Skepticus:


"Naturally giving to women" Lmao

But when it comes to men, you guys are no where to be found. Miss me with this BS excuses to rationalize the pussy worship of worthless women (for the most part).

You obviously didn't UNDERSTAND the post before you responded!


Men who bang women steadily can attest to what I've said. I rest!!

Skepticus:
For the bingos that love to jump in here to hide or dance around their hopeless simping for women. Red-pilled men knows what is going on. You are just gassing yourselves. Thankfully, girls are sharp to spot your weaknesses and punish you for it.

zenithgroup:

Steady pussy-really, like it's some award enn!!
It doesn't always play out the way you envisage; don't forget the other party is also a smart player.
Such games harass a champion.

Imagine lionel messi been pussy focus with every woman he encountered.

Imagine c ronaldo having sex with just anything in skirts.

Easiest pathway to downfall.

Once you've made up your mind to stay ontop, you must master your emotions and discipline yourself sexually....Or you'll remain down forever...
This things are not hard for a king it only send message across to all women in ur kingdom that they'll need more than pussy to get your commitment.

jayAjoku:
Nah bro playing weaker players weakens your hands that’s like playing against the computer in FIFA on beginner when you are already professional you learn nothing new and you don’t challenge yourself. I get your point but sexual market value is an illusion, but hey who am I to judge we all give ourselves illusion 🤷🏾‍♂️

MegaPlayBoy:

Your methods will lead to massive problems down the road for men in the long run
When men who are 8s and 7s start hitting on women who are 4s constantly so as to get it on with them without fail, the women who are 4s delude themselves into thinking that is what they actually deserve and then get alpha widowed when the 8 nopes out of her life and yeets on to the next victim.

What you'll eventually have is a 4 or a group of women who are 4s and yet think they deserves a 9 whilst ignoring the men on her level (5s and 6s)

We all know a 6 will never beat a 9

If I'm not to mince words, this dating strategy is stupid and destructive, for both parties
Find your level. It is the best way to keep things stable

jayAjoku:
this is not only a foolish way of thinking it also is a simpish way of thinking 😂😂 Try as you may even girls below your “SMV” will reject you if they don’t find you attractive. You’re trying to assume that because you don’t find those girls attractive or because you think they are ugly they will automatically Like you or fall for you easily Wow 🤣😂😂 Omo 😂🤣 You dey talk like who no get experience Ajeh The worst part is you are degrading yourself going for girls you think are easy 😂🤣 . That’s like a professional chess player being happy he’s playing against amateurs 😂 bruh that’s a weak mentality

zenithgroup:
We keep telling you this things, Stop going for trashy women- They'll drag you down.
Stop making sex ur focus in ur dealing with women. The easiest way to get sex as a man
1, Become the best version of urself.
2, Be at the very top of ur profession.
3, make the money and put urself first in everything.
3, Place no value on sex in ur relationship with opposite sex, Behave and act as if sex is nothing.
5, Always and keep meeting other girls, don't rely on single one.
6, Even after marriage, surround urself with women_Secretary,Pa,accountant all gorgeous damsel.

She'll remain ur slut till you die.

PLS LEARN=Elephant don't bite it's mosquitoes that bites.

drealbenard:
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You are right bro, skinny men are to women what obese women are to men. They are only considered when one has no other option.

ubunja:
problem is genuinely good men don't turn these women on. A lot of the good guys rely on CHARACTER as their selling point. But arousal and attraction has nothing to do about your character. Why? Cause what a woman first sees when she looks at you is YOUR BODY not your personality, not your behaviour, not your character. Your body is the first attraction. The bait. That's what affects her pucc first. Your personality she'll only learn when she starts talking and interacting with you. Good guys oftentimes lose from the get go cause their presentation- body, dress, mannerisms- scream "gentleman" when it must scream "I'll tear that pucc up.!"

You need to look like you can fucc a woman's brains out. just by the way you look, dress and act. Sadly good men don't give that vibe. Cause they appear too nice, too caring, too considerate. A woman has a hard time imagining him tossing her around the bed, pinning her to the walls and folding her in 20 different positions. He seems too gentle to be that freaky. But that's the freaky sex that women dream about. When women look at a gangster or a thug, his fierceness and his passion and aggressiveness,, all they can think about is "damn if only he brings this fury to the bedroom, he'd surely murder this pucc!"
It's why women think men who are always angry are good in bed. And it's why your woman will sometimes provoke you or start a fight with you just before bed - she's trying to get that raw passion out via your anger so that you'll really handle her, like be really aggressive with her. But a gentleman could never.

ubunja:
the only problem is that you want to go from zero to smooth conversations with pretty girls. Doesn't work like that. You've to start at the bottom bro. You can't run before you can walk. You can't walk before you can crawl. You can't crawl before you can sit.

