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Flat mate needed in a 2 bedroom flat. you will occupy one of the rooms, you also have a bathroom and toilet to yourself. There is no need to buy anything big. the original occupant already has the house set up. there is even a bed in your own room already. so you can just come with your clothes alone if you like. � reach me on 0 9 0 3 4 90 1444
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A Friend (Male) needs a Flat Mate. He stays around Iju Ishaga side of Lagos. It is a Two bedroom flat. He has a new job that takes him away for weeks now and has decided to share the apartment since he doesn't even stay there so much. You would have a Room, a Bathroom and toilet to yourself and share the remaining places like Sitting room and Kitchen. Its more of a Serviced Apartment, because the house is already set up and you probably don't need to bring any other thing except your personal stuff. Please reach me. 1 Like |
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NB: I only added a few jink to this work, it was totally written by a friend of Mine: Tombellz Akorin (@AkorinTm), A social Critic and Gospel/Conscious Musician! OUR PARENTS ARE DELUSIONAL!!!! (Teenage- Parent relationship does it exist?) First of all, I like to define what a Teen is: In order not to confuse the great minds of my readers! 'Its simply defined' A person aged from 13 to 19 years But because of the versatility of what am writing and the civilisation of our World I will reduce this age limit down! So the TEENS, that I will referring to in this journal are children/Teens ranging from 8-18 Teens are wonderful people, unique people who are easily Misunderstood, and badly treated! Yes I mean it! Parents appreciate their teens so much, that some times, they many go extra limit to do somethings for them including FUSTRATE them! Teens are largely Mis-understood! Parents claim to wish them well(and in real sense, they do) but they end up frustrating them! As Parents, you have goals for your children, you want them to be well successful in life, and you feel that nothing should dent their destiny, Well, that's still the best thing a Parent can wish for their children: But how do we carry it Out, certainly not the way 90% of Nigeria Parents carry it out! First: Have seen countless parents, with the 'DON'T GO OUT' policy, Parents who lock up their wards home, and only release them to go to school, after that its indoors thru out! In all sense of reality, it is actually a way of keeping their wards from joining bad company, and making them read their books----- which is actually a good plan but with poor execution! Ask those children (If they would be truthful) you are merely ENSLAVING them! That a childs plays and catch fun doesn't mean he/she can't read or will fall in bad company, its all about Moderation- which you are supposed to TEACH them in the first place! Parents don't teach their children anything about life, yet they become this Protective cover--- Over WHAT ![]() You lock your girl inside because you don't TRUST those guys out there, they may corrupt her, so she shouldn't have male friends, and she should stay indoor too! That would solve the Problem shey? Before we start talking about Consequences of this Naïve acts by Parents, let's examine others Let's talk about SEX!! Hmmmm! Me as a person and over 50 people I asked in 3 days-- None of them learnt about Sex from their Parents, basically, we have just like 8% of Nigeria Parents talking to their Wards about Sex! And even those who do, probably only lecture their Girl child, with some few words of: Don't allow a Boy to do this, you may get pregnant, and so on.. The rest! Probably Sex is an abominable word in the house, Parents don't lecture nor explain the basis of Sex to their children, and they will be the first person to shout IF YOU EVER GET PREGNANT, I WILL DISOWN YOU Sorry dad, but what's Pregnant?? Lmao! Actually, that's supposed to be a Joke. But seriously; how come you are telling me not to get pregnant, when u never even discussed the process of pregnancy with me! You feel shy or heavy to Discuss SEX with them, yet you watch a nollywood movie that is expressly rated 18 with them, and feel free even with the Hot romance and almost Sex Scenes! Basically 96% Of all Nollywood films are always rated 18! But Our parents watch it with US and yet wouldn't explain Sex to their Wards! SMH What Parents don't know, or are not paying attention to is: If you don't teach them about it, they will learn it from outside! And most times in a Wrong Way! Don't u wonder, We find 8 year old children in the process of playing 'Daddy and Mummy' having dry Sex!!! There are several cases like that of course! How does an 8 year old kid know how to have Sex? You as a parent, u feel its too Early to discuss Sex with them, but How come the Kid already knows about it, and is even practising it! And They even know better than to do it where you can catch them, they do it Secret--- Don't you Wonder Why on Earth would they know what they are doing is wrong and MUST not be caught! 