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I disagree you married him just for his looks. You saw a lil potential in him. You dont have to be head over heels in love, before you marry a guy. Love grows over time. When things get rough in marriage then you tend to question why you got married. Marriage is a black market. Even those that marry for Love get to question why they got married, at some point. Marriage is not always rosy. It a phase that will be over. He is not a lazy man. He is probably frustrated too. Men have ego, the fact that he is not yielding to your advice or that of the people around dont make him lazy. You are a strong woman, marriage is for both man and woman. You are there to help him up in times like this. Show him more love and encourage him. Like you said; he is loving and caring. Why not think about the good days rather than pointing out his weaknesses now. 1 Like |
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Invest 93k in a guy? Hope you have something you own that worths 100k+. No right thinking fellow will spend such an amount on a shoes except they are very comfortable already. Dont be threatened, dont be desperate for marriage. Its obvious that you are being bullied. A good guy or girl will tell you to get whatever you can afford. 3 Likes |
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Invest 93k in a guy? Hope you have something you own that worths 100k+. No right thinking fellow will spend such an amount on a shoes except they are very comfortable already. Dont be threatened, dont be desperate for marriage. Its obvious that you are being bullied. A good guy or girl will tell you to get him whatever you can afford. 3 Likes |
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mollytinrox: you see, this thing called love is complicated. Ask me how. Hey hun, how are you so sure he won't fall for another girl after being with you for about four years also ![]() |
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Its not about the girl sleeping with 13guys but about YOU. Are you ready to weather any storm? Are you sure you wont get to a point of calling her a bitch during your life's journey? Are you sure you'll be able to trust her enough? Mariiage is not easy. |
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It's easier judging. Walk in her shoes and you'll know how it feels. For a reason I understand this woman. I know adultery is a sin but it takes the grace of God to understand this if you are frustrated. I reckon this marriage wasn't right from the scratch. It will only take the grace of God to make it right. Some men cheat but still respect their wives. They'll rather do it on the sly. When it gets to the point that you don't respect your wife anymore then It's alarming. I believe situations like this often happen when you the foundation of the marriage is not right. Husband is the head of the house, but you are the neck, the neck can easily turn the head to whatever direction she desires. You are scared to be a single mum probably because you are scared there is nothing to fall back on. (Resources). It's not too late to be made. Start something today. You shouldn't completely depend on your husband. Four children. What more do you want. They should be the love of your life. Let your husband know you can do without him. Divorce/Separation is not a sin. 4 Likes |
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:: VMF ::: Marriage is a beautiful thing, so far you are married to the right person. |
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Bottom line; it takes the right man to appreciate it. I know being a virgin is as important as other qualities. |
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I heard about it too but no confirmation still |
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thanks, m gonna try it right away and c aw it works, |
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Hello, Could any one please help me with recipe for MEAT PIE. i have checked the whole topics on foods but cant seems to find any useful one. thanks |
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Mariah Carey, We Belong Together. Neyo, So Sick Of Love Song. Tosin Martins, Olo mi Lemar, Lullaby Westlife, (All Their Songs) Boys 11 Men, (All Their Songs) 1 Like |
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I have dated only 3; First, high school petty love affair. Had to break up cos we had to move on though it was not formal. Just knew he stopped being my bf 2nd; dated him cos i knew i had no boyfriend and because i needed one. He was the greatest chain smoker av ever seen and also enjoys drinking like mad. above all, all, he wanted more to the relationship which i wasn't ready for. We were totally different from each others. Though still remember the moments spent with him cos he is really nice. 3rd; Thats d person i am dating now! I don't date for the fun of it but for the REAL reason. still on it |
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i have replied about 10 messages but never posted cos i just knew how to post. i will make sure i post soon. |
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m yoruba. |
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good or bad God is there to judge. though every1 will go someday... even if ur enemy dies 2day, it shouldnt b ur joy. i repeat dont speak evil about the dead. May she rest in peace. |
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May her soul rest in peace ![]() ![]() let no one speak evil about the dead body cos that is the only thing that is gone. my condolence to olusegun obasanjo. http://www.nigeriannews.com/ |
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Nursery- Aunty Joyce preparatory school bodija Ibadan Primary- Maryhill convent school Idiape Ibadan Secondary- Command Day Secondary School, Odogbo Ibadan College- The Priory School, Orpington Kent |
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My role model is my mum |
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My zodiac sign is Scorpio
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i am Scorpio
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its my first time on this forum and i am not regretting it. My favorite Nigerian movies are critical decision, playing games 1,2,3, power of love, fugitive, My Love e.t.c ... all others are... I think movies produced by tade ogidan are the bomb |
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