Sometimes we think that getting married and building a business are two mutually exclusive things that can't be done simultaneously.

Honestly, apart from the money you'd spend on the marriage ceremony itself, I think that marriage itself will help your business grow as it will help you get more focused and spend less time and money on frivolities.

Think about it, when you get married both of you can save money on paying separate rents, feeding separately, flexing separately, etc. As for the kids, you can keep that off for the next 4 year instead of keeping the marriage off for that long and risk losing the girl (shebi you talk say you love am).

Don't be selfish, who's to say that you would not end up leaving the girl after the said 4 years if she waits for you. Women's time actually tick and it's not a social construct like some people like to say.

If you love that girl, organise a low-key marriage. Meet with her people, pay her bride price and make an honest woman of her. Instead of keeping her waiting for the next 4 years, keep the white wedding and the kids waiting for that time okay.

That's my honest advice bro. God will help you in your business, in your marriage and in life generally.

Lastpharoah33:
I want to kickstart too on this programming journey, I'm willing to give it this whole year.

I will be taking crypto courses too. Hope it's worth it guys?

The best way for you to get started is to invest in a training with an actual teacher. Someone to both teach and mentor you to make your learning and your transition into the field smooth. Most people give up on the dream when they get in and see the amount of work that it will take them to get to where they are going. A mentor will shield you from unnecessary stress and my your dream come true with the most minimal time and effort necessary.

Onewazobia:
A friend want to get enroll in programming stuff, can you please suggest a Center in Lagos (IT person or office) where he can check on. Thanks

You should consider learning online but with an actual teacher (via zoom or something) not video tutorial courses. The advantage is that the person not only being your teacher would also provide guidance in order to make your transition into a tech career easier and smoother.

This climate change thing always sounds phony to me. Its just White people overreacting just like they did with Covid19.

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About time they started paying for gross unprofesionalism.