How do you begin at the bottom?

If you're like any typical gent you're aiming for the top pretty girls that catch your eye. Which is actually where you're getting it wrong. The secret to smooth conversations with the ladies is how RELAXED you yourself are. The more relaxed you are the more fire will be your conversation. Now ,the pretty girls intimate you. Which makes you anxious. Which kills your conversation.

I propose that you forget about these very cute girls for a moment.

Aim a little lower.

You know those girls that you hardly look at twice.cause they're not your type and class? Who you don't have any approach anxiety with. Who you can be free around and you can say anything to without any fear? Those are the girls you need to practice on. Hang out with them and use them to sharpen your skills. (Mind you, these are the same type/class of women you must be [secretly] screwing as target practice- but that's a story for another time)

You can't go from being terrible at talking to girls to having a flawless mouthpiece all in one go. Conversation skills, like all skills, must be cultivated through patient practice. And you don't practice on the very girls you want cause failure here will deal a blow to your confidence and self-esteem. Begin way down the ladder with girls you have nothing to lose with. Then as you become good at it start rising up the ladder engaging with better and better girls.

We live in a fast world and people want quick fixes and shortcuts. But given that a smooth mouthpiece is something you'll benefit from your whole life, it's worth it to invest your time and energy in perfecting it the right way.

BUTTTTTT.......
If my advice is too much and you're more after quick solutions, then your best bet is in fact to move FASTER. Approach anxiety is down to OVERTHINKING. The antidote is SPEED. the moment you spot your target you move in swiftly before your brain catches up and starts throwing up rationalizations: she's too pretty, you don't stand a chance etc.
The moment you see a lady you like quickly walk over and talk to her. The more you wait and hesitate the more your logic gets in the way.
And as counterproductive as it may seem, Go in with a blank mind. No questions pre-loaded, no topics prepared. Create space for a conversation to grow organically and naturally. Cause guess what? If the vibe is right you and the girl will click. And when you click with a stranger the conversation moves better cause the both of you will put in equal effort cause you both enjoy it.

Just don't go in with the express intention to shoot your shot, or even to build sexual tension. No. Rather go in with the express intention to have a great conversation. But be ready to go anywhere it may lead. Cause sometimes a vibe can be so good that you end up asking the lady to have a drink with you in a nearby shop, and even then the chemistry intensifies until you invite her to come chillax at your place. All in one day.

Now let me go off topic......But this is where a lot of guys mess it up:
If you're out with a girl and the conversation is flowing and the vibe is awesome, plenty of guys will ask for her number and part ways so they can talk to the girl later on. And they're shocked the girl who was vibey earlier is now cold and distant and uninterested on WhatsApp! Here is the deal: WOMEN ARE CREATURES OF EMOTIONS.
If you and a lady are vibing and the atmosphere is lit and she's clearly having a great time with you NO MATTER YOU JUST MET HER, NO MATTER SHE'S A STRANGER, NO MATTER SHE MENTIONED SHE HAS A BF, escalate escalate escalate. Cause right there, at that moment, in that instance, the iron is hot. The emotions favour you. The winds are blowing in your favour. The train is moving your direction. There's absolutely no reason to stop now. No reason to ask for her number. No reason to ask for her WhatsApp. Cause at that moment you're in a position to get something better than her contacts --her coochie.

A lot of guys don't believe in same-day puccy.
But that shít exists. A girl you just met can fucc you if the vibe is right and you look fuckable (clean, well groomed, fresh breath, neat clothes, nice deodorant). It boils down to the vibe. And how far you're willing to push it. Things can move from a great convo in the park to a shop having a cooling drink to you inviting her to come check out something at your place to you asking to take a shower then coming back with a towel around your waist asking her to put lotion on your back cause you can't reach --- then BOOM! And if you been putting in work in the gym it's DOUBLE BOOM!
You just have to build on the connection and keep the momentum going as soon as you click out in the street. Don't stop, ask for her number and go. No no no. Later on WhatsApp she'll have cooled down and will be uncooperative. This is the biggest mistake guys make. Everyone is so fixated on phone numbers they'll miss golden opportunities.

ubunja:
long distance relationships are such a scam lol. Your girl can ask you for money anytime but you literally have no way of getting any sex in return. It's definitely one of the ways ladies scam men out of money.

Plus I have known women in these long distance relationships who were actively sleeping with men who were around wherever they were while BF was lonely halfway across the country.

ubunja:
it's true bossman. Physical , face to face will always be 100 times better than WhatsApp/Instagram/Facebook messages. When a girl picks up her phone she enters into a fantasy zone where her standards skyrockets and her responses must be begged for and she must be worshipped or else.... And a woman stays in that zone until she puts down the phone and comes back to reality.

