P1PrinceKT:
I'm talking about when the deadline is passed. We have to go to neighboring countries to deposit our moneys?

You dey mind dem for Nigeria?

Bobodee09:
We have lot of foolish weak men this days.

A foolish weak man is instead a man who thinks his wife is his pikin as she said, and not his partner and equal.

Lalami3232:
Provided the marriage is in peace, I have nothing to say. But coming outside to boast about it, E no make sense to me. What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news Oga to if you no meet your wife as a virgin, oga go for DNA test oooooo because boreholes aka non-virgins can't be trusted atall atall

Its OK for a man to boast that he has his wife wrapped around his finger but not OK for a woman to equally boast of the same?

Promoting Anioma culture while wearing Hausa gab in a lot of his pictures?

sulaak:
Dangote got it wrong. He should have first developed his oil field before he completed his refinery.

The cost of drilling a barrel of oil in Nigeria is between $25 and $48 per barrel, depending on a number of factors, including insecurity, investment, and production location. It is among, if not, the highest globally!
https://punchng.com/nigerias-48-per-barrel-oil-production-cost-global-highest-faleke/

Ibrahimado:
■ They have resolve it, in their place of work and they have relieved her of her job but the issue here is why will she be accused of stealing and of a truth, I believe her boss explanation more than her own, because the evidence and detail explanation is very clear to me, she is just crying that she can't do such and that they set her up, but it is not adding up to me.

If you already made up your mind to believe her boss over her, then you have your chosen truth which is that your wife is a thief, right? Whether she is crying or not, your mind is made up that she is a thief. It seems very simple to me. So, what are you bugging about?

Ibrahimado:
■ We don't stay in same state for now, she left my place about 10 days ago after two days that was when this accusations came in, and when she was going I gave her 50k.
■ So it baffle me that just two days, she will start stealing when she even have money in her account. We have not see,since they accuse her, in order for me to judge her physically.

8 days ago and you already, behind her back, called and talked to her boss?

2. Is this person a woman and wife to you or just a child you picked up and are sponsoring? You way you regard her concerns me as it seems you are looking for a way to cast her down rather than be the supportive husband to her even through this.

AmalaAtiEwedu:
comprehend before your hand becomes a keyboard warrior

Look who's talking abeg!

AmalaAtiEwedu:
se for talk say make north give her education

Is that your understanding of what constitutes infrastructure?

wiseoneking:
Nwokem, give your life to Christ and stop smoking trash. Jesus is Lord

You can just wistfully declare these things and then expect it to be so based on your private delusions. Jesus Christ Himself declared that His Father sent Him only to the Lost(condemned) Sheep of Israel and that He would be raised like the bronze snake was raised in the desert so He could offer them eternal life. Those who are not of the specified bloodline are even shunned when He warned His followers against giving the Gospel to the dogs — non-Jacobites/Israelites. Believing otherwise is the ignorance perpetrated by religion against the gullible.

N3TRAL:
Black people have a lower Iq, on average. A few outliers are not enough to save the race.

Those outliers are proof that this has nothing to do with race but other factors.

dealslip:
■ Someone appointed few days back is who you are accusing of clout. Until last week she was not the minister of women affairs. Not every thing is clout

All the more reason why this is probably nothing but clout-chasing here. If we are to use your excuse, then she ought not to even say anything until she is properly situated in office, abi?

N3TRAL:
■ I asked the question because you claimed that : "When Africans are in society where all are encouraged to provide solution, many excel to become commendable solutions providers."

Does such a society even exist as we speak?

Black society in America, for example, still drags around its past with it — that shadow basically still colors much of the way many blacks in America reason to date. So, you can't say that such a society exists yet in America.

