190 Its ok.

Do not be ashamed.
when you are feeling something for man there is absolutely nothing wrong in it.
Nobody have the right to insurt you because of that.

Homosexuality is absolutely normal.

You do not need to defen yourself. Its ok.

Love men and be happy with it. You only live once. And for all the people who are laughing at you because of that, forget them.

Ireland, Newzeeland, Australia

I know a lot of white women who once taste a Nigerian man and run away fast to other man

190 Yoa are gay?
I thought Nigerians still have a problem with homosexuality?
Its good that you talk free about it.

Ask your boyfriend!

There are a lot of Arabs here who are together with German women. I even know one black, arab couple but both are muslims.

Really not all Arabs are racists!
Even not all Nigerian are racists!

Just talk with him about his fear. I think you do not need to be afraid.

i know how to laugh but when somebody you this in his posting I do not think that this person is joking.

For a serious relationship a woman (and a man of course too) need more than just beauty.
For some men the most beautiful women are uggly.

Everybody have his own kind of beauty. May be this women are beautiful for these man and plus there are intelligent and love and care for the man.

I think that is more important.

I thought everybody is allowed to write where he want.

Are you the big boss here who tells people what they write and where there write?

:-x :-x :-x :-x :-x :-x :-x :-x :-x ;d

When he can not eat polish food, what he want in Poland?
What he want with a polish woman?

When he need his own food let him cook for himself.

You are not his personal slave.

"if he tells you that it is okay to be fat ,he likes big nyansh or something like that. he is planning to eat you later.
god bless you ma."

Jaja, you see a German woman with a Nigerian man and of course she must be fat and old

I am so tired of this. My boyfriend do not like fat woman. I am not a fat woman and there is nothing on me what he can eat

And to the point that Nigerian are not racist ohh, I have other experiences!

The black children are the important once, the white children? Who are they? They can forget them very fast and do not care about them. White woman? Or they are all bitches. They do not hide their oppinion about us.

Once I sit in my boyfriends room. We new us newly. My boyfriend told me later that one of his friend who was sitting opposite of me tells me that he should forget me. I am just a young little bitch who want to have here fun and use him He said it when I was sitting in the room. He did not know me. He never see me before but my skincolour told him how I am .

And all the black women exspecially the younger one from 30 , oohhhh, when we go to their shop the woman look at me like she want to kill me and she really do not speak with me. I am just laughing at that behavior and I always use to say hello to her very friendly
Her white husband told me before that he is sorry for this and sometimes his woman is a little bit difficult.
I do not know what I did to here, but I experience it often when I see strange black women. When they see the children and my man they are smiling when they see that I belong to them, oh , their eyes are changing at you only see hate. I only know that kind of , from older German people.

"Thats what Ive been thinking too cause for me I am proud to even announce my race Undecided"

Why I are you proud of your race?

What have you done to get it?

"Exactly and the Nigerian baby daddy isn't helping either. Unfortunately."

Of course he is helping. He is ready to pay the trip and ready to pay a good hotel and he swear that he will only bring me to the good places and keep all the snakes and spiders away from me

I heared that from people here in my class that a girl find that snake in the toilet here in germany.
Thank you that you show me the picture I do not want to see that.

Since I here thet I am controlling the toilet everytime

You can all laugh at me but I hate all this animals.

http://community.seattletimes.nwsource.com/archive/?date=20010211&slug=race11m

"@Katy,
u never answered my question aboput whether u feel Germans are superior to Nigerians"

What kind of stupid question is that?

Are you feeling like a superior to Germans or other white people?

Then please go and try to get some help,

Mrs Chima

No I have never been to Ni

Mamken:

Thats really beautiful !
I love beach so much.

In greece I just sit there and wtach the sea for hours.

Now I am getting jealous of my boyfriend

Thank you jaybee, it is true what you said.

desholah: Sorry I did not understand you first. My English is poor  
But I understand what you mean know. Its true.

Ok, may be I will try and travel. My boyfriend would like to go next year. 2012.

