BigDawsNet:
Its not a serious issue Its not too late
Apart from school lesson Get him or her a personal home tutor..
Someone who is ready to work to help ur kid not after money...
And the most important pray for ur kid
You will definitely be proud of ur kid soon and forever
God bless your kid God bless your family God bless the federal republic of nigeria

and yours too , thanks a lot bro

stalwart123:

You're expecting too much from that baby at that tender age.
Rome was not built in a day.
At 3, you shouldn't be worried about this, it's not an issue.
Can he recite rhymes, poems, etc properly?
Can he answer simple questions about himself?

yes a little like what's your name.
he can sing rain rain very well
thanks for your input

thanks to you all for your inputs and contributions.......All suggestions and advises are noted

thanks to you all for your inputs and contibutions.......All suggestions and advices are Noted.

@Dorin & amontolongbo , thank u for making me laugh.....

Good afternoon everyone,

please I need advice from all parents and Educators and parents on Nairanland. today I just realized my 3years old son cant even read Letters A to F talk less of A to Z but can read Figure 1 to 10, I am seriously worried.

I don't stay at home except for weekends as I am working outside my state, but due to the curfew I find my way back home yesterday so I was able to discover this problem in the early hours of today.

I know the mother is trying cos I have seen different live videos where she was teaching him and working on his assignment, most times I pity the boy so much because of the beating from his mum alone makes me sick but I can't really complain since I know is for his own good and I know how stressful it is for a mother with 2 kids to manage her time and all that....

I called his teacher immediately and she told me my son will be going to Nursery class when the present term is over due to his age, sadly she didn't say things I expect to hear from her so I told her I will visit the school once the curfew is over, I need explanation, is private school that bad these days ? my son can't even write 2 and 3
I have bought Video CD, bought many play book materials containing letters and figures displayed boldly, I bought counting and so on when he was 2 years so i expect a better result by now.

pls sir and ma, I need help on how to guide this boy to learn better, what should I do and how should I go about it.

Note: any time I am home, I always go through his books, assignments and read his school rhymes for him.
pls Help
concerned Daddy

posted this on Other Educstion sections as well so as to have a wider views and opinions

thank u

Good afternoon everyone,

please I need advice from all parents and Educators and parents on Nairanland. today I just realized my 3years old son cant even read Letters A to F talk less of A to Z but can read Figure 1 to 10, I am seriously worried.

I don't stay at home except for weekends as I am working outside my state, but due to the curfew I find my way back home yesterday so I was able to discover this problem in the early hours of today.

I know the mother is trying cos I have seen different live videos where she was teaching him and working on his assignment, most times I pity the boy so much because of the beating from his mum alone makes me sick but I can't really complain since I know is for his own good and I know how stressful it is for a mother with 2 kids to manage her time and all that....

I called his teacher immediately and she told me my son will be going to Nursery class when the present term is over due to his age, sadly she didn't say things I expect to hear from her so I told her I will visit the school once the curfew is over, I need explanation, is private school that bad these days ? my son can't even write 2 and 3

I have bought Video CD, bought many play book materials containing letters and figures displayed boldly, I bought counting and so on when he was 2 years so i expect a better result by now.

pls sir and ma, I need help on how to guide this boy to learn better, what should I do and how should I go about it.

Note: any time I am home, I always go through his books, assignments and read his school rhymes for him.

pls Help

concerned Daddy

let me drop my thought, obviously the delay might be caused by covid19 but definitely not just that.
do you guys know some of these packages are usually been held but Customs, DSS and NDLEA where they are probably been stolen and whisk away?
well, I paid almost 80,000 as customs fee to get few iphones a friend sent down from USA to his relative via fedex recently and that apart from the normal shipping fee which wass already paid to FEDEX from yankee oo, d money wasn't paid to individual but was paid to FEDEx account here in nigeria who later generated d customs receipt of payment for me and i had to call NDLEA and DSS to provide certain information before it was released,
all these are recent development and regulations to generation more money for the government and security checks, u guys are suppose to have a follow up call by this agency once the goods land in naija but trust my naija officers , na goat meat they do with some of this valuables.....I might be very wrong, i just spoke from experience

DenreleDave:



Pm me... I am not collecting anytin from u..

