athenswonders:
Guys.... I’ve bargained with this bitch.... heard she’s a bad ass f**clear from a guy who digged in....

Update tonight. Kick off 8:45pm GMT

LOL.

I can bet my left testicle that you meant to post this in the ashawo thread. It's most likely an oversight that you posted it here.

fattprince:
Hi, nairalanders longest time.

Please I don't know why some people wouldn't let that gay guy( I sincerely hope that's not offensive) be. Why can't gays be here. I thought we don't discriminate or segregate. See I've wanted to write something here but I don't have the strength to write long. But the summary is in life just do whatever you feel is right for you and this still doesn't guarantee that the result will turn out right. Be at peace if the world and more importantly with yourself. I've actually have this thought that I don't know how to put down in writing. I will just stop here. But please let's make flamemignon1 welcome. And not push him away, he is gay and he's still a man.

Fattprince, don't forget that homosexuality is illegal in Nigeria. We don't want séun to have an excuse to close this thread. All gay talks should be taken to their secret forums in Nigeria or to forums outside Nigeria where it is legal.

Jessepaid:
Hehehe...


I went to buy fuel this morning...


The fuel stations were crammed due to the strike of PMS marketers in Imo state....

The pump attendants were a guy and one lady with their manager standing beside them to soothe the crowd and ensure order, the guy sold the fuel and the lady collected the money...


A man finished filling his car and gallons he brought along with him...


He paid cash and his balance was #200...


Since there was no change, he was told by the manager to just free the money for the guy that sold the fuel to him...


The man said loudly to the ears of everyone in the queue...


Na woman dem dey dash money na...


As he proceeded to hand the money over to the girl...


I asked him...


"Oga hope you know say na men go fit help you for this life and woman no fit help you..."


The man looked at me for some Mili seconds..


Finally he smiled and said " my brother you just said truth, I like what you said..."


He then instructed that the male pump attendant be given the #200 balance and he gave the guy an extra 500 naira tip...


He then said... " If my motor spoil for road now na men go help me push am... Woman no go fit"


You should have seen the look on the girls face...


It was Asif I just denied her her birthright...

This your story sweet me for bele o

MJBOLT:

Which kain rubbish I dey read for here sef Ubunja stopped dropping posts here because a lot of people here did not agree with his opinion,how does that change the price of garri in the market??

The op of this thread deactivated,nobody gave a fvck then why the fvck should anybody give a fvck over Ubunja not commenting here??

Una go come here dey talk say make man no simp for woman but men dey here dey simp for man
*Spits*

Martinez39s:
Come on! Simps do for the women they like more than they do for their mothers and sisters, it isn't necessarily fear. Someone can be so pussy-wiped to have had his jacket taken without his consent and then decide to let it go; it happens.

Simps are driven by fear:

Fear of losing her.

Lol at pvssy-wiped. Boss, it is still fear. They fear that they will lose that pvssy they getting, so they do her bidding. It is the fear of losing her that makes them do for their girls' what they wouldn't do for their relatives.

However, if I grant you that you are correct, this story. and cases of gifts still fall under the problem Skepticùs talked about.

The thing is, we are bringing what we personally think men should and shouldn't collect into the mix that we are not seeing the purpose of that personal account.

Skepticus talked about putting women in their place when they step out of line. True, that's the case here, and I agree. I initially thought lighthead was using it as an instance to support that GIFTS should be collected back.

The case of gifts does not fall under

Besides the guy said himself that he didn't collect it because of "ego and self-respect".

The guy is clearly a simp. He never gave her the jacket. She took it. So, what's ego and self-respect got to do with that? If someone TAKES stuff that belongs to you without your consent, you take it back, not hide behind ego and self-respect.

Martinez39s:
But after she took it, he visited her more than once, saw the jacket and didn't take it back. Doesn't this show that he was willing to let it go?

He wasn't willing to let it go. He just didn't have the balls to collect it. If he did, he would have taken it.
According to lighthead, the guy likes the jacket so much. A lot of people had asked for the jacket, even his younger sister. The guy was most likely a weakling who was scared of losing the girl so he let her have her way.

I just hope lighthead has now administered the redpill to him.

