ImaIma1:


Both father and mother are foolish. The wife is foolish to wager her son's life and allowing him die, just to prove a point and make the husband bring out money. The husband for refusing to take responsibility for his child but expecting the wife to bring out money as usual. Because both had money in their accounts

The bolded was my comment that you quoted.

So this your comment is baseless and just a failed attempt to troll.

If you don't have the ability to see both sides of a matter but are always stuck to one side, please avoid quoting me. I prefer engaging with intelligent and critical minds rather than prejudiced ones.

Epistle after responding to me over 4 times. Mtchew.

Madam, whether you like it or not, the fact remains that this woman is what we call "iya oshi" she foolishly aided the death of her own child.

Take it or leave it!

RisenPhoenix1:


Yawn. Please go away and stop following me around. I'm sure you'll find someone else on NL who will be interested in you, I personally prefer smart girls, so we're not really compatible.
Sorry.

Biglittlelair definitely suffers from some sort of obsessive disorder. Engage her once and she will continue stalking you all over this forum whether you like it or not.

mariahAngel:


Thank God I'm not alone on that one

...but crack dey learn work where that Risen guy dey sha

Nah, the reverse is the case girl, crackhaus is king.

Winneygirl:
Marriage might not be your cup of tea.
But if what you typed is what marriage is about, then no one will get married.
Re-orient yourself.

Flawed logic here.
Why do people smoke even though the packet warns that smoking kills?

ImaIma1:


And how much in the father's account? Inconsequential right?

You conveniently blocked your mind to the first part of my comment since it doesn't help your argument

Exactly my point!
So blindly focused on a man's "responsibilities" that you absolve yourself of your own. Seems you are also the type that would allow your kids suffer (in this case die) just to prove a point to their father.
"Your money is our money.
My money is my money."
Well done!

ImaIma1:


Very typical of you to blame only the woman, since she laid ontop herself and got herself pregnant. The man has not responsibility whatsoever to the child. If the mother cannot pay, the child should as well die.

Yes, and the child died with N3.5 million sitting in his mother's account.
What a win for motherhood!

Ilekokonit:
Most black women lose interest in sex after 2 kids.

Also, one of the major causes why black women lose interest in sex after 2 kids is because after each child birth, black women damage the lining of their vaginas by steaming it with boiling water when they sit on potties filled with boiling water, herbs and Dettol all in the name of healing the insides of their reproductive tract. This has the effect of cooking the insides of their vagina to a point where they no longer have much feeling in their vagina as the sensitive nerves in their vagina has been damaged beyond repair and because they can not feel anything in their vagina (barring a horse dick), they shy away from sex which they no longer enjoy because they have with their own hands damaged their own vagina.

This is before factoring in that after 2 kids, their vaginas has been stretched / widened and at times torn by a difficult child birth and so with them now boiling their vaginas by sitting of a potty filled with boiling water, the result is that their vaginas are no longer fit for purpose as they can no longer feel their husbands dick and they then start using sex as a weapon by denying the man sex and so the man has no choice and decides to satisfy his natural urges outside with a woman who gives him sexual healing and also treats him better than his wife who by now is only interested in the kids and loves neglecting her husbands needs.

What is this one saying sef

CalliDora1:

Na food?

On a more serious note though, I think what usually causes it is, the woman is most times overwhelmed with the wifely duties at the homefront. in the process she's expended therefore sex will be the last thing on her mind as the passion for it will have died from exaustion from doing chores. If you observed, it usually happens after the kids have started coming and the workload has increased.

If the man can make arrangements for a house help ( not necessarily a live-in help) to assist with the chores, the woman will be more relaxed to reason sex as it's only a relaxed mind that can get a woman in the mood .

Stop it CalliDora, are you talking about this same Nigeria where majority of wives have maids who do the chores? Or at least live-in family members who assist in household duties.

mariahAngel:


This has crackhaus written all over it!

RisenPhoenix1:


If it does, then crackhaus is right. This is readily observable fact.

Thought it was my nigga crackhaus too until I saw the moniker

ifex370:






Guy calm down na.


