is this one polygamy or trigamy,

@gem87

wow thnx a lot 4 that
i said i just finished my ssce when we met and that ws 3 years ago,
i'm goin 2 uni this sept. and i'm sure he's more dan proud of me
the future is well taken care of too

Well, girl, what are you waiting for,, its all good, shoot,
dont 4get my Invi,

@hot-angel

I got the 'neatness' part covered. Cos even if he's "neat" i'll still consider him as dirty. Nothing is clean unless i do the cleaning.

Oh really, i like that,
I think I need a clean scrub,

U see the educated part, that na small case. WHat r computers for? he'll learn jare.

hhhmmm, Bath-Tub tutorials

Honestly, i dont condone a guy beating up his girl, or a man beating up his wife.

I think its bad, its beastial, and I dont advice any girl to stay with such guys.

@osomoe

hey kimba i don't mean he has nothing to eat but that he doesnt have so much to spoil a girl with because some girls r really demanding u know?they want everything.and also does the amount of money u have really determine the type of chic u'll ask out?
and afeni u don't have to break up with a girl when u suddenly get broke.she'll understand at least she knows where your coming from.

Does a guy have to spoil the girl everytime they go out, yes, some girls are demanding, i know, they want everything under the sun, but truly, if im serious about her, we arent married and shes already spoilt, how much more after "I Do". No be wahala be that one.

No, the amount of money I have doesnt determine the type of Chic ill ask out.

@grafikdon

Ayakatayakamamamachachaaaaa! ,
yachaaaaaaaaaaadatatatyamangazabanazagada!,

O boy, its not easy o, What i know is "speaking in tongues", but this "typing in tongues" dey new to me o, abeg, explain


@ThoniaSlim

@mamaput
i agree with you i dislike a church whereby all the preach about is if you don't put on makeup,visit the saloon and wear trousers you would go to heaven.but they leave out the most important details.such as loving people and good human relationship.

So you mean when you go to your church for like 4 Sundays in a Month, all you hear is about: don't put on makeup, visit the saloon etc, as you have enumerated above? so you mean they don't talk about any other topic?

Look at it from 2-views,
(1) The Truth is always bitter. Repitition is for emphasis. If something is repeated over and over again, then maybe its important. Is it really the Church "inventing all they are teaching"? what does the Bible really say on its own? have you cared to find out from God Above, on your own personal basis?
(2) Or perhaps the issues were "overemphasized", if thats what you meant. Methinks, you havent completed your own assignment, since you know what the others are leaving out:

but they leave out the most important details.such as loving people and good human relationship.

Now, you have a responsibility. Leave the church to be preaching all the donts, you take care of "loving people and good human relationships".

Now, wont the world be a better place.

hhmmm

really cool

i checked out the lagbaja video, nice one

why is the guy always covering his face in his videos.

is this some kind of TV show or something?

Dont be confused, don't be carried away,

Its not the Speaking in tongues that matters o, its the constant, current, and realistic Spirit of God moving a Man or Woman.

Yes, Speaking in tongues is the initial evidence of Holy Spirit baptism, a gift of God to a seeking heart, but the truth is many people will speak in tongues from now till when Jesus will come and they will still end up in hell-fire.

Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord,shall enter into the kingdom of heaven;''Matthew 7:21

Reason: well, they were once on the narrow way, they fell and backslid, but they still retain a head-knowledge(know-how) of the gifts they had, but they have lost the spirit behind it. And they have refused to:

Examine yourselves, whether ye be in the faith;prove your own selves.
Know ye not your own selves, how that Jesus Christ is in you,except ye be reprobates?
2 Corinthians 13:5

Example:
A first class graduate, worked with the top cream of the CIA for like 15-20+years, along the line you did something wrong and was fired, you would be a very dangerous person. Twould be easy for you to deceive people, because you had so much experience and information, while on the inside.
Its all in the movies, right. Its so hard to know who the bad guy is because he's so smooth, he's got the skills and the know how, but hes the bad guy.

Any tongue speaking that is not motivated by the Holy Spirit is fake and 419.

How do we differentiate:
1) By their fruits we shall know them.

Luke 6: 46 And why call ye me, Lord, Lord, and do not the things which I say?

Watch the lifestyle of the "tongue speaking" whoever. Does his life, does her life conform with the Bible. If the answer is No, forget the tongues. He aint got it. It also means, you should know what God expects yourself.

He that saith, I know him, and keepeth not his commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him.
But whoso keepeth his word,, in him verily is the love of God perfected:, hereby know we that we are in him.''
1 John 2:3-5

2) Any Tongue speaking, praying, singing or whatever that does not glorify or obey God is false. If you are a child of God, the Holy Spirit will witness within you that you are a CHild of God, and even reveal to you who is/is not a child of God, whatever natural language/tongue he speaks.

Example: if you work in the Mint, you can easily identify fake currencies.

Luke chapter 6:44 For every tree is known by his own fruit. For of thorns men do not gather figs, nor of a bramble bush gather they grapes.

