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Romance / Re: He Refused To Marry Me Cos Of My Age But I Still Have Feelings For Him by Kumar4india: 8:42pm On May 12, 2018
Wow
Romance / Re: My Husband Wont Talk But I Find It Hard To Believe Nothing Happened! by Kumar4india: 8:41pm On May 12, 2018
Lovely
Romance / My Husband Wont Talk But I Find It Hard To Believe Nothing Happened! by Kumar4india: 10:41am On May 11, 2018
Good Morning Jzhane,

Please I need your help and advice my sister. I don't know where I went wrong but my husband is not talking to me. And this has been almost four days now. My husband is a fun loving husband and father just like me. In our five years of marriage,there has never a day we went without speaking with each other no matter the level of disagreement.

What happened is that about two weeks ago,we were both in bed around 9.30pm or so. I was reading a book and he was on his phone. Immediately I heard him say: Sh*t...damn!...I turned and asked him what was the matter. He said nothing. Just that he saw some ugly picture online. I asked to see the picture and he said its graphic and he knows I hate to see graphic pictures. So I told him I will pass in that case. He then asked me for my phone. I asked him for what,he said he needs to get someone's no. I gave it to him and he took it,pretended to be taking a number and passed it back to me. Later on,a few minutes before I fell asleep,I went through my phone like I normally do for any last minute notification for the day. It was then I saw the .....

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Romance / He Refused To Marry Me Cos Of My Age But I Still Have Feelings For Him by Kumar4india: 11:30am On May 10, 2018
Good Evening ma,

I dated my ex boyfriend for four years but he refused to marry me. The first two years,he kept telling me to be patient that he still had things to put in place before thinking of marriage. I was patient with him until the fourth year when I couldn't take it any longer. I told him to marry me or I leave. That was when he told me he had no plans to marry me cos of the age difference between us.

You see,I am seven years older than him. He didn't mind that when we started to date. So I was quite shocked that was his reason for refusing to marry me. I asked him why he deceived me for so long,why didn't he break up earlier,he said he liked the s*x. So apparently,he was just with me for the s*x,nothing more. I felt so hurt and I left him.

Since I broke up with him,its been almost two years. He has moved on to another woman. They got married within months. Their marriage was not up to one year before my ex started to disturb me for s*x. He came back saying I am the best he ever had and he cant stay away from me. I initially fought him off but not for long because,I still loved him and I was not seeing anyone.We got back together and I fell heavily for him. He used to tell me how much he thinks about me when he is with his wife. He said he was a coward for letting me go and he regrets marrying his wife.

Most times I felt bad cos I knew I was cheating with a married man but I asked God for my own,and He is yet to answer me. I am not a small girl,I have needs and its like no serious guy is coming for me so far. I still felt bad all the same so I decided to end it for real this time. Its as if God heard my prayer. I met a guy immediately I ....

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Family / I Was Violated In My Brother’s House And He Refused To Protect Me by Kumar4india: 11:53am On May 09, 2018
Good Day LS,

I want to remain anonymous. I am furious and sad and disappointed by what happened and the way my family especially my brother is treating the matter. My eldest brother who is like 9 years older than me is engaged to this Edo lady. They have been dating for about three years and they plan to get married this year. The lady is nice to me so I have no cause to dislike her even though I feel like she is a fake girl. She likes all things fake,very materialistic too. I lost my parents when I was two years old so my eldest brother has been like the one taking care of all of us ,i.e,me and my other sister. We lived with him all through and when he told us he wanted to get married,he said he would rent a place close to his house so we can still be close. I dont like the idea but it seems like its his fiance trying to push us aside. Well,me and my sister talked about it and we just wanted what is best for our brother.

Last week,I was in my brother's house. I came back from school feeling quite tired so I went straight to bed. Around 9pm,someone came into my room and it was Toju,my brother's fiancee's brother. He comes around sometimes when he is in town. He is a student at UNN. I attend ESUT here in Enugu. My sister is doing her NYSC in Ondo. He told me he came in and no body has been at home that he is hungry. That was when I noticed that my brother was not back. I said ok and I went to the kitchen to make him food. I finished and served him food. I then called my brother who told me that he was coming back late. I told him I kept food for him in the microwave. I then went to sleep.