Lightheaded:


I know it's not about that, i've said something about gifting, I don't subscribe to collecting things that was given out of one's volition devoid of coercion. Gift out of your magnanimity although sparingly. I'm only seconding skeptic ( I think) post on treating disrespect in an intense non-violent way.

Irrespective of whether he gave her or she took it, it's still wrong on her part to give out like that. I'm saying he shoulda treated her F up immediately he knew, Pronto. Whether he collects it or not is up to him.

Lemme repeat, if you're not married, don't go giving like a fool. Don't be a tool.

Thank you.

Alright. I agree

Lightheaded:

Picks mic...

I agree bruv. Something happened to a friend recently, my guy was having a fling with a babe in the same level for a while. Babe comes to his house and takes a jacket, guy tells her " a lot of people have already asked for this jacket including my younger sister I can't give you". Babe takes it to her house at night without guy's consent. Guy visits her more than once, realizes that she isn't even using it, just hanging it on a rope. Guy didn't talk.

Fast forward to later, guy sees a similar jacket in school on another guy, guy's surprised, tells one of his friends that that jacket looks stunningly similar to his because that friend had asked beforehand which he didn't bulge. Minutes later babe comes to greet the guy in the jacket. You know what that means, the new guy (which is in like the first level of university education) took the jacket from her place or she gave him. This is a jacket my guy really liked.

My guy told me he was astonished, bewildered, surprised, left agog, stunned, any other grammar that depicts shock abeg put am there. I asked him what he did, he said he didn't do anything because of his ego and self respect. I really vexed.

I told him point blank, this is disrespect of the highest order, totally insulting. I told him immediately he saw it he should've washed her straight up on the spot, treat her fvck up. Leave ego aside, it's infuriating. Even if he didn't get his jacket back, he shoulda shamed the shameless b*tch. Then warn her to never talk to him.

What I'd like us to take from the issue.
1. If a girl disrespects you let her know, don't condone such. It's weak, don't hide behind 'ego'.
2. Like they've said if you can take back your stuff in a better way, do. If you can't so be it. It's personal.
3. Learn to stand firm and say no if it doesn't favour you, don't fall prey to the "real men" or "stingy" or selfish gimmick. Na your money.

Drops mic in anger.

Your guy never gave her the jacket in the first place. She took it. He is a m0ron to have let her take it in fact. And she clearly doesn't respect him.

His case is not the same as what we saying here. We're talking about collecting stuff you willingly gave out by yourself.

CaveAdullam:


Oga calm down!

1. Few weeks ago, the Living Faith Church retrieved the apartments, shares and other belongings they gave to their former pastors. Many saw it as a nice move because the pastors were not performing efficiently in their respective positions. From the eyes of a Christian man, it might not augur well but it is plainly business, contract and/or agreement.

2. If an employee stop working for First Bank today, all shares provided for him by the Bank will be retrieved. This scenario and the one above boils down to the fact that you can't be enjoying free goods you no longer work for.

This instance you gave hardly fits into the current argument. The apartment was not a gift to them. They were on employment, as such, got accommodation, etc. as is the case when in an established company. Once they got the matching orders, it was only normal they evacuated the building for their replacements.

We are talking about human relationships here, not a formal business. In the case of a formal business, when the company gives you things like cars and accommodation, you know for sure that you're giving it back once you no longer work for/with the company. This is the law. We all agree.

However, We are talking human relationships here -- You and your girl for instance. If you're gonna collect back the things you gave during the relationship, then you never gave those things in the first place. You just offered those things as official items that should be used and returned, like companies do.
If you're gonna run your relationship like a company, I believe every party should from the start be aware of the terms and conditions, you know, like companies do.
This is me toeing the line of your logic anyway, which to me doesn't make sense.
A gift is not the same as an "official item" that should be taken back. There's no logical excuse for that action that makes sense. Whichever way you spin it, taking back your gifts from someone is an emotional response that is not needed. Why do you have to take it back? If you don't, she will become entitled? So? How does that reduce your worth?

Some things are shades of grey, but some things are just black and others white. This here is stark black.

3. Collecting back your gifts or not is simps problems because men that understands game and female nature knows that gifts and luxury doesn't win women; it is a simping move, especially when the relationship is not clearly defined and a short term one.

