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Good Morning Jzhane, Please I need your help and advice my sister. I don't know where I went wrong but my husband is not talking to me. And this has been almost four days now. My husband is a fun loving husband and father just like me. In our five years of marriage,there has never a day we went without speaking with each other no matter the level of disagreement. What happened is that about two weeks ago,we were both in bed around 9.30pm or so. I was reading a book and he was on his phone. Immediately I heard him say: Sh*t...damn!...I turned and asked him what was the matter. He said nothing. Just that he saw some ugly picture online. I asked to see the picture and he said its graphic and he knows I hate to see graphic pictures. So I told him I will pass in that case. He then asked me for my phone. I asked him for what,he said he needs to get someone's no. I gave it to him and he took it,pretended to be taking a number and passed it back to me. Later on,a few minutes before I fell asleep,I went through my phone like I normally do for any last minute notification for the day. It was then I saw the ..... ....read and comment on full story @ https://livelystones.com.ng/my-husband-wont-talk-but-i-find-it-hard-to-believe-nothing-happened/ |
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Good Evening ma, I dated my ex boyfriend for four years but he refused to marry me. The first two years,he kept telling me to be patient that he still had things to put in place before thinking of marriage. I was patient with him until the fourth year when I couldn't take it any longer. I told him to marry me or I leave. That was when he told me he had no plans to marry me cos of the age difference between us. You see,I am seven years older than him. He didn't mind that when we started to date. So I was quite shocked that was his reason for refusing to marry me. I asked him why he deceived me for so long,why didn't he break up earlier,he said he liked the s*x. So apparently,he was just with me for the s*x,nothing more. I felt so hurt and I left him. Since I broke up with him,its been almost two years. He has moved on to another woman. They got married within months. Their marriage was not up to one year before my ex started to disturb me for s*x. He came back saying I am the best he ever had and he cant stay away from me. I initially fought him off but not for long because,I still loved him and I was not seeing anyone.We got back together and I fell heavily for him. He used to tell me how much he thinks about me when he is with his wife. He said he was a coward for letting me go and he regrets marrying his wife. Most times I felt bad cos I knew I was cheating with a married man but I asked God for my own,and He is yet to answer me. I am not a small girl,I have needs and its like no serious guy is coming for me so far. I still felt bad all the same so I decided to end it for real this time. Its as if God heard my prayer. I met a guy immediately I .... Read and comment on full story on the blog : https://livelystones.com.ng/he-refused-to-marry-me-cos-of-my-age-but-i-still-have-feelings-for-him/ |
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Good Day LS, I want to remain anonymous. I am furious and sad and disappointed by what happened and the way my family especially my brother is treating the matter. My eldest brother who is like 9 years older than me is engaged to this Edo lady. They have been dating for about three years and they plan to get married this year. The lady is nice to me so I have no cause to dislike her even though I feel like she is a fake girl. She likes all things fake,very materialistic too. I lost my parents when I was two years old so my eldest brother has been like the one taking care of all of us ,i.e,me and my other sister. We lived with him all through and when he told us he wanted to get married,he said he would rent a place close to his house so we can still be close. I dont like the idea but it seems like its his fiance trying to push us aside. Well,me and my sister talked about it and we just wanted what is best for our brother. Last week,I was in my brother's house. I came back from school feeling quite tired so I went straight to bed. Around 9pm,someone came into my room and it was Toju,my brother's fiancee's brother. He comes around sometimes when he is in town. He is a student at UNN. I attend ESUT here in Enugu. My sister is doing her NYSC in Ondo. He told me he came in and no body has been at home that he is hungry. That was when I noticed that my brother was not back. I said ok and I went to the kitchen to make him food. I finished and served him food. I then called my brother who told me that he was coming back late. I told him I kept food for him in the microwave. I then went to sleep. Not up to 30mins later,someone came into my room again. It was ....read full story and other stories on the blog : https://livelystones.com.ng/i-was-violated-in-my-brothers-house-and-he-refused-to-protect-me/ |
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its a serious case z11111: |
