Tashaamania:

The nonentity might turn out to be Mr. right. I'm just saying..
She shouldn't ignore any signs. Staying with someone for five years isn't a guarantee just as knowing someone couple of months back isn't. Anyone can pretend for any length of time.

OP weigh both options. if need be, take time off the wedding planning, postpone and figure out what you really want. Marriage no be beans especially when you're going into it with doubts, that's alot of pending trouble.

abeg no one can't pretend for 5years except Op never knew the guy. Don't get me wrong, people change due to the influences they are expose to bt our core characters are the same. Op said she knows the guy loves her and she loves the guy bt the problem is with her.

And this new guy knows abt ur BF for 5 years. What makes u think he wouldnt leave u for another girl? If he can't respect ur relationship wat makes u think he will respect ur relationship with u? That's if he wants one

Op u r a very inconsiderate person to urself, BF, ur BF's family and ur family. U wasted 5years to recognize the fact u r confuse, after calling his people to meet ur people. In case u don't know 5 years is 60 months that appro. 1900 dayz.

After 5years of relationship u should know by now love is beyond just emotions or feelings bt more of a decision. Chioce! If u leave this ur BF and follow this random guy u hv made a decision and u should be able to leave with it for the rest of ur life and vise versa!

Now ask urself am I ready to destroy what I hv built for 5 years I.e u have wasted time, money, common sense try and look back to all the fight u guyz had and how u hv become stronger in the relationship b4 this random guy showed up!

I hv never even being in a relationship up to 2years bt if I hv reached even 3 years with a girl she go don carry belle sef.

Having cold feet is one thing bt being distracted hmmmmm ma sister that one is strong!

Very terrible story! Whereever op u got this story from I think it wasn't important to state that the man is from IGBIRA.

switkera:
A, E and F.

Like ur choice seems more realitic.

mmsen:


The stories of the old testament could date as far back as the 10 century BC or the 18th century BC, that is a huge gulf. You cannot have such a broad base date.

the carbon dating we talked abt wat it uses is the availbility of the different isotopies of carbon which carbon-12 and carbon-14 which ma brother is rounded up to the 4th figue.so tell me wat is certain?

leonprince:
so tell me wat is certain in any book you have read, ma bro we only read people opinions and make references and accept wat we believe in it. And that's wat make u a free thinker.

the carbon dating we talked abt wat it uses is the availbility of the different isotopies of carbon which carbon-12 and carbon-14 which ma brother is rounded up to the 4th figue.so tell me wat is certain?

mmsen:


Which other 'Christian writings'?

The Bible should not be used as a reference point - the date and origins of the Bible is itself not certain.

so tell me wat is certain in any book you have read, ma bro we only read people opinions and make references and accept wat we believe in it. And that's wat make u a free thinker.

mmsen:


Carbon dating is used to identify the age of a skeleton or item.

That is how Lucy was dated.

That is how the dinosaurs were dated.

That is how we know that the Bible is wrong when it comes to the age of the earth - life has existed on earth for much longer than 6000 years.

I do not know what they found of the Efiks to suggest that they were around from 8000 BC but there are cave paintings in parts of the world that are 30,000 years old.

no doubt abt that if you read other christain writings which I know u don't, there is something called pre-adamic time. Ma point is u can't just write 8000BC and xpect every reader to take it in, that why I used the bible as reference.

mmsen:


'Lucy' is 3.2 million years old and the oldest known human.

Homo sapiens are said to be 195,000 years old.

Your Bible is a book of fairy tales not historical fact.

was history documented at 3.2 million years or evidence of fossils from carbondating told u that? Give us the evidence efik people at 8000BC.

OP plz get your date right Nobody was alive by 8000BC. Even Adam from now is believed to be 6000 years back and jesus is 2000 years back. So I like ur write up bt abeg change the date to the correct one.

resty4:
Who is sanusi fooling? now that is muslim brother is elected he is trying 2 make his emirate appear tolerant of other faith.
We are watching!
Christains in kano state and other muslim dominated states know my point.

ma brother atleast he has done something congratulate him first. I'm a christain in the north all ma life in the north no moslim leader has done this. So be happy first it might be the begining of tolerance among faith bt I'm not saying we should drop our guard bt atleast a seed of tolerance has been planted.