A girl who will never in a million years respond to your DMs will respond to your "Hie" in the streets and end up spending some time with you. But that same girl if you talk to her on Instagram she'll open your pics, see what you look like and ignore you. But in real life she can walk with you down the streets and laugh at your jokes. That's because reality and Social media are two different things. Women use Social media as an ego boost.
A woman can boast online and say she can never entertain a man who's not 6feet making 6figures with a 6packs , meanwhile in reality she's being screwed to death by her neighbour who doesn't even have a job. Social media is a fantasyland for women and for a man to get real success with women he needs to put the phone down and get out of the house and go meet women out there in reality. On the streets. That's where the action is. Many times as a man you read discouraging and depressing things by women online and you think the world is ending but you go out of the house and the first girl you meet smiles at you. It may even be that very same girl who's been talking trash about men online. But out in reality she's back to her senses. Face to face is where things happen. Less of the chatting with women online. Cause online is a fantasy.

And a lot of the times how things appear online is not exactly how they play out in the real world. For example,,, here on Nairaland Redpillers and Feminists are at each other's throats daily. It's a gender war. But let me tell you,,, if Redpillers and Feminists were to organise as groups and meet on the streets will there be a fight? Will we chase each other up and down the road with machetes? No. We might like what we see and we may even end up fuccing each other. Cause it's one thing to trade texts with someone online and it's another thing to meet that person in real life. Even Roosh V (Return of Kings) had a woman troll him endlessly and fight him on social media but the day the woman met face to face with him she couldn't shut up about how juicy and muscular Roosh was.

Face to face is where the rubber meets the road. Where the magic happens. A bird in hand is worth two in the bush. Between a guy who's a 5 sitting with a girl in the park and a guy the girl is chatting with on WhatsApp who's a 10 , between the two guys who has a better chance of fuccing the girl at that moment? A bird in hand is worth two in the bush. Obviously the guy who's presently with the lady has a far better shot at the pucc at that moment than that guy who's a 10 but who's wherever he is.

Face to face gents.

Pukkalolo:



What you said make some sense at least on a rational point of view...but then recently after I went through my cousin's social media and saw the battalion men in her DM telling her to "COME TO MY HOUSE" in their own different words, then suddenly what you said doesn't seem to make sense anymore.....

(Note: My cousin's is very beautiful and she's 22 years: she's in her prime. Hundreds of guys are wooing her steadily and trying to invite her to their place. )

Yes, you're right in the sense that a guy has to test a girl to confirm female sexual attraction/genuine desire; at least the purpose is that so he won't waste his time, but the problem is the ''COME TO MY HOUSE'' part that you talked about.

Here's why:.

Most times guys think they have dating problems; but what they really have is "Self-Respect" problem. Their lack of self-respect is only reflecting in their dating lifes.

Back in the days, when I was struggling with girls, I always wondered why. But then I eventually realize that the reason why it was so was because I was trying to get pussy instead of trying to build self-respect. When I stopped being pussy focused and start being RESPECT focused, that was when women started responding to me differently and started giving me the treatment I want.

A guy who is pussy focused is all about being liked and trying to get her to come to his place and give him sex.

The truth is, if you develope a high self-respect... instead of telling a girl to come to your house, you'd actually be more careful about the kind of girl you invite your house. You'd no longer be impressed with just physical appearance anymore.... Instead of being concerned about getting sex, as a high self respect guy, you'll more concerned about not dealing with the wrong girl; you don't want a girl who's higly deceitful, gold diggers, drama queens, mannerless, bitchy, STD infected or any other has any other negative traits.


I see many guys say "women have nothing to offer and the only thing they can offer is sex"

But that's a lie.

If you're pussy focused, then it will seem like sex is the only thing women can offer because sex is what you're focused on trying to get.

I think women have more to offer apart from sex." Women can be very nice, nurturing and supportive, if you give them the opportunity to.

The first nice job I had it was a lady i dated back then that connected me to it. I've got ladies who bring food stuff for me and cooked for me. I've got ladies who has help promote my biz on their social media for free and many more...

If I was pussy focused and all about trying to get her to come to my house and give me sex, I might not enjoy those benefits. These ladies respect me that's why they do things for me.

If you've read any popular dating advice book for women, you noticed that most of the advice is often centered around playing hard to get and making it difficult for men to have access to their pussy.

Ond of the two best-selling dating advice books for women are "The Rules" by Ellen Fein and "The Power Of Pus*y" by Katty King. In this books, women are told that most men are desperate, thirsty and Hot for sex and men are all about "come to my crib". And so these books advice women to use their pussy to gain control over men and they should always not give up the pussy easily, and more importantly they should pretend they don’t like men that they’re actually interested in.