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Good Morning LS, I witnessed something not very good last night and I am thinking of the best thing to do. One of of my friend,( lets call her Uzo)….she is in the US with her children. She relocated last year but her husband is in Nigeria and he tries to visit them like once in six months and all. When she traveled,I asked her if she was not worried her husband might be tempted to cheat cos of her absence,she vehemently defended the man saying he can never cheat on her. Even the husband,very religious guy,committed in church and all that. He can boast that he has never looked at any other woman apart from his wife. I used to love their marriage,like wish I would have a marriage like theirs one day. But last night,I was at the club to chill out after a tough week and the strippers were there doing their thing. I am single so,yes …I still want to have fun.I saw Uzo’s husband, being seriously entertained by two strippers. I was like wow,this guy,is a church boy na…what happened to all that born again talk…lol. Its just barely a year that his wife relocated and he is already doing this?I was quite surprised but even more surprised when he left the club with two strippers. Out of curiosity,I followed them from a safe distance and they went to....Read full story from blog and leave your comments because the sender may not see it here. https://livelystones.com.ng/marriage-and-temptation-who-is-really-to-be-blamed/ |
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This is the reason ,we must be careful with what we do. Beke2020: |
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Maybe ppl living in same estate for easy sharing of info SoapQueen: |
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hmmmmm!!!! Samuelgr8: |
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Well, i advice you ask her but be ready to take whatever comes out of it. Samuelgr8: |
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the man in the story or the lady ? PureWaterNylon: |
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Get very creative in your approach. Get her family,friends and all to beg her. Get her pastors,a counselor. You need to win her heart by all means. And my hope is that you have truly changed. Beke2020: |
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Good day LS, My ex wife and I have been divorced for two years now. I cheated on her and our marriage never recovered from that. We tried to make things work but we just felt so hurt and broken after that. Now,when I look at the past,I think apart from the cheating,I didnt help matters much. This is because,I didnt work hard enough to make my marriage work. My wife asked me to attend a counseling session with her but I refused. I was too proud. I didnt want anyone coming into our private life and telling me what to do. I was also angry when my wife served me the divorce papers six months after that. I felt like I could do without her so in my pride,I signed it and before I knew it,the divorce was completed. Its been two years after that and if I am sincere,I have not really moved on. I still think about her alot. My heart breaks too every time I go and visit my sons. They are 3 and 5. They always want us to get back together. Instead of me to try and work things out,I started dating other women immediately. I thought that would make my wife jealous. A year after,she started seeing an old friend of mine who we lost touch with. Greg and I were friends until he relocated to Canada. He and my wife connected on facebook and started to date. Well,my wife actually told me but I pretended like I didnt care. They have been seeing each other mostly online but he visits Nigeria to see her every three months. Seeing my ex wife happy and how my old friend makes her happy makes me feel so jealous and I cant handle it. When Greg asked for my permission to date my ex wife,I .... https://livelystones.com.ng/i-lost-my-wife-once-but-it-is-over-my-dead-body-before-i-loose-her-again/ |
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My dear , discuss with your husband before taking any decision. If you must move ahead , not with the divorcee. Samuelgr8: |
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My advice is if you cant sort it out now, quit the relationship. Samuelgr8: |
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Dear LS, I am torn in my mind on what to do with my emotional state of mind. This is because,even though I am engaged to someone,I am in love with another lady. Somto and I have been dating for almost five years. She was in final year in school when we started,today she works with an NGO that caters for IDPs. With the current situation in our country,her job makes her travel quite often. Given,Sombo absolutely loves her job. Her passion to help other people who are in need is outstanding. Initially,when she took the job,I admired her for it. I was proud of her. But three years after,it appears the job is really coming in between us. We hardly see each other. And even when she is in town,she is always busy planning one event or training or something humanitarian. When we got engaged last year,I thought we would be married by the end of the year but she was hardy even arrange to plan a wedding. I didnt want to be seen as insensitive. I wanted to support her and her career and dreams to the fullest. But it appears marriage is not her first priority. But while all these are going on,I am seriously been neglected. Not helping is the fact single ladies are always around me. My boss in the office is a 36 year old beautiful woman. She is single and I always admire her she carries herself. Also a very dedicated christian. I have been attracted to her for sometime but I didnt want to pursue the idea. I mean,she is my boss for one. When we are not very busy,we talk about our personal lives and how our love lives suck. She has been unfortunate to always fall in love with the wrong guys.She on the other hand,always advised me to be patient with my fiance,Somto. The entire office worked late one night,we had a deadline and eventually,we had to leave around 10.40pm. Everyone hurriedly left the office after but my boss uber kept delaying. I offered to drop her,she refused but I insisted. We chatted as I drove her to lekki last night. When we arrived at her place,she leaned ,,,,,,,,, https://livelystones.com.ng/i-am-happy-in-love-but-i-have-to-break-up-with-her/ |
