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Education / Re: Edo Schools Remain Closed Till February 1 – Obaseki by kadesh1: 9:37pm On Jan 15, 2021
Please do any one knowns Century 21 NGO
Travel / Re: Man Mourns His Wife And 2-Year-Old Daughter Killed In Motor Accident by kadesh1: 9:36pm On Jan 15, 2021
So sad.
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Family / Re: My Sister Want To Expose My Secret Life To My Husband by kadesh1: 12:41pm On Dec 09, 2020
Jceeee:
Hello everybody ,
I came here to seek for advice because I’m in a big dilemma with my kid sister , I don’t want to bore you with long story I will make the long story short.
I got married in May 2000 I was pregnant with my first child , I had my first child in September that same year then another daughter in 2002 May , and in July 2002 my husband left for abroad ( I won’t mention the country ) .

I had to move out of the renting apartment and went back to my parents house with my 2 children while waiting for him to apply for our documents, it took him 2 years to settle and for 2 year he couldn’t send us money because he had no documents and job.

My parents were supportive until when my husband got his documents and started working , he started sending us money every month and was working hard for me and the kids to join him but things were not working well for us , they keep rejecting us but he didn’t get tired of us , but I started getting tired after 5 years of waiting, missing him badly , no intimacy and I was lonely and very depressed.

I start seeking attention outside and I met with a married man that I had a relationship with, I got pregnant in 2008 the man suggested abortion but I didn’t want to abort because I was scared to die because I remember a cousin that had a husband abroad , she got pregnant and went to abort , she died instantly so I didn’t want to end up like her .

I had planned with my sister and mum that I should leave our state to another state ( I won’t mention the name ) to go and have my baby then will come back after the baby is 3 months , I and my kid sister left and rented another house in a different state meanwhile we lied to my dad that I had traveled to this country to join my husband in abroad , things was well.

I had my baby another girl in 2009 and we kept the secret for 3 months from my dad and we had to lie to him , it was my kid sister that has given birth to this baby while we were away and my dad got angry at her and he has said a lot of harsh things to her, it was very painful but my sister supported me and didn’t let the secret come out , even to my husband he just knew the baby was my sister , because I was breastfeeding her , we didn’t want to go home yet so we had to stayed here for a year , when I weaned her and we started preparing to go back home, lying to my dad that things didn’t work out and I couldn’t join my husband anymore, we returned back home in 2010 and we had been keeping this secrets from my dad , husband and other people .

Finally God has been great that I had to joined my husband in 2013 after 11 years of waiting , it was a wonderful time to be with him again , my kid sister got married in 2014 she had a daughter with her husband before marriage born in 2012, so the husband accepted her with my daughter that she pretend to be hers , she went to her husband house , leaving my kids with our parents , she only took the daughter she had with her husband and I used to send them money as usual until in 2015 my 2 daughters I had with my husband joined us abroad and my other daughter stayed behind , I had to convinced my husband that my sister baby should join us too which he was okay and grateful to my sister because she had been the one taking care of our children in my absent so we started applying for documents for the girl, but they kept rejecting it but we didn’t give up, at that same time my sister has also wanted her biological daughter to be included in but I was frank with her that we couldn’t add her daughter because the daughter that I had is known to be hers so if we had another daughter it would be wrong , so this has caused a lot of problems between my sister and I that she called me an ingrate after everything she has been doing to me , but I was never ungrateful to her because I take care of her daughter school fees in a best private school but I just couldn’t take her abroad with us but she is adamant that her daughter should be here too.

Luckily my daughter which to my husband is my niece has joined us this January 2020 , she knows me as her auntie and my sister her mummy , She is doing well my family is complete , I have also had 2 more children with my husband two cute boys but my sister has been threatening and blackmailing that she would tell my husband everything about my daughter , I had begged even our mum has been begging her not to spoil my marriage but she wouldn’t listen.

I’m scared she would tell my husband and my marriage will be over. I don’t sleep well and anytime when my husband get back from work , my heart beat faster thinking that he has found out about the secrets and I’m no longer in peace. he loves my niece ( daughter ) so much that he doesn’t treat her any different from our 4 children but I’m getting so scared , have been taking blood pressure medication because of my sister threatening me.

Please I know a lot of you would insult me because I deserve it but all I need is advice from you .

please if you could offer me some , I just don’t know what else to do




I have an advice for you and I pray you carry it out..