Not up to 30mins later,someone came into my room again. It was

....read full story and other stories on the blog :

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Romance / Re: My Girl Friend Just told me that She Has No Fallopian Tube. by Kumar4india: 10:49pm On May 07, 2018
its a serious case


z11111:
Dear Aunty Jzhane,

Remember the girl I told you that I was toasting and she was proving stubborn. Well,I followed your advice and she agreed,we have been dating for two months now. I like her alot. I see us getting married by next year.  There are issues I think we still need to work on as we progress in our relationship. For example,she still allows guys to call her and I see guys compliment her on Facebook and she cannot stop them by telling them she has a boyfriend. I find that odd but I cam just taking it easy.

She was at my place this weekend and while we were just relaxing,she told me she has a secret to tell me....

Read full story and please make constructive comments on the blog for others to appreciate :


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Romance / Marriage And Temptation: Who Is Really To Be Blamed? by Kumar4india: 9:57am On May 05, 2018
Good Morning LS,

I witnessed something not very good last night and I am thinking of the best thing to do. One of of my friend,( lets call her Uzo)….she is in the US with her children. She relocated last year but her husband is in Nigeria and he tries to visit them like once in six months and all. When she traveled,I asked her if she was not worried her husband might be tempted to cheat cos of her absence,she vehemently defended the man saying he can never cheat on her. Even the husband,very religious guy,committed in church and all that. He can boast that he has never looked at any other woman apart from his wife. I used to love their marriage,like wish I would have a marriage like theirs one day.

But last night,I was at the club to chill out after a tough week and the strippers were there doing their thing. I am single so,yes …I still want to have fun.I saw Uzo’s husband, being seriously entertained by two strippers. I was like wow,this guy,is a church boy na…what happened to all that born again talk…lol. Its just barely a year that his wife relocated and he is already doing this?I was quite surprised but even more surprised when he left the club with two strippers. Out of curiosity,I followed them from a safe distance and they went to....Read full story from blog and leave your comments because the sender may not see it here.

https://livelystones.com.ng/marriage-and-temptation-who-is-really-to-be-blamed/
Romance / Re: One Night From Twelve Years Ago Is Now Tearing My Marriage Apart by Kumar4india: 7:38am On May 05, 2018
This is the reason ,we must be careful with what we do.

Beke2020:
One wrong step is all that is require to destroy you 25 years reputation
Romance / Re: My Fiancee & Her Ex :is This Naive Or Playing Me For A Fool? by Kumar4india: 7:35am On May 05, 2018
smiley

elyna:
management of funds is essential in the growth of every relationship, and is an issue that should be thoroughly discussed before marriage, all hope is not lost, he should have a heart to heart conversation with her, remind her she'll be at the receiving end if Financial difficulties set in, no woman wants to hear that part.
Romance / Re: I Lost My Wife Once But Over My Dead Body Before I Loose Her Again by Kumar4india: 7:30am On May 05, 2018
Yes Ohhhh.

Its not all Church leaders that are mature to handle certain things


Samuelgr8:
shocked shocked shocked

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Romance / Re: Should I Confront Her? by Kumar4india: 9:05pm On May 04, 2018
Maybe ppl living in same estate for easy sharing of info


SoapQueen:
Which one be estate WhatsApp group again?
Romance / Re: I Lost My Wife Once But Over My Dead Body Before I Loose Her Again by Kumar4india: 8:26pm On May 04, 2018
wat if the counsel doesnt go well?


Samuelgr8:
yes the Pastor will give the right counsel
Romance / Re: My Fiancee & Her Ex :is This Naive Or Playing Me For A Fool? by Kumar4india: 7:53pm On May 04, 2018
hmmmmm!!!!


Samuelgr8:
Dear Jzhane,

I love my fiancee. Our wedding is supposed to be in June but right now,she did something that is making me consider seriously if I should call it off. Please dont reveal my name when you post this. She also reads your blog so I dont want to embarrass her.

