I'll give explicit details so it wont be like i'm exaggerating but first let me start like this;
Mods i'm sorry if it's too detailed
When we first started dating we decided on a no sex rule before marriage so when we first got married it was a constant thing, like we were doing it everyday, when i got pregnant, the first 3 months was hell for him cos we were adviced to abstain in other not to loose the baby, he was the one that insisted on C.S delivery cos he wants down there to be tight.

My husband loves sex soo much and it has become an issue for me, he doesnt take no for an answer, we have sex almost everyday, the day we dont have have sex he wants intimacy, he does cunninlingus very well and i do to him too, but he does it to me everytime, my clitoris aches sometimes i had to beg him to go in without doing that, we both are working class, he says sex is a stress relief for him, our marriage is 2 years with a daughter, whenever i come back from work and do some house chores, take care of my girl and want to sleep after, he wants to make love, i'll plead and say no but it's more like the no makes him more Hot, he does diff. Styles to me, anal was the most painful, he says my pain makes it more sweeter for him, he licks all over my body to the sole of my foot, he loves licking my arm pit, it makes him hard, we'll be watching movie or gisting, he'll just rush me, he hardly allows me to travel for anything, the only time he did was when i had to go for my chief brides maid's wedding, when i came back that saturday i suffered, we did five rounds that night, i couldnt sleep, couldnt even go to church the next day cos i was exhausted, anytime he falls sick am always happy cos i'll be relieved but the sickeness is not even long, after 24hrs he's back to normal, i actually prayed one day he'll fall sick for a very long time, God forgive me!!! Sometimes i lie i'm sick just to avoid him but he'll still do all sorts of MouthAction to make me feel good according to him!!!

Last week was the last straw for me, i made sure we quarrel so that he'll leave me alone, that night after a heated arguement about something irrelevant, i locked myself with my kid in the guest room, he knocked and knocked i didnt answer, the next day he didnt talk to me, i thought it was a faze but he didnt talk to me throughout that last week, he'll come back from work late at night, play with his kid and shun me, he wouldnt even drink water at home talk more of eat my food, i felt bad and frustrated cos i dont want us to live like that, after a lenthy apology i told him i thought he was already cheating and he said he'll never cheat on me cos he loved me which i know for a fact, now we are back on a sex spree, sometimes i want to run away but where would i go, he's caring, responsible and all except the sex thing!! Sometimes i thought of telling my mum but she'll laugh it off thinking it's nothing, how would i even tell people my husband has a sex problem? If you see my husband, he looks soo healthy with the right weight: he takes plenty milk and banana everyday like his life depends on it, infact he looks fresh, i myself is increasing in weight everyday cos of too much sex,

PLEASE how will i tell him to get help without being offensive cos the last time i brought it up he threatened to cheat on me and he would never sleep with me again that i should be thankful he's loyal, pls married folks, advice me on what to do!!!