We have been together for close to two years. The major issue I have with her has been communication. I try my best possible to improve this, but she doesn't seem to be doing enough on her part. I let her know what I'm doing and happenings in my family just to improve communication, but she's never willing to say anything about hers if I do not ask. I can't count the number of times I've brought up issues that has to do with communication with her.

Another issue that I have with her is her difficulty in offering verbal apology whenever she's wrong, she prefers to send text. The truth is I don't like this and I've brought it up with her times without number. This is a lady I plan to settle down with this year and I do not think that mode of apologizing is acceptable. Another issue that came up recently had to do with her social media engagement. I don't check her phone or have access to her social media account because I wasn't interested. There was a day she left her phone beside me on the bed I just picked it up. On checking some of her chats with some of her male friends, I noticed she never disclosed she was in a relationship to some of them. Some were even inviting her to visit them at home... for you to understand the kind of discussion they were having. I brought this up with her and all she said was "they only invited her but she didn't go". I really got pissed and I let her know that's flirting if she doesn't know. A guy won't just wake up to invite you to his house without u encouraging him in some ways.

She's in her final semester and it's a privilege that I've been paying her tuition (due to financial constraint) for almost three sessions; yet she has never discussed her results with me. I decided to ask her last Monday all she said was that she always forgot to discuss it with me. That alone pissed me off because I believe she would have discussed her results with some of her friends. She sent me a text to apologize which I ignored. She called a couple of times after that...I ignored it because I was really angry with her. I ignored her for three days because I want to pass a message across to her. I called her on the third day with the intention of resolving the issue...the first thing she told me was that she doesn't know what she has done wrong that warranted such reaction from me. I told her to sit and think about what happened and she should call me back once she knows what she has done wrong. She hasn't called me till now.

To cut the long story short...I called her on Friday to come over to my place on Saturday afternoon (to resolve issues) she told me she'll let me know if she can make it. She sent me a text she couldn't make it; I replied by asking for the reason but she never replied. I sent her a text tonight that she has a lot to learn but she's not too willing; she replied with an insult telling me real men don't behave the way I did. I felt deeply hurt with the statement. I just wonder if such a lady is really ready for marriage.