MuttleyLaff:
His grievances were:
Secretly building a personal house in the village
Rejecting idea of mom-in-law living with them
Requesting him to vacate and move out from house he allegedly bought
Phoning and calling police on him.
No more ready to share pay check with him

No, there was no third party sexually involved. This is a crime of diminished responsibility. This is obvious from how deranged and gibberish the man was behaving in the background with the operator on

Not supporting what he did but you won’t understand what he passed through until you re there. Not until you visit these North American countries before you can comment properly

majamajic:


It's a gesture , they need withdraw those arms from bandits , with that peace will come back , nice move !

Like seriously? What about the prop they have killed? Where is justice in all of this? So we need to start paying murderers to stop killing? What kind of orientation are we having these days? You kill ruthlessly and get paid for it.

Daploid06:
Funny enough FG is planning to resume international flight ...........abegi party scatter

How sure are you bro

ikaboy:
When you have nothing to show for in 3 years. Same avenue meant to showcases his achievement is being use to taunt the best preforming governor cum criminal. What a shame!

Did you just say best governor? Oh maybe in the aspect of pocketing 5 million dollars

post=91496856:
Good for them.






While some people governors were sharing kerosene, alongside fufu and egusi soup the other day.
The difference in governance is clear mehn!


God bless our darling Daddy President Muhammadu Buhari and his amiable Vice President Prof Yemi Osinbajo for all they are doing to make this once battered and looted nation work again

Bro’s are you not tired of all this nonsense you keep repeating. When people are dying in hundreds you keep typing rubbish. Will you type that if one of your loved one is killed?

seunmsg:


Well, not until the Supreme Court governors of Zamfara and Bayelsa are removed. Till then, Uzodinma is going nowhere.


Anyway, the case is just a mere ploy to distract the governor. I will urge Governor Hope Uzodinma not to be distracted. He should continue the good work that he’s doing especially in the area of exposing the frauds perpetuated by the previous administrations.

Them no go see una for thread were bandits are being reported o, you guys dodge all that and go to other places to defend failure

Fashion designer governor

johnoj24:
We are working so hard to get this country Nigeria working again; very soon Nigeria will be a better place to live so if you are traveling out you are on your own.

Same thing our fathers told themselves, our children and grandchildren will say the same thing.... remember wen Andrew wanted to checkout? It wasn’t this bad then

My only regrets is not leaving Nigeria on time. What have I benefitted as a Nigerian since my birth? Abeg let me enjoy my Canadian PR in peace. Who cares about a country who can’t protect it’s citizen

Acidosis:
Nigerian Government needs to proscribe and place an everlasting ban on public processions that disrupt movements, trade, and services.

The list shouldn't stop at Shittes. It is stupidity to ban Shitte processions and allow Oro cultists invade Ikorodu and other towns in Nigeria. No senseless Oba or Chief has the right to restrict movements of anybody, indigene or not, male or female.

When you proscribe Shittes movements and allow Oro people to restrict movements, then you're just being stup!d and senseless as a nation.

How about blocking the road for prayers every fridays by the sunni muslim? Should that be allowed to continue

AbuuBilaal:
Firstly, comparing pigs to cows is an erroneous comparison. Cows are eating by virtually everybody in the country. I do not know any tribe that doesn't eat beef. Rather, all other meat sources only supplement beef.

Secondly, it's a simple issue. Fulanis should take their cattle to the north and let's see who will lose more. Youruba man that can't even manage a dozen goats, how will he get meat for his wedding, naming and other ceremonies.

Thirdly, cattle is reared and grazed but pigs are confined. Until pigs are reared like cattle, there's no need for a 'puga' scheme.

Fourthly, ruga created to solve a societal nuisance. Meaning that it was born out of necessity. Farmers and cattle owners are struggling for scare resources - green pasture and land - but this isn't the case with piggery.

In summary, we should all try to be objective and realistic. A good and peaceful Nigeria will benefit us all. Let's not join hands with trouble makers and agents of anarchy.

I rest my case.

Bros Fulani will lose more becuase nobody will buy their cow, south is the major market. Pigs can be left to roam too. Cattle are confined and ranch in sane clime. How many times have you seen cow on the street of New York and Washington DC? Does it mean they don't have? Please embrace civilization and get out of ur stoned age

netpro:
I am sure if Atiku had proposed it, most of those wailing will find reasons to accept it.

To curb herdsmen clashes with farmers, they need to settle in a place. So why are States and communities giving them leprosy treatment? Even if you rear the cattle up north you still need to keep them alive in the south till they are sold.