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@Rosby

You had a child for a guy because he doesn't care you feel the best way to pay him back is to dump the little baby for him and walk away. Or keeping the child under somebody's elses care because you want to live as though you never had a child.

it is easy to find a woman
it is hard to find a woman who is also a mother.

@Afeni

I am in hell for committing sins against God.

do you hate God this much

ill call her yokohama

In order of preference:

FAITHFUL = (because this includes "Humility" and "Honesty"-does not tell lies),

NEAT = (Neat women are Sexy(you don't have to be naked to be sexy) no matter what they wear. Twould also make them beautiful).

EDUCATED = an educated woman would know how to keep herself sexy, she'll know how to train her children, support her husband, educated women usually take good decisions.

@babymine

I can date a broke guy as long as he doesn't intend remaining broke 4eva.

true word.

Yes, I can ask a girl out knowing that im broke.

On the other hand,

@osome,
what is the classification/extent of the "broke"ness. Is it that the guy doesnt have nothing to eat, and you are helping him out financially?

@blendz4real

My question now is “I am really down for this girl as in I am tripping for her to the cord” She will be coming home in a weeks time and I am planning on establishing my plans of asking her out.

Are you still in the plan establishment mode, You better establish it fast, and let the plan be perfect.

Not only "plan", o, establish your "style" as well

goodluck!!!

@fresheva
If you are as elegant as the Chinese woman in your profile,

i think ill also be in love with you.

na wah o,

this "assist me to please toast this girl, so as to keep her mind off me" thing, is not easy o.

I dont usually keep a record of hurts.

thats the best way to live this life.

@gem87
ONE

He's asked me to marry him like 3 times and he keeps talking of our future together, i play along though i'm scared, it's just too crazy, we have baby names picked out and everything.
i just want to know what you all think.

When guys begin to talk of "future", they are serious.

TWO
On a more serious note: I think @Zach has a point:
You might want to press the breaks a lil bit at least to make sure he is:

Is he proud enough of you to introduce you to his friends?

Proud of you, since you said you just met once, at least till he arrives the U.K and you go out etc,

THREE
You just finished SSCE, right.
How about college? Are you prepared physically, mentally, financially etc, to combine marriage with "future", 3-4yrs college/Univ life? thats if the marriage hes talking about would be like "any time soon"?

If you answer Yes, to my 2, and 3
Go for it.

so because George "City" decided to mandate English as Americas official language, we to want to copy copy?

eh yah, too bad

no be from Naija she carry plane go U.K.

where are the "lots of transplants done in Naija"

that is why it is called a "complex"

The "complex" of a thing is actually complex and cant be explained in simple terms

@jagunlabi

A very simple question for you guys to ponder and discuss on;

Does religion prevents or hinders the use of intelligence in the average religious human being?

Please,note that the onus is on the USAGE of intelligence.

If I may ask why the merry go round:

Does religion prevents or hinders the use of intelligence in the average religious human being?

which came first: The Religion or The Intelligence.

Question: Where do you place Mans Natural born Innate Knowledge of God? before religion? after religion, and before intelligence? or after religion and intelligence?

Answer: Man, while he tries to partially deny, totally deny, partially exagerrate, totally exagerrate his Inborn knowledge of God, falls into religion.

well spoken milks_baby.

but

If it was not a "religion", I don't see the need for any law.

I believe a child in a home with "responsible parents" is not allowed to do all, exactly/solely as he/she pleases, first for his own benefit, and for the family. Yes, they, parents must have laid dowm some laws(dont do this, that is not good for you), no matter how subtle or harsh. Was/Is it then a religion to obey one's parents. But wasnt/isnt there a relationship( even with all their laws) within parents and children? I obeyed my parents not because of any repercussions, but coz, i loved and appreciated them. Thats relationship, not religion. Now, If I obey them out of fear, coz i know my dad might throw me out of the house if i sniffed, thats religion. Apply the same scenario to the Bible, God and Man.

God wants to have a relationship of Love, with Man. Yes, God says man should serve, worship, adore, Him, and usually man equates service and religion. Usually, "Love" isnt in the picture of our service, or whatever we render to God, which makes it all = works, now, thats where many people miss it.

To those who went to school in Nigeria, the "school uniform idea", wasnt it a "law", if you would call a spade a spade? Whether you call it law/rule/principle/guideline. Going to school wasnt definitely a religion, was it?

definitely, such a scene will not happen in my presence.

whether it happens in my presence or not, its like this: If my wife retaliates and fights them back, ill drive all of them outa my house. If she doesnt, as in she does her best to get away from the trouble, my mom and sis are gonners.

@baby4ever

Yes, "Chy's" advice is right. If I remember right, people that snore usually have their tongues kind of folded back over their air pipe(because the head is tilted upward) once they have fallen asleep, so its kind of like the air is been forced out to produce the snoring sound, and such peeps usually open their mouth while sleeping.

Advice: Adjust pillows so his head will be horizontally placed, help him close his mouth, as in wake him up and let him close his mouth himself, or reach in your hand inside his open mouth and pull out his tongue, and then close his mouth. Make sure you give him a kiss after for him to keep his mouth closed.   

im not kidding o, thats the truth.