Okay

4. Yes, I agree, give people what they deserve. They deserved it and it will not make sense collecting it because it is "already operating on a mutual scale" which can be likened to the salaries of the said employees which cannot be taken back when they get fired.

You're still using this analogy. It makes sense here. However, intersexual/interpersonal relationship is not the same as business relationship. The difference here being that a company cannot take back already paid salaries because it is the law while a guy should not take back a gift simply because it was a gift.

5. Wigs, cars, houses, clothes etc. are given because I like you, not necessarily because you deserved it. And if you say you are no longer interested in me, it is wise to return every thing that binded us together. Simple!

Well, nothing wrong with the bolded. You can give because someone deserves it, you like them, or you're just feeling generous. The issue is collecting back your GIFT. Once you do that, it means it was never a gift.

6. Men that understand game will never bother about retrieving their materials back because they never used it or the relationship was mutual or they gained most.

This is in contrast with number 5 above . Which side are you on? I see. You're saying it's okay to either collect or not collect back. Okay.
For me, this isn't shades of grey. It's stark black: you shouldn't collect back what you've given out.

7. If you decide to collect your goods back it's not stupidity, simping or whatever. And same if you don't. It's your choice. Be cautious before taking any action, and when risk outweighs benefits, just count your losses, dust yourself and move forward.

NB: the church does it, women too and same with companies and other organizations. But immediately individual men puts it to practice they are shamed, demonized and accused.

Ego has always been man's problem and it works for them positively and against them negatively. The problem is that Men don't know which is which and what should be done at different times.

Marriage/well defined long term relationship might be an "exception" but even at that, these must be put into considerations because women and society are using it to exploit men.

Overall, this is simps problem!

Thanks.

Well, we can agree to disagree.

Safe.

Skepticus:


Cave has already done Justice to it.

I'm in support of anything that makes a man better. Reading and having an open mind in learning more is a significant part of it.

Thanks

I initially didn't want to say anything, but now I am going to unapologetically state my opinion on this matter:

It is stup1d to collect back stuff that you gifted someone, boy or girl. There's no sense in it, as far as I'm concerned.

If things didn't go as you wanted, take your L and fvcking move on.

Collect back what was supposedly a gift -- who does that? It's disgusting sh1t. It's simp behaviour, as far as I'm concerned. It reeks of emotional pain.

I get it that it, for instance, hurt a lot when you buy her a car and other nice things, but she breaks up with you and continues flexing with all you got for her. But then, think about it, those things, did you lend her or you gave her?
It is simps that attach emotions to material things they buy for their women. As a redpill aware guy, you know that you don't do that. You only give her what she deserves and what you can afford to let go without hiccups.

For me, it isn't about ego or anything like that. If I give someone something, it's theirs forever regardless of what transpires between us later on. There is no sense in asking someone to return my gift, because for me to have given that gift, it means he/she deserved it. (Also, collecting back the gift will not correct the wrong that has already been done. It won't make you FEEL better. You're still gonna despise her afterwards.
That action of collecting back your gift is simply an emotional response. It's not logical. It's not necessary. It's not needed.)

If things between us later turn sour, I just move on.

Thanks.

Thanks Caveadullam

.

I finally have a lil time to spare to read the self improvement books I have accrued over the past 3 years.

How do you suggest that I go about reading them in order to get the most from them?
I don't want to be overwhelmed, but I want to make sure I properly digest them.

Any tip would be appreciated.

Skepticus, Undercover, Caveadullam martinez32 bloodysperm, et al.

Emotionss:
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Well since none of the girls are paid, it will be save to say Majority do it to fulfil their sexual fantasies and perversion.

Some are Nymphomaniacs who are willing to do some freaky things to satisfying themselves

Some of the younger women do it for connections, favours, contract or something like that....

Interesting. Thanks.

Tonnyray:
If men could be 50% as immune to distractions as women are, each and every one of us will be at least 5x better than we currently are.