Nigerian forrest Gump

akinboyepelumi1:
I partially agree with you but believe me it is not a good idea. It is only the State of Origin that remind some people that they are actually from a particular state.

I came across a girl some years back who called her dad to ask of her state of origin, You can imagine that! Am talking about a girl of about 21years old.

In Unity, well, fine but in another way round let's leave it that way.

so if she calls her father and ask him that's they parents fault not nigeria. Bt the bottom line is that she is nigerian and whereever she is will be recognize as such.

I studied chemistry too, when I was in school. I had this problem. I struggled to make it in chemistry bt I'm done now and I feel there were allot of things I did wrongly in school when made me struggle.

1. Fear
Our course chemistry is a course that allot of students ahead of u tell u allot of scare stories abt courses like thernmodynamics, kinectics and organic but one thing u should know is that we r different, one man's food is another poison. Know ur strength and ur weakness I was very good at organic bt struggle with inorganic so I made sure I read organic and spent more time on inorganic.I study pass questions from beginining of the semester and as I'm reading I answer pass question don't wait till examz b4 u try ur hands on pass questions. This increases ur confidence over time. Don't be scared allot of people hv graduated with first class in chemistry why not U.

2. Time
Chemistry is very time consuming. Make time table according to when it is suitable for u to read. Most attime u hv praticals which will take ur time don't wait until u hv a free time b4 u read, read in between time. When in practicals waiting for crystals to form read some thermodynamics to refresh ur mind. Read allot over and over again to get use to topics like synthesis, reactions of carbcation and carbanions.
Cut down church activities to minmium don't be wasting time anyhow like some1 doing threate art.all work not play makes jack a dull boy bt play with sense. Attime u don't feel like reading ma guy force urself after like 5mins u will start enjoying it.

3. High credit load
Course with credit load 3 and above don't joke with them make sure u get an A at most B.

4. Don't play with ur project.
Ur project is ur booster and ur light on the other end.

5. Don't see it like u r competing with someone in ur department. U r in the university nobody dey carry last.

holyokoto:


Because you never jam

u sound desperate for a job.

Depends on the guy's orientation, bt I see nothing wrong with it sha.

vertebral column not spinal cord

My area in jos is 8degrees this morning.

I love politics and world econs bt I hv met girls that tot me a lot abt fashion hw to blend the colour of ur top and ur pants which I took trivial initially. So guy everybody has something to offer it depends if u want to know, or u want to see them for wat u wanna see

It depends wat u define as intelligence, people have different interest guy. You might like politics that doesn't mean every girl should like politics because of you. That's why people of different interest in a relationship teach eachother stuff the other doesn't know. Is a give and take thing not only in sex.

Those are traits of a psychopath if not checked he might become a serial killer killing women. He needs serious help b4 he does something serious. You said he is 19 he is young and feeding his mind with weird orgies under control condition. When the conditions changes he might erupt. u know the bible says "as a man thinks so he is".

In Nigeria we don't take such things serious I don't know y. We can stop a lot of crime b4 the even happen. So guy tell ur friend he needs help, he might see it normal bt it's not. Tell your pastor abt it or advice him to tell an elderly person who will take the matter seriously because u might be saving a lot of people from premature death.

Op are you gay?

True love knows no commandments

9ja dey burst ma head

na wash!

I hv grown apple. It needs serious care and patience even more than children. U can start from either the seed or from the stem. They do best in good conditions, I had to convert a store wen dey were seedlings.

From the seed;
U first hv to check hw good the seeds are by puting them in water. They seeds that sinks down to d bottom of the container are they good ones. U take a cloth soak it in water make it very damp put it in a container then put the seeds and cover them. Put this container with the seed in a refigenrator between 0-4 degrees leave it for abt 14-21dayz. this is to enable the seed to over come domancy. If u do it well in the 3rd week it will shoot well all this is the easy part grow it u hav to be very carefull.it takes it abt 10years b4 it starts producing apples.

From the stem
The is called grafting is taking the stem and planting it and this produces sweeter apple.

Goggle will give u more information.

MzPreshie: I think you got it all wrong. I aint having sleepless nights for him. I'm very much okay with us being just friends. Guess it was just attraction at first sight.

actually wat I mean is that he got u thinking and that a plus for him.