Please, dont ever try it or you may regret it.

ORAGBON:
Dear Jzhane,

Please advise me. I am totally confused,and I dont know what to do.

I have been married for almost four years now. We have been trying to conceive since we got married but it is yet to happen.


Last Year,after plenty arguments,my husband and I started fertility treatments. During the process,one if the tests showed that my husband has zero sperm count. That means,he does not produce sperm,that means he cannot father a child.

We were both heart broken and we started looking at other options we could acquire to help us have children. We were looking to adopt and we had started looking into the possibility when my mother in law invited me to see her in Owerri.

I went to see her and she told me not to adopt another man’s child when I can still have my own. She said that there is nothing like having your own child. That the adopted child will never feel like your own especially when they grow up and begin to ask questions

I was wondering how she meant we should have our own child when it was clear that my husband,her son is impotent.

It was at that point that my dear mother in-law told me that she has a plan for me to have our own child if I....see more


http://livelystones.com.ng/my-mother-in-law-wants-me-to-sleep-with-another-man/

What type of nonsense is this ?
Some people just like to look for trouble.
Always lock your door each time you are inside your room with hubby.

ORAGBON:
Jzhane 28/12/2017 Marriage No Comments

Dear Admin,

Please i need your help. Am newly married to a guy i love so much.Our marriage is less than one year.
My husband loves his family but has a lot of respect for his elder brother. In-shut the way he talks about and carry this his matter was a major concern when we were courting. Its as though his elder brother is everything. I thought that was no big deal. So, i didn’t have to worry so much, believing everything will fall into their right places once we get married. But, it like am in a dream world now, as things keep deteriorating right in my eyes.
The major one now that is making me cry out for help, which i cannot no longer tolerate is my husband elder brother’s first visit. He has spent just two days with us, but is fond of always dashing into our matrimonial bed room without knocking, whenever he has just anything to say or ask his brother, not caring if we are naked or even making love. He has done this three times now. I held myself out of respect for my husband the first two times he did it. But on the third time i had to raise my voice after he left the bedroom, so that he could hear me saying that this is our bedroom for God sake and i demand some privacy....Read More

http://livelystones.com.ng/handle-husband-elder-brother-excesses/

yiu are a wicked woman while your ex is a wicked man.

z11111:
Dear Lively Stones Admin ,

Thank you for the impart your platform is making ,kindly share this with nairanders and your readers.

I am so sorry for what am about to say but I need help thats why I am writing to a relationship blog for advice.

My ex and I dated for three years and he cheated with me with someone I know and that prompted me to break up with him in anger. And just to show him I could move on without him,I married the first guy that showed up and we got married in less than a year. I know I made a mistake but I was hoping to find love quickly cos I was too heartbroken from the infidelity of my ex.

However,I knew in my heart,I never really got over my ex. A year after my marriage....

http://livelystones.com.ng/my-ex-and-i-are-flirty-and-i-dont-care-that-his-wife-knows/

One just have to be careful in the things we do ,if not ,it will hurt our life.

z11111:
Good evening Admin,

I met a lady through a whatsapp group that I belong to. We started first by talking normally until we became flirty and started sex chatting. I chatted with her for almost three months until we both too Hot and started having phone intimacy. We then decided that it was time to meet and I arranged for her to meet me in a hotel in Lekki. She lives in Shagamu. I couldn’t wait to see her that day and when we met,it was the most passionate sex I ever had. We had each other for four rounds. It was like we were both made for each other,she called me her king and I called her my queen. I was in love.

As we both lay down resting in each other’s hands,she told me she had something she wanted to tell me. I asked her to go on. She said,forgive me for not telling you before now,I didnt want to loose my chance of getting to meet you but I am married. I have been married for six years but I am not happy in my marriage. I was shocked and quiet for a few seconds before telling her,its ok. I too was not open enough to you,I am also married. She said she knew. That she had seen pictures of my wife and our children on facebook.