How are women immune to distractions? Give examples if you can. Thanks

Kenogidi:
Dear brothers of the pill, in other news, my elder brother who I've been trying to awaken from the blue pill matrix for years just got his heart broken by his LOML. Baba dey semi depression mode as we dey speak!! Young vibrant handsome banker dude.
Moral of the story: a man without options with women must definitely simp and who simp must collect.
NB: he's been calling her all evening for the past 2hours and she's been busy on anoda call. With guess who?
Also, this one's just an addendum, only simps use girls picture as WhatsApp dp or display them on his status for birthday message or any similar triviality. Please don't argue with me!

Nothing wrong with the bolded.

We're not here to hate women. If it's someone's birthday, boy or girl, feel free to celebrate them.

Safe.

Emotionss:
Its quite understandable that I lot of people find it hard to believe the kind of shadow Sexual perversion that is taking place all around us. Only few people around the globe get to witness or experience such level of perversions.

I get to know the marital status of this women and the occupation of their husbands/boyfriends because it is part of my job. (Those in shadow business will understand)

Our club is a SHADOW CLUB Meant for PRIVATE and Highly INFLUENTIAL personalities. And yes we have 3 of such clubs in Nigeria...

Not Believing the existence of shadow clubs in Nigeria and the level of Sexual perversion taking place there on a monthly basis is of no concern to me.

The only reason I posted some of this things on this thread is to let you guys know there's a possibility that, that your BEAUTIFUL graduate/undergraduate of a girlfriend is probably a SEX slave to some Shadow guy.

So while you're hustling to make your woman happy and comfortable, she is probably a regular visitor to a sex club where she Ride many diccks knowing fully well she has a glorified SIMP that will accept the left overs.

Abeg unna good night.

You didn't answer my questions.

CaveAdullam:
Lastly.

All men in the west should boycott marriage.

If more and more men Mgtow, the government would start having a rethink and most of those nonsensical gynocentric laws will be brought down.

If only the simps will comply.

Emotionss:


Make I keep quiet about the beastality section.

(If you have a beautiful and we'll figured female relative or a girlfriend that is a graduate or student of River State, calabar, Akwa ibom, Abia, imo and edo State Universities, just know there's a 20% she has slept with a German shepherd in the past, or she will do so in the future.

Why would she do this? Is it for money or it's a fetish gotten in school?

Emotionss:
The Numbers of supposed Religious and innocent girls that attended our Shadow club this past two weeks is really Alarming. Any man that still trust our Morden Day Woman is SIMPly living in denial.

In all honesty Nigerian Men are like 50 level behind our women in this Sex Game of a thing. While a 21-35 year old Guy is busy with school and hustling, his female counterparts are busy mounting different diccks on a daily basis. That is not even the saddest part.

70 % of this girls are into one form of relationship or the other with their men.

Some are married ( to either oil workers ,successful business men or influential personality.)

Some are engaged or in a normal boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.

There's a virgin section where people Pay Certain amount of money to dis-virgin someone. Or you pay a lesser price to have BJ or Anal sex with a virgin.

Lesbian section where Men sit and watch women have sex with themselves, or something related to that.

Make I keep quiet about the beastality section.

(If you have a beautiful and we'll figured female relative or a girlfriend that is a graduate or student of River State, calabar, Akwa ibom, Abia, imo and edo State Universities, just know there's a 20% she has slept with a German shepherd in the past, or she will do so in the future.

Some of our female celebrities that are buying houses and cars up and down are "Properties" of this shadow clubs.

Funny thing is that Some of this girls are Hard core Feminist.

TheUndercover:

Of course, this is also one of the topics I will cover when discussing misconceptions in TRP. The following are expected:

- Position of Single Mothers in TRP (Divorce or Death).

- Friendship with women. (How to use women to get what you want).

When are you going to drop this. I've been waiting since forever

FORWARDEVERLY:



Only you and Jeremani were logical in their opinions.. the rest were being emotional and whining..

It seems some dudes here have SIMPathy for single mums and are product of single mums..

Dude, never said that what he did is what he was taught in Redpill.. what he did falls under the category of a Player..
Y'all should respect his right to live as he likes, the only people that can call him to other is the government and that can only happen when the baby mama drags him to them..
Most of y'all here are Emotional clowns..

