Good afternoon. Pardon my ignorance. But i always say i will buy new tv, that comes with waranty and all because of past experiences with second hand electronics. However i have been following ur trends for a while and i havent seen a customer complaint abt d quality. But im still conscious. If i buy from you, will i received a waranty on d products. And have d televisions u sell been repaired after damage. Thanks

The fact that divorce is wat comes to ur mind because he snores shows that u no longer in love with him nd u just looking for an excuse to be out of d marriage. However, if snoring is d only reason, then u can move to another room to sleep or buy ear plugs or d various other devices available 4 such in d market.

ponchizzle007:
Yesterday own is for senior officers promotion approval

Do you know whether the CG was given another extension?

I have just read how a man was tricked into buying fufu thinking it was iphone 7+ for 20k. Many ojf you will probably think its jazz or juju but i assure u its not. Its simply greediness on our part. It happened to me and I have never told anyone because I was ashamed. When i was younger, I had 6k and i wanted to buy a second hand phone. When i reached computer village, i was shown different low qualities phone that my 6k can afford but i was greedy i wanted something bigger and better, so this guy came and told me he have a huawei phone for sale. He claim he cant allow me press it or do much with it because he found it on the ground and he thinks the owner might see me pressing. So he just quickly show me d phone and ask me to put d phone in my pocket. He said i should only press it when i was out of the market. So i stupidly paid him, put d phone in my pocket and was smiling till i reach home to see papers inside a phone case. I cried and i havent bought second hand phone since. So my little advise to people is to stop buying phone at an unbelievably lower price. It always end in tears

Evening guys. For over 5years I had made a lot of researches as to how i can make money online through paid surveys. I had signed up in various survey sites and i have completed a lot of surveys which at the end I found out to be scam. Until not very long ago, The highest I have earned through online survey was 100/200 recharge cards on one particular Nigeria survey site. It was ended long time ago. However, my search for paid surveys didnt end there.. few months ago i came to understand the fact that the valid surveys out there are only limited to U.S citizens and the only way we Nigerians can earn is by using vpn and claiming a U.S address. Thanks to Paypal, we can do that and have our survey money paid into our paypal account, which we can then withdraw. I made further searches and i was lucky enough to land a survey site that through hard online hardwork answering survey will allow u the option to cash out once u have made 50dollars. I wont deceive u, its a lot of work as to those surveys only pay 1 or 2 dollars per survey. Depending on u, u can answer as many as 10surveys per day, the highest i have answered per day was 6 or 7.. recently i made my first transfer to my paypal account and it was a success. This simply means with hardwork u can make 17k in 2 weeks. I have given u d full gist and now its left to u to make use of google to find out how u can make this work for u. However, i am currently seeking postgraduate admission thereby im in need of a lot of money, so if u want a step by step process. U can drop ur whatsapp number. It will cost u only 2k. Thats only if u interested in step by step process. Thanks you.

daboy18:
Sorry I created this account because I have been following this forum as a guest. Something has been bothering me. I am a boy of 18 yers last year I travelled from ekiti to Abuja to visit my uncle it was my first time to go to Abuja , I was very excited and couldn’t wait to see the place myself because I was getting jealous of my parents and older siblings talking about the place after visiting my uncle. My uncle was aware of my arrival because he paid for my transport fare. On my way to his place we was chatting via Facebook messenger he told me that he was busy at work and he will be home late but his wife and kids are at home they will take care of me . After a long journey i
Arrive safely to his house it was around 7 in the evening , I knocked and a man came a security guy , I introduced myself but the guy refuse to allow me to go inside. He locked me out, i taught maybe I was in the wrong house but when I took my diary to check the address again and it was correct , I just don’t know why he refuse to allow me inside , I don’t know if it was his wife who told him not to , I was confuse , I was tired , hungry my last meal was 2 in the afternoon and desperately needed to use toilet my head was spinning and hurting me bad . My phone was dead low battery and I couldn’t call my uncle to inform him of what was happening , I was in tears because I didn’t know what else to do , in a big city like Abuja and the only people I knows abandon me. Because it was dark and people were not passing around , i desperately needed toilet I had to pee outside there compound and I sat there with my luggage for almost long time then the guy came again and opened the door and ask me to follow him. He took me inside the house where my uncle’s wife and another wife I didn’t know who she was were watching tv , I greeted them and his wife said why I can’t I phone her to let her know that I was outside , I explained that my battery was dead but she wasn’t interested , she then asked her maid to show me the room and the bathroom so I could have my bath. I was very angry my entire body was shaking , I wanted to ask her if I could eat first but I was shy to ask and I went and had my bath and all I could think of was foods. I taught after my bath I will go downstairs and my food will be ready of which I went downstairs to eat and my uncle was also back , I greeted him then he went to have his bath while the maid was preparing food for me , I taught it was for both of us but I was wrong, few mins later his wife told me to go sleep because I had a long tiring day I should rest. I obeyed but deep in me I was like how could this woman be this wicked , first of al she locked me outside for 2 hours and again she deprived me of food , i was in tears again I am a boy but I very emotional, I cry anytime I am pained . I went to bed angry something I never did before even taught my parents are not rich but we never sleep angry. I cried a lot that night I soaked my pillow with tears and I just couldn’t wait for sun to come so I could eat. In the morning I woke up very early but I had to wait for my cousins to wake so we could all eat together and we had a great breakfast together with both parents but what I noticed for one week I had spend with them is his wife only treated me well when my uncle was around and when is not around is hell. She wouldn’t let me eat in the same table with her kids or touched her children PlayStation games , she will keep my cousins away from me , I will be all alone but I have never told my uncle anything because I don’t want to cause problems. Till now I have also never had told my parents about what his wife did to me. My mum is a no nonsense woman if I told her she would have go all the way to Abuja to fight her so I decided to keep it to myself. The issue on ground is my mum want my 14 years old little sister to go and live with my uncle so my uncle could train her but I don’t like the idea because his wife will abuse her the same way she did with me , mine was only for a week it was hell and what about my sister who will be with them for years , I am scared that She will die of anger and I will not see her again but I don’t know how to tell my mum not to send her because if I said what happened to me there , it will cause a lot of trouble because my mum will revenge . I just don’t know what to tell her or should I let her go and wait for her to speak for herself when she will start abusing her. What should I do please

