posty56:
but redpill is ammoral isn't it?

You're missing his point

Grace -- Michael Smith

Anonymousbobo:

Great boss
On this topic, I’m new to the redpill so based on that Madonna/LovePeddler complex, I have a girlfriend 19yr old virgin though I haven’t had sex with her but I’ve brought out her inner hoe(I taught her how to kiss, suck divk etc), I got this girl easy because I was chosen, now that I learnt about the redpill I’ve been having problems, I don’t trust her anymore, the idea of getting her easily comes to my head that if I got her that easy then another guy might too(I never thought this before my eyes open to the TRP), I relate every sexcapades I have had to her in my head, even if my guys tell me their sexcapades, the image of her comes up, like I relate everything sexual to her in my head, even if I wanna do my magic in other girls DM, I’ll be like what if other guys are doing the same in her DM, and now That I’ve turned her to a freak I get worried that hope she won’t go fuvking around after I’ve disflowered her, TBH I don’t have peace of mind, great Redpillers in the house I need your help

You are currently under the spell of oneitis .... You need to accept that those things you're thinking will happen and there isn't much you can do about it. Other guys will fucc her. But if you're the one who deflowered her, she will always be attached to you.
What you need to do now is cultivate an abundance mindset. Talk to other girls freely and create many options for yourself.
Make it easy for you to move on when she messes around with other guys. If she never does, then good for you.
This should be your mindset in combating oneitis.

These ones think they are in the west

https://www.nairaland.com/7011620/women-abuja-protest-against-national#110692690

Dammytrager:
Seems a lot of guys here are students or in their early twenties, if y'all focusing on how to control women or Bleep women to be alpha at this stage of life, you'll be in for a rude awakening after school.

I have always said that women are not the cake, they are just the icing on the cake, Your life, your purpose, your ambitions, your goals and your success should be your cake. If you get it right in life, there will be a lot of things that come by the side and women is one of them.

A lot of young men here have reduced masculinity, alpha and the red pill to just dick and sex. You feel your dick is your worth and satisfying female lust is your purpose.

In the old days, the Alphas were seen as men who were strong and could defend their territory from invaders, wild animals or even nature. Any man who was weak will have his territory taken, his wife and daughters will be taken from him and he will be killed. His wife will be given to another strong man either as a slave, sex slave or even as an extra wife. These strong men don't care about satisfying the feminine lust, they bleep the girls for their own pleasure and dump them.

Today's world does not rely on physical strength any longer, but rather on what you have, what you can do, either in money or capacity. Women are not your primary goals or your success, they are just for short term enjoyment, to relax or cool off the brain. You become Alpha when you have attained something for yourself; each time you rise after falling, that is alpha; When you set goals and achieve them that is alpha; There is no glory in bleeping women, the real glory is when you are able to stand as a man in this cold world, especially if you started from the bottom.

A few guys are misinterpreting my message as securing the bag and simping for women, No! that is not my message

My message is simple, as a man, focus on your purpose (definitely not women), when women come, use them for whatever you want (could be sex, marriage, baby mama or even friends). Apply the redpill accordingly when dealing with them, but don't forget your purpose, women are short term and there are many of them, there is just one of you and your life is long term.

Act accordingly!

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Some confusing ideas have been flying around lately. The most misleading being that what makes a man Alpha is how well he can fvck a girl that chooses him. This kinda mentality only makes the man her sex slave. So, now, just to keep her coming for more, he has to do a lot including sucking her VJ, eating her anus and probably giving a performance worthy of the pórn version of an Oscar. Are you kidding me?
I like the example you gave. Those men of old who were alphas did not give a sh1t about satisfying their women's sexual fantasies. They just fvcked them for their own personal satisfaction without caring whether the women were satisfied or not.

The mindset is really important. If you're fvcking her to impress her, you've lost. That, in fact, contradicts the red pill -- putting yourself first. Fvck for your own satisfaction and your own alone. Don't go out of your way to do things you don't like during sex just to impress her in order to be her alpha. That's compromising your standards. That's beta.

Being alpha stems completely from the mindset of not giving a fvck. Whether she's satisfied or not is not your business.

The only time a man should give a sh1t about being extremely good is when he is working on his purpose, not when he is knacking a shawtie.

If you are a man with little sexual prowess, by all means, try to improve, but for yourself. Don't kill yourself trying to satisfy somebody's daughter. I've lost count of the amount of men who have died on pvssy while fvcking to impress the girl.