But now he is sstill fighting for his passport, his own is expired and the embassy  
When its so difficult to get a visa for Nigeria too , oh, i will go crazy.  

i have insectophobia!!! i understand u very well. . .

honestly, the most disgusting animals i saw where coackroaches,  Shocked
but my people were taking care of me and my fear spraying anticoackies spray every evening. . .  Smiley

When I was in Greece I took a towel when I was in the bathroom and this kind of animal, it was huge, came out and sit on my stomack!

I was shouting so much and use a shoe to kill this disgusting animal  
My parents was afraid that something happened to me because I shout so much.  

Ok they have spray against that? I need that!!! when I travel. Snakes, insekts especially spiders !!!  

I hate them  

barbeach in lekki, ein naturspektakel!

do u need to travel to africa to see people living like rats and others like kings?
this is what happen all over the world. even in germany some people r living in the streets or in houses that look like a sheds and other r enjoying in some villas at the sea. . .isnt it?

In Germany the state takes care (noch   ) of his people. When you do not have a job ok you can live with the little money from the state. But I have never seen people living in I do not know the word in English Pappkartons without anything to eat  

I think you can not compare the poverty in Africa with the poverty in Germany.


I think that will be a shock for all of us.

People even tell me when they came back that they saw dead people on the streets   Nobody care about it and I saw this video on youtube where a some people make fire on the streets on some may be criminell people I do not know. When you do not know the country its difficult to imagine how it is and its difficult when you see and hear all this to think positive. I hope you understand.

Why do you speak German? Are you a German? Are you living here? ?

Is this beach really so beautiful? You have some pics from it? We did not find any  and my boyfriend give his camera as a present to one of his friend when he was there   He did not make any pics

katy, irgendwie bist du echt lustig, Grin
some europeans still have that picture of africa. . .

AFRICA = Jungle, wild animals, cannibals walking around the bush with banana skirt. . . Cheesy

check this thread.

I sas a documentary once and they show the capital of I think it was malaysia. A woman was living there with here children in a house in the middle of that big city and one day she came out of her room went to kitchen and saw , a big Boa !!!!!

This animals can come everywhere! Even here why I live I saw two times a big snake (but not big as a Boa).

I know that jungle is not everywhere but the jungleanimals can come everywhere
I also do not think that cannibals are living there. They have some culture who was cannibals but I think not that region and not in 2011.

You want to tell me that when I go there I do not see any disgusting animals?

I was in Greece a lot of times and the insekst there was the same like here in germany, but I do not know they all was may be 10 cm bigger than here in germany

When I am in Nigeria you people will here a crazy girl shouting everytime

the church services (its something u have to experienc

I am not a Christian  

hello mamken,

Where do you live and how long have you spent in Nigeria and where?

Did you give your children something against malaria ?


My boyfriend told me about one beach where he wanted to bring us to. He said it was so beautiful. I think he called it barbeach or something  

But when we check the internet we saw all the picture of poor people living like animals in small  I can not even call that houses, at the beach   And on th eother site there was the rich people who had more than enough to enjoy their lifes.   Sorry but this make me sick.

How you explain that to your children?
How you explain that some people live like kings and some like rats?

"@Katy
What are you afraid of?
Being kidnapped?
Having mosquito bites?
Having food poison?
The weather?
Living permanently in Nigeria?
I'd say you are right in harbouring whatever concerns you may or may not have but the fact of the matter is things are better being experienced if need be than told how it is."

Hello jaybee,

I am a European of course the sun in Africa will kill me but that should not be a reason not to travel.
What I am afraid of is the crime in Nigeria. Nobody can tell me here that me as a white person can move trough all your citys without any problems. Try and go trough some places in Germany as a black person, then you will understand why I am afraid.

But the most important thing is that my children are so small. I told it before. One is 5 the other one 1 year and 12 month. What should I do when they get ill there? What should I do when something happen? Like accident or snake bite them, oh when I start thinking about this I am going crazy. I am a typical mother who sees dangers for her children everywhere

Of course you can not understand it.

For me the using of Mr. XXXX  has something to do with respect.

I do not know how it is for the American, Asian , African people.

But for me as a german, who have visited  KZs in Germany and in Poland and who have contact with this history because of my grandparents, school, work etc. I can give these monsters who have killed so many innocent people the respect and call them"Mr , ", For me it is not possible.