I asked her if she regrets what we did,she said no. I didnt quite regret mine but I was not sure I was not feeling guilty for cheating on my wife. She then said that she has been thinking about leaving her husband. I asked why,she said the man does not care about her. He does not take care of her financially or emotionally. They have a four old son but they hardly have sex except like once in several months. That the man blames her for his misfortune. He has been looking for a job for years,no job and he has refused to do any form of business to support his family. Hence,she is the one taking care of the family. According to her,she purposely refused to give birth to another child cos she feels her marriage is doomed.

She asked me if I love her. I told her yes.(What do you expect me to say,we just had sex). …She then said that if I loved her,I should leave my wife and she will leave her husband!…I was stunned and told her that we should take things slow,lets not make any decisions yet. That these things take time especially since there are children involved. she agreed and when she left,we continued sex chat and phone intimacy. Every day,she wanted to know when next she could come see me again. She asked me to come to shagamu but I always found an excuse not to. The fact that she is married kind of made me want to be extra careful in our affair.

After a month of persuading me without success,she became ............

https://livelystones.com.ng/we-just-having-fun-but-this-psycho-wants-to-destroy-my-marriage/

This is seriously serious.

liquidlove2018:
Hello All,

I am very encouraged by what I read on your platform. This has motivated me to send my problem. God punish poverty. I never wish anyone even my enemy to be poor cos if you are poor or as a man you cannot take care of your own family,you are completely finished.

I met Ajiri five years ago. She was working as Contractor to my company. I work with a manufacturing company as a Store Officer. She was about 31 years at the time. I used to admire how hard working she was as a single woman. She seemed to be doing well for herself. So,I was like her insider friend for her business since she was supplying things to my company. One day,we were gisting casually and I asked her why she is not married,she said no man ask her. They all want to sleep with her and want her money but not to settle down. I told her I liked her but I dont have money like her,she was like,love is not about money.

Long story short,we got married like almost seven months later. My wife is also from a very rich family. So like our wedding,they sponsored everything. Since our marriage,cos I am in school too,its my wife that has been taking care of all our finances in the house. We talked about this before we got married. She said,she didnt mind to support us until I finish school and get a better job.

But since we got married,......

https://livelystones.com.ng/god-punish-poverty-my-wife-treats-me-like-a-slave/

Better talk.
God bless you for this advice.

gevnet:
Hmmm! This is really serious. You said you are Christians and that means you believe in God. My advice is do everything you can: take him to men of God (including taking him to RCCG Camp) and two of you should devote yourself completely to God. I still believe in miracle. You said you are just 26. There are ladies who are in their thirties, forties and are not having sex right now. What if you were not married. Both of you should call the God of heaven and earth for help.
Giving up shouldn't be an option in life but the choice is yours.

Talo njebe ?

satelliteDISH:
A cheap girl is not the girl that accepts your proposal the first day.
WHO IS A CHEAP GIRL?
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1. A cheap gal is any gal who is living in a man's house and the man has not paid her bride price, no wedding but she is living with him.
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2. A cheap gal is any gal who is already having sex with a common boyfriend and she does not know where the relationship is heading to, she does not know where the guy comes from, no marriage plans, no wedding hope but she is having sex with the guy because of the money she is getting from him.
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3. A cheap gal is any gal who sends her nude pics to her boy friend in the name of love.
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4. A cheap gal is any gal who has done one or more abortions and she is still doing more.
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5. A cheap gal is any gal who dresses half naked in the name of fashion, exposing her boobs and other erotic parts of her body in the street or post such pictures on Facebook or Whatsapp and receives 500 likes and 100 comments that you're "beautiful" and you say "thank you".
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6. A cheap gal is any gal who has an affair with a married man even after knowing it, having sex with him, abort pregnancy, receives money, cause havoc in the man's marriage in order for her to be married.
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7. A cheap girl is any gal who reads this post and gets Angry and will refuse to comment.
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Dear Jzhane,

I love my fiancee. Our wedding is supposed to be in June but right now,she did something that is making me consider seriously if I should call it off. Please dont reveal my name when you post this. She also reads your blog so I dont want to embarrass her.