Let justice be served first to those they murdered, Let us see the FG protecting the lives of abiding Nigerians and not the criminals and murderers all in the name of herdsmen then we will receive them but until then FG, Buhari and fulani herdsmen should all rot in hell

AllenSpencer:



That is the point.. So what are we arguing about here? If the government decides to do so for them on agreement basis, fine.

I concur with your point.

But the government has never come out to say they going to generate money from there but just to build it for them. Just proscribe open grazing and you will see people building ranches to rent out to make money but as it is now who will rent for you after when Femi said we should give up our lands instead of dying.

Benekruku:


Can you please read what you composed and judge yourself if its sane?

So if a wrong thing is done, another wrong thing should be over looked.

Nigeria is in deep poo!

Bros if we can not condemn what is being done openly in the North why condemning what is done in the south? We let illegality thrive and flourish in the North but down South we shout ourselves down. Go and check what northerners do and see if you can do half here down South

AllenSpencer:


You shot yourself in the leg!

Can you lawfully trade tomatoe anywhere? No! You have to go to a designated place alllocated by the government.

Hello, If not failure in urban planning, a poultry shouldnt be close to residential area. They should have a designated zone to do such.

Dont Government give out agricultural farms at subsidized rate? Why does the government have shopping malls and market places?

You have no record about them and cant track them. Its after you confine them you can now start talking about taxing them.

You pointed a gun to your head with the point you raised.


+ point- If it might interest you, herdsmen dont buy this idea also as it would be more expensive for them to raise their cattles in a confined environment.

You actually shot yourself in your legs...

Do you get a space in that market for free? How abut those shops build by either government of private individuals? are they for free?

Even when the poultry is situated far from the people is the land free or given free by the government? Even when their are designated places is the place not being being rented?

You talked of subsidizing agric produce, It means that the farmers will still have to pay a little which is far diffrent in this case.

What we are saying is let the fulani herdsmen like every other law abiding Nigerian traders rent their land with their money and be confined in one location, that is how it's done in other climes, is that too difficult for them to do? Have we not tried for them? Remember our money have been used to import grass for them in the past.

Benekruku:
Insensitivity of Wike

When you lake a cultist a Governor, What do you expect!

Such statement shouldn't be coming out from a Governor.

Its sensitive and common reasoning should have cautioned him if it was installed.

But a governor once declared Zamfara an Islamic state and till now sharia is the supreme law there, even most of the northern state all practice sharia so what's the fuss about

AllenSpencer:


Hod did you arrive at your claims?

If they are buying or government is buying for them, does it make any difference.

Because they are the only herders that move their cows around. Other people indulge in that trade but have ranches privately built or rented so why should one sectioned be favoured? The difference is cattle rearing is a private business just like that woman selling tomatoes in the market, just like that your neighbor who bought land or rented a land for his own poultry. If the government can not provide poultry or free shops why should they use our tax to build a settlement for these people? A question for you... Do these people even pay tax?

helinues:
Average Nigerians are not accommodative.

FG is trying their best to solve killer herdsmen, while the state governors are frustrating the efforts

The best tin is to for them to rent land for their ranches just like everyother businesses. How come FG is not helping people to rent shops? even shops built by government are not free so why should our common wealth be used to build free stuff for a section. Another tin is these ranches shouldn't be forced on people

AllenSpencer:


Is it only Fulani's that are herdsmen? Stop attributing a crime to a tribe. Their are Okada robbers and their are decent ones. It happens in every industry. Should we say everything in Alaba or Aba is fake because its a hub of piracy.


No price is too expensive for peace to reign and No tribe is important than the other. Manufacturers are giving government loans at discounted interest rate, farmers are giving lands for cultivation at very subsidized rate, Militants are giving amnesty, And investors are wooed with incentives worth more than this.

So if this development will bring peace and draw a boundary, Its highly welcomed.

But it's only Fulani that are cuasing the mayhem in the country, let them buy lands or rent land for their business. Cattle rearing is private business just like everyother private businesses. They should buy ranches for their cattle

micfoley:
LONG OVERDUE

GEJ really goofed by not doing this when he had the chance

how did he goofed? when he tried renaming UNILAG after Abiola what happened? my brother it's all about hypocrisy

gabicon:


First of all you need to understand that the principles of marriage are still the same over a century ago but the concept has changed. In today's world women are no longer dependent on men economically hence they no longer take the crap they did 20years ago. Women now exercise a more robust Sense of freedom. If you are looking for a wife that will do your every bidding, I must let you know that she doesn't not exist anymore, some may look like it in the beginning but they will eventually metamorphose.
Mother's have told their daughters how unfulfilled they were in their marriages and the daughters are not willing to repeat that experience.