For instance, if you have a small d1ck, doing all sorts of sexual acts to complement it will not make you her alpha. It will make you her sex slave. What would make you her alpha is fvcking her how you see fit without unnecessary stress.

In conclusion, if she lets you fvck however you want, regardless of whether she is satisfied or not, and without billing you, you are a true alpha to her.

The bitter truth is this is difficult to attain. And only a few men will ever be in this position.

Thank you.

fattprince:

Do you have a thread on how to play this pimping game? I have a girl I want to work on like right now. I actually wanted to be taking her to parties they organise in my school from time to time where money are sprayed so since she's pretty and young they will surely spray her then we share the money but I will love to love-vendor her out now in addition. Do you have a thread on that already?

Omo, mhen are not smiling o

pansophist:
If you refuse to be used by anyone, there is a high tendency that you'll be loathed. If you start living from inside out, in accordance with yourself, you've basically set the rule to be a social outcast. A decision every man will come to face one day is to either choose to please the world, or themselves. If you please the world, you'll suffer. If you please yourself, you'll prosper.

Most people are weak in their soul, and the symptoms of internal weakness is living from the outside to the inside. Meaning that they expect others to give them something they can't give themselves. For example look for an obese person, and ask how his/her dream partner should look like, I doubt they would desire an obese person like them. They want someone that is disciplined enough to eat healthy, the same lifestyle they can't live up to. Same goes for the uneducated, the broke, the lazy etc.

A strong person lives from the inside out, meaning that they try to meet the ideal of their own imagination. They don't expect someone else to be intelligent, eloquent, fit, healthy, refined etc. They embody it. And if you are strong, the weak would want to use you, because they live from outside to the inside, and when you refuse, you'll be hated. If you understand how the dynamic goes, you really won't feel sad when people hate you, just as the bark of a dog doesn't disturb you, because you understand the dog. You understand the weak energy they are coming from.

Like the old saying, iron sharpens iron. When two strong people meet each other, it's basically an introduction to heaven. And if they are romantic partners, then each time spent together is heaven in itself. Imagine being in love with someone that is like a boost, launching you to greater heights. A strong person understands his/her weakness, and can understand yours as well. The only time a man can experience true freedom is when he is alone, but to be free even in the presence of another person is the greatest of heavenly blessings.

If you will learn anything from this write up, it should be about reflecting on your behaviours and determine if you navigate the world with a weak mindset, and change it. By default, the weak will suffer and the strong will thrive, this is the rule of the universe. So for one to reduce the suffering that characterizes life, you must be strong. It's not an option, it's a must.

Great post.

Let me just add that whether you choose to please the world or yourself, either way, you will suffer. The suffering is however less if you choose to please yourself.

SOZINN:




More protein, less carbs. Stay away from processed meat or any other four legged animals for that matter. Focus on turkey chicken and fish. Eggs are great, boiled or raw, all will do the same work. Skim powdered milk or no milk at all. Your meat and fish should be water cooked not fried, roasted or grilled. 100grams of groundnuts at least two times a week because of those eggs you are eating.

As for gym, rest day is very important. Those muscles will develop while you are resting not when you are lifting those weights. Pick one day in seven days and on that day, don't go to the gym, just take long walks.

Please can you guys just open another thread dedicated strictly for fitness, so that the posts can be easily revisited by readers. Kindly tag me when you do. Nice one.
Cc zabiboy

Zabiboy:
Tips for those getting started/ already in the gym:
1) Consistency > Size of weight
2) Light weight builds the body, heavy weight builds strength ( i highly recommend light weight for bench press)
3) Focus on one part of the body each day/week
4) Squat more..Never leave the gym without doing squats/lunges ( laps & calves take time to build)
5) Gym is 20%... Food is 40%, rest 30% and stress level 10%.
6) Dont try to look like a bouncer in 2 months, you can still be gyming at 60.. Build your tolerance level..
7) Finally, for those who dont have fat, whey protein helps, but i prefer raw eggs( take at least 2 raw eggs after the day's session. You can add milk to the raw eggs to make it sweeter and more nutritious) ..
_{more additions are welcomed}

Raw eggs? As in you drink it raw without boiling or frying?

DieRich5:
so dis woman na Katy

If na man now

If na man, he is finished.

Junnior:

Oh! My bad..

