beekind:
I am the 2nd born out of 2 children, my elder brother has been married for some time with no kids as a result I am super careful with issues relating to fertility.
I am in my late 30s and have been dating a 27 year old lady for 4 months now, the relationship moved so fast as she is a perfect match for me .
I have met her family and she has met mine, we are already planning marriage and have started counselling sessions in her church.

She complained of irregular periods so I told her to do a hormonal profile test and see a gynecologist, turns out she has got PCOS.

I have done my own fertility test and I am fine, I am at a cross road now, I cannot afford to struggle with child birth considering my age and also my only other sibling still also having issues with the wife also still trying to get pregnant after many years.

The only other option would have been to ask her to try for pregnancy before marriage but she is a virgin and wants to keep it that way till wedding, besides if I disvirgin her, how will I be able to walk away incase she doesn't get pregnant ?

I am at crossroads now, its not too late but walking away at this point will be very costly for me since we have already started plans towards the wedding and our families are already in touch.

My heart is heavy and I am confused, I need good advise as I cannot discuss this with anyone.

The same shoes with you bro, me I have done introduction.. she's 40.
CONFUSION Is my middle name.
I don't what do now.

SIXTEENTH:
Suicidal thoughts is on the rise now

What must be done to avert such mindset happening around.

Hope she's at rest now

The number said is not a crime to be poor.
Poverty is an achievement for this apc.. he said it in one of outing, I quote he said reduce their purchasing power and the economic will pick.

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Shame on the organisers, Nigeria is sinking we didn't protest we are staging a nonsense walk for wetin no concern us, are we normal in this country?

iwaeda:


https://dailypost.ng/2023/10/20/tinubu-govt-managing-to-pay-salaries-no-money-anywhere-minister-atiku-bagudu/

But they have money to purchase 360 SUVs worth 160million naira per 1.
We are not ready as a nation, make we continue to dey deceive ourself.
APC una weldone, the thunder that is coming for u guys eh!

SoNature:
Hate him or love him, El-Rufai did an outstanding job in Kaduna State.

If not for his obsession with Islam and Fulani agenda, El-Rufai or Zulum should be the next president from the Nigerian president from the north. For now, Zulum is the right man for that job.

On my point, you have said it all, rhe guy really did a wonderful job, he allowed the religiou matter take the best part of him.

But guess what, the current man in kaduna is not ready to keep the wheel spinning, almost all the traffic lights in kaduna are not working. All the road guide is gradually been destroyed, buildings have resumed in the marked area for city beautification. T
Etc
If nothing is done, all the achievements of nasir will go down the gutter..

JASONjnr:
Some people just love being in the opposite situation, not because they love to be there ... But because they enjoy being a failure and to be in the media spotlight....

Dele who was alleged to be a Davido's boy. Is now trying to be relevant in politics....

Everybody will not be like you na.
There are some success you associate yourself with and there are some no matter what run away from it because of posterity.
Note, not all success are genuine success. Thanks

The blockage is cause by bad road.
Also if you remember the bridge that collapse around enugu rhat alone can cause massive traffic. The only bridge connecting Abia, imo and ph.

royalfly:


It's nit as easy, that guy should write quarterly or something, fed civil service nor be state o. Na who they catch off guard go face panel and it takes alot to sack them. U need to prove beyond doubt. Av u not noticed that in fed service even if u sack them after a while they always come back and compasses. There is a way to trat this misconduct, has he followed the due process. He messed up.lateness is not a bases of sack.

In this our generation that going to.office is fizzling out eh? Abeg make him calm down.

richie240:


Una go explain taya!.

Mr. Atiku, can you enter america first, biko, we want to check something!

No need, his money has entered America, and the money is working for him to unravel some misery of a serial lier/cheat.

SavageResponse:
As if the PDP government did not also tell lies when he was vice president

So because they lied, we should all fold our hands and allow them to continue the lies?
Please lets stop this blinded support it won't help us.

Ireportlive:


He already gave them a copy and has submitted it many times since 1999

I believe you did not read before commenting.. yes he gave them copies, 2 different copy from same university... haba na, we know you like him, but when someone faulted, please don't support his/her fault.
Let the truth come out because it will help us as nation. Thanks you

FalseProphet1:
What did dino do for his people when he was a Senator, aside posing with flashy cars and expensive vacations abroad, what else did he do? Yet the same improvised people are rallying beging him to vote him for governor.