So, telling guys to tell a girl to ''COME TO MY HOUSE'' is almost miserable because hundreds guys are already telling her that, and it also re-establish the fact that most men are desperate, thirsty for sex and men are just about "come to my crib."

The sad thing about this generation of young men is that they are the horniest and most desperate for sex. Men in the past generations were not really like this. The reason is not far-fetched.

The men of the past decades were naturally strong and alpha because life force them to be so... Their women naturally respect them.
Most of these men were farmers, hunters, cattle keepers and soldiers. The average young man of those days don't even have the time to be telling girls to "come to my house" because he's busy hunting antelopes and lions or he's at the war front defending his country and trying to conquer territories..

But this generation of men are weak and feel sex-starved because we are not experiencing the harsh nature of the olden days...so we've got lots of time to idle away begging girls for sex.

I always tell guys to careless about getting sex. The reasons some guys are finding difficult to get sex is because they are trying to get sex... Sounds ironic, but that's the truth.

You should careless about getting sex and care more about getting RESPECT.

When most guys are wooing a girl, they are more concerned about trying to make her like him, trying to get her to "COME TO HIS HOUSE" and trying to get sex. There's nothing necessary wrong with that, but the problem is getting sex shouldn't even be the goal. The goal should be achieving SELF-RESPECT, and getting sex should only be a side effect of that.


Remember, this generation of men is the horniest, weakest and least respected by women. One reason for that is because this generation of men are more concern about getting sex and getting female acceptance..

This is why unlike most guys, when interacting with a woman I'm less concerned about getting sex and being liked her. Instead I'm more concerned about getting RESPECT...

The sad thing is, most young beautiful ladies often view men has Hot, weak and desperate for sex, so when interacting with a her for the first time, she's kinda seeing you that way. This is you should always seek every opportunity to establish yourself as a self-assured guy with HIGH SELF-RESPECT.

99% of the time, the woman gives you the oppurtunity to so you when she starts acting bitchy, rude or difficult... When you're more concerned about being liked and getting sex, you’d probably end up just accepting her bitchy, rude or difficult behavior, by ignoring it or laughing it off. And as a result, you won't get the girl despite all your efforts with her, and you'll be wondering what you're doing wrong.

A woman often provides an abundance of opportunities to for you to establish yourself as a self-assured guy with HIGH SELF-RESPECT.
For example, let say you try to initiate a conversation with an attractive lady, and you say “hi” to her, but she just looked back at you from head disdainfully and say "please can I help you?".

If you're like most guys(pussy focused), you would try to make a joke of her bitchy, rude or difficult behavior; or pretend it didn’t happen, and try to say something that would calm the her down and make her cheerful. By doing that, you're only giving her more power and re-confirming the fact that men are Hot, weak and desperate.

Never forget that when an attractive lady start misbehaving, she's clearly aware of it. She knows exactly what she's doing. She's curious to see how you respond to that situation.

In that situation, if you're RESPECT focused, you'll see that as opportunity to establish yourself as a self-assured guy with HIGH SELF-RESPECT. You respond by calmly and confidently calling her attention to her rude and difficult behavior: "That was rude...I believe you are better than this!”

You are indirectly telling her that you deserve to be treated right.

You'd get either of these outcomes:
1.) She gets more bitchy, rude and difficult, and then you respond by walking away from her immediately.
Or
2.) She softened immediately... and talk to you in a more respectful and polite manner.

The outcome itself doesn't really matter, what matters is that you've changed the entire dynamic of how she view you. She would never view you as a dude that is Hot, weak and desperate for sex.

The average guy is pussy focused and lack respect for himself--- that's why he's in the other room begging a girl that he should put "just the tip inside"

You can never see a guy who's RESPECT FOCUSED begging a girl for sex or relationship.

RESPECT should always come first. Sex or relationship can come later if they want to. You should never be part of an interaction where you're not being treated with respect.

As a guy, It doesn't matter whether you get sex or not. What matter is that you never accept being DISRESPECTED.

Stay blessed.

Pukkalolo:



I'm responding to the tweet you posted that says,
"Worse thing to do with a girl?
Tell her how much you like her.
Women dig men whose feelings are unclear."

Lolz...In my opinion, I don't totally agree with that statement.

Here's why:

Ok...Yes, sometimes women dig men whose feelings are unclear, but sadly, Men sometimes also dig women whose feelings are unclear.

And that is the beginning of the problem .


Firstly, as a guy when you're not being clear about feelings and interest in a lady, you're playing games. Girls are expert at manipulation and mind games. The female gender are professionals when it comes to making their feelings unclear. You can't win women in that game because right from their little age, they've been trained to hide their feelings and always pretend.


