Hi all, i need to make a choice between resigning my appointment with a renowned financial institution and going abroad to further my studies. I'm at a crossed road.

Twizzy30:
Dis woman neva carry belle

Your business?

fumisko:
Wait. I don't even get u. Don't you touch your husband's dick and rub it as pre intimacy before making love? So what's the big deal? when u see him do it, be loving, tell him babe i am here and u dint even call me to me help u with that, Haba...and give him a sweet handjob. before u know it has moved into the real humping knacking of sex. No wonder there are so many married men cheating...women be more open or prostitutes who are outside would take care of your man...so u can't give ur man a Mouth Gig?...the bible said his body has become yours and yours his...so anything is accepted ma, even if you want to eat his shit...relax be open..have sex with him on the floor, in the kitchen, make it fun...even if you are fat and ugly and you spontaneous, he won't see that unattractive part, give him a hand job in the car on your way from an occasion one evening...or in the morning when he is going to work give him a Mouth Action...if he has a personal office at work...pay him a visit...lock the door tell him u where finking of him all day at work and need a 5 min quickie.
Be spontaneous
It's a shame Dt u r there n he is masturbating him self...Wat is your use...if his libido is high is one blowwjob per day too much to give the Man U claim to love if that's what makes him happy? Haba. He shldnt evn masturbate at all cus masturbation should be equal to u giving him a hand job.
My question is how do u even have sex with him because if his touching his dick is irritating u, I wonder then if u ever touch it as preintimacy or u suffer d poor guy
Christainity doesn't stop this Abeg all u over religious women
Safe your home please abeg
Be prayertizing what is not a problem. There are better things on God's table like hungry people n people with cancer
Better safe ur home before he starts visiting ashewo. Thank God he never start
Ur spontaneous acts shld b porn enuf Dt he won't evn remember it

Sister adviser, thanks for the advice but wait till you are married by then God will give you the power to follow through with your advice.

jclassiq:
seems to me like you are a very selfish woman. Who wouldnt prefer masturbation?

Don't get you, please expantiate. 'Selfish cos i don't prefer masturbation'. Prefer masturbation to what?

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Na wa o, see as advice dey flow both realistic and unrealistic ones. The ones that want us stop work and turn sex to full time job, your head dey ther; the ones that want us to turn dick to chewing stick, you are well sighted. I appreciate all for their contributions, your homes and marriages will not hit the rock and the wisdom to manage our homes may God give us.

ifyalways:

No wonder the poor man prefers mastuurbation as opposed to dealing with your contentious self.

Abeg carry your seexual frustrations commot for my front. I no send you o.

Shioor.

You don't need to be pained. Next time learn not to comment if you don't have reasonable contribution

ifyalways:

How is that a problem for you? does it affect his performance with you?

It's disgusting to you? Stop watching him. . .

You can't force an adult to stop doing whatever he enjoys, he can only stop of his own freewill and time. You also don't have to join him, unless ofcourse you are a secret wannnker, in which case its hypocrital of you to judge him.

No one is forcing anything. It's clear you don't have the ideas I requested so why comment? I should stop watching when I wake up on him doing it or I walk in on him while in the act. Mtchew

Bibors:
You never needed help, you have always had the same fantasies and probably do the act though in secret. Now you have seen the advice that a woman can do better and you jump on it.
There is always a monster/ demon created in you when you start doing wrong things deliberately. Your hubby may be fighting the demon and you who may not have it want to create the monster of what you called disgusting. Go ahead and enjoy the monster

Ogade abeg shift go one side. The so called advice that 'a woman can do better' was only kidding. I don't need anyone to advice me to self service or not. What I need especially from guys that used to do such and have stopped is ideas to make him stop cos it irritates me.

Dyt:


I actually don't mean you should start doing it

But he just has some fantasies to be fulfilled

Lol, but we all have some crazy fantasies at one time or the other. Self control and discipline is the key thing. I've discussed it with him on several occasion and he doesn't have any cogent reason for going into the act, probably when I start mine, he will see how disgusting it looks and this will make him stop.

Dyt:
They say what a man can do
A woman can do it better ke

Thank you.

It is always the woman that is the problem for her husband's misbehaviour. If it was the other way round, the woman will be tagged promiscuous or nymphomaniac.

Please what can I do, my husband seems to be addicted to porn and masturbation. He does it at every opportunity he has, even on our matrimonial bed and it's quite disgusting.