May be its only Germans who can understand that  

;d

I AM AN IGBO MAN MARRIED TO YORUBA GIRL , BELIEVE ME THIS THING EXIST. BUT EVERY THING DEPENDS ON THE COUPLE ESPECIALLY THE MAN, ,IF YOU ARE VERY SERIOUS MAN AND STAND ON YOUR PRINCIPLES , EVERYBODY, ESPECIALLY YOUR EXTENDED FAMILY MEMBERS, WILL RESPECT YOU AND YOUR WIFE, BOTH OF YOU MARRIED TO PLEASE YOUR SELVES AND NOT TO OUTSIDERS, I LAUGH WHEN IS SEE GRADUATES LIVING IN THE CITY RUSHING TO VILLAGE TO LOOK FOR A WIFE,

You both are Nigerians. Both of you are black
I think that is something else.

Where should be the problem when a Nigerian marries a Nigerian which only come from another place in Nigeria?

This does not only happen one time.

And that is the problam.

You hardly here something else.

I will try and visit when my children grow up.

And for the other thing I can not behave like MR Hitler (I am surprised that somebody can have the respect for him to call him MR !!!! ). I am not from Austria.

Both of them.

Katy.
My advise is to visit the country,Try staying for while and come back here to tell us what you experience . . . .Period!!
I think our country is enough to defend itself.
At the same time ,I agree with you if you say any bad things about my country . .It's just your view.
Tomorrow i might be able to say bad stuffs about your country . . . . . . Enjoy!!!

Why is it difficult for you people to hear bad things about your country?
I know about the bad sites of germany very well and I do not close my eyes so I do not see it.
Believe me, I am the NR 1 in saying bad things about Germany. I do not need to lie about my country just because I was born here. I love my home sure, but their are so many things going absolutely wrong here.

The problem in Nigeria is that is not safe their. My boyfriend told me about an old woman. She lived in the same street. People kidnapped here for almost 3 month because she had children in the US. They aks for a lot of money.
He also told me that his parents was afraid everytime when he came into their house because of this. Why should his own parents be afraid when everything is allright there?
In this two weeks a young woman another neighbour was shot two streets far away from his house. In the middle of the street daytime!

And I should not be afraid when he travels there

I read in the news that they stop a bus on the street. Took money from the people and kill all the people who do not have money with them

Another german woman told about that their shot at their car! Her husband was driving she sat behind with the child and the police shot on them!

I have heard to many bad things.

Nobody is disrespecting somebody.
We, me and my man have a lot of respect for each other, but we also can laugh at each other and with each other.

Yes, I think is Nigerian food is funny , he have some German fodd which he do not like and he is always looking at me like: Hey are you sure that you can eat that?

Thats just funny and has nothing to do with disrespect.

We also laugh at the music what we are listening. I prefer rock he prefer rap like 2 Pac.
Ok, this man is just funny for me and he is always surprised how I can hear that bad and loud music.
He sometimes gets afraid of that music.

And I do not say that his parents are not the grandparents of my children. Please read well.
I ask the question if they really see the children like their grandchildren. Its a question and I am asking me that because I have heard so much bad things about this. I for example know a german Nigerian couple, together since 15 years, the Nigerian mother still tell her son everytime to search a Nigerian girl. Their children, ? She is not interested in them. She even told that German woman that this are not the children of her family.
That happened so often. Its so sad.

So I am confused. May be his parents also think like that? i do not know. They are always asking for the children and they have given them african names ( I do not know how to write it), but are they really accepted there?
Believe, nobody would be more happy than me when they love our children in the same way my parents love them. Grandparents are very important and even me I am curious to see them and meet them.

So you can go on calling me Nazi whatever. It just shows what kind of people are writing here.
For me all people are the same. I do not believe in races and oll this shit. We are all the same, sometimes the genes of a white is more similar to a black then to another white.
All this nationality and race stuff cause so much trouble and so much war. There is no reason to be proud of your heritage. You never do something for it. You are what you are, You are a human. Be proud of what you reach in your live but not of your race, which is not even existing

Aids in Easteurope?

Would I ever travel to the East of Europe?


NO!

It is the same like in Nigeria. Why should I go there

If my man would be a Russian I would also be afraid when he travels home.