Great100000:
The Minister of Women’s Affairs, Imaan Sulaiman-Ibrahim, has expressed deep concern over the recent detention of 32 children, reportedly arrested on August 3, 2024, during the #EndBadGovernance protests in Kano and Kaduna states.
In a statement on Saturday, the minister acknowledged public concern regarding the treatment, safety, and rights of these detained children, stating, “The Ministry is taking active steps to address these issues.”
She added that ensuring every child’s rights is paramount, as enshrined in the Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, the Child Rights Act, and international treaties to which Nigeria is a signatory. She emphasised that every child, regardless of circumstance, is entitled to protection, dignity, and a fair judicial process under the law.

Na now the minister wake up? Or this is just the typical attempt to piggyback on the attention this issue has received in the last couple of days?

SmartPolician:
■ It seems you have a comprehension issue. Tell someone to explain what I wrote here to you.

That is clearly you, and not me at all. Go back and read the OP's major complaint again.

N3TRAL:
■ Nope, Black people have a lower IQ than any race on earth.

I disagree!

N3TRAL:
■ That's scrap in 2024 😆 Commot the link/picture.

Um... it may look like scrap to you but mentally curious people typically use whatever materials are available to them to work on these things. It is the same even in the United States.

berepiki:
This great fit can not be achieved without the grace of God... I take no credit... All glory to God. Every Single should rely on God's grace through Jesus by Faith... No sex, no Kissing before marriage is 100% possible IN CHRIST...
God rewards those that honor him with their bodies... Holiness is great gain

Nonsense!

People from other cultures, including non-Christians — yes, even Muslims— can achieve this same. All it takes is lots of self-discipline and self-control for both those involved.

SmartPolician:
■ As far as governors organise LG elections, they will still be in charge of LG allocations because they will install their stooges as LG chairmen. That's why some pundits are suggesting that Abuja INEC should organise all elections while the useless state election umpires be shut down because they cannot oversee a transparent election.

OP is not asking or concerned with the elections at this point but the fact that allocations meant for his LG are not being used where it was allocated for. Suggesting he gather the people in the LG to fight that practice is the most sensible thing to do in the current situation.

Abuja and INEC both have absolutely nothing to do with this particular issue; Also, the will of the people will always sit above Abuja if the people unite and fight for their rights no matter what.

stevnwigwe:
You can't be using money meant for Ehime mbano for example to build road in owerri.Every LGA needs to come back to life. Release our money now.

The people of Ehime Mbano ought to sue him for stealing their money and even go as far as his impeachment and prosecution for crimes against the people abeg! I really don't understand why Nigerians do absolutely nothing about this crime.

1Sharon:
■ Lol yeah. Only when it comes to gossip. But do they read books? No. Do they like to get outside their comfort zone? Nope.

I think the lack of book culture is largely to blame on Tradition/Religion. Our cultures and our religions do not typically promote the mining of knowledge and application of knowledge in such a way as to benefit us both at the family, community, and societal levels. So, the typical Nigerian child is discouraged from a young age from investing more in that curiosity in life in the acquisition of knowledge. Books are there majorly for studying and building a successful career out of and not much else.

1Sharon:
Africans are naturally an incurious group of people.

Ehn? People wey no dey too mind their own business you dey classify as incurious?

mrvitalis:
How many % of Americans or western people do this? We don't have enough rich people to have a substantial amount of people like this And most of this people with his passion come from first second or third generation money bags we haw very very few of them

Where do you get off believing this has to do with being rich?
https://www.gistreel.com/two-boys-from-northern-nigeria-build-helicopter-from-scratch/

Shadomaan7:
■ The price of petrol should be below N1000 soon, that one I can bet my last kobo on

Price of a barrel of crude has fallen so this much isn't rocket science. The problem is when will price in Nigeria stabilize to reflect this drop.

officialwdhtvv:
We are tired of seeing bridge bridge bridge in the north. Give us infrastructure - Lady says

She is right. Roads, Airports, and flyovers aren't all that is infrastructure.

chisupport:
I keep asking myself this questions, why do we not find African men taking interest in hobbies that are productive, just like Europeans and Asians.
These hobbyist are usually men who use their experiences and expertise to build, create and also manufacture home made machines etc.
They usually would form groups to share knowledge, experience, challenges and new methods.
Some groups includes, homemade engineer manufacturers, jet engine manufacturers, rail system manufacturers, etc..the list is endless
This culture as been on for centuries, and that's one of the biggest drivers of technological advancement and growth.
My question again is: Why are Africans not bothered about stuffs like this?