I will teach u how to make sharwama...

What and what to do so as to gain patronage

Areas u shud be....


I once operated a shawarma joint for someone..

hello Haler queen,

I am as well interested in learning from your wealth of knowledge in the bussiness of sharwarma

I am as well interested


can I please send you PM as well

thanks alot

neeyor88:


Gbam! I was about saying try raising broilers (poultry) start with 150k. You don't need to use all the 300k.

Bro pls I am very interested in raising the broiler , pls help a brother on the way forward...though i don't have up to what u stated there


Pls quote me or mention me on how to reach u.....
Thanks

take this matter to twitter and tagged the necessary guys......Good luck.

Rapmoney:
I have a former school mate. We met way back in the university. No doubt, she was an intelligent girl then and was always shinning in her department. One particular issue she had and which I also detested was her fondness for sleeping with married men/people's husbands. I really didn't know what she would be looking for since her parents provided most of the things she needed in school. She wasn't from a poor home, neither were her parents super rich but they were very comfortable and could give her what she needed. I really didn't like advising people personally, especially when they are so much engrossed in an activity. You could easily be seen as a killjoy or fun-destroyer. Though, I did couple of times but the attempts were like pouring water in a basket. Today, she would be in Awka with Engineer Julius, tomorrow, it would be in Asaba with Chief Akpofure. No value for people's matrimonial territory! No retreat, no surrender.

Well, she got married in 2010 and it was all rosy. Few years into the marriage and it was something else. No day would pass without her posting criptic lines on Facebook about cheating husbands and how 'God' would see her through. I didn't need a babalawo to tell me what has been going on. Even a dumb primary 3 pupil in a local village school would be able to tell what has been happening. I later confirmed this from another former schoolmate who worked with her in Lagos. Her past has come back to hunt her.

In as much as I sympathize with her, it's pertinent to note that some activities are enjoyable until things start going south. Nemesis doesn't forget. You can't sleep with people's husbands as a spinster and expect yours not to be sugar daddy to some young girls out there. Wetin dey go around, still dey come around. Wetin happen for fowl house, go still happen for goat house.

If you are a young woman, get focused and leave other women's husbands alone. There's a reason why they call it MARRIAGE. It's a sacred matrimony whether it's conducted in a church, mosque, shrine, court, private house or even village square. It's not a visa to success. Person wey bring wood wey ants full, nor need to complain when lizards start to visit am for house. Many young women will tell you that they are being disturbed by married men. The truth is that such girls are the ones who give married men the cushioned platform to do that. I'm very sure he's not going to beat you if you don't give him your contact details.

Finally, as a young man, beware of girls who constantly tell you that they don't do married men even when such information is not relevant to you. It's mostly the other way round; a clear conscience fears no accusation.

Rapmoney:


Sure, I understand your point of view but I focused on sleeping with married men because I think it carries a matrimonial curse or nemesis.

Same thing for a young man who sleeps with married women because he wants financial or material gratification. Nature cannot be mocked; there's a force of agreement existing when two people come together as husband and wife.

welldone Op,
but what about married men who sleep with single ladies ? this has been in going Before u and I were born, when is there Karma coming?
the truth is topic is bigger than what u think u can write in few lines

why are ladies/women always at the receiving? 60% of married men cheat, u can argue this anyway but b4 u do check my profile to know how long I have been on Nairaland probably it will give u idea of what I have experienced in life so far.

Most of these married men are the ones who usually approach these girls. I am not supporting the immoral behavior but for me your write up isn't enough to do justice to the subject matter.

its broader than u understand.

mind u na man I be before u start calling names

Rapmoney:


Sure, I understand your point of view but I focused on sleeping with married men because I think it carries a matrimonial curse or nemesis.

Same thing for a young man who sleeps with married women because he wants financial or material gratification. Nature cannot be mocked; there's a force of agreement existing when two people come together as husband and wife.

but what about married men who sleep with single ladies ? this has been in going Before u and I were born, when is there Karma coming?
the truth is topic is bigger than what u think u can write in few lines

why are ladies/women always at the receiving? 60% of married men cheat, u can argue this anyway but b4 u do check my profile to know how long I have been on Nairaland probably it will give u idea of what I have experienced in life so far.