The best way to win the game with women is to actually leave the game.

Infact, from my experience, women love operating in ambiguity, vagueness and unclearness. That's their main source of power when it comes to manipulating and exploting men.

Girls love it when you to make your feelings unclear, not because it makes make you more attractive but because it makes it easy for her to manipulate you.

After reading that tweet post you posted, I asked a lady who was with me...I asked her whether she prefer a guy who makes his feelings clear or the guy who's unclear about feelings. She said she prefers a guy who makes his feelings unclear. Wow!

I asked her "why"

She said, "when the guy makes his feeling clear, it will spoil the vibe."

I asked her, "What vibe?"

She said, " once a guy makes his feelings and interest clear, I might be forced to either reject him or accept him..."

I said, "isn't that a good thing...is it not good you reject a guy that you don't like so he'll stop disturbing you?"

Her next response exposed her intentions.

She said, "if I reject him and he leaves me alone, I'll not benefits anything from him."

I was curious, I ask "what do you mean by you'll not benefits anything from him ?"

She said, "you are acting like you don't know that there are so many benefits of being just friends with a man?"

Our conversation on that topic continued for over an hour..but I'll stop here for now.

I respect this lady alot because she's actually one of the fewest sincere lady I've ever met.

Her point is, ladies benefits alot of things from being friends with a guy; things like money, employment offer, expensive date, free lunch, free tickets, free attention and so on

When this girl said "when the guy makes his feeling clear, it might spoil the vibe," what she meant is that it might spoil her opportunity to manipulate and exploit him.

This is why most times when a guy meet a lady he likes and then he makes his feeling clear, she might give him unclear and ambitious response like

"I need to take my time..."

or

"I don't want to jump into any thing yet, let's take things slow"

Or

"I'll think about it"

or worse

"let just be friends for now."


Sadly, Men fall for those lines all the time. Basically, she's not saying YES or NO. She's giving him a Maybe(unclear) response. Ladies needs to give you this unclear response so you that you can continue chasing her, so she can exploit you. And more importantly, that's why she prefer you don't make your feelings clear.



The statement "Women dig men whose feelings are unclear," is not totally correct, at least from my experience. That's because most girls who I ended up dating, I actually made my feelings clear to them. Infact the current girl I'm with, if I had not tell her I like her and made my feelings clear ASAP I would have lost her to someone else.

But again, some guys might argue against that. They'll say, "when you make your feelings clear, you've giving her power; because now she knows you like her, she'll start giving you attitude"


Note: When I say make your feelings clear, I don't mean telling her things like, "I love you... I'm in love with you... I can't stop thinking of you...." Or any other bullshit. That's not making your feelings clear; that's making your neediness and stupidity clear.


The truth is, Women DON'T dig men whose feelings are unclear, what women actually dig is, men who they can't easily manipulate and wrap around their fingers.

Making your feelings clear is not giving her power; you only give her power when you start acting like a simp.

When I'm interacting with a lady I admire, often make my feelings and interest very clear in a very confident and detached manner. If she's resisting me or playing hard to get, I'd never start being too persistent; i'd never start trying to convince her to accept me. When I see that she's not giving me the feedback I want, I'm very quick to move on. No time. I've low tolerance for ladies who don't fancy me.

It is foolishness to wast time, effort and money chasing after a woman that's giving you hard time. Anytime you're being too persistent and chasing after a girl that's giving you hard time, you are only disrespecting yourself and also disgracing yourself.




Let me give a real life example making your feelings clear in a more detached and confident way:

About last month or so, a guy who knows about me, messaged me and told me about a lady he's close to. he likes her so much, but he said he doesn't know where he stands with her. He said sometimes she act hot today, then act cold towards him tomorrow. She's pratically playing games with him. She has all the power.

This guy told me he made is feeling for her unclear and he never tell her how much he likes her, but despite that she's not still digging him. Infact he's the one digging her badly.

He ask me what to do about the situation. I told him to stop playing games and that he actually has to make his feelings clear, but in a more detached and confident way.

I told him to tell her something as simple as this:
"[insert her name], I have no interest in being your next platonic friend...if you don't have any interest in me romantically, then I'll fucking leave you alone."


When he told her that through WhatsApp, he showed me her response.

Her response was, "Wow! I don't know what to say right right"

He asked me what to say next... I told him not to reply her anymore. He left her chat that way.

About a week later, she messaged him again. Saying "Hello", But he ignored her message again. She messaged him again. He ignored her again as I advised. Remember, Most ladies can't stand being ignored. They'll feel like they've lost.
She finally called him on the phone. She ask him why he's ignoring her chat...and all... He stayed in control; no simping.

I won't go into much detail...but to cut the story short, this guy now as the power now. If you know what I mean.


