Persephone1:
That's true😃

Death to all stingy men, they don't make the world go round 😠

Imagine talk. SMH

Kobojunkie:
1. Your bible is an inanimate object, it does not "tell" you anything.

2. God has no hand in your marriages nor did He command anyone of you to condone any of what you do in marriage for His sake. He made this abundantly clear when Jesus Christ ensured first that

■ Your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God - Luke 20 vs 34 - 36. God washed his hands off marriages from Genesis 3 vs 16 after Adam literally accused God of giving Him a wife who caused Him to sin against God.
■ Jesus Christ said those who belong to Him will abandon father, mother, husband, wife, even children in order to become worthy of Him - Matthew 10 vs 34 - 39 - so, again, God has no interest in your staying married no matter what. Your ideas of marital sustenance amount to bullsheet where God is concerned.
■ Jesus Christ, to those who are married, made it known that divorce isn't a sin for those who wish to follow Him. This all means that those of you who choose to sit tight in marriage has absolutely nothing to do with Him in your decisions - Matthew 5 vs 31 - 32 & Matthew 19 vs 7 - 9 & Mark 10 vs 10- 12 & Luke 16 vs 18

Clearly, the sufferings which you endure in marriage are removed from God and that which He commands. So, don't use me as your shame pin cushion here. Admit that the one you are instead ashamed of is Jesus Christ who made it clear that your marriages have nothing to do with the Kingdom of God.

This Guy!!! SMH

zed7:

Own up that you goofed. AS is different from SS. The sister is AS and the copy and paste advice was tips to help an SS patient.

What is so hard in saying you made a mistake? AS patients are as normal as AA and only show signs of sickling in high altitude. They don't need any special care during pregnancy and childbirth, only SS do. The sister isn't going to experience a 'crisis ' during childbirth.

Go and read your quote again. You goofed, don't further increase your ignorance level. The only reason I'm even bothering replying and correcting you is because I dislike people who copy articles without understanding them and thereby spreading falsehood.

I won't bring myself so low to your level man, like I said earlier stop assuming everyone is so dumb as you are. My explanation is straight and detailed enough for anyone to understand. I don't know why you feel the need to attack my comment, you don't know me from anywhere and you just assume my comment was copied from somewhere. Man please get a life!

Note: AS and SS are both related to the sickle cell gene

OurTruth24:
What is an NPC

An NPC is a human created by the beings controlling our world to protect the illusion that they've created. NPC's act as a distraction to actual souls, and they help to maintain the prison planet order established on earth.

NPCs don't have a soul. When they die they don't reincarnate. They are like biological Androids built for a specific purpose.

Your belief is really messing things up for you man.

zed7:



The sister doesn't have sickle cell. The epistle you copied doesn't apply here.

Seriously am not suppose to reply you because it's obvious you don't know what you are saying but don't worry I'll explain and I hope you learn from this.
The AS genotype is also known as sickle cell trait. Sickle cell trait is an inherited condition in which a person has one normal hemoglobin gene (HbA) and one abnormal hemoglobin gene (HbS). If you still don't understand, Google is your friend.
And stop assuming everyone is so dumb like you. Peace

zed7:


What exactly are you writing? You didn't read before copying and pasting.

@ topic,
Allow your sister be, she's not a kid. Her choices, her life. The consequences of any bad decision will be hers to face. What's with the misleading topic? Why are you dying? Better grow up.

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yumyogo:
Hello Nairalanders,

I'm need some form of advice.. It's not been easy talking about my personal experiences and i might not write on this platform anymore.

Words are not even enough to express all that I've been through, all you've been reading is only a simpler version of all that has happened but it's fine.

I used to think I could do it by myself.. raise my boys alone but right now I guess I lack the emotional backing to do so. I'm Lonely, I have no one to talk to .. no family friends to visit or hang out with asides my own family.

Days back my son was crying and all he was saying is "Daddy... Daddy..." it made me feel bad. He needs his Dad too and so does my unborn kid too.

While some would say "Cheating isn't enough to leave my home" I agree.. I've always forgiven him but it's unending. On two occasions he's infected me and claimed it wasn't him. I don't want to keep forgiving till he gets me infected with HIV.

Why am I writing now? I'm actually very Lonely, being a single mum isn't fun. I don't know how to go about this.. I'm not as strong as I had thought. I'm only 25 and it feels like my life is over already... How do I get over this, I need to be strong for my kids but it's not working. Are there activities I could engage in to help me get over this stage at least till I'm able to stand alone?

P.S: I called him so his son could talk to him but he was in a hotel with another woman (I'm not guessing)

I'm sorry to hear that you are going through a difficult time. Here are some steps that you can take to get the help and support you need:

Talk to someone: You need to confide in someone you trusts, such as a friend, family member, or counselor. It's important for you to have someone to talk to who can offer support and perspective.

Join a support group: There are many support groups for single parents, including groups specifically for single mothers. These groups can provide you with a sense of community and support.

Prioritize self-care: It's important for you to take care of yourself physically and emotionally during this stressful time. I will encourage you to make time for self-care activities, such as exercise, meditation, or spending time with friends.

Consider therapy: A therapist can provide you with tools and strategies for coping with your husband's infidelity and the stress of being a single parent. You can find a therapist through online directories, or local mental health clinics.