Most of these married men are the ones who usually approach these girls. I am not supporting the immoral behavior but for me your write up isn't enough to do justice to the subject matter.

its broader than u understand.

mind u na man I be before u start calling names

pls important questions need to be asked, OP, is your child not having temperature, is the child not drooling, how long has d child been like this , is the child not stooling, is d child playing? if any of these is Yes pls take the child to hospital, specifically teaching hospital.

I am not a doctor neither in related field, I am only writing from experience.


peace

sincerely, this thread just made me to reflect deeply on the subject matter, there are very old men in my street with 2 ,3 wife's and they are presently in there 70 and 80 above.

wao, amazing, this seems to be true o. I am not holding ground for nonsense o, I am only wondering d hard truth.

lord, i can mention over 15 men I know with more than 1 wife and are in there 70 now.

well, I think I should meet with a few of them and learn the secret, i am sure it might not be connected to d many back up wives but there most be something they are doing specially.

my next assignment after civic

I don't fancy multiple wives, hence. these men den must tell me d secret .

pardon my gbagaun.

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abouzaid:
this website behaves erratically at times, i would advise you to copy what you want to post, then close your browser completely(exit it), open it again and continue browsing afresh.

Ok bro, I will do ds soon.....its binba busybday, I just read ds now

abouzaid:
bros, please retype and edit for better comprehension,thanks.

I have lots to typed and saved bt I cant post it once, I dont know why. Is dr size limit to a post?:im just not getting something right, I can post few line but more than 2paragraphs wont be posted.......I keep getin error message. Guide a brother pls?

I will like add ds, in my street there are lots of civil servants, educated folks up and down bt jst come 2d street at 9yt u wil realized 80% of houses where u fill see

kenny1111:
hmmmm, I quite understand where d OP is coming from and where D OP is tryna land cos iv bin there. to be sincere with u Education is completely unfair to lots in ds country.......let me share my personal experience, I grad 4rm UI in 2010 with a 2.1 in mathematics, done with service in 2013 within 2010-2013 I have spent a huge sum of money on Acca bt when I realized I cant sustain to foot d bill anymore, help was comin from no where, I borrowd to pay 2013 yearly annual due, I was looking so haggard and my life was going SOUTH/BAD so i pause am till date.i was done with fundamentals which is equivalent to first degree 4 those who understand but I had to pause academics and face naija reality

In december 2013, I opened a barber shop and I can tell u today with all boldness dt my friend who are working and earning around 80k cant do yanga 4me cos i can categorically say im better than takn 20k teaching job cos sey i study math, i have job security, got a piece of land, a car, peace of mind and employer of Labour, in my area I know of a barber shop dt pays 30k 4each of his 2 stylist s, ds senior boss makes around 12 to 15k a day, d last tym I check, im paying 15k for mine, the bottom line is i have bin far better doing ds handwork than d first 3yrs wen i was pursuing wht is nt very realistic 4d downtrodded in naija. 4me, I quite agree that there's transfer of knowledge expecially from Acca cos it thought me lots of managerial skils and biznes so it cant be under estimated cos I didnt av 10% idea of barbin, till date i dont barb bt i can cos iv learnt on the job and my shop is now a barbin school with not less than 4 apprentice presently haven't graduated some of them recently and presently working on partnerin with Nysc in state to train interested ajuwaya (not 4free) bt den I bank on my managerial/biz skills. guys, d point is even if i am a ACCA chartered by now, i may remain jobles for countless of yrs in Nigeria, i av lots of chartered ican and acca folks jobless and or either managin with peanuts....A fried of mine av spent almost 2yrs nw after returning 4rm UK he just took up union bank marketin job last month after 2yrs spending millions in UK studyn Msc in system network bla bla bla..... yes, if i av another chance. I will never overlook education as I blv my 2.1 in mathematics will not jst be a waste bt will work d journey differently cos there are so many ways 2b educated so if u are lucky 2gt a job by whatever means after lvn school then remember d last unemployed statistics in naija na 70millions so u are just lucky/grace i made bold 2say.

