yes,I have,though privately, when a gal of 8 years relationship breaks your heart, after NYSC and u are still searching 4 job, e no easy!.and i"m still freaking out,

well its all about the bride price, its a bit on the high side for young  male lovers and she might av to wait a little while if she truly loves the guy,to work and  save enough,sometimes, some abscon, leaving the gal to age , to be classified as over ripe for marriage