The word good is relative. What may be good for you may not be good for someone else and vice versa. Let me give you the advice a friend gave me when I first got a job offer and turned it down, "as long as you can have some savings after transport and feeding in a month, please take it and start with that". I went back and took the job. I am of course better off now. Some people hit it off with their first jobs, just remember, we don't all operate on the same level of grace.

u can carry dada

But seriously, I didn't know guys required a hair style for interview. Look at the industry you are going into, if its not showbiz, then any hair style that makes you look smart. No weaves, no colours, no afros even, punk or mohawk. All kinds of things put off interviewers.

If you were not shortlisted, why do you want to go and embarrass yourself? PCL is pretty organised, there's a barcode for every invite. So if you were not invited, just await another opportunity. My opinion though.

He clearly wants to CONTROL your life. If its not the way you envisioned your life, take a hike.

Leilah:
thats your culture. My brother law sometimes goes out to a buffet type thing with his wife. She has to go and get him his plates of food and hand them to him, then feed the baby, then she can get her own and by the time she sits down to eat he is ready for another plate. She is inrcedibly submissive! she works full time same as her husband. She works weekends and he doesnt work weekends she comes home about 4pm and he is lying on the sofa dishes everywhere place in bits. She runs straight to the freezer and begins fresh soup. Then at night he goes out til 5am or anytime he like really.

I just dont understand,

na her cross be dat. she don accept am.

If you can afford it, buy. if you can't, pls wear what you have to the event. SIMPLE. nobody would ask you to leave because you are not wearing aso-ebi. Weddings without aso-ebi turn out superb. like mine . So now, i dont owe anyone aso-ebi buy back. if I buy, its from the goodness of my heart or I like the fabric. How many wey I don buy wey tailor mess up and I no fit wear go the wedding sef. No be do or die abeg.

Follow your instincts;
If you are not comfortable, change your bank. And let her know she is the reason you want to change.
No sentiments in business.

"a good name is better than silver and gold"

in my opinion, Abuja has good roads but very badddddddd drivers. Lagos is the opposite, badggggg roads and relatively good drivers.

My hubby does snore. I didn't find out till after we got married. He's not fat or obese. I actually found out much later that his little nephew snores too. I joke that it runs in the family . In terms of handling it, I sometimes nudge him, so he can change his sleeping position and that helps a bit so that I can at least sleep. Though I noticed its not every night he snores. I have learnt to live with it and manage the situation. Suggestions of having separate beds is not good for any marriage at all. Besides wouldn't you rather have a snoring man than a man beater? Count your blessings. Ciao!