Here:

https://www.quora.com/What-is-wrong-with-our-society-today/answer/Zee-Hamid-2?ch=10&oid=76417423&share=55b4f509&srid=h5l9iu&target_type=answer

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Trex4:
There's 100 plus answers to that question. Point us to the main answer you're talking about.

Oh! My bad..

Here:

https://www.quora.com/What-is-wrong-with-our-society-today/answer/Zee-Hamid-2?ch=10&oid=76417423&share=55b4f509&srid=h5l9iu&target_type=answer

This got me angry

https://www.quora.com/What-is-wrong-with-our-society-today/answer/Zee-Hamid-2?ch=10&oid=76417423&share=55b4f509&srid=h5l9iu&target_type=answer

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tensazangetsu20:



Honestly looks can't be improved on. If you are ugly you are ugly. See Adams oshiomole with all his money. Like 60 percent of Nigerian guys have that look.

I don't know why people wanna date or get married even Jesus didn't get married or have a relationship when he was on earth. Like I said it's destiny. Not everyone will be married but people fight destiny. No matter how you fight destiny it can never be changed.

Looks can be improved on. Our politicians like oshiomole just don't care about it since they can get any chic they want regardless and because they don't consider looks important. They only care about improving their power, which gets them everything they want.

Now, to your post, I get what you're trying to say. However, you're quite ignorant. You know little about the red pill to be making such assumption. I bet you don't even know that the most extreme redpillers don't even want anything sexual. They're called monk MGTOW. Whether or not they're rich, they stay away from women.
When you're making such assumption as to what redpillers are, don't generalize it.

A true redpiller strives to succeed, but not for the sake of fvcking women. He strives to succeed in order to live life for himself to the fullest.
Whether or not he makes it, he comes to terms with the situation of things, because he sees life for what it truly is. And this gives him peace.
You have not met a true red Piller. Forget all those noise makers on twitter.

Calibrator:
I am far above wasting energy trading insults on a faceless forum with people I might never get to know in person. I believe my time is much more valuable than that and should be channelled to much more productive ventures.


The only problem I have with you is that I overestimated your sense of humour.




Shalom!

Neither am I one to trade insults. But you surprise me. That was a harmless statement I made. And don't tell me "wannabe teenager forming alpha" was a joke.

Good day.

Is there a public holiday on the day? If not, it's business as usual.

Calibrator:
Before any more so called wannabe teenager forming Alpha decide to show his age on this thread.


This quote was made by Agent Smith to a captive Morpheus in "The Matrix"

You're right. I remember now.

However, your post is dumb and stup1d. It's just a movie quote. We watch countless movies from time to time, so one can easily be mistaking. It has nothing to do with being alpha or not.
Nevertheless, Thanos remains "arguably" the best character of all time, if we are talking movies (but I'm not going to argue this here).

That aside, @the bolded, It seems you have an underlying grudge against me, or you have a short fuse, or you're just plain stup1d. That's your problem man.
Because you dropped a quote from a movie, now you think you get to decide who is alpha and not. You also get to decide people's ages.

If my memory serves me right, it wasn't until recently you accepted the redpill. You would come here and talk nonsense about how you're not a redpiller. Yet you kept arguing with redpillers. You finally received sense and decided to be one. And now you think you get to decide who is what and whatnot. Now, who is the wannabe alpha here?

The answer is clear.

Calibrator:
When did you start watching movies?

2019?

Are you a teenager?


Thanos is incapable of delivering such speech and Thanos doesn't rank in the greatest 1000 movie characters of all time regardless of how much the list compiler had to drink or smoke.

Yes, I'm 14.

Wasn't that thanos? Who was it? I know that speech is very familiar.

Modified*
I actually thought you were being funny here. Good thing I've accorded you the same respect when responding to your initial post.

Calibrator:
"Every other organisms live in equilibrium with their immediate environment but you humans, you arrive at a place and keep on multiplying till you exhausted the natural resources available and you go on to repeat the process at another place, do you know what other organism act this way? A virus!"






When the supposed Villain spits more than 60% of the redpill in the entire movie

Thanos is arguably the greatest movie character of all time.

Raalsalghul:


Don't have any, but I don't like the ways folks were trying to shut Djon78 and Pansophist.

So many facets to a man's life and yet we have 1000 pages of woman talk, if that's not one-itis, then what is?

For some reason, you chose to deliberately ignore the fact that we are in the romance section. Every thread created in this section is strictly to talk about women.

Do you even know that threads that are not strictly in line with the section they are in get moved away by the mods?

