Confusedgirlie:
I knew him before leaving the country. He was in Nigeria and was doing quite okay, even though I was earning more than him.

We separated for a while since I wanted to focus a little on my new life. But recently, we connected again. I'm just realizing I still have something for him in spite of the time and distance. But I'm really confused about starting anything because it will mean that I have to bring him over.

What are the chances he won't take advantage of me?

My own Interpretation.
I the woman was doing better financially than this guy while in Nigeria,
I left for Canada but now found out that I didn't get better male mate options in Canada who wanted to marry Ma.
Now I am considering lowering my self set standards to pick up this guy from Nigeria as a potential mate partner. Should I

Looking to pair with one or 2 persons for a standard quality 2 or 3 bedroom flat in Oshodi.( preferably each room with its own toilet)

Please if You are looking for a standard accomodation in Oshodi

Let's talk and pair and look for a place Preferably working person or entrepreneur

Please I am not an agent and I am not collecting money from anyone. I just need a standard accomodation

A strictly male office assistant/ intern who is above 18 years old is needed to work in Azzon Medical diagnostic centre in Oshodi.
Strictly SCHOOL CERTIFICATE HOLDER who speaks good and fluent English and can read and write

Job Specifications

1- Typing reports and results and typing skills is compulsory
2- Attending to customers
3- Assisting in running errands in and outside the office.
4- Assisting in general duties
5- Following up on results and customer demands.
5- Courtesy and empathy
6- Assisting in carrying items and switching the generator on and off
6- Nearness to Oshodi is compulsory
7-Fluent spoken and written English compulsory


Work Schedule;
Monday to Friday;8am-6pm
Saturday; 8am-4 pm
Salary;33000
To resume as soon as possible

A male medical lab technician is needed for.immediate employment in a Diagnostic centre on Church Street in Oshodi. Lagos Good working environment. Prompt salaries + overtime
Nearness to oshodi is preferred.
( We already have a female lab technician, we need a male lab technician)

@Op


To be honest your topic and thread headline is false and misleading


I watched the CNN nterview and Peter Obi answered all the questions intelligently and articulately.
You are free to vote and support any candidate of your choice for the election but it is morally and ethically wrong to accuse a candidate falsely

Download chipper cash app and open a naira bank account on chipper cash and transfer money to the accounts

Then look for the dollar card section on your chipper cash account and create a digital virtual dollar card and change your naira to dollars on your chipper cash dollar card and use the card online


I used it. It worked

Download chipper cash app and open a bank account and transfer naira to your chipper cash bank account. Look for the dollar card sign section in the app and convert your naira to dollars in your dollar card and use the dollar card to spend in dollars online

Sorry Bros

Sorry . Get well please

A diagnostic centre in Oshodi needs a full time Male front desk officer to join other front desk officers to work in the front desk customer facing role of the organisation.


Job specifications
- Greeting and welcoming new customers and patients and attending to their inquiries.
- Showing customer the price lists of services and booking them for tests and investigations and accepting and recording payments and issuing receipts and invoices to patients
- Coordinating the patients qué for their tests
- money deposits to bank ( bank is less than 8 minutes from organisation
-Typing investigation reports and results
- Giving patients results on request
-Following up on patient results with the scan or lab or x-ray unit
- General duties as may be requested
Expectations/ Qualifications
- Honesty
- Hard work
- Good English Language Skills
- Honesty
- Hardwork and diligence
- Minimum of Secondary School Certificate or OND
- Ability to use Microsoft word and excel

Working Hours
Monday to Fridays.(8am-6pm)
Saturdays (8am-4pm) Overtime paid


3 months probation period then possible conversion to full time with HMO and Pension and Life and disability insurance.


Male Candidates only ( We have enough females)
Nearness to Oshodi necessary

A diagnostic centre in Oshodi needs a part time accountant( Saturdays only) to work as an independent contractor and todo book keeping, accounting records and expected accounting job duties for the organisation

Please BSC or HND accounting preferred

Please no gender specifics
Nearness to Oshodi necessary
Please call or contact on WhatsApp

+2348060638063
..
Update;
Available pool of candidates for interview gotten for now.
Thank You

See a doctor in a good government or private hospital

It's likely she was told in the hospital that the baby was malpositioned and she needs a C.S Caesarean Section to deliver the baby and she went to the quack who deceived her that they can deliver her normally

+2348034978886


Good tailor


Call this guy.to sew for You

harsysky:


You write well for a young man, but your comprehension skill is below par. The overall statement isn't for people to go into transportation business. It is for people to appreciate whatever hustle they find themselves doing without looking down on themselves or another. Shikena

It's dumb of You to attempt to rate my comprehension skill and call Me a young man. Get some manners. If You are happy with mediocrity, don't go and vote for a working government

Zonefree:

If you like have 10 children and you're poor, you'll still suffer when you're sick or old.

Make money, children or no children, just have money...that's the only way to escape suffering at old age.

