It has dropped drastically

Very apt, please if you read this, send me an email, would want to talk to you about something

meine:
I have been in your shoes. When i was younger, I was about marrying a 20 year old beauty queen who cursed me out because she was caught cheating with an ex. This same girl could kill you with respect and kneeling down but it was all an act.I was 10 years older than the girl but i got the curse of my life that day because of her wild exposure. She genuinely came back crying and begging but it was too late.Till date i believe part of why she made that mistake was her immaturity. Thereafter i did a re appraisal of my priority, i asked myself if i really wanted a beauty queen who will kill me with High BP or a matured and God fearing woman who is ready to settle down? I opted for the latter, she is few months older than me but its been blissful.

Integrity,Flexibility and Giving are the top factors you should look out for in a woman not if she looks older after 2 kids or whether she will respect you. A lot of things will test your love whether she is 20 or 50, I am not wishing you anything bad but what if the 20 year old woman experience delay in giving birth after marrying her? Will you run away from the marriage?. Be a man,The decision to marry someone is deeper than what you are looking at. You wont find a perfect woman,there will be some comma even if she is 20 years old.

As regards sex, please talk to the medical experts libido differs and depends on many things like your lifestyle,sugar intake,alcohol intake etc. but generally as women grow older their libido grows while that of men decreases. Thats why you see sugar mummies looking for younger men while many men are using viagra and burantashi with the help of Mouth Action to get it up. In fact, you cant use gender to determine libido,focus on a healthy lifestyle.

The decision is still yours on the long run. Dont make a foolish decision that you will look back in the future and regret ever making. Do you want a 20 year old who is still freaked by the latest android phone or a matured woman who sees building your own house as your immediate priority?

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okine4real:


I have sent you a mail.

Currently experiencing Same.
Not even up to a month .I'm not mentally ready but pregnancy

Please email me. I want us to talk

Savloon:
Please help a brother, I'll try to make it brief. I got married to someone I don't really love but because of pregnancy.

we met sometime around January, spent the night together around February we didn't have s*x 3nights she stayed, I live in a 1 bedroom apartment with sitting room well arranged, my kitchen was excellent and bathroom was neat. She was like you need to buy a dinning table, chair, she was like if I like her I should come and see her people I told her this is the first time we are staying together please calm down and let the relationship grow, we don't know each other before. I was beginning to like her gradually as we kept intouch. Then we met again March and this time we had s*x.

Though I had another girl whom I really enjoy how we get along well and fun to be with knows me better but because I want to get into a real relationship I want the love between myself and these ladies to grow naturally.

in a week time the girl called me that she's dead I was like what and said she's pregnant. because I don't want people to talk or put my family to shame I started telling my family that I have a girl I like I want her to come visiting that was where I think I made the mistake because she started getting into my family. The other girl knows the pregnant one by name coicidentally their names are the same as she usually call my phone but she would be like just follow your heart and I do like her because I said to myself since am average height I would like to marry a tall lady she's about 6ft, the pregnant girl is same height with me.

April she lost the pregnancy and visited me after. awhile and made me slept with her that the nurse said she wouldn't take in even if I don't use protection because she's not seen her cycle yet and she took in within a month after a miscarriage. I didn't like how everything was going anymore and the likeness I had for her was no more there like before but because she kept saying just go and see my people before the pregnancy would show up I didn't think with my head I just started looking for money here and there. I made wedding cards and day I made it available 2days later she had miscarriage for the second time in less than 2mths.

if I'd known I would have just done an introduction between both families that their daughter is pregnant for me call off the wedding. you wouldn't believe I didn't even know how I got money within a month did white wedding and traditional same day but each day I don't feel happy and we've been quareling and settling each day since February till now, we married barely 2mths now even in our honeymoon she was like she regrets marrying me and I don't feel happy within myself I'm sleeping and thinking, am bathing , working anything am doing I'm thinking like what have I gotten myself into marrying someone we don't love each other. she is like she is sorry for what she said I told her each day that everything happened so fast and I didn't even know how I came this far she said we can learn to love ourselves. I wear my wedding band but I don't feel that marriage spirit I've wanted all my life.

My former girlfriend has blocked me on Facebook, WhatsApp, blacklist my number too but I still uses someone else's phone just go to search and look at her photos but I don't even go through my wife's photo at all. As married couple we barely have fun time or cuddle, fall to each other's body and tickle each other, I do say to her I love her but it's not coming am trying my best it things would work.

She too has said she's getting tired already of the marriage because there's no fun like when we met newly. I don't want to discuss this with any of my family or anyone I know I feel very ashamed of myself already. All the plans have got for my future I think of them and see myself not getting there anymore because have just slowed myself down.