im still typing, nairaland wont allow me to post at once, so im going to post rest separatly

hmmmm, I quite understand where d OP is coming from and where D OP is tryna land cos iv bin there. to be sincere with u Education is completely unfair to lots in ds country.......let me share my personal experience, I grad 4rm UI in 2010 with a 2.1 in mathematics, done with service in 2013 within 2010-2013 I have spent a huge sum of money on Acca bt when I realized I cant sustain to foot d bill anymore, help was comin from no where, I borrowd to pay 2013 yearly annual due, I was looking so haggard and my life was going SOUTH/BAD so i pause am till date.i was done with fundamentals which is equivalent to first degree 4 those who understand but I had to pause academics and face naija reality

In december 2013, I opened a barber shop and I can tell u today with all boldness dt my friend who are working and earning around 80k cant do yanga 4me cos i can categorically say im better than takn 20k teaching job cos sey i study math, i have job security, got a piece of land, a car, peace of mind and employer of Labour, in my area I know of a barber shop dt pays 30k 4each of his 2 stylist s, ds senior boss makes around 12 to 15k a day, d last tym I check, im paying 15k for mine, the bottom line is i have bin far better doing ds handwork than d first 3yrs wen i was pursuing wht is nt very realistic 4d downtrodded in naija. 4me, I quite agree that there's transfer of knowledge expecially from Acca cos it thought me lots of managerial skils and biznes so it cant be under estimated cos I didnt av 10% idea of barbin, till date i dont barb bt i can cos iv learnt on the job and my shop is now a barbin school with not less than 4 apprentice presently haven't graduated some of them recently and presently working on partnerin with Nysc in state to train interested ajuwaya (not 4free) bt den I bank on my managerial/biz skills. guys, d point is even if i am a ACCA chartered by now, i may remain jobles for countless of yrs in Nigeria, i av lots of chartered ican and acca folks jobless and or either managin with peanuts....A fried of mine av spent almost 2yrs nw after returning 4rm UK he just took up union bank marketin job last month after 2yrs spending millions in UK studyn Msc in system network bla bla bla..... yes, if i av another chance. I will never overlook education as I blv my 2.1 in mathematics will not jst be a waste bt will work d journey differently cos there are so many ways 2b educated so if u are lucky 2gt a job by whatever means after lvn school then remember d last unemployed statistics in naija na 70millions so u are just lucky/grace i made bold 2say.

pls help, how do I post an epistle

hfd

ghu

hfkennyg@gmail.com

SamMilla1:
One big challenge is payment method which I have offered a lot of help for people buying with RMB since China is the biggest market at the moment.

The truth is that due to the exchange rate, things are generally more expensive on Alibaba and Express, Far cheaper on Taobao and 1688.
However, Tao and 1688 were created for locals to buy and sell to foreigners on Alibaba. But with help, you can still buy from there.

I am advising the youths to go into small importation business during this time of recession. It will help them quit channeling all their energy on Blaming Buhari.
The truth is that Nigeria is in a mess. APC just don't want to be honest with the truth.

Yoi can create a free shop on Konga and Jumia, start with something as small as phone batteries.

A boy sent me 15k to buy few phone batteries for him in China, that was his starting capital. Because of his dedication to the small project, I had to leave office and go to the battery Market while it was raining.
Now he is sending 25k and he swore he did not add a kobo outside the initial 15k.

Because of his determination, I will ship his batteries from China for free until he gets to 100k.
So focus more on business section if you are still young, don't go wasting your time with Fashola and Dasuki craps, Ipob, Afonja hatreds, Nothing you say here changes anything if you are nobody.

bros pls I need your assistance on this, I dont know how to Use the PM link. ...pls how can i get across to u

nairalanders, I got a text message invite ds Morning for d invite in my state bt aven't gone through ds thread 4rm d first page I realised everyone got a mail invite which I haven't gotn til now. pls is dr any one here wit similar text invite? what's d way out?

I rarely make comments, but I think I have something to say on ds. @ OP, in as much as we all knw half bread is better than just none u still need to project your self in to d future just as u have righly done b4 putin up your plight here.

let me share abit of my experience so Far, I graduated wit second class upper in Mathematics in 2010 & rounded up Nysc in mid 2013. I'v bin an ACCA student since 2011 due to my passion to be in corporate world, to be a profesional and my love 4 arithmetics. iv gt few other certificate to my Cv ranging from ICT to NIM which average nigerian corpers enrol in to during d service yr.

