Am May 12, Anyone?

hw much is it?

I think you seriously need to have a chat.

If a girl is scared of her wedding date, then there is a problem, wedding plans should be the most exciting topic for any engaged couple

@ Poster,

I am really sorry u had to experience this and i understsand your pain. Truth is that a Girl that truly loves you and cherises you will not cheat carrying ur baby.

Have you considered the fact that maybe she is tired of the relationship and wants to experience something new since you have been going out that long.

Also, the fact that she cooked and bought gifts for the other guy says that the relationship wasnt just a fling, it meant something to her.

I will advise that you have a serious Tete-a-Tete ( chat ) with her to understand her reason for cheating on you.

Do not use love and emotion becloud your reasoning and there are other better girls out there!

One heartbreak is like a thousand lessons.
Loving again is learning them.

Guys, i understand that you feel i am being distracted by the older guy, but truth is that i am not! I would not have had a second thot at the older guy's proposal if it was the case.

Truth is that some young upcoming guys get too much wahala, insecurity and jealousy for body, and the reason why chicks now prefer older more matured men for peace of mind and understanding. Sometimes, i wonder if guys really know what they have, maybe until they loose it.

I still love him but this attitude really depresses me.

@ sonye, babes i feel your pains, what is the reason for your decision and what do you intend to do about ur situation now? Do you still love him?

Thanks, i feel better now, i think we will need to talk

Thanks for the advise guys

@igwe and postwise, he is quick to anger and over reacts when he is angry. Very petty issues gets him angry and he is not patient to understand the situation before he reacts, but later when he is calm and i explain things, he starts to beg. He is also suspicious, insecured, and a bit childish

I am just scared that one day, he will over react over nothing and spoil things, and later realise his mistake when its too late.

i am not bothered with the fact that he has nothing financially becos he is very ambitious, but atleast he should make up wit other qualities.

Right now, i don't feel anything emotionally - and this worries me so much.

The wedding is in 2 weeks and am confused, should i just endure it all

My pple, i am in a fix and need ur advise oo.

I had 2 suitors, a rich older man and a younger upcoming guy. I went for the younger guy because i felt love is basic in marriage not money and i loved him. Besides, the guy has future prospects and i am ready to grow wit him.

Now that i have accepted his proposal and we r planning the marriage, i have noticed attitudes which i detest and also realised that he is not my kind of guy. We have talked about his attitude several times and he tells me that he is working hard to change but i think my love is weakening and am not sure if i still love him.

we are still proceeding with the wedding but i am confused cos i dnt want to pull out now that it is deep neither do i want to go into something that i won't cherish. Apart from his attitude, they are other xteristics which i don't find attractive

I will be going to Lagos tommorrow to buy wedding stuffs but am nt sure now.

is this just me being paranoid and inconsiderate or do i need to have a second think about our wedding?