Where r u from, and is ur place so perfect that u distaste another's place. What of tomorrow when u finally settle for wht u desire and the person after years of wasting ur time and resources reject u because of ur place of origin, how will you feel.

Come to think of it, u r so wrong, I mean very very wrong for keeping her and allowing her back for good three times when u sees no future wt her. I v a similiar experience but slightly different cus am nt preggy. Mine is that I v sound educational background n am in a relationship with a guy that has no educational background, talk more of a single degree. I have choice and v met guys with educational background more than him but u see, there is something in him that attracted me. I strtd telling him the need for education and evn enrolled him in one. I didn't do that for us to marry, I did it becos I Wnt to make an impact in him and tomorrow if we didn't end up together, then another girl won't reject him cus of education.

So my dear, doing ikuaka just to lay claims on the children and nothing more is so inhuman and downgrading, the twins need both parents in their lives although marriage is not by force. But i strongly believe tht if she was good for u to lay on, then, she must be good enough for u afterall. On this note, I advise you that u enroll her in school, make her see the need for education and after careful perusal u decided not to marry her, then u should take care of her and the babies evn if she marry another person, at the end of day, ur twins if only they are urs ll still look for their father. Note that they ll look for you if u r contributory to their lives and upbringing.

Inaddition, I can sense that the girl is afraid of something but I don't know what. Engage her in a serious and long conversation, try to detect her fears, make her to open with you, pls stop reminding her how u wish not to marry her and stuff of that nature. I know u can restructure her to ur taste but after the restructuring u still didn't find her worthy of bearing ur surname, then is all up to u. But, during ur restructuring, don't give her hopes that u l later dash to the lurch. Thanks and goodluck