Kelvin581:
yesterday I tested my girl and told her that if I propose to you now will you agree... she told me no, that I need to have more money and build a house for her to accept... she is 19yrs.... so what's your suggestion?

AcidTrip:


Kingel, I had to drop this here.

Simp mods on nairaland kept deleting my response to your comment and suspending my account on the red pill thread. This is the third time. The cancel culture is real.




Women seeking the best of males and selecting them for their genetic superiority, physical attributes, wealth and status is cruel and a unmost unfair from a male perspective but it's nature at play. It varies to different degrees in women but still the same motive. Accept this fact and use it to your advantage as a man.



The focus is to be on YOU. This means that your goals, happiness, family should be your topmost priority when dealing with women and also other aspects of your life. Overly worrying about their happiness and putting their goal above yours leave you is a great recipe for frustration and disappointments.

Not considering masturbation and paying hookers to get your steam off is a great idea, though not a easy one. In the end, it's beneficial because you eliminate the issues of STDs, wasteful-spending, mental/physical stress, masturbation addiction from your life.

I'll advice you to channel your steam into sport eisure/hobbies like body building, powerlifting, boxing, soccer etc. On the creative side, build a business of pursue an ambitious project. Over the, all these would help develop your mind, having control over your life and bring women around. With the women, you have to be very careful, though. As your status improves, they'll begin to flock around and you want the best. Not some damaged woman with issues.

etrange:


Dude, to justify means to prove something right. Sexism being a justification to racism does not mean it led to racism. That misogyny was there before racism is a fact. But still tolerating misogyny defeats all the arguments we have against racism today and therefore justifies (proves right) the discrimination of people based on their nature. You can't preach against racial prejudice when you condone the same thing against women. So misogyny being older or younger doesn't matter, what matters is that it is self contradictory to support it and still kick against racism. That bit is pretty much clear in my message. Every form of decriminalisation within a people being discriminated against lends justification to the injustice perpetuated against them. It is sad that we only see something as bad when it affects us.

etrange:


Yes, the idea of gender equality originated from the western world. The reason many of these lifestyle concepts including religion come from outside Africa is because Africa years behind in terms of civilisation so whatever they see today has been seen by the western world. The western world was as sexist as Africa until they realised how depriving it is to their society and how they couldn't achieve human equality in some areas if they don't address the inequality in gender. Today, things are much better. And no, men don't pay the bills alone. In fact, in a country like Canada (especially in the cities), it is practically impossible for men to bear the burden of home finances alone considering the salary/expense structure of the country. The concept of household income is a big deal and everyone must contribute all they'll find themselves living outside. That is why people get married as a business plan to sustain each other.

etrange:


The few countries run by women today are amongst the most stable countries in the world. They are also the countries that managed Covid-19 the best. Trump is not a better leader than the leader of Germany. The skills required to lead are quite encompassing and some of these skills come naturally to women. Their style might be different from what you're used to but not necessarily inferior. Idiosyncratic is the word. I'm not saying men should not lead, I'm saying things should be balanced out. As for gaining power, men assumed the position of superior humans when power was about physical strength (prehistoric period) and all the books of the abrahamic religion reflected this bias even in the most unacceptable ways (even a sexist like you would agree with me the biblical depiction of the role of women were all man made). So what we have today in Africa is a cumulatively result of all these.

etrange:


Is this what you understand when I say "lend justification to racism"? So much for the intelligent gender. I will explain.

We're here kicking against racism cause there's no basis for a particular group of humans to claim superiority based on skin colour (a biological factor that no one gets to choose). We posit that even if some countries are more advanced than others, each person should be treated based on thier content cause some blacks are still smarter than some whites and they also are as American as the whites. But then ya'll in Africa rejecting equality and unapologetically advocating for male superiority only end justifying the racist's line of thought. You keep telling the world it's OK to claim "superior human being" based on biological factors. The adverse effects of discrimination, regardless with the form, do no spare any gender. It reduces the overall output of a people. Women might perceive things differently but not necessarily in an inferior way. In fact, this difference in perception is needed to balance things out. But when they are relegated to the back, we lose out on thier style/approach.

In Africa, women have bent to society. A lot of them are have yielded to the claim that they are only there as ornaments. This is not because their brains are inferior, rather it's because of the indoctrination they get from home. Argue all you want, a child could be trained to be in anyway regardless of the gender and provided there are no congenital factors involved. But then parents in Africa structure thier homes to give the impression that girls are just care givers. Girls are explicitly trained to wash, cook, serve and please the boys while boys are allowed to be advebturous and are hardly ever held culpable for thier actions; after all, boys will always be boys. In this process, the male kid in Africa begins to feel superior because of his organs while the girl child is consumed by the desire to be acceptable, getting a good husband. This sense of superiority is further accentuated by the fact that parents invest more in the male child. What's the point in sending the girl abroad to study when another man will come and take her? She can study English Language in school and run a boutique afterwards. Let's spend the money on the man, he will always be here. These are the lines of thoughts that the African parents entertain, and the girl child is further relegated. Sadly, there are some indoctrinations she cannot change as an adult.

What we end up having is a biased society. Our male children end up not having equally capable female counterparts and because they don't appreciate the origin of the problem, they run around insulting women on Nairaland. And because the male child has been trained to get away with anything, it doesn't matter if they sleep around, cheat, etc., Nobody insults the male gender when men engage in online theft, rape, etc. but when a girl does something bad, the entire female gender is insulted. We already believe women can't be successful so anyone women that has some money must be a prostitute. They shouldn't even bother eying some leadership positions where voting is involved. At the end,w're all deprived of what they might be able to offer cause we don't give them the chance.

To correct this, women need to be encouraged, empowered and supported. Gender equality needs to be pushed to a practical level and we must stay open minded and stop seeing people who seek gender equality (feminists) as man haters (misandrists).

etrange:


When you believe you are superior based on gender and not based on your content/personality as a human being, then you lend justification to racism. Shame.

SegFault:

Leave the donkey.

SegFault:
Another useless thread hy a pseudo intellectual, your mother too is dumb I guess. Maybe dumber than the average "naija babe" yeye dey smell.

Ikillbrokehoes:
Look at this dumb thing? if I ask you if you have anything to offer a man, you will say your virginal, that's the only thing you can offer in your life.

Chii59:

To think I thought you were an enlightened mind.
Maybe the women in your family or social life are dull. I am not dull, neither is Pocohantas, cococandy, Zzor, Dominique and a hot of sharp minds I've met on this platform.
What's worse than an alpha male? A closet chauvinist.

Baddestguyp:
how is SAO quality anime?
That milk factory...lol

Even GOH so far is just no different than a YouTube fighting compilation...no plot

Bloooody:

Truth be told we're better than women in everything.
Smartest human is a man
Fastest is a man
Richest is a man
Strongest is a man
Tallest is a man
We beat them in everything.
The average woman isn't smart at all.
Giving them "equality" is wrong.

Chii59:

His post as usual is another means of debasing women.
So what if she's not interested in science? There are 1001 topics to talk about.
Silly post, silly op.

Hintona:
For goodness sake when will these dumbass Nigerian males realise that most of the girls they chat with are not just into them yikes.