Cant ur parent train ur sister on their own. Why are they sending the poor girl to live with yoir uncle. Because they were richer aint an excuse. Nothing beat been raised by your own parents no matter d situation, if ur uncle wanna help. Let him send him money. Ur sister been raised by another person is a terrible idea that can do lot of emotional damages. Trust me, i know

cococandy:


Lol. No we are not on the same page. Far from it.

You’re still thinking the people who come forward to complain don’t know what they are talking about. You weren’t there yet you want to tell them what their experience was. Mansplain much?. Definitely not on the same page.

@second bold. I already told you I didn’t want to make assumptions because they might hurt more than it helps. If I were to agree with you that 80% of Nigerian men aren’t rapists, that would mean 20% of them are.
At an approximate population of 200 million (2019), half of which are men, that means we could very easily have 20 million male rapists roaming free in our country. (Add lady rapists and we are speaking of an increased number). This is not based on any actual research so it’s unhelpful.

Well. I believe at this junction, we have to agree to disagree. May all the rapist meet their waterloo and get the punishment they deserve and may all their victims find closure and healings. Thanks

cococandy:

Thanks for being honest about your motivation for this thread. It’s a hard pill to swallow hence instead of trying to deal with it, we are trying to minimize the problem or say it doesn’t exist. Will that help though?

If that many women are claiming to be raped, instead of being defensive or policing the victims, maybe we shift the solution to the perpetrators. Teach consent to girls and boys. Ingrain the concept of bodily autonomy of each individual in the minds of everyone. Such that everyone understands that nothing -absolutely nothing- makes it’s acceptable or excusable to do to someone’s body something they do not consent to. Whether they visit you wearing tongs or not. You can ask them to leave if it’s too much for you. By the way it’s your house.

Seems u are in agreement with my estimations. And if u are the alternative of all u said is d fact that nigerian ladies might not actually fully comprehend what rape implies and they go about claiming raoe for every bad sex they had. As men, we have our flaws and we not perfect and yes there are rapist among us as there are among ladies too. And motivation behind all this is for ladies to stop thinking majority of men are rapist as thats what will be the outcome of all this if men decide to stay quiet. I wont say 80% of men are good people but i will proudly say 80% of men aint rapist or sexual abusers and if u agreed with that then i'm glad and we on d same page

cococandy:


I prefer not to answer. This is a serious subject. Assumptions won’t help our cause to prevent or reduce rape. Instead they might hurt the cause.

What i'm finding hard to take is that if you ask 20 girls if they hade at one point or the other been raped or sexually abuse 15 of them will say yes. Statistically that means 75% of ladies have been sexually abused or rape which in turn means that 75% of we guys are rapist and sexual abusers. Thats a hard pill to swallow as a guy.

cococandy:


Since none of your past ladies has come out to say you raped them, what are the chances that these ladies who are coming out are those who merely regret their sexual encounter?

What proof do you have that they weren’t raped?
Lots of girls are raped daily in Nigeria. That’s a fact. If they all come out, what you’re hearing now will be child’s play.
But what do you people do? In order to avoid listening to them, you’d rather call them liars and make up scenarios in your minds of what might have actually happened. All this to avoid the possibility of hearing the truth.