To cut d long story short i wrote my last ACCA F5 exams in 2013 diet, i did put a stop to it cos i realised im putin more than i can get in yrs to come and is taking a big toll on a poor guy like me.

I sat myself down and looked in to wht I think im Gud at, I found nothing other than playing a managerial role, God** yes it sounds so strange bt dts seems to be d only strenght in me, I decided to stop any form academic pursuit so as to phantom my positions very well.

A barber shop was born 2months after, did I say I was in to seling anything ranging from bra, panties, shoes...e.t.c during my universities days and even during service year. I opened d shop
4 biznes on d 31st of December 2013, in d shope i have a big shelve where i sel mainly footwears. @ OP i swear in mid 2015 I bought my first car of over half a million in mid 2015, obtained my M.sc form in late 2015 bt couldn't start due to transcript ish and will soon secure a land @ d expense of msc since I was denied dou will surely reapply later ds year. I dont do another thin apart 4rm bin d manager of d shop

the bottom line of story is dt, I had teaching as an option wen I finished service as well bt I didnt go 4 it cos I knew wht it involved, im a teacher by profesion as had B.ed in math. im sure it will exhaust me in less than 2yrs and I will b lookin so old wit no futur plans and movin on might be hard. im not discretin teaching or belittling it , do it if is you are passionate abt it or manage it while u think 2 save to start something smal or kip applying 4 jobs.

least I 4gt, till ds day I dont knw how to barb or else u want to skin your head lol, all I do is to apply wht I knw best** I manage d busines holistically* I manage more than 6 grown ass men excluding customers. I employ 2 stylists dt I pay on monthly basis and abt 4 apprehentices* in 2016 I reduced my stylist 2 just 1 as 2 of d apprentices are now skilful enough to handle clipper. I have a lil baby corporate environment I always wish 4 as a strow in 2 just d 6 to 7ceilings shop wil prove ds(lol)...friends cal me CEO sey me na an employer of labour bt d truth is I confidently apply 4 jobs online myself as my managerial signatures are already on d biznes so it gvs me ample of tym to tripple task. Ds days I hardly spend 2 to 3hrs in d shop in day as im just thinkin of diversifyin.......lol

@op, I hope my contributns are coherent wit your plight, im only tryin 2 encourage u 2 4low your heart and do wht u enjoy doing most. permits my typos as im not a gud writer bt a dy/dx guy and na phone I dey type wit sef

Note: every endeavour is challenging and aint easy bt wit prayers and determination all tins are possible.

I will try and open ds up viz-aviz d pros and cons then drop it in job section, hopefully it wil b helpful 2 some1 out dr.

hmmmmm, so I truly wrote all ds?

is almost 1ur I opened ds thread, just an update on d healt palava, After all d loads of test and all d result came out positive and fine, I met with a very sound and experienced doctor who was able to discover dt my sleeping positn was d major cause of d pains and it has nothing to do wit infectn or what av u, I change d sleeping pattern and Alas God is great.........pls watch your habits, it saves alot.

well, as petty as your plight might sound, to me d gravity can't be overlooked. is ds just her shortcomin? if yes pls stop d thought of divorce, im sure with your kinda mentality u cnt handle divorce at all, u av no idea wht d next wife is gonna be like, glad u didnt mention she's presently cheating on u or evercheated...im sorry to say ds all men detest deceit of wht ever colour bt then u going 2ru Facebook 2 confirm d existence of 'EX' is a pointer 2d fact dt uv always hav trust issues with her prior 2 getin married, pls I will be very sorry to tell u to grow up abit more, marriage is not 4kids bro, kids not just by Age......Im not married dou bt then u 2row d thread open.
lastly, overlook ds mind boggling ish and see how mentally grown u will be from within, infact, is gonna make u feel more prepared for d journey ahead. ....... my 3rd or 4th comment on NL 4 over 6yrs ago........I detest divorce as much as deceit bt I prefer d later.....@OP, all d best.....