My fiancee thinks I am over reacting with what she did. Here is it:

I gave her one of my ATM cards so that she can always have access to money in case she cannot reach me. I am a Pilot and I am always flying.Honestly,she is not a spend drift but my issue is that she dashes people money too much.Well,she has a nice heart and people know that and always want to take advantage of her. I try to caution her and instead of her to take correction,she will say please take your card before you insult me cos of money. It has brought about fight between us several times.

I really love her and I know her business does not bring in so much sometimes. She is a fashion designer. Thats why I gave her my ATM card. Sometimes,she uses it to shop for me,to stock up my groceries,etc.



....read full story and other stories on the blog :
https://livelystones.com.ng/my-fiancee-her-ex-is-this-naive-or-playing-me-for-a-fool/

Tell us now.
where will it end ?

habsydiamond:
Read the rest Ursef...i already know where it will end like nollywood movies..

Good Morning LS,

Please before you do anything,kindly keep my name out of this cos I know you might post this,I also have read other peoples stories hence the reason I am writing to you to please advice and share.My life has just turned upside down. My family is about to be torn apart cos I dont know how we can recover from this. I have received counsel from a couple of friends. My sister actually referred me to your stories. I am in dire need of a divine intervention right now.

Dupe and I have been married for six years. These six years have come with its joys and challenges.After two years of childlessness,we became desperate. Our desperation made us begin to get frustrated with each other. We were tired of the futility of our efforts. We had had three failed IVFs in four years. That means money had gone down the drain. The last IVF we did was the beginning of our major problems. This is because,the fetus had actually gotten to about three months before my wife miscarried. I blamed her for the miscarriage. This is because she refused to cool down on her job.  I felt she should have actually quit the job but she refused to listen. She kept saying she would relax on the fifth month but the pregnancy never got to the fifth month. We lost it at the third month.

This sad occurrence made us quarrel so much and we were not speaking to each other for almost a month. I was very depressed,angry and bitter. At that point,the devil started to torment me. I connected with my ex on Instagram. Well,I had been seeing her pictures before on Instagram. Chatting with her,old flames started to burn. She was in town for a business meeting and she met me cos I needed someone to talk to,she offered a listening ear and a shoulder to lean on at the time.  When I was her at the hotel that day,I knew we had crossed a line of no return. But I was too stubborn...too angry at my wife. I felt she didn't love me enough to have listened to me so we didn't have to loose our child.

I spent the night with my ex. I ended up actually spending the entire two days of her business meeting with her at her hotel. I was just so lost at the time. When I eventually went home,I was just so broken. I thought I had lost my marriage. But when I got back,my wife,instead of getting upset,she flung herself at me and we both started to cry. I mean,I missed her and she missed me. she feared I had left the marriage cos the two days I was with my ex,I switched off my phone. Seeing me back,she was so sorry and she and I just wanted to be with each other. Gradually,we began to build our lives back. Thank God for his faithfulness. In about four months time,we discovered that we were pregnant. I mean,my wife got pregnant this time very naturally. I was over the moon. She quit her job but strangely

...read full story and other stories on the blog :
https://livelystones.com.ng/a-mistake-at-the-darkest-hourswill-our-marriage-survive-this/

Hello LS,

Please help me post my story. You can use any name but not my name please.

I am married to a man from Middle belt in Nigeria. We met at work,we work in the same company. Its almost three years of marriage now and I am pregnant with my second baby. My husband’s elder brother came to stay with us when he was briefly deployed to Lagos. He is in the police force,I dont want to mention his rank but he is a senior officer.

This my husband’s brother began to display certain behavior that I am not comfortable with. He will just come inside my bedroom without knocking. He does anything he likes without asking. He said,in their culture ,that men are free to see any woman in the family as their wife. So if he chose to sleep with me,he has a right to do so. I thought he was joking but my husband confirmed it. I told him that can never happen with me. My husband said something unbelievable,that he has ..........

https://livelystones.com.ng/my-husbands-family-and-their-twisted-culture-of-adultery/