My fiancee thinks I am over reacting with what she did. Here is it:

I gave her one of my ATM cards so that she can always have access to money in case she cannot reach me. I am a Pilot and I am always flying.Honestly,she is not a spend drift but my issue is that she dashes people money too much.Well,she has a nice heart and people know that and always want to take advantage of her. I try to caution her and instead of her to take correction,she will say please take your card before you insult me cos of money. It has brought about fight between us several times.

I really love her and I know her business does not bring in so much sometimes. She is a fashion designer. Thats why I gave her my ATM card. Sometimes,she uses it to shop for me,to stock up my groceries,etc.

But the latest and biggest fight now is that I received.....Read full story from blog@


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Romance / Re: Should I Confront Her? by Kumar4india: 7:26pm On May 04, 2018
Well, i advice you ask her but be ready to take whatever comes out of it.


Samuelgr8:


Dear Lively Stones,

My wife and I belong to our estate whatsapp group. Recently, I needed to use her her phone as I was out of credit. Please note that I have never used her phone for anything significant before. We have been married for almost 6 years and there has never been a reason to snoop on each others phone. Occasionally we check each others phone… Maybe my wife needs to use my data or anything like that…. But never ever have we had a reason to suspect each other….so this fateful day, as I tried to use my wife phone to call… I noticed it she didn’t have enough credit as well. That’s how I ended up deciding to use whatspp call… She had data so I could use her data for whatsapp call.
After making the whatsapp call,i saw that she had some unread messages. Out of curiosity I opened a whatsapp message,it was from a man asking her to send a video of her twerking for him. I was a bit surprised…. I began to scroll to previous messages… That’s when I discovered that this man and my wife have been talking for some time now… I scrolled further and found out that,this same man has.....Read full story from:


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Romance / Re: To Break Up Or Not To Break Up: She Wont Let Go Of The Past by Kumar4india: 7:09pm On May 04, 2018
Yes ohhh. Break up is better than divorce


Samuelgr8:
Gbam!!!
Romance / Re: I Lost My Wife Once But Over My Dead Body Before I Loose Her Again by Kumar4india: 7:10pm On May 02, 2018
the man in the story or the lady ?

PureWaterNylon:



Whoever You Are. I Just Want You To Know That, you Dont Have Sense...
Romance / Re: I Lost My Wife Once But Over My Dead Body Before I Loose Her Again by Kumar4india: 10:37am On May 02, 2018
Get very creative in your approach. Get her family,friends and all to beg her. Get her pastors,a counselor. You need to win her heart by all means. And my hope is that you have truly changed.


Beke2020:
Good day LS,

My ex wife and I have been divorced for two years now. I cheated on her and our marriage never recovered from that. We tried to make things work but we just felt so hurt and broken after that. Now,when I look at the past,I think apart from the cheating,I didnt help matters much. This is because,I didnt work hard enough to make my marriage work. My wife asked me to attend a counseling session with her but I refused. I was too proud. I didnt want anyone coming into our private life and telling me what to do. I was also angry when my wife served me the divorce papers six months after that. I felt like I could do without her so in my pride,I signed it and before I knew it,the divorce was completed.

Its been two years after that and if I am sincere,I have not really moved on. I still think about her alot. My heart breaks too every time I go and visit my sons. They are 3 and 5. They always want us to get back together. Instead of me to try and work things out,I started dating other women immediately. I thought that would make my wife jealous. A year after,she started seeing an old friend of mine who we lost touch with. Greg and I were friends until he relocated to Canada. He and my wife connected on facebook and started to date. Well,my wife actually told me but I pretended like I didnt care. They have been seeing each other mostly online but he visits Nigeria to see her every two months.