1. Seriously pray about it.. Ask for mercy and help.

2. Get your pastor or a mentor you are aware your husband loves and respect. Tell him the truth, the whole truth.

3. Pray and ask your husband to go see this person and with the help of God and wisdom they will be able to pass the message properly.

4. Your husband will not forgive you instantly but with prayers everything is possible.
Pray pray and say the truth.
Only the truth can set you free.
Politics / Re: Okezie Ikpeazu: Attacks In Lagos Is An Injury To All by kadesh1: 5:39am On Nov 12, 2020
This people are always thinking about them selves.
Politics / Re: Yusuf Bichi Conducts Secret Recruitment With North Getting 535 - SaharaReporters by kadesh1: 8:35pm On Sep 29, 2020
Abeg along them dey stay for the camp.
This country done tire every body.
Make we divide am.
Religion / Re: Pastor Paul Enenche Responds To Daddy Freeze, Calls Him A Mad Dog And A Bastard by kadesh1: 7:52am On Sep 12, 2020
247SENDME:
Grammer!!! That is all Nigerians are good at. While he is holding a microphone produced by a country that never believe in the teaching or the existence of Christ. You guys just go to church without learning anything from the Christ you claim to be following... What will happen to freeze? Mr judge. Let me tell you something...if God is the one that inspired freeze to embark on this mission no 100million pastors can pull him down. Yes he might not be wealthy or create 35000 jobs...but remember David and Golliate. Remember moses and pharaoh. Remember that tiny ant that can kill an elephant. Every action and inaction you see on earth today is allowed by the creator. Bokoharam has been threatening the existences of Christianity in the past ten years I'm yet to see a pastor that will come to lay curse on them or is shakau a PhD holder in mathematics, a medical doctor or a scholar? Big pastors are here flexing their muscles on freeze the way soldiers flex their skill on civilian because it affect their bank accounts. We are all waiting for Jesus the final judge.
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Which Mission, Which God.. Lol.. Why do their bank account scare you guys.. Who stop u from having your own pulpit Oga. Go collect title too.. Nonsense.. Nor serve your God in truth and spirit and allow God judge all men.
Religion / Re: Pastor Paul Enenche Responds To Daddy Freeze, Calls Him A Mad Dog And A Bastard by kadesh1: 7:48am On Sep 12, 2020
osarog:
Tithe thieves defending each other. The free money they get every week from the poor and gullible has gotten into their head . I don't blame them; I blame our government for allowing these scumbags rub us in the name of religion.

Kill freeze if you like , a good number of us have come to realize that you all are thieves that defraud people in God's name to get money which you use to build hospitals and schools for the rich and live luxuriously. The bigger thieves are the White guys who print and sell these silly so called "holy" books you guys use in defrauding the gullible. How will a God that created the universe all by himself need you to collect money from others ? Thieves.

Believe me, over time, whether you like it or not, a lot more Nigerians will come to their senses and realize that these religions are organized scams.



How much is your title?.. Oga.. Nah ur 10%.. Them wan tk buy jet.. Oga grow up..
Politics / Re: Court Declines Request To Freeze Edo Government's Accounts by kadesh1: 6:41pm On Aug 27, 2020
Oshio well done... 4+4 for Obaseki..

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Politics / Re: Oshiomhole, Ize-Iyamu Campaign In Edo Central by kadesh1: 9:12am On Jul 31, 2020
NOC1:

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He did something that made the people still love him after some good years, not all pst governors can get such love from his people.


He did notin.. Those are party stewards and they are there for the money.. APC shares money..
Religion / Re: The Right Way To Preach About Hell - Milton Goh by kadesh1: 12:29am On Jul 27, 2020
It is well
Religion / Re: The Right Way To Preach About Hell - Milton Goh by kadesh1: 12:28am On Jul 27, 2020
hopefulLandlord:
Hell always sounded like a cynical marketing ploy designed to make people afraid to leave or displease the particular sect. And it seemed to really kill empathy - 'god says they burn, they burn' doesn't make me think of someone being full of love and compassion and all that.

Eternal punishment for finite transgressions always seemed abusive to me. How can someone look at the idea of a being who would condemn people to that and call it love?

Even when I was a Christian Hell was just too weird for me to accept. Infinite punishment for finite offenses is an eye for an eye on steroids. Punishing people for disobeying nit-picky rules makes God an abusive parent. One reason often given for punishment is to teach the offender not to offend again, but if punishment is eternal then how can the offender benefit from this teaching? Jesus is supposed to be into forgiveness but forgiveness shouldn't involve eternal suffering. Hell isn’t redemptive, it isn’t leading to repentance, it’s simply pain for pain’s sake.