Perfectly correct. A lot of people have professional nurses that do.home service in Nigeria. Some nurses even.like it because they nursing one patient instead of 4-20 in the hospital setting

To add


Prices of goods go up most times because we don't produce them


Those companies are meant to be established here and produce items and reduce imports and reduce dollar demand and also create jobs for Nigerian graduates.

DONT LET THE OP DECEIVE YOU

All this rubbish meaningless motivational talk encouraging mediocrity. If all graduates start driving tricycles or taxis or start hawking, those business will become crowded and saturated and prices will drop to unsustainable levels and even those who don't have access to education would not have that options.
Let us stop.getting used to and justifying suffering and government failure. How may South African Engineers are driving tricycles. How may South African Software engineers are driving taxis

No economy is built by low level service jobs. Nigeria as a country has crude oil and we don't produce enough millions of petrol for daily consumption and the government cannot galvanize companies to produce and refine enough petroleum from the crude.oil.and in the process employ engineers. We have serious infrastructure deficit of roads, buildings and houses and seaports and electricity and the government cannot galvanize companies to solve these.problems.and.in the process employ engineers.

Engineering, software,. healthcare, infrastructure is the basis of the economy and a middle class who can afford goods.
Nigeria has population but contributes very little revenue to most big corporations because of poor.purchasing power.
Dstv; Biggest Market; South Africa
Music; Nigeria is not among the first 20 biggest music spenders in the world

Facebook; America and Europe.. Nigerian's use it but are not even top 40 customers by country

Same with Google, Twitter , likely Instagram too



Even Iroko online video does not get sufficient Nigerian country customers but Customers from American, Europe and Canada


Why are things getting more expensive. Because we import everything in dollars

Petroleum
Wheat
Used Cars
Medicine
Medical Laboratory equipment
Power genrators


We have science and agriculture graduates that should be employed if the government had put the right companies to locally manufacture these items and create jobs.

Those graduates will buy cars, houses , pay fees, open side business etc thereby forming a middle class who build the economy and create wealth

She could have a blood clot or bleeding in her brain from that fall

Urgently do a BRAIN CT SCAN and a BRAIN MRI for your.mum.

Thank You

rickpat:
so your achievement in the whole ordeal is just a three letter word "SEX"? and you were super happy... funny

next time, simply ask her to pay for the service...you make some cash from tapping her bf phone for her


too bad what youths prioritize these days....


good luck buddy

You got it spot on. Extreme stupidity by the OP. Instead him to learn IT Skills.ao.that Amazon can employ him and move him out of Nigeria

Transission phones ( infinix, Tecno and itel) are not among the top ten phone brand rankings in China as at 2020 when I bought.my Oppo phone after research

Transi ssion phones ( infinix, Tecno and itel) are not among the top ten phone brand rankings in China as at 2020 when I bought.my Oppo phone after research.

TONYE001:


Exactly!

It is unlikely that a certified doc would recommend CS when there is no clear reason. Patients do not understand a lot of things that go down...and I blame the docs, in part. Most docs just prescribe and recommend treatment protocols without appropriately explaining to the patient WHY. To argue in the favour of docs, the workload makes this tough...as everyone wants to shorten consultation time and see the next patient.

Otherwise, if it's at the hospital where the wife had her ANC, delivery options and complication preparedness is a discussion that is initiated by the provider from the first day...the booking visit, infact...each visit, the books recommend that the doc takes the patient through this discussion...again, and again.

Once an indication for CS is identified, the doc must have told them long before delivery...unless it's an emergency CS....Still, the doc would have prepared them for possible emergencies.

Let's just thank God things didn't go bad.

Nigerian's refuse operations alot despite medical advice. Religious brainwashing and unrealistic optimism

Even saw a case years back of a lady refusing C.S that a pastor said that if she did C.S, she would die. When the labour wanted to kill her, she opted for the C.S and she did not die

The patient always has a story. The doctor always has their own version


Sometimes one is correct and the other is not. A lot happens in hospitals and there is a lot of wear and tear, transfer of aggression, grumbling due to lack of money to pay for drugs and treatments, poor pay commensurate to work load, unhappiness by people that they are ill, work stress by medical staff

It is multi faceted

About the Guy who declined C.S for his wife, You and your wife were not just lucky things didn't go South

Op great one

I thought of this years ago. Can we talk

Who wears the shoes know where it pinches.
In practice, some of the patients a health workers sometimes is putting extra effort for tends to very rude and snappy and sarcastic.
It's painful but doctors and nurses are not the causes of people's health problems. You don't fight a mechanic because a car that You have been using got spoilt on the road. You don't fight a food seller because You are hungry.
Some Nigerian patients come to the hospital and behave rude to people they want to care for them. Everybody has limits.
Only parties involved know what really transpired

nedekid:

I know you mean good. But please leave all this laws you are quoting.
Let's ensure Nigerians are responsible. You take a loan, you play!
The average Nigerian will look like a cute little puppy when begging you for money. But when it is time to pay, they turn to tigers!
Most Nigerians once you lend them money they assume they have used your head.
That op is not telling the story as it is. He should pay, people like that make things difficult for others cos they make interest high due to high default rate.
The other day government ie cbn complained about the anchor borrowers scheme. Despite the low interest rate, the moratorium, the extention of time for payments, beneficiaries have failed to pay.
CBN says it is considering publishing the names of borrowers in national dailies!