Please I need your advice am eating but ematiating everyday, I look sick because am thinking too much. I don't have peace

How do you mean by high level of masculinity?

quote author=9japride post=116034865]Marrying a girl in her early twenties is not cool. At that age she needs to invest in herself by learning new skills, graduate from higher institution, learn emotional skills , financial responsibility etc. Most men that marry very young girls tend to relegate them to the house. At that age if married, she will miss a lot of things a girl of her age should be doing. Times have change, I really don't like discussing about body count. Everyone have sex so what? Best is to find a lady that is not in competition with her man, the greatest mistake a man will make is to marry a lady with high level of masculinity. It usually end in tears.[/quote]

I need your contact abeg

okine4real:
Am seeing the issue from angle, i will use my father as an example, my father, fathered 5 children, all through i knew my father, he was a driver, my father know get shi shi, till my father died, his salary was 20k. we don't eat in the morning, we only eat at night. But let me tell you whom help the children balanced the equation a little bit, my MOTHER. My mother was a Tailor, she learnt sewing when she was carrying either her 2nd or 3rd child. She was working with UTC abi na UAC then before she lost her job, it was though for her, but she learnt it and became very good in sewing. If my father had married a slay woman, we the children and my father for hear am well well. My nother was more industrious than my dad. Now my father, fathered 5 children, yet he know fit send any of us go university, i remember in those days, even after secondary, all man go dey house because my father didn't even know if the children go go learn work, as JAMB dey jam him children.

Now you are smarter, you know that marrying a slay women cant help you in paying school fee. You know that Marrying a woman without a skill and degree is a recipe for disaster. Look for a way around it, the most likely logical way is, go marry better woman, forget those babes when e be say if them wear cloth all there shape go show and your dick go dey stand, guy those babes are what i call party babes, they are only meant for grooving, for marriage you need a woman that can be as strong as you. a woman that can even provide as much as you, normally a man would say you want to take care of 100 percent of house bills, guy that na lie, even God himself get Angels... You need a woman that would be your reserve, so when injury come, she takes over, guy inside marriage, you go see TOTO, i swear you go tire, everyday you would be spending money, look for a babe that is always busy, that is the kind of babe you have to date, the one always planning, working, improving on herself, not the once thinking of party and how to acquire IPhone 14...

Think like a woman, 99 percent of women falls in love with a guy that is rich not a man that has long dick, a woman falls in love with a man that is ready to settle down not a man that wants to be fucking her daily without proposing marriage. A woman falls in love with a man that can take good care of her first, before dick.

A man falls in love with a lady that is sexy, a lady that is jobless so that she is always avail for sex, a man falls in love with poor woman, so he can intimidate her with his little money.

Change the story of a man, Date a lady that is rich, Note you cant control her unreasonably. Date a woman that her priority is how she would improve on herself educationally, financially and at the same time, pulling her family upwards, Date a woman that has fear for her family(extended family) when issues dey between you and yourself, her family go put her in check....

Have you ever considered this situation, while being married, you need to add money to buy a house, i mean you get houses ohh, but opportunity just come say someone wants to sell a house and you dey short of like 3-5M in purchasing the house, all you just did was you called your wife and she loaned you the money.... Guy no marry any kind woman......

You and your siblings went through that stage because your dad gave birth to 9 children..... If na one you fit born, born am, start early... most important, know marry any kind woman.....

The Major message am passing to you is, don't marry any kind of woman.... marrying any kind of woman dey drag marriage back.... there is know point having a slay queen at home, yet nothing dey inside her head, she go even pass that empty brain inside your children head.

The reason while when woman discover say there husband dey cheat, the reason while them dey fight the side chick be say, them know say there husband na machine, the man dey provide for the house, the man dey take care of the house, so she doesn't want to lose the man, but when a man see say him wife dey cheat or dey try cheat, the man is ready to throw the woman outside, do you know while the man is ready to throw her away? BECAUSE THE WOMAN NO DEY CONTRIBUTE SHI-SHI FOR THE MARRIAGE. If the woman dey contribute wella for the marriage, the man o think am twice.

When my Son is old enough to get married, if the bride price of the wife to be na 1.5M and the woman dey work and her salary dey range of like 1M-3M. I go tell the woman family say make them increase the pride price to 3M, i go pay the money myself not my son, i go pay because the justice that lady salary go dey do for my Son house ehh, even baba God go dey see the effectiveness.

Peace out bro.

Just think am brother.

it really worked,thanks alot

the phöne is no more in stock

problem of gettin a fone wit no spare parts around

please help me oh,my HTC one m7 htl 22 is NOT showing CDMA NOR LTE ,AND HOW CAN I UPGRADE IT TO LOLLIPOP .IT IS STILL ON KITKAT,I JUSTT PURCHASED IT
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wil order mine blackfriday

the prob of al dis phones na camera

jumia

It might be that he is acting or making a movie,guess how interesting that movie would be.

i dnt knw y cubot dinosaur even doh d camera as they said isnt gud enuf

Darkseid:
I tried to buy Lenovo k5 note today with my Diamond bank visa card but I kept getting transaction cancelled. I think I'll rather buy Infinix hot s from slot.

..beta 4 u

i want to get it through jumia bt i dnt av zenith nor fcmb account,i use diamond,how and wat should i do pls,i knw dia wil b discount on it

pls who has purchased cubot dinosaur,pls gve me ur number,i av got questions

have you but the cubot cheetah,cubot dinosaur is 43k nw