Making a marriage work in this age will involve both parties clearly stating their requirements, both parties have needs and those needs have to be met and the modalities of how needs are to be met needs to be discussed.

You can decide to show this lady the red card there is a high chance that the next one will be similar or worse, the once you should be careful of are the once that will pretend their way to marriage then they switch. The paradigm shift has occurred you just didn't get the memo.

thanks for ur mature response

Linzo:
Reading the Op story line and his comments, I thereby concludes that the OP is pure and concentrated archaic boy/man.

Mr laslas, you have not mention anything that warrant you quashing your marriage plan with your lady. You just mentioned few things which are
1._That you're immature
2. That your inferiority complex is at the highest level
3. That you're an unbaptized archaic man of 21st century
Finally, you should be happy to have gotten a lady like your wife to be who is more advance in the today's knowledge. I urge you to bend low and learn from her because your thinking is still archaic

thank you

safarigirl:
don't you have siblings bearing your father's name too? So, why must your wife throw hee father's name away?

Is she your child?

Have you done half the things her father has done for her? So, because you are marrying her, she must throw away her entire identity?

Nothing concerns you with what names she chooses to affix to your name that she will already take, as long as na your name finish story. Afterall, great women like Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala have taken both their father's and husband's names to great heights and nobody has died.


You never jam, there are some mad ones that will insist yoir kids bear a combination of your name and her father's name, na this one you dey fear for. Grow a backbone, because external forces are obviously playing you like pingpong.

non of my married sisters are bearing my dad's name. Even if they do and husband is Oook dats him and I'm different...

ricki:

I understand and feel ur pain........going through same too.
Not fun at all. It is like curse written in Deuteronomy 28.
I saw dem too but by heavenly father power he prepared me.

are you married to her now

Ishilove:

So you didn't notice all these traits before going to see her parents? You just want to bring shame to her.

Satanic time waster.

Yea I noticed all this which I sometimes draw her attention to, sometimes when I tell her to do some home chores she feels I am punishing her, dat if I can't do it myself. She once said she fell for me cuz of how she sees me doing my cleaning and cooking myself dat she needs such a man. there was a time she told me she must add her dad's name to her marital name which I objected. we even had to argue about it for sometime. I have tried to discuss somethings with her but she thinks am too archaic or not modern in my reasoning. she'll always tell me things aren't done dat way again

KomonSense:


Make una go dey blame Chimmamnda Adichie... Nah she put all Nigeria ladies for wahala when she started that her useless feminist campaign..

Imagine she said she won't bear her husband's name after marriage... Tue... Spits

do you know she has actually suggested that one's to me? That she must include her father's name to her name when married? She reluctantly agreed after so much argument. Giving reason that her dad has give much to her, she won't just want her dad's name to disappear of which she has alot of brothers bearing her dad's name

femi4:
Kids everywhere ..you are not emotionally balance

The mature one thank you for your contribution

liberalchick:
What traits does she exhibit that make you think she is a feminist. Feminist is the most abused word in Nigeria. Also, marriage is NOT easy, if you suspect huge difference in ideologies please ABORT! Do not expect she will change. Talk to her about your misgivings and don’t go ahead if you aren’t convinced. If you go through with it, do not start bashing women after u can’t ‘correct’ her to your vision of a ‘good’ wife because you ignored the signs. Also, you need to let her know quickly so she can go find a man she is equally yoked with.

Her ideologies are totally different from mine. When ever i correct her on some issues or tell her to do some stuffs she feel am trampling on her and sometimes she feel i'm punishing her.

Curlieweed:


Babe done dey balance small come feel free to show herself. Lol.

Not that she's really balance financially but from her statement and body language sometimes you will suspect such. I have actually told her that she's a ferminist and she laughed and told me she's not.... Am just scared because she might be hiding it now

abc115:
Marriage is a difficult institution . All women are the same, it just depends on how you handle them. It is easy to bend a man than a woman. No perfect human being. Just follow your heart.

Bros if i enter the marriage bros i think i won't last

donbachi:
Spiritually,someone is sitting on your marriage..how can you take your wife to be to your village to meet with parent.only to return back with the thought of ending it..it is not ordinary..when it comes to marriage,we pay more attentions to the physical,finances and human qualities negleting the spiritual side of marriage.both of you should seek the face of God.and pray.

thank you for such advice