If u are to put a percentage on it. How many percent of sexually active girls do you think have been raped in nigeria. I know u dont know the actual percentage, im just asking u based on ur knowledge and assumption. How many percent will u say

cococandy:


To me that is rape if the guy was obviously trying to run away and she pinned him down.
But you don’t know me so you make your conclusion to suit your bias. Classic.

Check who was calling him the luckiest man alive, majority would be his fellow men. Fix the problem within

Im sorry if i appeared to make conclusions about u. That was not my intention. The purpose of this imteraction is not to attack ur personal being or ur personal view but just to enlighten more on the issue on ground and the way im speaking doesnt in any way means im a rapist apologist, just like u, i believe any rapist should be dealt with according to the law of d land

cococandy:


If any of those girls ever said no and/or pushed you away yet you continued and forced your way in, then it was rape. Ignorance doesn’t excuse you from the law.
Your best bet is that none of them comes forward to complain. Which they rarely do anyway.

You guys are acting like the bulk of accusers are women who started having consensual sexual activity with you and then changed their minds after ward. That’s not the case. the truth is that such ladies will rarely come forward seeing as folks will be ever ready use their initial willingness to tear down their claims.

My advice to you, please kindly stop minimizing the pain of rape victims because you’re trying to prove a point or maybe you’re somewhat scared that some girl from the past might decide to come forward. I can assure you the likelihood of that is low. Now let’s focus on people who are actually coming forward and complaining. Maybe if people listened and let trusted authorities do the investigation, we might get somewhere

Actually, girls are the one turning a bad sex or a regretted sex into rape and by so doing taking the light or relevance or credibility out of the real rape victims. Few days ago everybody, male, female, old and young were talking in one voice against rape, then suddenly lot of girls are coming out with stories of this amd that. Now go check twitter and u will notice that people are busy contradicting each other just like me and u right now. Sincerely, some ladies need to chill. Bad sex or regretted sex is not and can never be rape

cococandy:
I already answered that. Yes it’s rape. Maybe she was enthusiastic about kissing him. Not about penetration. Not all kisses must end in penis and vagina fusion. You might very well want to kiss someone but not copulate with them. Make and female alike.
maybe he didn’t read the initial enthusiasm wrong. But he sure as hell would be reading to wrong if he continues after she has said NO.

Yes she does. very easy to check. You have your mouth wrapped around a dyck and the owner of the dyck starts saying “No. Stop.” Maybe even pushing your head away.

What do you want to continue for please? Is it cooked steak that doesn’t have a voice? It’s a human. You make eye contact. Is he enjoying it? Babe can I do it better? Tell me how you like it. More tongue? More saliva? If you’re having consensual sex, you will know when the person is out of the feeling and respect their feeling. It’s basic respect.


Absolutely.

Its not as easy as that. Dere was a popular video on twitter where the girl was giving Mouth Gig to a guy. The was obviously overwhelmed with it and he tried running away but somehow the babe still pinned him dowm with d Mouth Gig. Since it was a guy everybody naturally calls d guy the luckiest man alive but according to u, thats rape

cococandy:


Well now you’re hopefully grown and know better.
Be intelligent.
If they say no, leave them alone. They can say what they want about you not coercing them enough but they can’t say you forced them.

Yeah. Now im grown and the way and who i have sex with has changed drastically. But the problem now is that does girls back when we were young and foolish are coming out 2 claim we raped dem simply because we persuade them to have sex with us back then. Now those girls are tarnishing d image we worked for by calling us rapist. I have never been accused of rape though.

cococandy:


This is called role play. Nothing wrong with it as long as you both agreed to it. Next time sign a document to protect yourselves (have a witness so no one claims coercion).

If 70% of the girls you’ve had sex with always say no and struggle with you, please check yourself.

Many of us were sexually active as teenagers so what im about to say is in reference to teenagers or those of us that started having sex in the university years. At this stage, during ur 1st sex with a girl 80% of the girls will say something like no when u wanted to have sex and this comes after they have given u all other sex vibes. And all they wanted is a little push from the guys. I know this because lot of girls that said no to me at first trial end up yabbing me days later that i'm not a tough guy or im not man enough. And im sure lot of guys can testify to this... what im saying in essence ks that girls need to do better. Always back your no with actions

Graxie:
Yes

Another question. A girlfriend went to sleep over in her bf house, after d first round, she fell asleep naked, in d middle of d night, the guy dick got hard and he slide it into her without her permission. Is that rape?

rockstarB:

You can INSIST all you want, the truth is the body belongs to her. If she tells you she doesnt want you to penetrate her please let go.
Find someone that you wont have to insist with

My girlfriend came for a sleep over one night. After d 1st round, i got tired and junior went to sleep. She wanted round 2 but i said no, she kept playing with junior. Junior self no rise. She still end up putting sleeping junior into her V.J. once junior enter he got hard and fire. Can i say my girlfriend raped me?

mayor10:



This is the only thing I can find on the app

There is another option after the settings

mayor10:



I applied for the supply chain role to and I'm yet to get any mail whether congratulatory or unsuccessful application.
How can you check your pymetrics score?

