ihebrooke: Side view

I like this, its really lovely

I find this nostalgic of the same situation I find myself, almost every thing you have said here is the same for me.

I am a women with two children both girls expecting a third after pregnancy my husband deserted the marital bed (even though he has always been like that going after every thing fat in skirt)I was hoping he will at least change for better but he is only getting worse. I used to be caring but he has frustrated every effort i made to ensure we have a good relationship starting with ensuring all burden (house rent;children school fees and feeding) is taken care off by me.He does not have the culture of maintenance as a matter of fact he acts as if he could care less if I die in the hope of keeping everything together. He would rather spend money when he has any on his extended family,strings of girlfriends and borrow some to friends who will not pay back than assist in our home.

He is also xterised with an attitude of yelling at me being outrightly rude in the presence of some of his step sisters leaving with us. Some time early this year he pushed me to invest with a person who turned out to be 419 and behaved as if the money I invested was nothing more than coins for sweets in short his whole attitude is that of saddist/narcissist towards me, when I realised this is Abuse and nothing else i told him I want divorce he went round calling my family saying I was doing this because of the money I have.

I am so frustrated because his family do not help matters as the mother knows all this and probably in someways encourages it too. He complains I talk too much when I call his attention severally to things that needs his attention which never gets done.

I need counsel seriousely for the sake of my children.

thank you