Kobojunkie:
You "received" and lost it 4 times?
Would it be better to try to understand what it is you supposedly recieved each of those 4 times first before making attempts to get a 5th round of whatever it may be.

TheRareGem1:
I just don't understand why all these people who we think are expose to how governonace works in this country turn out to be most ignorant....VP position and duty is clearly started out in the constitution...he can go do work his boss didn't ask him..that how it works.

auntyTania:

More like sometimes, she will just be mute while talking to her. No amount of cheering changes her mood. Plus, she will sometimes just act like a stranger. Some other times, she'll be pestering me everywhere. If while talking a slight misunderstanding should happen, her mood will just change and that's the end of the conversation for that day. I mean these things are things that happens in conversations and one is supposed to just laugh it off and continue talking. I've been trying to correct her for a long time. And the thing is if I don't call her, another wahala.

When reverse is the case, wahala too. This thing is making me sick and it's annoying. When I avoid her, she'll complain too.

Berbierklaus:

[b]Grandpa no one asked you for your life history,so please relax and take to corrections.

if You were my husband/boyfriend,I would have told You to "shutup and listen" I said "Relax" coz You are my grandpa

Now to the argument You both are having,Everyone has an opinion,trust me I have come to understand You and your writeups,(You are only been realistic while most of us are striving to be idealistic).The challenge is finding a balance because all these rules and regulations for marriages and relationships are unique to every relationship,some men don't take NO,no matter how submissive the wife is(been realistic,I'm sure You will agree with me) and some men are in awe or their wives and a very agressive NO will do the trick(I'm been realistic),so the problem I have with most of your rightups is that "they are not a standard for relationships,coz every relationship is unique" but from your tone of words,You type like that's all that should be done because it is in the "BIBLE" forgetting that even Jesus said in "MARK 2:27" The sabbath(law) was made for man not man for the sabbath(law),
meaning most of this bible injunctions can be used uniquely not universally. (I hope You know what happened in that verse and why he made that statement?).


secondly,I want to say I agree with your rightup once again,although it is a little bit flawed "to me". Any idiot can see the emphasis You made on "WIVES SUBMISSION" I think its good but I also think it would have been appropriate if You emphasized as much on the "HUSBAND's LOVE". (I think this is where most relationship experts get it wrong).

Now lets use the scripture You qouted as an example,did You realise that Ephesians 5:33 has two parts(part A and B)
Did You realise that part A was talking to the husband?
Ephesians 5:33
However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself
Did You realise that the bible spoke to the husband first? That tells You that Submission is "EARNED" so its flawed for You to say "THE BIBLE SAID THAT THE WIFE MUST BE SUBMISSIVE TO HER HUSBAND NO MATTER WHAT"







because grandpa,the bible has put an unspoken condition in that verse,(You can't respect/submit to your abusive father,You "FEAR" him,likewise if You say wives should be submissive unconditionally,You are only telling her to "FEAR" him,that is not submission according to the bible)

Part B
Ephesians 5:33
Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord

Every man that loves his wife,automatically has earned her respect and submission,it is a known fact,and a man that doesn't love his wife(cheating on her "glaringly" abuse her,doesn't do his roles as a husband etc) will be "FEARED" not respected/submitted to).

So grandpa,all this tunranchi is what the bible is preaching(Idealistic) not what our pastors are interpreting the bible to, not what You have interpreted the bible to,which is sadly the (realistic) point of what we have in the world today because our religious leaders have knowingly or unknowingly led some men astray by repeatedly preaching and emphasizing on "SUBMISSION" while skimming through "LOVE".

The kingdom of God is a hot race,I fear for most people,as I have come to a stage in my salvation where,I read and ask the holy spirit to interpret and explain what this really means to me,instead of listening to one marriage counsel/counsellor and corrupting my heavenly journey .

I hope You will settle down and read my epistle,and may the holy spirit help You to realise the truth.[/b]

U got it twisted bro. There's nothing more realistic than the Bible. Excusing pple's failures as reality is lame at best. The institution of marriage and of coz the world is in entropy simply becoz pple don't want to follow the instructions of the Bible. Difficult as it is to keep the instructions, it is the only peaceful & best way. Shalom!

Flexherbal:
I agree with you.
Faith is the purchasing power.