You are very right and correct on this

Tabithatim:
Come and see o! A particular loan app in this Nigeria has been threatening me over a loan that isn’t due, out of 6 instalments I’ve paid 3 and now just some hours after the 3rd instalment is to be paid they’ve started sending me threatening messages and even had the guts to contact people on my contact list that I’m late on my payment. This is so wrong!!

So in July I took out a loan of 150k to pay back in 6 months, they gave me their rules and how I’ll pay it (make I no even talk the big interest rate way dem give me, that one one na topic for anoda day). After confirming my loan on the 2nd of July, it took 4 days for the money to reflect in my account after many stories and mails to them. Can you imagine that these guys have been debiting me on the 2nd of every month claiming that’s when my loan was approved and it’s from my end there was a delay. That’s so unprofessional and mean! I’ve tried to speak with someone on their end but nothing…they’re just speaking English. I don’t know how to report them. Now they’re threatening me even though they’re the ones at wrong.

Most of these loan companies don't care about you or your reputation o. They will promise you heaven & earth everything join with sweet words, they will trick you with social media ads only to lure you in and torture you.

I just tire. I’m soooo pained that I even had to take a loan in the first place and this is what they’re putting a customer through. Na only to dey dirty people name them sabi all these loan apps are one kind and maybe even fraudulent cause not only is their interest rates too high, they shouldn’t be allowed to threaten people at all even if they’ve missed a payment date; it’s just wrong. Is this how all loan apps are? What can I do? I heard FairMoney and some other loan apps are better?

Must You take a loan knowing the records and antecedents of this loan apps in this 21st century. Must You go and meet them for money. You saw hot water with crocodile and shark. You went and jumped in . What then did You expect

@Op I see a case of 2 deceivers



1) You went for her because of her financial status of course knowing she likely skims money off her job as a cashier( I might be wrong) and that she was not what You wanted and You still had another nurse chick who is now in the UK and You were coordinating both babes based on the economic and social value you could .get from each one. Oshay Mr coordinator. You can't get a rich, fine, younger educated lady if You are not in that league or above her.


2) The Girl too knew your motives but is still played along because she wants to get married and having some element of money from her office hustle and knowing that biology and age and her not so educated status would not allow her get a rich, fine, handsome, professional ( do you think that she does not like better thing) She settled for You based on what she could get and forged her age and likely behaviour and pretence to like school to get You as You are the only likely prospect given her situation


Conclusion; You guys are both deceiving yourselves. Just return all she gave You and You guys knock everything. if You marry her, You won't be happy. You are both involved in emotional deceit.

Crossroad1:
Told her I couldn't get a woman pregnant as my doctor once told me I have watery sperm..
It was a lot of wahala going back and forth.
There was a day she vowed never to leave my door mouth and while I was trying to push her away so I could close my door, she held onto my john Thomas and that idiot is so sensitive to touch of a woman. So we end up dragging each other inside as she won't let go and we end up knacking from evening till morning.. She has this irresistible body...
So we talked about the pregnancy and I told her it wasn't for me..
She said I should give her money to abort it and I told her can't give her money to kill a foetus as I wasn't even the owner in the first place..
She left angrily and told me I will regret it..
True to her threat, me wey dey good standing before, my gp come dey shake..
I was relieved off my class rep title and I started having series of problem and night mare.. When it was becoming unbearable, I went to church, being a white garment person..
Na from church dem tell me say I Don knack agbako..
I went to where she was staying and learnt she left for Akwa ibom already..
She called me during one night like that and I was hearing alot of voices, like occultic voices and she keep repeating the "you go suffer words"...
Have actually been to Akwa ibom twice..
The first time was to go see her and seek for forgiveness cos I really suffer back then in school, I was even almost rusticated..
If some people could remember vividly the time Oloyede expelled some final year engineering students he tagged cultists for reading at the back of ELT back then, it was immediately I left them after a brief explanation one of them did for me that the incident happened..
Omo mhen, my eyes see pepper no be small..
She wasn't actually pregnant but she wanted us to be an issue back then which I know will distract my education..

When I went for service, I no Sabi as I take jam am one time for market.. She saw me and dodge and she end up trailing me to my apartment..
It was 3yrs + after and she now made alot od sense.. Full option everything but knowing what I went through, I bind and cast her ni..
She even told me not to worry that she won't get pregnant that I have nothing to be afraid of...
I no gree o.
Each time I remember this story, I come dey fear women like mad but no way no way, all die na still die as we no get option than to yansh them but this time with serious caution

Op I am a guy but it serves you right. You went to met a girl that was on her own and collected her number and started deceiving and lying to her that You would make her a successful model if she sleeps with You.
Why didn't You just tell her that You wanted No strings attached sex. You are lucky you didn't die.