But this is actually a bit insulting for the man to even post shows why his wife can ridicule him to that extent.

Most simps suffer from Stockholm syndrome.

Kriss216:

His money is OUR money
My money is MY money.


25K


Do we still need any proof as to how wicked an average Nigerian woman can be?

What gender kills and abuses housemaids the most?
What gender employs children to take care of their own children because they are too 'liberated'to be burdened with home making?
What gender lives off the other gender for years in silence but once they make a little change, must insult their husbands and announce to the entire world that they paid one measly bill in the house?

Women are evil and prone to abuse any slight opportunity of power they are given.

ImaIma1:
Both father and mother are foolish. The wife is foolish to wager her son's life and allowing him die, just to prove a point and make the husband bring out money.

.

Only the woman is foolish here.
Foolish, selfish and extremely wicked. I hope she's happy now that she has "proven her point".

It was all fun and games when this tweet went viral - a man showing the list of chores his woman gave him with detailed instructions on cleaning the bathroom of their apartment. Moreso, this woman specified that she will open her 'pum pum' for him that night only if the tasks are completed.

While reading the comments under this tweet, I couldn't help but imagine what the reaction would've been if the genders were reversed. Just imagine if a husband created a list of bills his wife must pay before she can sleep in his house? or even chores to do before he can bring out money for feeding? Imagine the uproar and double standards that would generate.

It is increasingly glaring that men have become the subservient gender in relationships and marriages - expected to give everything while gaining little in return. you aren't even guaranteed the bare minimum (a faithful wife) for your efforts. In modern day relationships, men must remain traditional and be the sole providers while women no longer have to be traditional home keepers (their own responsibilities is now classed as oppression while yours remains a mandatory duty).

This is the world we now live in.

https://mobile.twitter.com/prospectmelv/status/1349888544890888192

Only 62% ??
Nah the reality is much higher than that.

Today's pastors can be likened to the Pharisees of old whom Jesus stood against. The church is no longer the house of God but rather investment institutions where you are sold false doctrine in exchange for your hard earned money.
When was the last time you heard your pastor speak up against sin? Fornication, adultery, homosexuality etc? Everyday it's about your 'next level' what God has in store for you - they sell fake hope to the masses and fleece their congregation.

God is real, I can never deny that. I've got too many personal experiences to proof it and will always revere Him in my heart.
But you see those greedy, arrogant Nigerian pastors like Oyedepo, Fatoyinbo, Ibeyiome and co?those guys are fraudulent idols who have been elevated to godlike status, they are leading millions to hell.

Leave the church if you must but don't leave God.

HedwigesMaduro:


Especially as it has been proven that men that go to church are always the best in loving their women.

So in order words church goers are the biggest simps and easiest to manipulate. Got it!

mariahAngel:


Dude, I have three brothers, two of them are quite hairy, yet they didn't grow their beards that thick in their teenage years.
Even the one with the arab kind of beards...

That's your own brothers. Doesn't apply to all men.

salford1:


It seems like the reply was meant for a different post instead of mine.

Gladly. I lived in the UK for a couple of years before I moved to Canada. I had a university education in the UK; hence, the name Salford..

Anyway, where in my post did I mention that racism doesn't exist in Canada ? I said we detest racism, discrimination, Trump's style of politics e.t.c, atleast the majority of people here detest such.

Unlike the UK, Canada is a country of migrants meaning the majority of whites here are recent immigrants themselves. Within 2 years, I lost count of the amount of time I was told to go back to where I came from when I lived in the UK. Almost a decade here in Canada now and not one single incident.

Telling me not to get comfortable. GTFOH
Actually, I am getting very comfortable and even getting more comfortable as the day goes by. You can't really understand. I doubt if you have ever lived in Canada, so I will pardon your ignorance.

My only regret is that I discovered Canada later. I should have moved here for studies instead of going to the UK, but all my siblings live in London, England, so it was natural that I leaned towards UK before I thought of Canada. However, I have caught up with my peers here and doing great.

