ETOTEE:
Myomy, my advice is to look inward and analyse the situation. What exactly could be the problem. Am i doing something that my husband does not like? Could it be a habit? You are a woman and the same women he meets outside are not any better than you are. Infact you are better than the women out there. You are he's soulmate. There are so many things that could actually drive a man or woman to seek solace outside. Sex could be one of the major factors. If a married man is not sexually satisfied at home, he tends to find solace outside. Are there are habits that need to be changed? Do you have a listening ear? Do you have the patience to listen to what he'got to say? Have you ever thot why he rather prefers to seat and watch TV without you? Have you tried cooking he's favourite dish when he's in a more relaxed mood. You say he plays with he's phone. Have you tried sending text messages to him not to complain but to appreciate him. Your husband is a man. Make him feel as the head of the home. You need to try as much as possible to avoid/stop quarrels.

Marriage needs a lot of understanding. As the lady you really need to be patient and prayerful

Take care. It is well