FYI, we don't talk about women only every day.
Most of us are engaged in other topics. However, we come here when we feel like talking about women.

When I want to talk about biusiness, I visit the business section.
When I want to get info on programming, I visit the section. When I was into religious arguments, I visited the religion section regularly. And so on.

I believe this is the only thread you visit on NL. And that's on you. You're the one limiting yourself.

Martinez39s, hope you're good bro?

Mychive:

I need advises / suggestions on this because I'd be travelling to her school city again next week and I'm lost between seeing her or not.

What is wrong with you? The level of simping you have displayed is terrible.

Ghost that girl. Delete her number and go out to meet other girls.

CaveAdullam:


Do you mean craniology? Because results from Brain imaging---brain size positively correlates with IQ. P-FIT (Parieto-Frontal Integration theory) and PPT( Predictive Processing Theory) are neuroscience research in steady growth to examine these correlations better. But for now, brain size, volume of white matter, arrangement of nerve cells indicates that intelligence has a strong genetic root.

African scientists like Ogbu from Nigeria, Richardson etc. are big names in this field of research. However, the results and replications keep countering their claims.

It is what it is bro.

Looool!

What Do you have to say about siblings who have contrasting levels of intelligence? As in, one is smart. The other is as dumb as a bat.

Raalsalghul:


I won't even call it pink pill; it's blue pill for all I care.

Hypergamy is being condemned here, but she's marrying you because you are better in terms of finance, age, career, network, resources etc
One-itis: isn't this obvious? You signed a certificate to remain with one person forever.
Pedestalizing- you have to to this sometimes for peace to reign.
Loosing frame; you can't win all the time in marriage. You lose some too.

My point is, marriage encapsulates all the above concepts which we deride daily in this thread, yet people call themselves redpillers in marriage and I find this disturbing.

You might know all the redpill tenets, principles etc even while in marriage but don't call yourself a redpiller while in a bluepilled institution.

Being is different from knowing.

Ubunja, I'm sure there's a reason while you're not married or are you; even Martinez39S abhors marriage and these are what I would consider true redpillers.

At the second bold, we can't do both: it's either a 0 or 1, this or that nothing like a 0.65.

Personally, I don't want this redpill thing to go viral because just as you've pointed out before society will breakdown, be annihilated or even cease to exist.

If it's limited to only a thread in Nairaland or a few sub-reddits, let it be.

This is solely my opinion, dissenting views are welcome.

You make good points. Nonetheless, the truth is some men are married and yet hold frame. However, these sort of men are scarce today.

A guy who has been redpilled for years will not suddenly lose his redpill nature just because he got married. I don't see such a man "pedastalising" his woman as a way of letting peace reign. For example, I can't imagine someone like Pete edochie ever doing that.

One of the points of being redpilled is to not give a fvck about what a woman does in the first place. Her hypergamy is of no concern, because being married to her doesn't mean you won't have better options if she leaves. So, oneitis is out of the question -- being married doesn't stop a man from having an abundance mindset. Successful married men regularly get hit on by all sorts of chics.
How many times have we heard stories of a man who sent his wife packing and almost immediately got another wife to replace her or just gets another woman without wifing her?
It is easy for men who are redpilled.

Lastly, while the movement is necessary to restore some sanity, all of us cannot MGTOW. It would be a disaster. Redpilled men of old created civilization. And this was done with the traditional family oriented society.

1Sharon:


How is sending her packing going to keep her in check all because they found a love letter?

Why does she desrve to be sent packing all because of a love letter?

A love letter that she kept. She must have been taught at that age to reject advances from boys, but she didn't listen. That is good enough reason to send her packing before she brings shame to the family. Girls of these days can only be kept in check with such iron hand.

If she kept the love letter, chances are that she would be having sex with the boy in no time. That's how these things go.

And you left out the part where I said they would still beg the father and he would take her back. And that would have sent a strong message to the girl not to try nonsense, at least while in her fathers house.
Like it or not, some of us still strongly hold on to our traditional culture. A girl should be chaste until her wedding night.

Thank you.

Newusername:
Good afternoon everyone, I just want to add my contribution. From my little understanding, I believe the red pill is not all about women, because this have been the centre topic since the beginning of this thread leaving other important life engaging qualities.
So I want to suggest that maybe a particular day of the week should be on something equally important like education, academics, health, career e.t.c(since these are the qualities that attract women as acknowledged by the redpill).
We can't always be talking about women, Dem no dey study women finish. That is all I have to say. Thanks.