In my experience, when you meet a girl, and you're intentionally trying to make your feelings unclear so she can like you more, you are only hurting your chance with her in the long run. Although, initially, it might seem like she's digging you, but somehow somehow, you'll eventually lose her.

But, the more boldy you make your feelings clear and not give a shit about her reaction, you'll be flooded with more romantic opportunities in the long run. Although, initially, it might seem like you're losing out, but somehow somehow, you'll eventually win.

This is just my experience.
Sometimes, you’d be surprised how a girl will respond with attraction and respect when you make you feelings clear in a confident and detached manner. But the biggest mental hurdle for many guys is the ability to handle that initial "negative/undesirable response" they get from girls when they make their feelings clear. As a guy, it's very important, you develop an I-don't-give-a-shit attitude towards how a woman respond to you.

Like I said, women actually dig a guy who they can't easily manipulate and wrap around their fingers --- and that's a guy who doesn't truly gives a shit

The truth is, when you develop an I-don't-give-a-shit attitude towards how a girl respond to you, you won't be scared of making your feelings clear.



Stay blessed brothers.

Ketapu:


Lol. That's the blue pill mentality talking there. You really have a lot to learn.

The problem with you is that you are too scared of what those ladies will do. You need to develop some balls and not care what will happen. If you are the fearful type who is always afraid to express yourself in a clear way to ladies, they will play you a lot.

In fact, that is the basis of many of the problems guys face with ladies. She knows you are afraid of her or afraid of losing her. Due to that, she will play you. Remember I said everything is like a game. You either play the game or get played.

Lol. Some of you guys just don't understand the manipulative head games ladies play. She doesn't want you to be direct with her. Being indirect with her means she can manipulate you well until you get to your sense.

When you don't tell a lady you want to romance her, you are doing what Alan Currie called Mode 2 or 3.

That's what most PUA will teach you. Unfortunately, I've seen some guys here too promoting that and I laugh every time I see such posts.

That is called indirect game and manipulative ladies love that. You will be playing directly into their hand.

I have talked to hundreds of ladies using "Mode One" and no lady has ever slapped me. For those that rejected me, their reactions ranges from frowning and saying no to completely ignoring me. Those are all fine reactions because it means I won't waste my time and resources on them.

I have also met ladies who were very surprised with me being honest with them from the get-go. I got their contact and we later connect from there.

You guys place ladies too much on pedestal.

Once you have had a lot of sex, you will realize that there is nothing really special about sex or ladies. We guys are the ones just complicating things for ourselves.

You are not honest with her and then you will later come here to complain about how she is tricking you.

Lol. You have yourself to blame bro.

Ketapu:


Sincerely, I first thought I was the one that typed the above because you said my mind.

I'm glad to see that some guys on this thread understand the game and share similar mentality with me.

One thing we guys must understand is this:

Everything about this world is like a game. You either play the game or get played.

For me, I don't waste my time with ladies again. Once I meet you, I tell you within the first conversation, or in the worst case, the second conversation what I want from her, usually romance.

Once she says she's not interested, she's already history.

That is the game

I can boldly say that I have gotten more rejections than most guys on this thread using the above technique. However, I have also gotten more ladies. I wish I can share some of my experiences in the past one year with ladies that said yes to romancing me within minutes of meeting them. However, I won't share them for privacy reasons.

A lady that will like to fucck you already determine from the first conversation you had with her if she wants to fucck you or not. She is only waiting for you to make the initiative. So, you are only setting up yourself to be played if you decide to act stupid friendship with her instead of telling her your mind.

When I was reading Wonderfulman95 lamentation, I was just chuckling because it is clear that he doesn't understand the game at all.

He is completely at fault for what happened to him. I can't blame him much because many of us were once like him.

Before I took the red pill, I had similar experience.

There was this girl at my workplace that I wanted to romance but was too scared to tell her my mind. I resorted to just friendship and we talk for most part of our work days. Everyone at work always call us lovers. There is also a mate of mine at the workplace who doesn't talk much.

One day, I noticed something strange. The girl and that my mate talked strangely as if they have been close before. The lady was also trying to prevent me from hearing them talk. I knew something had happened because outside work, that my guy is a bad guy. He won't give any lady attention like that if he is not fuccking her.

The blue pill me was playing friendship with the lady while my mate was fuccking her without wasting time with her. If I tell you many things I did for the lady with the hope I will later fucck her, you will pity my blue pill days.

Men, I cringe anytime I remember things I did for ladies when I grossly blue pilled. I really thank God for leading me to red pill.

@ wonderfulman95, stop deceiving yourself.

First, admit you were playing blue pill game with that lady while your friend played somewhat red pill game with her. You lost. He won.

