BloomingDale:
Dem just burn one young boy there today o. You better rethink this your decision.

uncleck:
For those saying that the money will not be spent in naira, understand that if you earn in euros or dollar and can be able to save only 10% of your earnings, that makes you a big boy when you repatriate it home and change it.

A good friend of mine who is a senior lab scientist in an FMC here with four children finds things very difficult. The upholstery in his sitting room have all torn up and everything looks bad. He managed to migrate to Europe late 2021. As I'm talking to you now, he has spent almost 40 million naira on his building project, something he would never save all his career live in Nigeria.

95% of workers in Nigeria will never see N5 million naira in their account all their lives unless you do CHUACHUA

James289:
i know exactly how you're feeling, you are not alone in having feelings of regret after this decision. it's a very tough spot to be in, and no matter which way you choose, there is no good answer. you and i chose the same route, and i also experienced regret for years after. here is what i eventually came to: the child-that-could-have-been (since it was too early for it really to be a child yet) did not cease to be in vain. I decided that the only way for me to move on was to make the most of my life and my opportunities, to never settle for a bad relationship, to never give up on my studies or my jobs. the only way for that decision to be meaningful is if i did not waste away in regret, but instead, if i moved forward. it's been about 5years since i came to that realization (a realization i came to about 2 or 3 years after the abortion). it's been hard at times, but knowing that every day that is spent in a positive way,every day spent moving me forward in my career, personal goals, and relationships, gives meaning and importance to the loss i suffered back then. it gives the death of the child-that-might-have-been meaning, something that has helped a whole lot.

good luck to you and wish you only the best.

hopefulLandlord:


Because statistically 1 out of 10 businesses fail in the first 5 years while an employee is guaranteed income a business owner isn't, also there's a possibility you'd start calling those "people" to ask them for loan and grants if/when the business starts shaking

nepapole:


Akunyelu ke!

AImiron:
Doctor's don't like you as a partner too.

hopefulLandlord:


Affirmative

hopefulLandlord:
okay

IyaebeTheGreat:
Mtcheww I hate to read anything about this Ahmed Musa anymore , he went and marry a second wife and Jamila left him. Wife of his youth ooo, the woman who loved him when he was a nobody, he begged her with his life but Jamila never agreed to come back. Build with him in the mud. I’ve never believed in that “build with him” bullshit, you are just wasting your time, they’ll hurt you and cause you pain at the right time. Go and make that money before we can have any meaningful conversation, else find your square root.

Uglyman029:


LoL. I saw crows2ravens post and I laugh too. Maybe he doesn't know most Nigerians here earn less than £2500. Before you pay your utilities, and housing billsw, this Money is gone. Not forgetting that you'll eat. Except the securities of life (bad things also happen here but they get solved unlike Nigerians which crime tarry for long),the quality of life I was actually living in Nigeria was far better than this UK. But I'm here already, shame no go catch us. Peace

ufotty2001:
They don't save money to buy a car..

princeemma69:
I am wondering about the future of Wike. He said he will never leave the party but fights his enemies from inside. One thing is certain, Wike cannot be in control of PDP again

lordparcel:
Which degree can an art student go for apart from law

1Sharon:
That's what happens when you migrate w/o proper skills, you end up doing shit job.

Alot of this japa crew need to watch Franklin's channel.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Don’t be unfortunate kid, if I wear my regalia because of you ehn you’ll regret it

IyaebeTheGreat:
I’m 60+ and you still expect me to be what? Kids all over this forum

IyaebeTheGreat:
What is the greatest gift a man can give to his wife?

gabbidonbah:
I didn't study in those countries you mentioned, I studied in Norway ,I start hustling for job few months to my graduation, I was lucky to land a job in a company there,I was working there and on my holidays back home,I was approached by a multi national through referral from a friend in one of my jobs before travelling. They offered an interesting package and that is how I ended up coming back home. Thanks for opening this thread,it was a really hard decision to make for me. In the end I am happy to be back home.

sgtponzihater1:


Congratulations on getting a new car. Ensure to have the car manual, you can download this online if you were not given a physical copy.