Nigerians love suffering, suffering is part of their DNA.

This I have seen.

I am not in support of rubbish, but let look at it this what has APC done for the people kogi state to deserve another APC governor?
Dino is just a senator which he can only few project with constituency allocation.. yes he's flashy, I beleive kogi people will prefer then another remote control from that evil minded man yahaya.
So let kogi people decide if they want to continue APC or move to new party after all we have many parties with atleast some reasonable candidate.

saintbillion:

Thanks. Omo I've been really sad.

Kaduna is cool and nice place to a life.

1- on Fridays avoid moving around from 12pm to 2:30pm take this advice serious

2- make sure if you coming make up ur mind that you are not going most especially if you are able to secure a average paying job.

3- best weather is during raining season, you can experience no sun for like 7 days

4- try to secure accommodation from stadium roundabout down to abuja junction. Am not saying the North part is not good, I have my reasons.

5- there is still some religion intolerance in kaduna but is manageable.

Above all you, kaduna is a place to be. Thanks

juman:
Governorship election was turned to religious contest that was why apc won.
When pdp went to capture christian votes, apc went for muslims votes.
If there is another governorship election tomorrow, apc would still win because of that.
You saw why el rufai talks of religion and politics in the state.

I disagree with you, were you in kaduna on that day?
We witness everything, if uba sani came out clean then I will say he's lucky.

Blackestjunior:
The looser should just move.
All this one is just fulfilling all righteousness

Small prayers , may what is due for you be giving to someone.
So all righteousness shall be fulfilled. Please say Amen

chokekachy:


https://punchng.com/ogun-tribunal-waec-fails-to-tender-abioduns-certificate-copy/

God please help me to leave this country am losing my mind about the happening.

Frusters are our leaders and bright mind are no where to be found.
God have mercy

tatatar:

So he could appoint a lawyer as health commissioner but he claimed he couldn't find qualified Muslims abi?

So the Christian and Muslim thing they hurt you like this eh..
When APC present MM ticket and rigid their way to the sit you no complain.
Okay ooo, make we continue to decieve ourself.

CalmTravels:
Things I found out in Sweden.

• I paid commission to exchange my US dollars to Swedish krone! Foreign currency is actually not craved for here like we do in Africa

• Everyone is helpful, nice & kind. Can give up their food for you. Their social welfare system is the best in the world.

• It's a totally cashless economy here. Yes, you actually dont need a paper money. Everything is digitalized including buying anything!

• Everyone works. The bills are crazy so any krones is needed. The Swedes are naturally, big, brawny, smart and strong. So working hard is never a problem.

* Work resumes by 10 am here due to weather changes. I mean formal jobs, not non skilled jobs.

• During summer, the sun doesn't go down. Meaning, there's no night. You can get sick due to body adopting these time changes. My first night i Stockholm, i slept around 1am without knowing its that late.

• Its really stable here. Count your self lucky like me if you have access to Sweden, it takes a lot to get their papers! Their paper can straighten out some shits in your life. I am a testimony.

• Stockholm is an idea City to raise up a child as everything is cool, lovely and good! World class primary & secondary schooling FREE.

• Crime rate is really low. Yahoo, fraud or other social vices can not work here. You will be caught easily as there are traits to everything you do

• Swedes are normally thieves, they are the original Vikings or sea faring thieves of past, so to curb that natural trait to steal, the government has done a lot to ensure everything can be tranced, this gave rise to a cashless, contactless economy that has proved to very efficient! In order words, it has made the Swedes to be law abiding because off what use is it to steal when you know you will be caught? Well, their prison is better than most average homes in Africa!

• Transportation is relatively fixed. For 3.9$ (39SEK) you can get a ride on the bullet train to anywhere in Stockholm for 75minutes. No other fee applies.

• Beside Rent, food, anyone can survive in Stockholm without much of a deal! With a Salary of $3000 per month, you'd live like a king! Especially if you work remotely!

• You don't really need public transport/a car to move around city, except you are hopping from one island to another. A scooter or bicycle would be more helpful!

• Swedes are Innovative, they have customized bicycles to various roles in the house, or work.

• I prefer living in Stockholm than anywhere in USA or Canada.

• The gap between rich and poor is low compared to France or UK. Here the richest man might be that fellow riding an electric scooter, or drinking low beer with you in the pub.

• Most houses in Stockholm do not have physical keys... They use codes type into the door to open. So if you have no business there, you gat no reason

• Almost everyone drives a bicycle, or scooter to move from one place to another.

