Hi Nairaland, i am new to this site and i want some help from my Naira people. I am a 27yr living in canada, Jamaican background. Currently in a relationship with a Nigerina man for 3yrs now. when we met he said that he has a babymother and one child, and that he has a step daughter ( babymothers daughter ) they have a house together and which he says that he is unhappy with her and wants his own. he does not do anything for a living other then the 419 , during this 3yr relationship, he has gone away to jail in which i waited for him. ( i know i was wrong for taking another woman's man, but he said he is not happy at home. ) he cam out and i gave him 6mth to get his self together. I fixed a resume for him assisted him to look for jobs, even got him into going to church. we now go every sunday together. at the beginning of our relationship he never use to spend nights with me only the days then come to realise that he must still be in a relationship with this woman. finally he caught her ( the babymother) cheating on him and now he clams he is all mine. he said that we are going to move in together and start something. now that it is
time for us to move in he is telling me he needs to get his own place so that his child does not feel out of place??/ oh i have not yet met his child. Nope and we been together for 3yrs now. i have spoken to his mother who is living in Nigeria, and according to him she asks about me frequently. i guess what i want to know is , is this guy really for real about us or is he playing games?