IamLEGEND1:
the thing is We never get the full story in situations like this...... you're probably the 'no sex until we get married' type,so the guy went outside ur relationshaip to find where to unload his container. or maybe, you're about ás active as a day old corpse in bed.

not like his cheating is justified or anything, bt for a matter as complicated as this, your story is awfully short.

I am not having sex with him. And he always told me he doesn't love her and never wanted a child with her. But then he acts like she is his best friend talking to her all the time on issues not even related the kid. That's when I started worrying because I realize there might be emotional attachment. This second pregancy is the result of him fullfilling his urge and her taking advantage of it.

He officially proposed to me never to her.
But I think I should leave 2 of them together.

I am in love with this guy I want to marry him.
He has a child with this girl and he cheated on me with her she is pregnant for him now. So now it means they will have 2 kids together.
He says he doesn't want to marry her, he wants to marry me.
But she stills loves him.
I am confused
I am sure she did it on purpose and If I leave she wins. And I really love this guy.
I don't know he keeps her in his life and he lieks to talk to her on the phone and still sleeps with her yet he says he doesn't want to marry her.

I feel bad for my child I try my best and I really thought communication would help but it doesn't seems too

I feel bad for my child I try my best and I really thought communication would help but it doesn't seems too

I met this guy and fell in love with him
After a year of dating I fell pregnant for him.

Fast forward 5 years later after initially making some efforts and changing his mind about marriage. He just stopped calling and asking about our child
I come from a wealthy family and I work myself so I am doing ok without his financial help.
But I don't want my child to suffer because the dad is neglecting him
We have had so many conversations about this subject. We made a promise to each other that no matter what we will make the child's well being a priority.
I have begged that if he ever has negative feeling for me he should not report in on our child.
I have asked him to regurlary call or skype or facetime our child who often asks for him because I am in america and he is in Nigeria ,to no avail.
I dont't know what to do anymore.
I ask for very little from him and even that little he can't do it.

I think he doing fine and he is healthy. He even has a fiancée.
He has the right to move n with his life but why hurt his child im the process.
I speak to his mother often and she avoids the subject

I met this guy and fell in love with him
After a year of dating I fell pregnant for him.

Fast forward 5 years later after initially making some efforts and changing his mind about marriage. He just stopped calling and asking about our child
I come from a wealthy family and I work myself so I am doing ok without his financial help.
But I don't want my child to suffer because the dad is neglecting him
We have had so many conversations about this subject. We made a promise to each other that no matter what we will make the child's well being a priority.
I have begged that if he ever has negative feeling for me he should not report in on our child.
I have asked him to regurlary call or skype or facetime our child who often asks for him because I am in america and he is in Nigeria ,to no avail.
I dont't know what to do anymore.
I ask for very little from him and even that little he can't do it.