8 YEAR old kids!!! Now, You lock up your child at home, and keep shouting don't have friends! Well, that's almost impossible, they will have friends, the worse part is you won't know! And in case you don't know, Peer Pressure is like the greatest Pressure a Teen can face! Not even your pressure at home as a parent can match it! When they start having friends Secretly - that's the most dangerous trick! You can easily solve the problem by allowing transparency of friends, Make your Ward know, you are cool with friends, and you can help them select! When your Kid's friends feel free to walk up to your house and joke around with you and the whole family: Am telling you, your child is safe! You can easily advise them: you know, they can easily confide in you! And Guess what? When Teens feel free around you, they leak their secret to you without them even knowing, you can be aware of their latest plan and can easily advice them out of it! Talking about Friendship... When Your 13 year old Girl receives a Love letter, and shows it to her friend first, you have failed as a Parent! You should be your kid's best friend, She could easily walk up to you and tell you' Shile sent me this letter' but here comes another WARNInG: its not really up to you to go to 'Shile's house to start warning him to leave your Daughter alone! The Next time she receives another letter she won't show you again! You can't be shouting around the whole area, and except her to trust you again! There are better ways to handle matters like that, in which your daughter/Son will trust you more than anyone! On relationships.... You keep telling you 15 year old Girl not to have any boyfriends, and the best Explanation you can give is that Pregnancy and Virginity warning, am telling you that this doesn't work anymore! She has 2 or more friends that have boyfriends, and have been telling her about it-- 'Of course you don't know them since you don't know her friends' Those Virginity and Pregnancy fear you thought you instilled in her has expired- I bet a 10 year old can lecture you about the works of a Condom! Watch out for Part Two! Thanks! |
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Judging from the Bible, God's intention was probably just to Create MAN (male gender) but MAN was obviously too lonely and instead of creating another MAN as a friend to him, God gave a HELPMATE Now the work of an HELPMATE was to make the garden easier, someone like a modern day House Maid, till today Women are still referred to the Weaker Gender, Some Women don't believe in this, but from the beginning WOMEN were created to Serve, the type of work their MASTER(Man) decides! To follow up the creation story of the bible, this HELPMATE is instrumental to the fall of the WHOLE human race from the Garden of Life! This HELPMATE is the stupid One who was deceived by an ordinary serpent! The same HELPMATE received several curses from the Almighty (One I think is still battling them) Looking Well at the Bible, it was evident that the BOYS were the treasures, while the Girls were available presents readymaid to be used at anytime! When the Sinful people of Sodom and Gomorah were after the Angels who had Visited LOT, he came outside and offered them His DAUGHTERS, he had Sons also, and since the people of Sodom were GAY, they could also receive the Sons, but instead he offered them his Daughters to do whatsoever they want with them! He only thought about them as Gifts he could just give to any body anytime! The Sons were his Treasures that he adorn! There are several stories in the Bible to buttress the point that Women are just HELPMATE, not serious Treasures! In Nigeria here: Going back to the ancient Traditional setting of the Igbos, A Igbo Man Would contemplate taking another wife immediately his wife gives birth to two Girls without a BOY! The. Woman may be labelled a witch, and if not careful, may be Driven out of the House! In the Northen Side: the Help Mate is not even allowed to Mature before she starts the duty of a 'Slave': Girls are given out to a Man at tender ages, and the Man gathers as many as he wants In the South West: An ancient Warrior is quick to be welcomed from the battle field, by the preparation a a brand new Maiden, A Yoruba Chief can decide to Buy as many as he likes, and also Sell his Own off! Let's forget the ancient days and think about the