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Hello Ma, My wife left me yesterday and she took my children away with her. I have been looking for her and no one wants to tell me where she is. She switched off her phone and I cant reach her. Well,yes,something happened that made her leave. Something that happened 12 years ago when we were not even married. While we were dating in 2005 -2006,my wife (then my girlfriend) were always having issues. Some times we break up and make up after weeks. There was a time we broke up for almost one month. During that time,her younger sister came to my place. She was 19 years at the time. That was not her first time of coming to see me. Her family members and I are very close. She came and we while we were jisting,she said she broke up with her boyfriend and she was really heartbroken. She was in a bad shape that day so she came around just to talk to me cos she felt both of us were in the same boat seeing that both of us were having issues with our relationship. We spent that fateful Saturday in my place,watching movies and doing other stuff but we ended up sleeping with each other. She wanted to end her virginity. I regret yielding to her and we both regretted it and promised each other to keep it a secret. What she didnt tell me was that she actually got pregnant after that day. She had an abortion without my knowledge. All these happened during the time I broke up with her sister for a month. We made up after that and two years later we got married.Everything has been fine until this month,......Read full story from https://livelystones.com.ng/one-night-from-twelve-years-ago-is-now-tearing-my-marriage-apart/ |
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It means , she doesn't dance to attract money. I dont have anything against the lady ohhhhh BUT my concern is why will she start asking someone about her status in public? It like enforcing her opinion on one who is higher than her. Chukazu: 2 Likes |
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Bless you eezeribe: 2 Likes |
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You no even see other place to advertise your market ?? Adisao: |
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Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie interviewed Hillary Clinton at a PEN World Voices Festival lecture at the Cooper Union in Manhattan on Sunday night, and she took the opportunity to confront the former Democratic presidential candidate with something that was bothering her. Why, with all of Clinton’s career accomplishments, did her Twitter bio primarily identify her as a “Wife”? “In your Twitter account, the first word that describes you is ‘Wife.’ And then I think it’s ‘Mom,’ and then it’s ‘Grandmother,’” Adichie said. “And when I saw that, I have to confess that I felt just a little bit upset. And then I went and I looked at your husband’s Twitter account, and the first word was not ‘husband.’” (Bill Clinton’s Twitter bio leads with, ‘Founder, Clinton Foundation and 42nd President of the United States,’ for interested parties.) Adichie wanted to know if it was Clinton’s choice to first identify in relation to her husband, and if so, why. “When you put it like that, I’m going to change it,” Clinton said, prompting roars from the crowd. But she did have a pretty good explanation for why “Wife” kicked off her bio, which is that women should be able to celebrate both their accomplishments and their relationships. She told a story about hearing the late Barbara Bush speak at Wellesley in the early 1990s. “She said, you know, at the end of the day, it won’t matter if you got a raise, it won’t matter if you wrote a great book, if you are not also someone who values relationships,” Clinton recalled. And though Bush got a standing ovation after that speech, Clinton told Adichie and the PEN crowd she’s not sure Bush was right: It shouldn’t be either/or. It should be that if you are someone who is defining yourself by what you do and what you accomplish, and that is satisfying, then more power to you. That is how you should be thinking about your life, and living it. If you are someone who primarily defines your life in relationship to others, then more power to you, and live that life the way Barbara Bush lived that life, and how proud she was to do it. But I think most of us as women in today’s world end up in the middle. Wanting to have relationships, wanting to invest in them, nurture them, but also pursuing our own interests. prechbills1: |
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Like wise Chimamanda compared to Hilary Clinton. Chimamanda has no right to talk about Hillary that way. CSTR1003: 6 Likes |
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