Lexusgs430:



When he pays £10 every week or fortnight, for a hair job...... He would understand the implications..........

lols over 5k told him to learn Barbing And maybe own a website and cast it via SEO cos he can build websites via WordPress but he's more like he doesn't have passion for Barbing and I feel like I shouldn't bother him then.

Lexusgs430:


Any handy work that he loves to do..... It might not make sense now...... But would much sooner than later.......

Thanks brother sincerely appreciate...
one more question please hope there's nothing to be bothered about again since appeal has been won cos we all feel like the paperwork is taking real long.

Lexusgs430:



4/8 months (before collection of visa)......... Tell your cuz to go learn a handy work in the interim..........

Wow that's quite a lot considering the fact that he waited for over a year before appeal date came through.
UK and unnecessary stress...
Hope there's nothing to be bothered about again since appeal has been won?
and what handwork do you suggest bro
Asides Barbing cos he said he doesn't really like that one and that was what I suggested.

Good evening everyone
Please am asking this on behalf of a cuz.
After winning a UK settlement visa appeal how long does it take to get the paperwork to submit alongside passport?

Good evening everyone
Please am asking this on behalf of a cuz.
After winning a UK settlement visa appeal how long does it take to get the paperwork to submit alongside passport?

Good evening everyone
Please am asking this on behalf of a cuz.
After winning a UK settlement visa appeal how long does it take to get the paperwork to submit alongside passport?

AwkaetitiBabe:
Simply threaten to break up with her, perhaps she'll change. Or you take it to God in prayers

As regards this break up stuff...
anytime she makes a gross mistake we'll be close to break up and she'll promise to change
then commit another different offence then close to breaking up it's just a frustrating cycle
Tho we now have some sorta agreement if she messes up again am done....
just don't know if I should wait for that or if I should just break up now.

FROGMAN101:
She will accept that ex when he comes back. Plus she didn’t attempt any fucking suicide. It’s a trap.

Actually bro she did drink poison or sth back then..
I got pissed off when I found out about the chats cos I was like this dude won't be texting you if you're dead.

Kendumazy:
Follow this moniker and read his threads.

https://www.nairaland.com/ubunja

Read this thread as well.

https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only

Noted Bro

Kendumazy:


Forget love and use your brain. Brain and love goes hand in hand. If you love without using your brain. You will be in trouble likewise if you use your brain to love which is magarizing the other person just like your girl is doing to you and not love the other person wholeheartedly, the other person is in trouble just like how you are in trouble now.

I feel you bro
so am in trouble now lol.
thanks bro

SUPERPACK:
have u ever found out what made the former boyfriend to leave her? . Do nt marry her out of pity.

Dude just started cheating all of a sudden
and I think it's all happening outta pity cos o won't want her to hurt herself and stuffs like that.

Gloriagee:
Now why will you believe the words of a liar. Shes going to keep promising you wat u wanna hear.

N please set high standards for yourself. You feel you deserve better cos u do. There are so many wonderful ladies out there n some are work in progress but she def doesn't cut it...my take.

Thanks sis

Larryfest:

So because you don't know how the next lady will turn out to be you will like to keep taking thrash and eventually marry her right Even when all is glaring to you right now

Just thinking about all this now sincerely speaking...

Gloriagee:
To avoid stories that touch in future, bro do not ignore the warning signs. Her friends are bitchy, guess u know birds of a feather flock together.

She lies a lot...welcome to a lifetime of deception and uncertainty if you proceed.

N shes ungrateful, after ur gifts, still wanted to meet up with another guy. Dude, she doesn't love you n doesnt respect you. Next!!!

Thanks Gloria I feel you cos all her friends are after is lunch in exotic restaurants and collect money from guys I just don't get it.
Guess any more mistake from her I'll call it quit.

carter009:
They truth is most girls don't like good and caring guys the prefer bad boys that will use them, break there heart and dump them, there's this program I watched on YouTube,, they guy was asking girls which guy do they prefer, good guy or bad boy,,
I was shocked that out 18 random girls he asked only 4 prefer good guys, the remaining 14 said bad boys.

What will I do to become bad then?
I just love her

Chuks9000:
The girl is called belle-face. She ain't got no brains no home training. Free her if you love peace of mind.

Bro you think I can't change her?

Olalan:
Pls you need to answer this honest question......Would you want to marry a LovePeddler with whom the paternity of your kids would be in question in the nearest future?
Pls let go of her you deserve someone BETTER

I've always felt like I deserve better but she's always promising to turn a new leaf plus the fact that I don't even know how the next lady will turn out to be.

donbachi:
My guy rest...dat slip don cut.

