Dumb has nothing to do with it; let's hope you don't someday experience it. LOL!

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In life it's good to be nice. If you can't say anything nice, then don't speak. Always keep that in mind, madame. God Bless!

Please help, I need your advice. I've dated a handsome, wonderful guy on and off for 4 1/2 years and just 2 years ago, he got married to the girl he was cheating on, with me. (I've always been the woman on the side)

We just got back in touch as of 6 months ago and already, we're back to being intimate. Only this time, he's married with a baby.

Since day one, we've shared great sex! I really love him, but I'm Christian and I fear GOD. What should I do? Continue our relationship, or forever walk away?

Please don't judge me, we're all imperfect and these things do happen.




UPDATE!


OKAY, THIS IS HOW THE STORY GOES,

I MET THIS GUY OVER 4 1/2 YEARS AGO. HE MET HER AROUND THE SAME TIME HE HAD MET ME. IN THE BEGINNING, HE DIDN'T TELL ME THAT HE HAD A GIRL. HE LATER CONFESSED, I ACCEPTED IT AND I WENT ALONG WITH THE PROGRAM. WE THEN  ESTABLISHED AN ON AGAIN, OFF AGAIN RELATIONSHIP. ALL THIS TIME, HE WAS CHEATING WITH ME. SHE NEVER KNEW. HE WAS DECIDING TO THOROUGHLY BE WITH ME, BUT IN THE END, THE GIRLFRIEND WON. I WAS TOLD BY HIM THAT SHE GAVE HIM AN ULTIMATUM, AND I DIDN'T. THE ULTIMATUM LED TO ENGAGEMENT AND THEN MARRIAGE. AFTER HEARING ABOUT THEIR MARRIAGE PLANS, I CALLED OUR RELATIONSHIP QUITS. WE LOST TOUCH FOR A LITTLE OVER TWO YEARS. WHAT WAS SO SAD, HE NEVER LEFT MY MIND. I THOUGHT OF HIM EVERYDAY. WHY? BECAUSE I LOVED HIM AND I HAD HOPED TO BE THE ONE HE MARRIED. I CRIED MANY NIGHTS AND SPENT HOURS ON THE PHONE GETTING ADVICE AND SUPPORT FROM MY FEMALE FRIENDS. ONCE, I CALLED HIS CEL PHONE FROM A BLOCKED NUMBER AND I HEARD A BABY CRYING. I LISTENED AND THEN I QUICKLY HUNG UP! MY HEART WAS CRUSHED, I LATER CRIED.

COINCIDENTALLY, WE MEET AGAIN, ONLY THIS TIME, HE'S MARRIED. WHEN I FIRST SAW HIM AGAIN, MY HEART SKIPPED. I LOOKED AT HIS LEFT HAND AND SAW A WHITE-GOLD WEDDING BAND. MY HEART WAS CRUSHED. I NEVER KNEW THAT WE'D BE AT THIS AGAIN. ONE GOOD THING IS, WE HAVE GREAT SEX, SEX, SEX! I THINK I MIGHT BE CAUGHT UP SEXUALLY. HE'S AN AWESOME PERSON AND LOVER. I AM AS WELL. WHEN WE'RE TOGETHER, WE'RE FRIENDS AND LOVERS. WE TALK, WE LAUGH, AND I NEVER ASK HIM ABOUT HIS FAMILY. I GIVE HIM ADVICE, IF HE NEEDS IT. I'M THERE FOR HIM WHENEVER HE NEEDS ME. THIS IS A GREAT GUY, AND I AM IN DEEP LIKE (LOVE) WITH HIM. HE LOOKS AT ME AND HIS EYES TELL A MILLION STORIES. I'M SURE HE REGRETS CHOOSING HER OVER ME. IT'S SO APPARENT. POOR GUY!

I FORGOT TO SAY THAT, "I DATED HIS FRIEND BEFORE DATING HIM". THEY BOTH ARE STILL, TO THIS DAY, DEEPLY IN LIKE WITH ME. WHENEVER I BROKE UP WITH ONE, I WENT BACK TO THE OTHER, NUMEROUS TIMES. INFACT, WHEN WE BROKE UP FOR THOSE FEW YEARS, I WENT BACK TO HIS FRIEND. BELIEVE IT OR NOT, I WILL ALWAYS LOVE HIS FRIEND. IN CONCLUSION, I'LL PUT A FINAL ENDING TO MY AFFAIR. YOU ALL HAVE GIVEN ME THE COURAGE I NEED TO DO SO, AND I THANK YOU. HEY, WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES, RIGHT? GOD BLESS!