Please remember that your well-being and safety are the top priority.

caution001:
Dear nairalanders,
Help me, I'm actually seeking advice for someone because the person is at a point she has allowed her past to dictate the recent trouble she brought upon herself. Anyway the person is my sister. She had several abortions years back. In year 2020, she is in her early 30s when she met a guy and they both agreed to do introduction, of which they did but the guy is not aware of her past. But it was quite unfortunate to discover the both of them has AS genotype at the time they were preparing for their traditional marriage and the parents of the bride disagreed, my parents. Later, the groom parents also disagreed considering the implications of two AS marrying each other. I personally pleaded with my sister that she should let the guy go but she wouldn't listen. Fast forward to this year. She told me she is pregnant for the same guy they are both incompatible as regards to the genotype. My parents are not yet aware but if they know they will disown her with immediate effect.
What can she do please? Because she's seeking my opinion but I personally don't know what she can do because I have warned her several times.


Please advice.

If your sister and her spouse both have sickle cell trait (AS), then there is a 25% chance that their child will be born with sickle cell disease (SS). It is important for your sister to speak with a healthcare provider who is familiar with sickle cell disease to discuss her options and to develop a plan for her pregnancy.

Here are some general tips that your sister can follow to help ensure a healthy pregnancy:

Seek prenatal care early and regularly: It's important for your sister to receive regular prenatal care to monitor her health and the health of her baby. Her healthcare provider may recommend more frequent visits or specific tests based on her medical history and any complications that arise during the pregnancy.

Stay hydrated: Drinking plenty of water can help prevent dehydration, which is a common complication in people with sickle cell disease.

Get enough rest: Fatigue is a common symptom of sickle cell disease, so it's important for your sister to get enough rest and avoid overexertion.

Take folic acid supplements: Folic acid can help reduce the risk of certain birth defects. Your sister's healthcare provider may recommend a specific dose of folic acid based on her individual needs.

Consider genetic counseling: Your sister and her spouse may want to consider genetic counseling to better understand their risk of having a child with sickle cell disease and to discuss their options for future pregnancies.

Be prepared for a potential sickle cell crisis: Your sister should discuss a plan with her healthcare provider for what to do in the event of a sickle cell crisis, which is a sudden and severe pain episode that can occur in people with sickle cell disease.

It's important for your sister to remember that having sickle cell disease does not mean that she cannot have a healthy pregnancy and a healthy baby. With proper care and management, she can increase her chances of a successful pregnancy and delivery

Saintinoo:


Boss pls we need to talk, concerning your experience, i will need your advice.

pls drop me your whatsapp number, maybe on a dead thread.

Connect with me through email

Truthsoldier:
I have come to hear some people say that they would never marry a virgin,with funny reasons for that, some said they would bleep any girl but when they come to marriage they will surely marry a virgin,but that's funny too.
Virginity is good but that's not the only thing to look out for,infact it is not the primary reason when looking for a wife as some religious people paint it,it is nice but not the major thing, what I think that a man should look out for in choosing a marriage partner is CHARACTER,sound character.

What do you think

You are right, getting married to a virgin is not a bad idea but that aint enough for the marriage to last long. I met my wife (now ex) a virgin and we went on for 5 years before we got engaged, little did I know that she has a very bad character backed up with her useless family. Girl almost destroy my family, I had to let her go. Currently fight for my child's custody

Please what is this thing about mother in-law and daughter in-law that doesn’t make them get along?

Am in the middle an issue and don’t know how to proceed, let me tell you how it all started.

I’m the first born of my family, my father left us with my mom and marry another woman. To assist my mom I had to get a part time job while still in secondary school and this really affect my life.

Fast forward to 5 years ago I met my wife and we begin dating, during this time I won’t lie I saw some red flags about her family but was hoping things will change along the line. Her mom is a prophetess in a white garment church, she said my wife was her favorite in all her children. I didn’t count it because I see it as a normal thing for a mother to love her child endlessly.

To cut the long story short, last year my babe got pregnant and we decided to introduce both families and after that she will go stay with my mom for a while because am not always around and she need someone at home with her.

Now during this time mom do complain that she’s not free and do isolate herself from the rest of the family, on many occasion I’ll sit her down and we talk things out only for it to repeat itself.

On the second month of her stay with my mom I told her to go visit her mom maybe when she comes back things will be better, my wife got to her house and told her mom all sort of things and the next thing she and her mom started insulting my mom. All this thing happened around March this year and since then they have been begging because I told her nothing will make me marry her again.

Family meeting upon family meeting has been going on and at the end they want me to forgive her and bring her home which my mom insist.

Now I don’t want to look like a weak man because she and her family went too far by insulting someone I love and cherish and on the other hand I don’t want my daughter to grow up without a father figure in her life, so I don’t know what to do.

Please no insult

Hello
I’m about to apply for an admission in one of Slovenia Universities, although their portal is not yet opened till January/ February 2023 but I’ll be happy if someone can share his or her experience on how to apply, how is life over there and what to watch out while applying. Also during my research I notice they don’t have an embassy here in Nigeria.

Please I’ll love it people that has been there or currently there can share their experience