I dont know really. A link was with the unsuccessful mail sent to me. I was directed to a page in the app that shows the carriers that best fit me. Writing was first with 96% and marketing was third with 85%

I believe the company is responding to supply chain candidates for now. I applied for supply chain too, i played the game and i was sent a regret messgae however i was asked to go check the game result to see where i will best fit, i checked and i was 85% fit for marketing so i re-applied again for marketing. No message till now. I believe only supply chain arr having their interview for now. If Im wrong, please lemme know

Yobabad:
Why must the do that? Muslims can never do that kind of gesture to any religion in the world, why being fair to them when they can never be fair to others. Most Muslims can never wish happy Christmas or Easter, but some none Muslims will be wishing them happy Salah. Muslims are very bigotry. The criticize any Muslim who wish a none Muslim well.

A quick question though. With this level of hate in u towards another religion. If i give u a gun and ask u to kill a muslim and u will go scot free, u will do it?

helinues:


See justification. You mean you can sell your own baby ( 9 months pregnancy stress ) for N130,000?

Thats not d same... in as much as d process used in giving out the baby is way wrong. What the poor lady did is understood. I believe the Nigeria system should put a legal system in place for this kind of situation. Lot of children are been abandoned and lot of parents are out there looking for children. I believe Nigeria govt should do more on adorption strategies

During NYSC, babe come spend d night. I expect her to waka early in d morning. Around 8am and dis babe still neva dress up or do like person wey wan commot. I sharperly message my guy to call me in d next 5 minutes say my Oga need me 4 office now now. Dats how i end up discarding d babe

Yenefer:
Atiku is unrepentant corrupt politician

Wait let me get what you are saying very clearly. U didnt vote for him as your president and you will not allow him run his personal business the way he deemed fit in a time of economic crises where businesses are down and workers are been retrenched everywhere. Damn! U evil

Bullshit!

NextD18:
If you study well,hard and carefully. Your bachelor's degree will be the best thing to ever happen to you.

Don't allow those who failed in school to deceive you with "School na scam" talks. It isn't. It is very important, if not, thousands of people won't be applying every year to study.

Just be focused and work very hard.

The truth of the matter is that had it been we have devoted all the time, money and energy we spent in school towards vocationary training. Our lives would have been much better than this. Believe it or not, only a very few educated persons end up with good and well paying jobs, the majority of us areway underemployed or unemployed. And u might think i graduated with a poor grade, i did not. I had a strong 2.1 from a very strong fed university.

Jashub:
I'm sure that's the newest word in your dictionary. But its good sha... It shows me the kind of rock you crawled out from.

"Everything is bad when done in excess. Masturbation done moderately is better than fornication, adultery, rape and constant Lustful thoughts. If you want to condemn sin, condemn all sins. Don't speak against Masturbation while promoting fornication. Both you and the pastors casting away the spirit of Masturbation while leaving the spirit of fornication are all mad." Thats the 1st thing that the guy u are attacking said. Read it over again and understand. At this point only an insane person will continue replying u

Jashub:
[My good man. It seems you do not even know levity of what you are saying. You call yourself a christian yet you support masturbation. Now , before you go any further, please read your previous post and see how you chose masturbation as an alternative to fornication. Yes. You indirectly said so. Secondly, The Op has not even finished his narrative yet you drew myopic conclusions on his activities which shows you have judged by your own standards. Yes...you have judged because you are not sure whether he is still masturbating or fornicating(because he is yet to finish his tale) . And for the record, this is not about comprehension on my part ; it is about you. You have have talked without knowing the end of the matter; you have judged without even even knowing how he overcame.

Stop misquoting him. He didnt chose mastubation as an alternative to fornication on religion ground. He chose it on moral and health ground. If you want us to start talking about the religion perspective, then their aint much to say. In religion, u can only have sex with ur legal wife, nothing more. But aside religion, are you telling me that it is better to fornicate than to mastubate?

Jashub:
Sir what you are saying is unverifiable(especially that the part where you mentioned it as being a phase) . Please refrain from such. And another question I would like to ask (since I assume you are Christian by faith) is there anything like big sin and small sin...are all sins not condemnable? If yes, the why suggest masturbation as an alternative or is that how the bible suggest with conduct ourselves?

Just try and google it. You will discover that mastubation occurs mostly between the ages of 15 to 35. Thats to say a large number of people quit b4 they are 36. Secondly, I was not talking from the perspective of religion, i just said dat to make people know that im very much aware that mastubation is a sin. And lastly, the fact that the ration between sex related problems is extremely wider than mastubation related problems suggest that mastubation is even healthier than sex.