Someone even said he is a SIMP.. I guess the guy that the lady is going to win the pregnancy on (if possible) or the guy that would marry the lady later after she is a single mom is an Alpha or A real guy?? Y'all are just contradicting yourselves..

Darkceaser do whatever pleases you.. but know that you alone would bear the brunt in due time.. All da best bro.

100%

Akinbahm:


Bro, what's this for crying out loud. Nobody is supporting the girl nor appealing the guy to accept the girl as his wife but we are advocating to man up to his responsibilities by claiming his lineage since he affirmed the unborn child is his.

Redpill deals with logic biko let's make use of it this is not emotions.

Does redpill allow one (man) to run away from is legit responsibilities?

He isn't obligated to claim any lineage. You are talking emotionally and not thinking. How can you ignore the fact that the lady decided to keep the baby even when the guy isn't ready to be a father? Is it by force to be a father? Do you know that, considering what's best for the child, having no father is better than having a terrible father?
If she birth the child and the guy looks away, it's on her.

KiNg0G:


I know it will come to this, one nigga coming out from the corner talking about we having emotions, sentiments, righteousness or na we holy pass, because we trying to spit some known facts.

Buh guess what, I speak for myself Gee.
Like I said earlier, I give no fûck about the girl or the foetus, for all I care, darcaeser could have wanked it off like our redpill monk,martinez... (Maximum 20min)

Buh since he did it raw, and decided to give his bloodline to his deputy or assistant..it's allowed. Buh what prompted this arguments, is when he comes in here, show us screenshot decide to buy us weed and beer with fàttprince as the DJ saying we should dance and drink to stupor that "A simp is going to father a child, that ain't his" (his child, that statement already showed that)
Untop of that forming rugged, we should have give him an apha award for that.

Offcus, since na free beer, most of us gon comply , but we drinking to his stupidity.



you talking about a man can run from his responsibility to attain greater height
It's the first time, am hearing it.

If that's the case, jah knows say I for nor learn how to creep, talkless how to walk when I was 9months old... mile for still de feed me till now.. buh a boy left home, when I still a teenager.


The street taught me,
a man embraces his responsibilities, no matter how small,or how hard it is , to attain greater heights.


What you wrote here, is just been self centered, bittered not a redpill drill.. ironically speaking you used this same words on me,when I first came here few months ago..now reverse is the case.








Peace.


#streetdrills

Sorry, but you're not one of the people I was referring to, since you do not identify as a redpiller. I do not have time for attention-seeking clowns. I hardly read anything you and your cohorts post. (I'm replying to this mention without bothering reading past the second line).

Have a good night.

Just look at all these morally righteous redpillers

What's all these? Look at them whining and getting all emotional

How come you guys are quick to castigate the guy? Did he rap€ her? He is a side nigga. Obviously, they both knew they weren't anything serious because she had a main boyfriend. So, why is she trying to keep the baby and pin it on him (the side nigga)? It's either she was careless or she knows what she is doing. The truth is it's most likely the latter. The main boyfriend might no longer be showing much interest again and she then decided to pin down the side nigga. Just because it's gonna be his child doesn't mean he should succumb to her manipulations. He already fell for her trick though by going in raw. But that he decides not to take responsibility for the pregnancy doesn't make him anti-redpill. It makes him a bad person. Yes. But the red pill is amoral. It is selfish. It is putting yourself first, even before your unborn child. . This is the bitter truth most of us cannot stomach. If taking responsibility for the child is gonna hinder his progress, as far as the redpill is concerned, it is okay for him to avoid the responsibility (if he actually can). He would be a terrible person though, according to society.

If indeed she's already conned him into getting her pregnant, he isn't obligated to be manipulated further by her in the guise of taking responsibility for the pregnancy. They both knew it was a game -- a risky one. She should be ready to take responsibility for her decisions. She currently has the upper hand though. And the game is still on.

Vicas2000:
This one want someone to bear her burden so she can stop working hard.

Funnily, SIMPS will flood her DM. They'll say she's funny and sexy as a result. Some will say they admire her boldness. Some will say she's perfect, that they prefer fairly used products to new products. You'll be surprised at what simps will come up with

Ade4dayo70:
Kings, how should I handle my elder sister that keeps imposing her religion of dogma on me at this early stage of my life I ought to utilize my youthful energy to be a logical and creative thinker that would direct me to impact lives by solving real-life issues... not some idle expectation or fanatic belief in faith without deeds.

