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 Politics / Re: 2023: Poll Shows Peter Obi Leads Tinubu, Atiku, Kwankwaso by kinzazo(m): 4:25pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
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| Family / Re: My Parents Destroyed My Life In Guise Of Love, I'm Now Depressed Daily by kinzazo(m): 9:02pm On Sep 13, 2022 |
Try to see a psychiatrist. From your write up, it sounds like you may have major depression disorder. You admit to feeling sad, guilty, thoughts of death, worthless, not social (loss of interest)..etc. Do you also have sleeping issue (sleeping too much or too little)? These are classic symptoms for major depression. It can be treated with medication and therapy. Please seek help as soon as possible, and open up to people around you (family and friends) about your struggle. I am a medical doctor. Please do not pay attention to a lot of the nonsense people are posting here. Seek help asap. If you get treated and talk to a mental health professional, you can easily turn your life around and feel better about yourself. It is not as bad as you feel. Goodluck. 3 Likes |
| Family / Re: My Parents Destroyed My Life In Guise Of Love, I'm Now Depressed Daily by kinzazo(m): 8:52pm On Sep 13, 2022 |
You sound depressed. You need to be treated as soon as possible. You will likely need therapy and maybe medications too. Please get help as quickly as possible before it gets worse. |
| Family / Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by kinzazo(m): 6:00pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
[b] First, you have to understand it is not about you, since he was doing this before you moved in together. Do not let this affect your mental health or lead you to depression. It is his problem and it has got nothing to do with you. The real question or choice for you is do you love him and want to keep the marriage? If yes, then you will need to help him. Think of him as someone who is sick, and sometimes cannot control what he does. I will give a few pointers below on how you can help him. He needs help and prayers. Deep down, he may not like what he is doing but it is an addiction that he may not even have control over. Do not fight or quarrel with him because he will find more ways to hide it from you. Open up to him, do not judge him and ask him to explain the addiction struggles to you in an empathetic way. Encourage him to seek help with addiction specialist (psychologist) and also prayers with a Pastor (or someone religious/matured that he respects and will not judge him). Discuss with him about are the cues that prompt the sexual urge, is it movies, music, work place etc. Help him work on suppressing the urge and cues. You both also need to work on your sexual life, you need open communication, are there things he wants from sex that you both are not doing right now. Seeking an addiction specialist (psychologist) will really help with the communication about sexual needs especially if you have sessions together. Avoid discussing the issue with his relatives or friends. Handle the issue together as a family. You both need to pray together fervently as a family. Also know that he may still relapse in his journey to redemption, but ultimately with God and your support he will be victorious. I wish you good luck. Always remember that it is not about you and do not drive yourself to depression. May God help your family. [/b] |
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