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When we complain about the sordid state Nigeria is in, I always say we should do better as a people.
You shouldn’t find it convenient to commit fraud or forgery, nor encourage people to do so.
Someone has an issue stemming from earlier fraud, and you want the person to ditch coming clean in and pleading the case legally in place of further forgery?
There is indeed serious problems with Nigeria.

Well I won’t blame you, there are more than one solution to a problem.. you haven’t offered any .
I hope you feel justified and happy after your reply y

adigunalago:
Gurus in the house,wahala don set like this o. I and my daughter's visa was refused and i have been scheduled for a follow up interview.
My story:
Single dad met single mom. I have a girl child and she has a girl child too. We were doing things and just decided to go on vacation. The mumu in me without being officially married to her asked her to take my surname as well as her daughter. And i even claimed to be the father of her daughter .Things went sour and we both went our separate ways. Aunty has japa to US finally with her daughter. I am certain that is the reason our visa was refused. My daughter is an inquisitive person, i am worried about how she might react when i respond to ECO's question ( the last interview was war. she almost wanted to yell MARY IS NOT MY SISTER)

Aside the possibility of my daughter's reaction during the interview,how do i convince the ECO?

I need opinions not insults.
Thanks

Well your solution don’t really seem complicated… you claim to marry her.. you sure had proof to show she was your wife if asked during your interview.
Well the same way you arranged evidence or paper work to show you’re married, is the same way you’ll arrange evidence/paperwork to show you’re divorced period! Make it fall into the period you guys were both in naija.
You already lied and it will take a lot of appeal and filing and huge load of stress to fix that cos it’s registered in the system, even your spouse sure travels with the married status which will definitely affect her over there depending on if she’s getting paper via marriage.
You can always renew or apply with additional divorced papers to set yourself free.
P.S Legal adviser will only delay and waste your money
All the best.