Seeing my ex wife happy and how my old friend makes her happy makes me feel so jealous and I cant handle it. When Greg asked for my permission to date my ex wife,I.....



https://livelystones.com.ng/i-lost-my-wife-once-but-it-is-over-my-dead-body-before-i-loose-her-again/



Family / I Lost My Wife Once But Over My Dead Body Before I Loose Her Again by Kumar4india: 10:31am On May 02, 2018
Good day LS,

My ex wife and I have been divorced for two years now. I cheated on her and our marriage never recovered from that. We tried to make things work but we just felt so hurt and broken after that. Now,when I look at the past,I think apart from the cheating,I didnt help matters much. This is because,I didnt work hard enough to make my marriage work. My wife asked me to attend a counseling session with her but I refused. I was too proud. I didnt want anyone coming into our private life and telling me what to do. I was also angry when my wife served me the divorce papers six months after that. I felt like I could do without her so in my pride,I signed it and before I knew it,the divorce was completed.

Its been two years after that and if I am sincere,I have not really moved on. I still think about her alot. My heart breaks too every time I go and visit my sons. They are 3 and 5. They always want us to get back together. Instead of me to try and work things out,I started dating other women immediately. I thought that would make my wife jealous. A year after,she started seeing an old friend of mine who we lost touch with. Greg and I were friends until he relocated to Canada. He and my wife connected on facebook and started to date. Well,my wife actually told me but I pretended like I didnt care. They have been seeing each other mostly online but he visits Nigeria to see her every three months.

Seeing my ex wife happy and how my old friend makes her happy makes me feel so jealous and I cant handle it. When Greg asked for my permission to date my ex wife,I ....




https://livelystones.com.ng/i-lost-my-wife-once-but-it-is-over-my-dead-body-before-i-loose-her-again/
Romance / Re: Our Marriage Was Over Long Before Now,how Can I Wait 7 Years More? by Kumar4india: 12:09pm On May 01, 2018
My dear , discuss with your husband before taking any decision. If you must move ahead , not with the divorcee.

Samuelgr8:
hmnnnn, cannot escape the attack
Romance / Re: To Break Up Or Not To Break Up: She Wont Let Go Of The Past by Kumar4india: 12:05pm On May 01, 2018
My advice is if you cant sort it out now, quit the relationship.

Samuelgr8:
Dear Jzhane,

My girlfriend has serious trust issues. I have tried to accommodate her issues but it looks like this might be the end of our relationship. However,I confided in colleague who thinks that I should be patient and give i more time before making a decision.

I met Anabel last year. She had just ended her four years relationship with a guy who cheated on her. It took a while to convince her that I was real. I liked her alot cos she is very beautiful,kind and homely. Some would consider her wife material,I do too. She is the most responsible girl I ever dated. She prays alot,a very good cook and my folks really like her.


But she wants to know every female around me. If any lady comments that my facebook pictures are fine,she begins to troll them. I have had to sit with her and talked to her several times about her trust issues. When I do,she cries and says its as a result of the hurt she experienced in the past relationship she had. She always promises to work on herself but it looks like she is not working hard enough.

Because of her issues,when I recently chatted with my ex who just wished me happy new month. I didnt even think it would ever be an issue but as usual now,my babe just went off ,demanding.....



https://livelystones.com.ng/to-break-up-or-not-to-break-up-she-wont-let-go-of-the-past/
Family / I Am Happy & In Love: But I Have To Break Up With Her! by Kumar4india: 12:56pm On Apr 27, 2018
Dear LS,

I am torn in my mind on what to do with my emotional state of mind. This is because,even though I am engaged to someone,I am in love with another lady. Somto and I have been dating for almost five years. She was in final year in school when we started,today she works with an NGO that caters for IDPs.

With the current situation in our country,her job makes her travel quite often. Given,Sombo absolutely loves her job. Her passion to help other people who are in need is outstanding. Initially,when she took the job,I admired her for it. I was proud of her. But three years after,it appears the job is really coming in between us. We hardly see each other. And even when she is in town,she is always busy planning one event or training or something humanitarian. When we got engaged last year,I thought we would be married by the end of the year but she was hardy even arrange to plan a wedding. I didnt want to be seen as insensitive. I wanted to support her and her career and dreams to the fullest. But it appears marriage is not her first priority.

