppl get sterotyped on account of their heritage or the colour of their skin.The US is a place were it is beleived that all arabs are terrorist,all africans live on treetops and have tails between their legs,all mexicans eat tacos and they sell oranges and all black americans are thugs and sag their trousers.So i have across real hardcore ppl with prejudices and what u say would just be what other ppl say about nigerians.Your country for example has a very racist history.If i recall many yrs back your Govt was responsible for the million deaths of africans in the congo in the slave camps.We all remember the belgian atrocites in the congo and the way the average belgian views ppl of dark skin colour.

Ok ok, so the fact that you are sourrounded by prejudice ppl in your daily life makes you feel like you should do the same? Dont you think that - taken the fact that you've seen the "light" - should be a better example? Why diss like everyone else?
To get back to the facts; ppl tell me that nigerians are
- only in europe to get paper so that
- they can get a job where they make good money so that
- they can send the money back home and show off with expensive cars, houses, clothes etc (or at least his family can) OR the wife back home can feed fufu to their 11 children
- that they cheat as they see sight of a skirt
- that they are all illegal
- all scammers.

I cud go on - but just to mention, this is NOT my view, this is some og the opinions I got from others!

tom28:

Let me guesss
Your friends told u not to date him because nigerian men are scammers,have multipile babies all over the place and whats such.Jeez u must really be thinking u doing this your igbo boyfriend a huge favour dating him. .Is he an illegal immigrant by the way?

Wow - you are really filled with prejudices, You wanna know what ppl tell me? You sure you can handle it?

tom28:

Jumgirl to make it easier for you i suggest u date a black american or probably a caribbean man since u have a problem with him speaking his language and u want someone who speaks english.Its not a must u must date an african anyway and looking frm the way u already having a problem with him speaking his language i would say your relationship is already heeded for a big crash.

I prefer not always to take the easy way out, the "just cus we dont speak the same language, I should just give up"-philosophy is not something I am willing to accept. I really like this man. When we are alone, he is the most caring, considering, , understanding and loving man I've ever met. I cant just give up due to this obsticle. This is why I am willing to aproach these forums to ask for guidance from other nigerians. I am willing to put my heart out - not only here - but also to him to let me see where this will take us.

Mrs, Chima:

Meaning everyone that comes into our lives aren't meant to stay.  There are three types of people in our lives: leaves, branches, and roots.

It all depends on how we will continue this thing - if he and I are ment to be, then he is a root I guess.  Otherwise, time will only tell.


And also another thing, another night we went out dancing. Me and him danced most of the night. Then he wanted to rest, but I wanted to continue dancing. Then some of his friends approach me for dancing and I denied. He said that in Nigeria it is rude to turn down a dance from a man. Is that true? I dont wanna be rubbing my g.enitals (That was the dance his friends were going for) against another mans groin in front of my date. What's the view on that?

tom28:

I have heard a lot about Belgium.Its a very a country were blacks are hated.

Yeah, I guess ppl hear a lot about belgium - I've heard that Nigeria is a country where whites are hated, 

tom28:

Just date your Belgian men and hence it would be much easier for u since  u both would be speaking the same language.

Soooo, if the whole world just dated a person from his/her own country/tribe/religion, how would you think the world would be?

lefulefu:

no be your mates dey speak igbira and kalabari language with their naija boyfriends?

Am I supposed to understand this comment?

rokiatu:

A Nigerian man? Good luck with that one child.

This is not the first time I've heard this one,  Most people tell me not to date him - not because he is black - but because he is a nigerian. It must really take a lot of effort to build up such a notorious reputation,  End of that comment!

Mrs, Chima:

Aww.  He is being rude and you need to have a talk with him.  Stress to him that if he continues speaking in his native tongue when he is around his people without giving you a heads up on what you need to know. 

You should speak your native tongue around your people and he start to get agitated and questioning your every vowels, it is the perfect time to say now you see how I felt when you did that to me. 

It could be harmless and a habit with him but sit him down and communicate with him.  If the problem continues then you have to make a decision on what you should do from there on out.

Don't stress yourself if he doesn't listen.  Some people are there for a season and some are there for eternity.  Which one is he? 

Thanks for your advise,  I will take it into serious consideration! AND what do you mean by some are here for a season??

Hey everyone!

I am new to this forum and I just want your advices, I am a girl from Belgium dating a nigerian man, And I feel like its the biggest challenge I've ever come across. As a person I am very open minded and I love to learn new cultures and different ppl from around the world BUT;

Last weekend me and my date went out to eat with his 4 other guys in a restaurant, and I am telling you, alle they did was to shout, argue - in igbo of course. I did not have fun AT ALL! I dont understand the language, and I dont wanna be asking my date every ten seconds; "what are you saying, what does this mean, etc, "

I actually think because of that night I see that I have no future/or a very complicated one, with this man cus whenever he's around someone from nigeria, I cannot be a part of the conversation, What can I do?