Service your car once a year. This could include changing the oil and filter. Rarely the transmission fluid. Don't fall for service every 3months gang.

Using coolant fluid in your radiator instead of water is way to go to avoid overheating. Watch YouTube videos about your vehicle.

Also you can get specific advice if you mention the brand.

All the best

oz4real83:
I felt pity and anger for Will Smith when I read this report on daily mail today. The guy is just trapped in his marriage to Jada Pickett, just imagine a wife interviewing her husband and telling him how she cheated on him with her son's friend without remorse, she even gave it a new name --"entanglements". And instead of confronting the wife that cheated on him, he is now fighting his pals, Will Smith took simping to another level, he should be "SIMP SMITH" and not "WILL SMITH" , because the guy is Will-less😥😥😥

Borntosmoke:
Man u to win by 4 goals to nil. Mark my words

1Sharon:


So why haven't they married her? She's now 33 and what you Nigerian men will call an evening newspaper.

That's because virginity isn't the only trait that matters in a wife.

habsydiamond:
yeh!!!! How sure are you that u are the hardest with all what u typed up there

amnesty7:
Congratulations! You have just been liberated.

robosky02:
Nigeria league was a delight



When an enyimba player can make the super eagles team and go direct to world cup @ Korea 2002


We will get it better again at NPFL

PrinceOfLagos:
The senile old fool even threatened the governor of Akwa ibom state for allowing PDP presidential candidate to use the Akwa ibom state stadium for his campaign

Imagine someone from Osun state and Lagos dictating to a PDP governor in Akwa ibom state how to run his government..

Tinubu will destroy what's left of this country if he becomes president (God forbids)

PureFace1:


You think they can't buy votes with transfers on Election day if they really want to buy votes ? keep deceiving yourselves

laivwire:

Your deductions about Keffi are not really correct. Keffi can safely be categorized as a suburb other than a city which gives fewer opportunities for upward career mobility. Rent is on the rise due to overflows from Abuja looking for comparatively cheaper rent which leads to a spike in traffic especially if the OP decides to get a job in Abuja environs. Nyanya will teach him a good lesson but like you said food is relatively cheaper.

Lagos on the other hand is a land of opportunities 'if' you survive; a skill every Nigerian is beginning to master these days. Insecurity is in fair amounts on either end: Transit robberies in lagos, herdsmen attack in keffi. Pick your poison. You can survive on a low salary in Lagos (Millions of people do) and a monthly income of #300k definitely gives more leverage for handling personal finances.

I'd rather squat in a hostel and earn 300k than live in a 3 bedroom with #120k. A lion in the jungle or a dog in the city. It everyone's choice.

laivwire:

Your deductions about Keffi are not really correct. Keffi can safely be categorized as a suburb other than a city which gives fewer opportunities for upward career mobility. Rent is on the rise due to overflows from Abuja looking for comparatively cheaper rent which leads to a spike in traffic especially if the OP decides to get a job in Abuja environs. Nyanya will teach him a good lesson but like you said food is relatively cheaper.
You will still spend the millions saved on accomodation, then spend the rest on expensive utilities.
The bottonline is at the end of the day, u are still having almost same amount as the Nasarawa counterparts.
So, why squatting/suffering in the first place.
I grew and worked in Lagos for a long time.
It's not worth the stress.
The cost of settling in Lagos is not only alarming but also annoying.
Gratias

Lagos on the other hand is a land of opportunities 'if' you survive; a skill every Nigerian is beginning to master these days. Insecurity is in fair amounts on either end: Transit robberies in lagos, herdsmen attack in keffi. Pick your poison. You can survive on a low salary in Lagos (Millions of people do) and a monthly income of #300k definitely gives more leverage for handling personal finances.

I'd rather squat in a hostel and earn 300k than live in a 3 bedroom with #120k. A lion in the jungle or a dog in the city. It everyone's choice.

Zaheertyler:
Don't be distracted in Lagos sha
It never ends well
Make your money and go

Mckandre:
temper glass wasn't done properly, u probably used the one with black lined rim.