• Sweden is really expensive to live in, but has one of the highest quality of life you can imagine.

• Everyone drink tap water. It's squeaky clean & safe. pH value is almost 7.0 on the dot!

• I met several Nigerians, most of them left Italy to reside here. They're always preferred before other African nationalities.

• Nigerians here, as in Kigali keep the law.

How is their telecom sector like, I will like to work there . Please can you share any info about the sector. Thanks

Odewaleadesoye:




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When God answered your prayers eh no man on this earth shall stand before you.
Enjoy my sister, this is just the beginning.
Congratulations sister and more wins ahead.

ArewaNorth:


https://dailytrust.com/with-50-cows-20-years-ago-i-now-have-1000/

And bobo cows are still 150.. 😆

seunmsg:


I may be wrong but where exactly in the report did you get the information that the two states have 18k blurred result sheets? The 18k topic is an ad for another story and not part of this report please. The Prof. never said anything about 18k blurry result sheets. His testimony was about over voting in the presidential election and he based his analysis only on two states.

Even the issue of the blurry result sheets on IREV that was raised about two days ago proves nothing. Camera position, room visibility/lightning, poor knowledge of how to use BVAS camera by polling officers, camera defect etc can cause pictures to be blurry. All INEC needs to do is present the original and clear copies to the court. A blurry 18k result sheets out of over 177k is barely 10% so the success rate of uploaded clear result is still around 90% and that’s good enough.

The 18k is from the 2 states bro.

nairalandkachy1:
It is reported that about five students were kidnapped days to the commencement of examination.

Dele said the revolution will start in the North.
Watch out, their awake from their slumber!!!

ogododo:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IGuXGqaORkw



https://dailytrust.com/breaking-rep-who-labelled-nigeria-air-as-fraud-asked-me-for-bribe-sirika/

I find it very difficult now to believe any northerner, they lie anyhow without fear of God.. anyways their faith permits them to do so.
The law maker should come and clear his name. But I see a game of, if am going down, we are all going together.

Yourprick:
He has calmed down lol

https://twitter.com/ogundamisi/status/1658402882855501825

Fake photo, I have seen this picture last year.

francotunsco:
These ones are too young to know and understand the Igbo people. They should listen to Ahmadu Bello's interview. They will know well then.

He made that comment just to keep power in the North.

khalling2008:
Northern will never like anything from igbo.
Is it prostitutes from their women they want to copy or

Drugs crime, because most of the youth in northern state have affected by the drugs the ibo transported to their region or

The kidnapping of almajiri children to the south east and converted them to Christianity or

Selling of counterfeit products
Or which one?

Please be reasonable for once na!
All this hatred for easterners will not help you.
The highest numbers of vvf cases is in the North as a result of child marriage, great crime against humanity too. Calm down yes they have there own issues just as we have our own issues I North.
Politician have finished us, we can no longer say good about ourselves.

Natbrowny:


U deserve cold palm wine, salad and a full roasted turkey

Una no well walanhi, I laugh my ass out. 🤣

fatdick:
Very useless a man. I mean Rotimi Amaechi. I use to hold in high esteem before now. Cry baby. The IPOB in him couldn't let him accept defeat . Sore loser

Is useless now because is exposing some your darling party eh?

okay ooo we don hear you.

Moh247:




Democracy is changing Nigeria for good

With BVAS and IREV, as a Governor you must perform or loose your mandate


.

For presidential election you don't need BVAS and IREV.

kingslj:



A woman will do this if it was her former friend.

You have said it all bro. Na her very closed friend.

IgOga:


Cash out for lawyers and SANs....

Meanwhile as at yesterday Labour Party has no evidence to present to the Presidential Tribunal. Obi claiming he won on TV will be used by INEC and the APC to destroy LP.

Obi later saying he's not challenging the winner but the process on Arise TV is another dent on his legal case...

All in all Obi will loose again

The guy just used that line to confuse people like you.. he's not challenging the winner but the process...

Ayomivic:


This is one of the reasons I love Tinubu when other party were making noise and fumble that they would go to court he was busy assembly the qualify lawyers. Very soon now the other parties I meant PDPand LP would be shouting they stole their lawyers.

They have also assembled their own lawyers and I beleive they will make it public soon.
Let me grab my pop corn Iinteresti g days ahead. They will of the people shall prevail!