Current days in which we live in Are Woman now free, since they are more Educated and Civilised?? Who are Prostitute around, the People who Men pay just to have fun, because they something to offer? Or Because they are just Slaves and flings who wil throw themselves at any thing Money? Who are the Half Naked( Half naked is a better Word, this days they are virtually naked) People swinging in Videos of Hip Hop stars of Today! It looks like this Slavery thing is launching deeper in them daily, in the 90's music was about a lady: how beautiful she is, her smiles, Her Love, ------- But this days, its about her breasts, her bums, her Sexiness, for her to shake it, and whine it well for Them--- the Male! And they don't see it as an abuse, they would be the first to jump and dance at it in Parties!--- all My ladies shake up your bum bum' he said all my Ladies not Lady, So he meant a lot of them++ I know Girls that would dance Over Night to that Song! And really really would shake It! If you Watched the Video of the song before NBC banned it--- You will know that this Ladies are SLAVES! Even when these Guys don't sing about them, they still put them in their videos( You are asking what for) To shake it as Well na!... 'Angeli toh Pin re Oju e daa, it is My time to Shine no retreat no surrender' That Song contained nothing about any Girl, but if you watch the Video: You will still find Half Naked Girls Whining!!! Why? Because A video is not complete without bringing the Slave Gender to come and do anything for Money! Or you haven't seen pictures of Tiwa Savage a lady u all are shouting about, performing with almost nothing On, have you watched her Love me Love me Video--- Recently she was said to have been perfoming without under wear with a mere flimsy Skirt! And I see thousands of Girls saying 'Tiwa is my role Model' Are you not SLAVES? In the United States at a Concert: Iyanya was billed to perform, When he came on stage, I was happy to see him, Kukere was a Banger, and I was happy to see him perform;; without any Ladies! But ooops: No he came on with a Lady who was Obviously not wearing any underwear and any other Clothing than a Top, and she started Whining her Downside NAKED!!!! Mehn I wanted to Vomit, but I could see a lot of Men gearing her and Shouting ... Well at least they were Fun seekers, What Shocked me was the Women too were Gearing her Up! MY GOD!!!! And if yu think those Women were rough women, there were so many Rich and Exposed Women in the Hall! And is somebody saying I did not cite the good Ones ![]() Well.. We have Bank Managers, Even President of Females--- and to tell you I have seen countless bank managers who wear revealing cloth where you can easily pick out their Cleavages!! And Come to think of It__ Ladies will put on cloths that reveals Cleaveges, Exposes their thighs all in the name of being Trending and Sexy! And Males will approach them because of what they Expose not what they see in them... And you say they are not Slaves ![]() We can keep ranting and ranting as we can! No offence to the Female Gender, But from all indication from all what we can see and have seen: MOST of them are just like the Slaves we are talking about! NB: This is to quicken the consciousness of. Whoever concerned not in any way Abusive! |
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How can u say u are not a writer ![]() I haven't read all the stories but to where I stopped I see that u have taken a great deal of time to do this! That automatically makes u a writer, and you must improve... For now, maybe when u write a series, Send it to experienced writers to do a review so as to create the suspense, use humour and give your wrting style! When u write in style it makes your readers get TOO intrested! For example; In your very beginning, u have done very little to describe Segun to us! His body build, check bone, Height, and so on! Now lemme give u an example of Style: **** Walking down the Road, Segun cursed with anger, still breathing heavily: thoughts raced down his mind! 'Will she say Yes? He still couldn't bring his mind to it! He had bleeped up, and Yes he knew it: She will probably hate it now! **** I just gave a example for you to understand what I mean! 4 Likes |
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You have the Knowledge of Story Writing, but you lack Style! An Ibadan based family all tushed with classical English ![]() You are not paying attention to details! You are telling the story like you relating to pry skul students! No humour, No sarcasm! Un realistic plots!!! Even Secondary skul cultist are wise enough than to start fighting in broad day light with a Dagger! And lots more 1 Like |
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