But while all these are going on,I am seriously been neglected. Not helping is the fact single ladies are always around me. My boss in the office is a 36 year old beautiful woman. She is single and I always admire her she carries herself. Also a very dedicated christian. I have been attracted to her for sometime but I didnt want to pursue the idea. I mean,she is my boss for one. When we are not very busy,we talk about our personal lives and how our love lives suck. She has been unfortunate to always fall in love with the wrong guys.She on the other hand,always advised me to be patient with my fiance,Somto.

The entire office worked late one night,we had a deadline and eventually,we had to leave around 10.40pm. Everyone hurriedly left the office after but my boss uber kept delaying. I offered to drop her,she refused but I insisted. We chatted as I drove her to lekki last night. When we arrived at her place,she leaned ,,,,,,,,,

https://livelystones.com.ng/i-am-happy-in-love-but-i-have-to-break-up-with-her/
Family / One Night From Twelve Years Ago Is Tearing My Marriage Apart by Kumar4india: 9:05am On Apr 27, 2018
Hello Ma,

My wife left me yesterday and she took my children away with her. I have been looking for her and no one wants to tell me where she is. She switched off her phone and I cant reach her. Well,yes,something happened that made her leave. Something that happened 12 years ago when we were not even married.

While we were dating in 2005 -2006,my wife (then my girlfriend) were always having issues. Some times we break up and make up after weeks. There was a time we broke up for almost one month. During that time,her younger sister came to my place. She was 19 years at the time. That was not her first time of coming to see me. Her family members and I are very close. She came and we while we were jisting,she said she broke up with her boyfriend and she was really heartbroken. She was in a bad shape that day so she came around just to talk to me cos she felt both of us were in the same boat seeing that both of us were having issues with our relationship. We spent that fateful Saturday in my place,watching movies and doing other stuff but we ended up sleeping with each other. She wanted to end her virginity. I regret yielding to her and we both regretted it and promised each other to keep it a secret.

What she didnt tell me was that she actually got pregnant after that day. She had an abortion without my knowledge. All these happened during the time I broke up with her sister for a month. We made up after that and two years later we got married.Everything has been fine until this month,......Read full story from





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Literature / Re: Chimamanda Adichie Responds To Critics On Hillary Clinton’s Twitter Bio Question by Kumar4india: 7:53am On Apr 25, 2018
It means , she doesn't dance to attract money.

I dont have anything against the lady ohhhhh BUT my concern is why will she start asking someone about her status in public? It like enforcing her opinion on one who is higher than her.

Chukazu:
" Adirom agba egwu ka m data ego."


what does that mean though?



She needs Data for her phone? undecided


Back to the topic.

Her problem was that Hillary Clinton used such to describe herself while her husband Bill Clinton didn't reciprocate same.

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Literature / Re: Chimamanda Adichie Responds To Critics On Hillary Clinton’s Twitter Bio Question by Kumar4india: 7:45am On Apr 25, 2018
Bless you

eezeribe:
Chimamanda can dissect Hillary Clinton as much as she likes;but one thing remains certain,the likes of Hillary Clinton and Michelle Obama will forever remain more highly rated than Ngozi Adichie...
Hillary Clinton is a proud WIFE of former US president and one of the most influential men in the world,Bill Clinton;while Chimamanda remains the wife of a nobody,a man who is so weak that his wife can't even bear his surname.
I have nothing against TRUE FEMINISM,but there is a thin line between COMMON SENSE and NONSENSE.

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Romance / Re: My Wife’s Former Employer Violated Her,will I Find Out The Truth? by Kumar4india: 11:54am On Apr 24, 2018
You no even see other place to advertise your market ??

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Romance / Re: My Uncle’s Fiancee & Her Friend: The Devil & The Deep Blue Sea! by Kumar4india: 11:43am On Apr 24, 2018
Thats if it has started already .


