Entitlement.

Send me money na... As if the guy is managing her inheritance in trust.

And these are the Mothers of tomorrow. I truly pity the next generation.

LivingFree:
My best friend from school, we met when we're 11, married my ex boyfriend who I introduced her to. I dated the guy when I was 23/24 and turned down his marriage proposal because he was broke and uneducated. So we ended the relationship since I wouldn't marry him.

He approached my bestie and she hid this from me. She actually broke my heart by telling me "she and I can't be friends because I'm a bad influence and she's trying to be a good Muslim woman". I was the bad girl, I smoked, clubbed and didn't wear a headscarf. (I think he told her to drop me)

I found out a couple of years later, (my brother told me she gave birth, and married so and so) I wasn't invited to the wedding obviously, even though we promised to be eachother's bridesmaids

She apologized nearly 8 yrs later for ending our friendship and for judging me but I still haven't met her children or rekindled our friendship. She is still has my heart and will be my best friend but... from a distance.

She made a man out of him though. She put him through school because she was already a graduate. I am angry because she sold herself short! She deserved better than him but... who am I to say that.

I wish them all the good in the world. I just wish he didn't take my blood sister from me. -We made a blood bond in school- a childish act (we pricked our finger with a pin and rubbed the blood)- this made us 'blood-sisters-


The memories, op! Look what you made me type

Your best friend just earned my respect 100%.

That's not just a woman that knows what she wants, but also knows how to refine it to her utmost taste.

Sad how your relationship with her panned out but that's life. Hubby will always come before bestie now as far as she's concerned.

MissRaine69:
with a woman/man you once dated would you be ok with the union?

I have no problem with that.

I'd give them my blessings anytime.