I'm a science undergraduate that has been taught the effectiveness of observation and experimentation to achieve provable and accurate results.

My contradiction to her belief has led to unnecessary hostility toward me – a regular trademark of most extremists of religion – despite revealing my religion of love for humanity and unity.

I gave her a convincing example of our late maternal grandfather who invented a herbal medicine that has healed many people of bone fracture till date by our mother, which also healed her son last year without any stress... but she insisted that it was only faith that healed her son without acknowledging the impact of the medicine.

I told her to encourage creativity for our next generations to enjoy the benefits as well... but Mama no gree, na so so give your life to Christ she dey yarn.

I value family so much and I won't tolerate some foreign religion to cause division between us.

What step should I take next?

Get your own place to live as you please.

If you're still being fed and housed, you have no choice but to play along.

Calibrator:
The Christian religion preach about Moral Uprightness, Buddha religious beliefs share the same and countless other religions.


You don't have to be a Christian to know that thy shall not kill, steal or do your neighbours harm and as long as you are not playing for the other side, there is absolutely nothing wrong with taking to the pulpit to share sermons which contain messages which should be common sense to all and sundry, so long you avoid touching the spiritual aspect of the congregation beliefs.



I am not a feminist nor sympathetic to the female cause (not playing for the other side)

I don't participate in hardcore Redpill issues here (you are free to do your research)


I only join issues which I believe should be common sense to all males by default.


You don't have to be Redpill to have common sense on how to avoid manipulations from anybody.


Next time, grow some balls and talk to me directly!

You are a clown. I just didn't see the need to quote you to say that. My post was to Martinez so he would stop wasting his time with you.


If you deliberately do not identify as a redpiller, you have no business preaching the redpill -- softcore or hardcore -- in a redpill gathering. ....

Now, I'm not saying you shouldn't post. Continue. However, don't expect to be taken seriously.

Even Lucifer quotes Bible scriptures from time to time. Strong Christians know better than to take him serious.

Martinez39s:
I have no problem with you discussing issues here or making inquiries as long the purpose of this thread isn't defied; in fact, I have discussed with you here. However, every thread have its purpose and boundaries. Before you ever came here, we have been discussing a wide range of topics and we redpillers know why we discuss them. Nothing will change this. Besides, if you refuse to identify as a redpiller, what now gives you the ground to come to a redpill thread and suggest to redpillers, in their own thread, the priority of their discussion and topics they should and shouldn't discuss? That's like trying to eat your cake and have it.

He is an attention seeking clown with a PhD.

Imagine going to a church gathering to announce that you do not identify as a Christian. Only for you to start quoting scriptures and preaching to the congregation.

See how clownish that is?

Calibrator:
Martinez39s


Don't want to waste space by quoting the long post but I believe that just as I don't have to be religious to be a good person, it is not compulsory to identify as a redpiller before I can join discussions pertaining to the liberation of my gender from manipulation.


I am just disturbed by the fact that anytime I try catching up with happenings here, it is always discussions about the problems facing Men in the developed world, how so so millionaire was divorced by his wife, how so so white women wrote posts flaunting their liberal privileges over there.

Funny thing is that most people here discussing the male-female dynamics over there don't even have a first hand experience of how things are run over there, just judging people by what they read on the Internet and see in the movies.


Like I said earlier, our problems with our females are peculiar and different from what the western world are facing.




But what do I know?
Going back to the shadows.

What are the peculiar problems we in this part of the world have with females?

TheUndercover:
In the beginning of your rise to the top, you must attract attention at all cost, but as you rise higher you must constantly adapt. Never wear the public out with the same tactic.

Also, never appear overly greedy for attention, then, for it signals insecurity, and insecurity drives power away.

Remember: You are not the only one good at what you do, this is why you have to make some noise, advertise yourself or cause a scene if necessary. It is better to be hated than ignored.

"It is better to be hated than ignored"

Are you sure about this?

Maybe throw more light, with references.