Beke2020:
Hope this doesn't get to naija shaa
Romance / Re: Confused And Feeling Guilty:am I Responsible For My Husband’s Death? by Kumar4india: 11:41am On Apr 24, 2018
smiley smiley smiley

Beke2020:
hmnnnn
Romance / Re: Will My Husband To Be Ever Love My Children From My Boyfriend? by Kumar4india: 11:39am On Apr 24, 2018
smiley smiley

debaj10:
shuo.
dia papa stii dey, yet d guy gree mari u?!
wey u for don book d8 wit pastor, u com hia dey ax nonsense kweshun?
u must b a Capet.
bunkum.
Romance / Re: Sister Love: My Sister’s Boyfriend Is So Hot And Irresistible by Kumar4india: 11:27am On Apr 24, 2018
It will be out on your birthday.

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Celebrities / Re: Chimamanda Thinks Like A Backward Clock - Dencia by Kumar4india: 6:41am On Apr 24, 2018
Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie interviewed Hillary Clinton at a PEN World Voices Festival lecture at the Cooper Union in Manhattan on Sunday night, and she took the opportunity to confront the former Democratic presidential candidate with something that was bothering her. Why, with all of Clinton’s career accomplishments, did her Twitter bio primarily identify her as a “Wife”?

“In your Twitter account, the first word that describes you is ‘Wife.’ And then I think it’s ‘Mom,’ and then it’s ‘Grandmother,’” Adichie said. “And when I saw that, I have to confess that I felt just a little bit upset. And then I went and I looked at your husband’s Twitter account, and the first word was not ‘husband.’” (Bill Clinton’s Twitter bio leads with, ‘Founder, Clinton Foundation and 42nd President of the United States,’ for interested parties.)

Adichie wanted to know if it was Clinton’s choice to first identify in relation to her husband, and if so, why. “When you put it like that, I’m going to change it,” Clinton said, prompting roars from the crowd. But she did have a pretty good explanation for why “Wife” kicked off her bio, which is that women should be able to celebrate both their accomplishments and their relationships. She told a story about hearing the late Barbara Bush speak at Wellesley in the early 1990s. “She said, you know, at the end of the day, it won’t matter if you got a raise, it won’t matter if you wrote a great book, if you are not also someone who values relationships,” Clinton recalled.

And though Bush got a standing ovation after that speech, Clinton told Adichie and the PEN crowd she’s not sure Bush was right:

It shouldn’t be either/or. It should be that if you are someone who is defining yourself by what you do and what you accomplish, and that is satisfying, then more power to you. That is how you should be thinking about your life, and living it. If you are someone who primarily defines your life in relationship to others, then more power to you, and live that life the way Barbara Bush lived that life, and how proud she was to do it.

But I think most of us as women in today’s world end up in the middle. Wanting to have relationships, wanting to invest in them, nurture them, but also pursuing our own interests.





prechbills1:
Chimamanda thinks like a backward clock - Dencia

she also said;
Feminism isn’t about cooking & cleaning or whatsoever but like I stated, most of her followers I know will say “they won’t be under a man or whatsoever & when u tell them she is married with a child they are so shocked, her life & feminist ways work for her, the average person sees feminism in a different way.Do u guys know how hard it is being married to someone or raising kids? If a woman thinks that’s something she should be proud of, why even question that? If feminism isn’t about marriage & all why even question her bio? Infact who even questions people’s SM bio? It’s just SM, ladies, live ur lives as u please, don’t let others lives & what works or doesn’t work for others determine ur life.Ur face feminist are humans like u figuring out their lives day by day.Just be humans and stop the extra Tags!! Women already are higher up than men cuz they birth men, stop fighting positions u already have, u raise men, these are ur kids !! Wear ur crown � queens and live ur life.




©Nairaland 2018.
Celebrities / Re: Chimamanda Thinks Like A Backward Clock - Dencia by Kumar4india: 6:32am On Apr 24, 2018
Like wise Chimamanda compared to Hilary Clinton. Chimamanda has no right to talk about Hillary that way.


CSTR1003:
smh.

Dencia must have hurt herself trying to think. smiley


The places chimamanda have entered and dominated , dencia would be chased away with police dogs.


Attention seeking bleacher that does not know her level.

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