Lol I know, that 'whoring' phase really messed me up.
Even when I tried seemingly decent women, not willing to be sexual until marriage was and still remains the absolute turn-off.
Thank you guys, keep them coming.

Datboredberri:
Karma is a bit**... But I won't judge... Many men are like you... Spend their youth sexualizing women then complain that there aren't any decent women left when they've passed their 'whoring' phase... Who were you fu**ing? Didn't matter then, did it?

You should change your circle... Go places where you would find the sort of women you want... Depending on your interests... Like books, go to the library... An art gallery... Culture? History? Science? Join online groups too...

That way you find someone who would truly appreciate you...

With all due respect, you're absolutely correct. I guess this is why most guys fish out single mothers everywhere.
The reality is that I'm no longer getting long-term satisfaction from only having casual sex. I also need a help mate.
Thank you.

LutherSanchez:
Women never wants you to need them only to want them. The moment your want becomes need,they no longer wants you

Please guys I need to understand something that really bothers me; I sometimes result to smoking to cope with, as I find it really depressing.

In my early days I used to have girlfriends, and it was quite a deal, back then in school.
As I got older I switched to being used to hookups and ashawo; and the sorts, because I realized all I wanted was sex.

Years past, I've outgrown this hookup thing, and value creating relationships with women; which obviously includes sex, but is more serious and could lead to something in future.

What worries me is that despite all my attempts online and offline to find a relationship material woman; I realized that almost all the ladies I toasted wanted nothing but hookup. The moment I appear serious; they disappear or try to play mind games.

Please guys is this a normal thing now in our country, or it's just me experiencing this. It's really sad; and hopeless, as a normal relationship will help my morale and prepare for the future.

Have you found it easy to have permanent relationships without playing the religion card?

Please I need honest opinion from people who are programmers without a degree qualification; in nigeria.

What programming language do you use?

Please I would like someone with knowledge of this; to advice me.

Someone suggested it to me, and it seems a good idea, as I want to marry without my family's support. I'm based in lagos. I have family issues; which basically will delay me further.

Please I'm not here for judgement, I just need to know how I can do it.

spyg1:
Hello, my fellow Nairalanders, please i wish to get married to a very beautiful girl I saw from a missionary Orphanage home. I have been dating other beautiful and nice girls but I discover most of them are gold diggers and also afraid of their past, while some of them have disappointed me. Please advice me if there is any implication or consequences.

How did that go?

Good day everyone

Waleku salam.

I've been watching islamic materials; even though I haven't been attending any mosque.

Please advice me on how I can become a full muslim, with a community. Eventually; I would want to also marry. I'm based in lagos.

Thank you.

Please I need your advice on this topic; if you have experience. Which one generates more income. Thanks