We are in the romance section. It is dedicated to only talking about women and men relationship.

There are sections for everything you listed up there.
As soon as you visit Nairaland.com, at the first/home page, you will be presented with those and more sections to choose from.

You mustn't spend your whole day here. Spend time in those other sections that interest you as well to learn everything you need.

It's a shame the OP deactivated his account. This needs to be written in bold on the first page of this thread so that the new guys will stop bringing this up.

CAPSLOCKED:
SO YOU DISCOVERED THAT YOUR SISTER MAY BE SEEING A BOY AND YOUR FIRST AND ONLY IDEA OF ACTION IS TO SHOW HER LOVE LETTERS TO POPSY? YOU ALSO CLAIM THAT YOU FEAR POPSY WILL SEND HER PACKING, SO WHY THEN DO YOU WANT TO SHOW HIM THE LETTER UNLESS YOU WANT HER TO BE SENT PACKING?

YOU'RE NOT A VERY BRIGHT PERSON, SIR/MA. IF YOU CANNOT COUNSEL A TEENAGER WITHOUT DOING DAMAGE TO THE EXTENT OF LOSING A PLACE SHE CALLS HER HOME THEN I WONDER WHAT IT IS IN THIS WORLD THAT YOU'LL BE RESPONSIBLE ENOUGH FOR.

Well, I won't blame him. He is not her father. The truth is, it's the father's responsibility to guide his children, boy and girl. Keeping it from their father might not be a good idea. The girl might not take her brother seriously. I've seen a case like that where the girl eventually got pregnant.
The father's role should not be assumed by the brother. The father is meant to be more experienced and know how to handle the situation better. If he sends her packing, then so be it. It's better than allowing her to bring shame to the family. But chances are that even if he sends her packing, people will beg for the girl and he would take her back. But by then, she would have known better than to try nonsense while in his house.
The father seems like a no-nonsense man. That's the kind of father that can keep today's girls in check at least a little.

teebagy:
some women learn redpill and games and manipulation how are women naturally redpill women learn game just like men they have their own books and youtube channel for game. And asap rocky is a tyrone he wont b treated as trash

Women are naturally redpilled. If you don't know that by now, I don't know what you're doing here. Forget books and YouTube channels, every girl innately has the ability to be cunning. Those books and channels you talk about are just there to help them perfect what they already do.
Since they aren't as strong as guys, nature wired them to be very redpilled in order to survive. Don't forget that what makes anyone redpilled is their mindset.
A girl doesn't need to be told to put herself first. She just does it.

Boys are born redpilled too, but not as much as girls. But from the time of their birth, society begins to brainwash boys. So, girls grow up maintaining their redpilled nature, while guys lose theirs as they grow up.

Smartb0y:

That's an individual question you should ask yourself.
You know the pros and cons associated with both, it's left for you to choose.

You're right

ubunja:
the next question is, Do we then spend? And if we spend don't we become blue pill? Or how do we spend in such a way we don't simp. Or how do we get women to spend without us losing our masculinity. So many questions...

Well, I have been pondering this for a long time now. I'm glad the topic came up.

For me, I think it should be in a ratio of 70 : 30.

Approximately, the man should spend 70% while the woman spends 30% in the relationship.... That way, the man would still maintain more authority in the relationship since he is paying more. Also, the woman would put in the effort to make the relationship work because she has also invested something tangible in it as well.
If she doesn't contribute, it would be easy for her to wake up one morning and break up with you for a higher bidder. I believe having women contribute financially mitigates their hypagamy.

ubunja:
Redpillers are loathe to spend on a woman and to support her financially, yet detest a self- supporting financially Independent woman because she's carrying a lot of masculine energy. If I was a woman in today's world I wouldn't even know how to deal with manosphere men. Cause, be dependent it's a crime. Be independent it's a crime. Damned if you do, damned of you don't.

If a woman has to pay her part cause you don't want to, then expect her to come standard with masculine energy. That's the nature of money and financial independence.

Now where exactly is the disconnect in the redpill? It has to be found and fixed.

Cause at this point there's merit in what these women are complaining about...

What kind of woman exactly should men settle for? The financially dependent or independent woman?

Winnerly:


In the past few days, your posts have become more aggressive and calculated to cause pain. What’s wrong?

I noticed you now angrily dictate instead of amicably discussing