Also, you have scarcity mentality. Stop telling yourself you have options for ladies because if you really do, you won't be bothered about what that lady did. By options, I mean ladies you are fuccking and not just those you are merely talking with.

My recommendations are as follow:

1. Next time you meet the lady, LOOK HER STRAIGHT IN THE EYES AND WITHOUT MINCING WORDS, TELL HER I WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU.

She will either accept or reject your interest.

If she accepts it, I wish you all the best with your sex life with her. Just use condom ALWAYS.

If she rejects your interest, FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, LEAVE HER ALONE. BLOCK HER ON ALL MEDIUM OF COMMUNICATION. CUT OFF ALL COMMUNICATION WITH HER. REDUCE YOUR OFFLINE INTERACTION WITH HER. IN FACT, IF I WERE YOU, I WON'T EVEN BOTHER TO DO ANYTHING WITH HER AGAIN.

When you cut ties with her, she will try to win you back. When she does, insist on sex with her. If she rejects you a second time, sternly warn her to stay away from you. She will try all sort of manipulation on you like calling you bitter, hurt, and the like. Don't worry. They are normal reactions from ladies when they start noticing they can no longer manipulate you. Just walk away without looking back.

Also, work on yourself and start interacting romantically with other ladies. Always tell them at the early stage of your interaction what you want from them. No woman can manipulate you if you are always 100% honest about your interest with them.

I wish I can expantiate on this but I think I will recommend Alan Roger Currie books.

Go to www.b-ok.cc and search for "Mode One" by Alan Roger.

Read all his books. I promise you that you will see where you have been making mistakes with ladies.

Most of us have SIMPED before but we thank God for the salvation of red pill.

Go and SIMP no more bro.

Junnior:

You've said it all.

I also concur that there are some truths to that theory of fabricated studies, but that guy said a lot of very misleading things and he wasn't called out. Instead, he was hailed for it:

This is dumb. Very dumb.



LOL. You just cooked up a bunch of nonsensical conjecture with no scientific backing.

Your semen by itself has absolutely nothing to do with any of the things you mentioned. Your semen is nothing but your semen. If you release, it gets immediately replenished. No void is left by it. The only issue is if you masturbate compulsively. It then becomes a problem just like any other addiction. In that case, it is not the release of semen that is the problem. The problem is the compulsion -- your inability to control your own actions.



Everyone knows that sex sells. All industries leverage this fact, even churches. That's why they use pretty sisters and brothers for evangelism. This is what you're trying to say or should be saying. That's all. They are flaunting sex at us not necessarily so that we can ejaculate more, but just so that we will be captivated. When we're captivated, they begin to sell us whatever they're selling. We all fall victim to this, regardless of whether we wánk or not.
"Sex sells" doesn't apply to men only. It applies to women as well (that's why sexy guys too are used in music videos) yet women don't have semen. Or, are you gonna say women who màsturbate and squirt are not redpilled?

Sadly, you have succeeded in misleading many guys here into thinking keeping their semen is what makes them redpilled.


You can't. Libido is not dependent on materialism. A very materialistic guy may or may not have much sex.


Totally wrong.

Actually, if you ignore the shaming tactics of the society, wanking might actually be a redpilled thing to do.

Lil Wayne said, "when I cum, I come to my senses".

The reason why many guys simp is simply because they are hörny. In that case, it makes sense to quickly relieve yourself by wanking, thereby gaining a clarity of mind, instead of doing all sorts of foolish things in an attempt to get into a shawty's panties.
This doesn't in any way lead to low-self esteem and the other things you mentioned. Again, it is if it is an addiction, like any other addiction, that the things you mentioned can happen.

In fact, actually, wanking numbs emotions, though temporarily. This is one of the reasons why many guys do it repeatedly.
In the movie "the wolf of wall Street", Jordan Belfort's boss said he wànks at least twice a day, morning and evening Lol, in order to be at his optimal best. He was making a lot of money, so getting pvssy was not a problem. But as a business man, he most likely had little to no time for shawties.

It is assumed that all guys who wànk do so because they can't land a shawty. So they fantasize instead. True, there are guys who are like that. But this isn't always the case.


Wrong again.

Any man who is weak has not been eating well.

There are people/cultures who even take wanking as some sort of regular ritual.



Also wrong.

In fact, actually, men who watch porn a lot are most likely to start objectifying women, not idolizing or pedastalizing them. Do your research.

You have good intentions, that's why I left out the parts of your post that I consider okay. However, these ones I quoted are misleading and against most of what we've been discussing here. The knowledge, experience and wisdom; the things you discarded, are basically what makes us redpilled. A reverend father who has never touched himself and doesn't know what the female organ looks like still simps.

Thanks.