Such things as money, status, and sex are held above everything else in the mind of the average African even in the year 2024. A good portion of Africans still believe happiness is derived from such things.

id4sho:
■ Let her get another job but put her on close watch

Close watch, how? Is she his child abi his ward? If OP believes that his wife has kleptomaniac tendencies, then wouldn't it be best to suggest to her that seeing a psychiatrist may be the best resolution?

abbasajao:
There is no justifiable reason to find lost money in her bag. Since since has been punished for the act, please stand with her and let it be between you alone. However, watch her closely to be sure it was a one of. She might just fall for a set up. Spirit attached to money is very high. It takes grace of God to be free from money temptation.

Self-discipline and self-control is what it takes, not your grace of God... you all use that phrase as an excuse not to do what ought to be common sense.

angelboy01:
These things still boil down to their way of life down there. Sometimes you might think it's religion but it's actually not. These guys are just born radicals. In all of these though their Traditional Rulers, Imams and their evil leaders should pay the money FG requested. I don't know why it's so hard for their leaders down there to create a meaningful impact in their states there. All they do and act is primitive and backward way of life, create Almajiri schools and be teachind Arabic morning till night. Then later they tell them to start shoe making businesses. I curse their religious leaders and all those evil men holding these kids destiny in their hands.

Radicals? Are they worse than the agberos and cult boys prevalent in all of southern Nigeria? All many of them did was protest against hunger and your government took the chance to blame them for some of the worst. Have we already forgotten about the man who was arrested as the mastermind behind the flying of Russian flags during the protest?

MrAmbrose:
Imagine the effontary, telling your own husband to gerrout? May we not marry what will take us to our early grave, that man should move on with his life, cos she no longer loves him. So disheartening.

Isn't that pretty much what many men do when caught cheating by their women? The effrontery is the same!

Ibrahimado:
1) She save all her contact in her email, and her email is log into my phone.
2) I don't have such intentions to reveal her secret to my family or her
3) I'm not considering divorce but ways to hand it more efficiently and maturely. She is a lovely wife every man can wish for but it hurt to know your wife reputation is stained.

1. Her email logs into your phone so you took it on yourself to, without her permission, converse with her boss?

2. Then why mention your family as though they needed to know about your wife's vices from you?

3. Ways to handle what? I am not sure what the details are but shouldn't you be there for your wife no matter what? If it turns out she stole it, shouldn't you be on her side still and be there for her to confess and talk to instead?

Ibrahimado:
■ .....Last week, I had conversations with her boss and her boss open everything/story for me, it break my heart that her name is associated with stealing and just that last week, when she came to my place of work, I gave her 50k for her up keeping. And I do send her 10k weekly feeding, we don't stay in same place. She stay in Benin why I work in lagos. She stay alone. She is a very fervent Christian and it is hurting me since a week now, that my woman can be accuse of stealing. I don't steal and it is against my principle. She don't lack in that place of her work.
■ .I have not informed my family and her family. Because I don't want her to lose the respect they accord her. It is breaking me since a week now. What should I do my fellow people, I will be glad with all your inputs. I'm a nairaland of over 13 years.
Moreover, she has not steal from me and she don't ask too much money from me, she is always a contented person. She don't spend outrageously like me, no extra expenses/bill on her from her side or my side.
■ .Still I'm hearing all this thing from the first time. She is even her church treasurer for over 6years and her pastor has been calling me and telling me that she can't do it but I'm confused because the evidence is very glance in my eye from her boss narrative.

How did you come to having a conversation with your wife's boss? Does she also have conversations with your own boss or something?

2. Do you actually intend to tell your family that your wife was accused of stealing by her boss? WOW... Jeeezzzz...

3. WOW... is it me or does it sound like you are even considering divorcing her at this point?