Emmynator:

The bolded is still a LJBF strategy, since she knows you won't accept friend one directly, she is coming indirectly, counting on you to be a gentleman that wouldn't want to break her heart.

Depends on what you want from her, if you are OK with becoming friends with benefits, emphasis on benefits, then you can push to get it, even though you guys won't be official. But if you want a relationship, then reject her new strategy ASAP.

Yea my thought exactly..but I haven't really done the FWB Stuff before, it's either we are dating or not..how do I intiate it..do I tell her directly abt FWB or what.

Emmynator:

The bolded is still a LJBF strategy, since she knows you won't accept friend one directly, she is coming indirectly, counting on you to be a gentleman that wouldn't want to break her heart.

Depends on what you want from her, if you are OK with becoming friends with benefits, emphasis on benefits, then you can push to get it, even though you guys won't be official. But if you want a relationship, then reject her new strategy ASAP.

My thought exactly......but I haven't really done the friends with benefits stuff with any girl before..how do I intiate it... should I tell her about it directly or what?

Meedon:


Na so

It has finished.

There's this girl we work close to each other we got really a bit close..I told her what I want from her....and she says said LJBF..I ignored her move on and stop giving her any form of attention..
Few months ago she came bk always getting close to me and stuff...she claims she don't want any form of relationship cos her previous relationships are nothing to write home about....
So I am kinda confused how to handle the suitation....what do all think.

Meedon:


We have seen it all.

Abi