Cheers!

Ps: Canada has always accepted immigrants, mostly from Europe, Asia and Africa. People just do not fancy that it is an extremely cold country. I have met Nigerians that have been here since the 1990s. Heck, a Nigerian graduated from the University of Saskatchewan Pharmacy program in the 1950s. The skilled program has been around for over 3 decades. It just recently became popular due to social media and affordable internet.

As per Brexit, Brexit was more of shutting out fellow European nationals. Especially those from Eastern Europe being governed by anti immigrant and dictators like Viktor Orban of Hungary and a few others that of turned those countries to latrine pits of Europe.. I can't find any similarities between migrating to Canada and Brexit.

See autobiography
You lack basic comprehension skills bro. Always resist the urge to shalaye. but I understand how you feel as a fragile ego easily gets bruised

Nice selection of dark and light skinned beauties and Funke is the queen of them all

mariahAngel:


With a full bearded face? Naaaaaaaaaah

You clearly didn't grow up with boys around.. some grow beards by 17.Forget it. That dude is a youngin.

That boy looks quite young as well.. I'd say he's around 18 while the girl is 14.. if they'd waited another 5 years maybe this wouldn't have caused so much uproar.

Say no to child marriage.

“I want to clarify for the avoidance of doubt that I am still very much with my husband. This fake news was published by an online newspaper in a calculated attempt to further demonise my beloved husband and a loving father,” she said.





Shout out to all beloved husbands and loving fathers out there
See, as a man, the only thing you should strive hard for is money! Chase money not women 'cause, when you have money, all sins are forgiven and you are made anew every morning. When you have money, women will gladly sell their pretty young daughters to you like Regina's mum did to Ned. When you have money, you can be father of all nations like 2baba, WizKid, Davido (and now Adam) and women will die there regardless.
Oh, and when you get that money, make sure you remain in Nigeria. e get why.
Mama has nothing to gain by leaving

Last thing I heard is she made a lil' money and kicked her poor husband to the curb - very typical of women who feel they've arrived..

purples25:


Nope. That's your opinion.

Well, it's the truth. Take it or leave it.

SyIvalord:
Time flies like a thief in the night—- Burna boy time flies




How da fûck does a thief in the night fly?

He means time flies as quickly as thieves flee at night

Humanoid01:

I process information slowly, which in turn negatively affects the way I communicate with people. It makes me feel like what I call an "intelligent idiot" . The supposed idiocy manifests itself when I speak, and it goes the other way when I write or type.

I like to make friends but because of this, I hardly do and I feel that sometimes people misjudge and mistake me for a proud person. It's really frustrating because it restricts me. I can't really say I'm depressed, but I get mood swings most of the time.

There's nothing wrong with you bro, surround yourself with those on the same wavelength as you.

purples25:
Nice thread, but it might only bring trolls on those emotionally vunerable ones who try to share. There was a time when nl was cool and a good place for these kinds of topics. People really responded well and got support too, but now....

All the smart mouths and insensitive ones have flowed in, so its not safe anymore.

You can only blame the likes of pocohantas for the absolute shiitshow Nairaland has become

CalliDora1:
Halfcaste baby.

The guy looks too gentle for this kind of wickedness now...

Exactly why this happened to him. Gentle guys are taken for fools.

Gokoyer0:
Sir, leave that guy you quoted. His problem is not just weakness but poverty. He is counting on kids he is raising as investments.

That guy (Jack005) garnered over 200 likes on the said post, very worrying if you ask me

luminouz:


Even if he signs death certificate, once it's confirmed the baby is not his, why pay child support again?


Which nonsense law be that?

Dude, that's the law in the US. Once you sign that birth certificate, you are financially responsible for that child whether or not it is yours.

lilmax:
I've said this on nairaland a million times


This is the first test on feminism

If she says she's a christian and a feminist, just know she's a big dumbass

And btw....I no longer see our feminists here on nairaland, what happened? Them no dey fight again

Nairaland is dying bro. Folks would rather debate on Twitter or instablog comment section