Awinneralways:
Let me just drop this here.

The red pill is largely performance based for most in the sense that it emphasizes doing certain things as against others.

Where it gets tricky is that the stuff the red pill preaches against just so happens to be the natural inclination of many, as such, there is the constant struggle not to break any of its tenets.

Question

Why isn’t the red pill the primary or natural state of being in contemporary times? Why does it seem like men of old were naturally red pilled? Why are women naturally red pilled? How is it possible that some people can be redpilled even without ever hearing about the red pill?

Answer

1. If you like, sit on this thread and read posts from morning till night, you will always be a simp if you masturbate, watch porn, ejaculate continuously and abuse sex.

2. It is your semen that makes you red pilled and not experience, knowledge, exposure or wisdom.

3. If you masturbate and constantly ejaculate, then you must simp. Why? Your semen is the “you” in “you”. Ever wondered why when you have an offspring, he or she takes your form, frame, looks, etc?

What this means is, for every time you spill your seed, you loose a part of yourself and this creates a void. This void then translates into the need for something, anything to fill up the emptiness left behind - This is how neediness, desperation, quest for validation, etc starts. Then a simp is born.

4. The more you abstain from sex, the more you become full of yourself and less needy. The bolder you become, the more aggressive you become, the more spiritual you become, the less material you become etc

5. The void created by an empty semen tank is no joke. In my opinion, this is what oils the wheels of capitalism. The big manufacturers that have spent billions of dollars to research every part of humans so as to know what makes us tick all know this, hence, the constant pornification of the society so that men and women can ejaculate more so as to consume more. This is how material consumerism is born.

Infact, I can immediately tell the relationship between an individual and sex depending on how material you are.

Porn use / masturbation = constant ejaculation= low self esteem= need for validation= simp= excessive flashiness= use of money and material stuff to desperately buy the attention of women and men. This equation is even an over simplification. The rabbit hole runs deeper.

6. Constant ejaculation = weaker men= lower chances of revolt in the society against the elites.

7. Whilst you are busy earning a living, filling your tommy and looking for ways to have more sex, there are people who are obsessed with controlling humans and are constantly researching ways to continuously dominate and rule you. Ever wondered why the ruling class is always the minority and the people being governed are the majority? Is this not an anomaly? What kind of system ensures that people never revolt? If you are part of the elite, wouldn’t you be worried about this? Wouldn’t you research on ways to keep the people docile?

8. So long as you use porn, you will always idolize women and sex. It’s same as seeing your favorite movie star in real life. There’s a high tendency for you to pedestalize such a person.

9. Why is porn free? Who bankrolls it? Who invented porn and why? Why does contemporary medicine encourage masturbation? Who bankrolls contemporary medicine?

Lightheaded:
Picks mic.

Whew, it's been a while. I was going through the front page and I saw a post about a doctor whose wife cheated on him with his colleague with the knowledge of a friend of his. Damn... Cold I must say.
Here's the link in case you missed the gist.
https://www.nairaland.com/6740641/anthony-chijioke-dr-ozuzu-george

I'd like to point out some things:
First the lady left the US to cheat in Nigeria. I don't know where the "victim" (still a funny term to me) stayed (I'm betting the US) but imagine one's wife, getting a ticket worth a few thousands of bucks (I think), travelling thousands of miles, eager in the plane, lodging with another man for months just for a d*ck appointment. That D must be have been special.
The points are a lady can go any length to cheat, right under your nose and you'll be unaware (it's easier to catch a cheating man). Talk about masters of disguise, chameleon dey learn.
Second point is as long as she fancies you, she's gonna find you, and she'll simp for you. If you like be an alien from Tatooine she'll board the millennium falcon to cheat on her boyfriend (husband) with you . Talk about been emotional, it's their forte. She'll readily throw out all the feelings you once shared for that moment of fulfilment. Don't think too much about it.

Secondly, if you notice from the story the husband was talking as if the guy hypnotized her. Just check it out. It seems like this generation of men have been weakened by "love" and times without number fail to put logic first. This makes them create illogical, annoying excuses for their cheating spouses (another example that idiot called Tega's husband). For what reasons do they make such erroneous blunders: To be on the good side of the society, to be viewed as a 'real man', the dreaded disease called 'oneitis', soul mate syndrome, list goes on. A man should be fortified with strength, logic and the preparedness for people's fvck ups. You can't be entirely prepared but try as much as possible to be mentally impregnable.
As much as his friends have betrayed him, he shouldn't look at his wife as the "weaker vessel" and excuse all bad behaviors. Treat betrayal as such irrespective of the gender, everyone has a brain.

Final point: Know your friends and what they are capable while keeping in mind that people have the capacity to change.

Take the redpill folks: t.i.d

Drops mic