I don't understand bro....

Good evening NairaLanders....
I need y'all opinion on the best thing I can do.
So there's this girl am looking at tying the knot with very soon.
I met her around November last year through a friend and we started dating days after and prior to that she suffered heartbreak with a dude and it was a little bit complex cos she attempted to take her life when it happened and that resulted into her being hospitalized for days.
Considering the fact that I knew how nice she was to the ex boyfriend and how badly the dude treated her, I felt like showing her loads of love and care will result into me being pampered with so much care by her.
So here's the issue,
All her friends are the bitchy type, like girls who kinda depend on guys for everything and live above their means tho I feel like I can transform her as she once told me she can cut off every sort of ties with them if I want but I shrugged that off.
Am super nice to her but she gets to take advantage of that and take me for granted.
She lies so much like she once told me she's coming out from a mall whereas she was leaving a guy's house and when she later confessed she said she escorted a female friend there..
I don't see her to be someone who is trustworthy and I don't even trust her one bit
Her birthday was March and I got her gifts worth a lot of money but even with all that she still told me a guy who once asked her out months ago wanted to take her out for her birthday and she wanna request for permission tho I declined and she apologized for not even refusing the guy's offer.
And she once texted her ex without my knowledge and the dude said he can't wait for them to have romantic moment together and she smiled via an emoji, and even collected money from the dude secretly but she later blocked him off when I requested her to.
Quite a lot of bad things about her but I've never for once commit a crime or did something bad so far so good.
Am always the one telling her this is bad and stuffs like that and no one tells me to do the right thing before I do.
Worse of it all was her ex is the kinda guy that treats lady anyhow and to the best of my knowledge she can't dare to try this with him...
I don't know why me who is the nice and caring guy is going through all this.
And what's bothering me is I'll soon be going to Germany for my masters and I don't even trust her one bit cos she's done a lotta bad stuffs when we're still kinda in the same vicinity.
She's a finalist in a school in Ogun but based in Lagos and I stay in Lagos as well so it's some sort of long distance relationship.
Please NairaLanders just help me out in anyway you can on what to do cos I've not been myself lately and am so bothered about this issue.
Please kindly ignore the punctuation errors and grammars just typing with my phone

Good evening NairaLanders....
I need y'all opinion on the best thing I can do.
So there's this girl am looking at tying the knot with very soon.
I met her around November last year through a friend and we started dating days after and prior to that she suffered heartbreak with a dude and it was a little bit complex cos she attempted to take her life when it happened and that resulted into her being hospitalized for days.
Considering the fact that I knew how nice she was to the ex boyfriend and how badly the dude treated her, I felt like showing her loads of love and care will result into me being pampered with so much care by her.
So here's the issue,
All her friends are the bitchy type, like girls who kinda depend on guys for everything and live above their means tho I feel like I can transform her as she once told me she can cut off every sort of ties with them if I want but I shrugged that off.
Am super nice to her but she gets to take advantage of that and take me for granted.
She lies so much like she once told me she's coming out from a mall whereas she was leaving a guy's house and when she later confessed she said she escorted a female friend there..
I don't see her to be someone who is trustworthy and I don't even trust her one bit
Her birthday was March and I got her gifts worth a lot of money but even with all that she still told me a guy who once asked her out months ago wanted to take her out for her birthday and she wanna request for permission tho I declined and she apologized for not even refusing the guy's offer.
And she once texted her ex without my knowledge and the dude said he can't wait for them to have romantic moment together and she smiled via an emoji, and even collected money from the dude secretly but she later blocked him off when I requested her to.
Quite a lot of bad things about her but I've never for once commit a crime or did something bad so far so good.
Am always the one telling her this is bad and stuffs like that and no one tells me to do the right thing before I do.
Worse of it all was her ex is the kinda guy that treats lady anyhow and to the best of my knowledge she can't dare to try this with him...
I don't know why me who is the nice and caring guy is going through all this.
And what's bothering me is I'll soon be going to Germany for my masters and I don't even trust her one bit cos she's done a lotta bad stuffs when we're still kinda in the same vicinity.
She's a finalist in a school in Ogun but based in Lagos and I stay in Lagos as well so it's some sort of long distance relationship.
Please NairaLanders just help me out in anyway you can on what to do cos I've not been myself lately and am so bothered about this issue.
Please kindly ignore the punctuation errors and grammars just typing with my phone