I love this quote: “Heaven and hell seem out of proportion to me: the actions of men do not deserve so much.”

and of course I get the rationalisation of hell by Christians saying its moral accountability and saying bad people go to hell;
that's nonsense and they know it!!!

If Yahweh is real and omniscient, that means he already decided that we're going to hell before he even created us. But if this omniscient deity allows for deathbed conversions, then it doesn't matter what kind of life you lead. You could be a brutal dictator who massacred tens of millions of people, yet still get into heaven if you tell Jesus you're sorry. Your victims could all go to hell for eternity if they never repented. That's how bleeped up Christian morality is.

Maybe Christians can answer a few questions for me. The Bible says that there is ONLY ONE way to get into Heaven: by accepting salvation through Jesus.

So it follows that the Christians who ran the Nazi death camps can get into heaven. But their 6 million Jewish victims must burn for all eternity in the pits of Hell. I've talked to many Christians about this and they just pretty much accept it.

My questions are:

1. How f***ed up do you have to be to believe Nazis can go to Heaven but their 6 million Jewish victims must burn? That's just sick. But Christians believe it. What the f*** is wrong with you people?

2. Why would ANYONE willingly worship a god that would act like that? Is it just a fear thing (better known as cowardice)? And

3. Even if you get into Heaven what makes you think you'll be safe with a psycho god like that running the place? What's to stop your god getting a wild hair up his ass one day and sending Christians to a place so bad it makes Hell look like an ice cream parlor? He used to like the Jews too. Or so the story claims. What makes you think you're safe?




Hmmmmmmm....

Funny enough whether you like it or not. You didn't created your self. Whether you believe it or not HEAVEN IS REAL AND HEAL IS REAL. Whether you see reasons with that or not, death is real and when you die, it will be too late to decide which to believe. Better accept Jesus and be save. He is the way the truth and life and he loves you so much.. Hell was not made for man, hell was made for the devil and the falling angels but man fell, Adam sinned and when made did he age the power of this earth to the devil, so the devil became the priest of this world. As a result sin became a nature in man. And remember death was not part of God plan for man. So death came becos of sin. For the wages of sin is death. But Jesus (second adam) came to give us life that we might live and not die or b condemned with those who are the servant and children of the devil. Repent and be save. Jesus love you so much.
Politics / Re: Ize-Iyamu: Obaseki Paid PDP Tax Collectors ₦15 Billion For Governorship Ticket by kadesh1: 8:03pm On Jul 11, 2020
tesppidd:
We are interested.

He has given Edo money to tax payers so that he will use his second tenure to recover everything.


Ize Iyanmu for Edo Governor.

And what will he Ize Iyamu give in return to his Godfather.. Don't b naive. It all politics.
Politics / Re: Projects Of Governor Godwin Obaseki In Edo In Pictures by kadesh1: 12:13am On Jul 10, 2020
Indispensable85:
Ossiomo power plant is not state owned please. And Azura was a brain child of oshiomhole and it's a PPP like ossiomon. Others are majority renovations, seefor poorly constructed roads apart from TV road. Place these projects side by side 500billion received so far by this government. Where are projects from orhionmwon, uhunmwonde, ovia northeast and ovia southwest for a start?
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Am very sure are not a resident of Edo state..

Whe you see good things plz.. Dont let party politics blind you..

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Politics / Re: Obaseki: Some APC Governors Are Supporting Me by kadesh1: 2:04am On Jun 21, 2020
Hmmm grin
Health / Re: 661 New COVID-19 Cases Reported, 137 Discharged, 19 Deaths ,June 20 -2523 Tested by kadesh1: 1:57am On Jun 21, 2020
We are watching them.. Covid Well done
Celebrities / Re: Throwback: Tiwa And Teebillz, Toke And Maje by kadesh1: 12:18am On Jun 11, 2016
Wen d foundation b destroy what shal d righteous do...na b dis one so... undecided...watin u want mk we do..?
Celebrities / Re: Anita Joseph: Nigerians Masturbate With My Pictures & Feel Good by kadesh1: 2:08pm On Jun 05, 2016
:oShe no serious ooooo...mk she go learn frm my greatgrandma.....nonsense

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