He will feel better with time. The elections were rigged, and 3rd position given to him. It's painful.

Some people feel their lives are useless, and can kill themselves. The painful thing is that they always look for who to take along, they don't want to die alone. May we not come accross worthle$$ demon$ like this police

A very foooolish woman indeed. Finally he will dump her and move to the next fooool

Hmm, what a pity. If at her age, she is still listening to fake prophesies, then she might be under a spell, or a very dull woman who doesn't use her brains. You probably are younger than her, and I don't think it is your place to advise her about her relationship status. She definitely has friends, parents or family members who should give her advice.

You must tell your friend, but do it anonymously.

You can send a letter or email, or place a call anonymously to her, the idiott is even pregnant. How ladies go into such pits without knowing baffles me . Empty barrels with zero prayer life, all they center around is make up and fashion.

Recently heard of a lady who died within few months after marriage with an occultic husband, she was warned but never believed, she's 6feet now.

Save your friend but do it anonymously.

It was in this same family section, that a man shamelessly* adviced married women to "learn to share" their husbands with side chicks". Since the OP says the cheating tables are turning, it's good they apply same advice, by learning to share their wives as well....

we move....

Klass99:


After all men are polygamous in nature, the last part shouldn't be hard for them to do at all.



Is there ever a time when vagina and women's matter is not an important issue for them on these streets?

You sound like the men deserve better? No they don't, Nigerian men are amongst the greatest cheats. They cheat with so much entitlement mentality. Nigerian women learnt cheating from their men. Learn to adapt to sharing your wives with other men.

Reliableman:
The thing is while doing this things and the man thinks he has a loyal woman/wife who pretends so well to everybody around her.I see, I shock.The man even Calls and you lie to him on phone while cheating.

I advised you years ago that you should allow yourself to be imprisoned. Being in prison will kill that habit or make the demon run away from you. Just go live 4-5years in prison.

If truly Peter Obi is out of the race, then the elections have been rigged again this time. The large population of northerners makes them rig elections easily all the time.

That's the spirit. If possible take their money, but don't sell your vote to criminal politicians.

By God's grace Mr. Peter Obi will win this tough race. It is very clear to see that Peter Obi is the best among the rest.

Mr. Peter Obi is stressing himself so much. Hope he will be be forced to have a good rest after he is declared winner. He has really campaigned and move around more than all others.

Definitely caused by a careless driver. This is so sad.

You are looking for a virgin? Are you a virgin?

Why is it that after you men sleep around, when it's time to marry, you suddenly wish to marry a virgin? You think you can escape judgement?

That's why some of you marry a virgin, yet still can't find peace.

If you are a woman and you are a virgin, look for a man who is a virgin and marry.

Tonto is a strong woman, she speaks the truth with clear evidence. This man may have been sent to scam her or ruin her life in the name of marriage, luckily she escaped his evill cuz she's smart. However, it's high time she totally ignores the man and everything he does. If he couldn't afford complete bride price, then he was a broke*scammer. He keeps on celebrating his son, whereas he had other children from his previous wife. Such a demon*.

Ex wives? Or first and second wives? Wrong caption.

This makes sense...

They think that the bishop can solve their problems. No pastor can solve your problems, the only thing a pastor can do is to see your problem and then give you prayer points. As a Christian, you must be willing to pray your way out of your problems.

I respect your opinion, but think about it again. The 371 likes is not a reflection of reality. The men will always support themselves in good or bad*.

Klass99:


Sweetheart I feel you, I will be back shortly.



So, while the answer is NO for you, it is a YES for me. Yes, because I have heard that excuse and narrative too many times not to believe it. It is not only online I've heard it but offline as well. An anonymous forum particularly gives people the boldness and courage to be their true selves or to be brutally honest with their thoughts, anonymity makes it easy for people to shed their usual pretences in real life.

Notice I said excuse, because men will use any excuse to justify their cheating and their excuses range from fallen boobs, loose vjays, a dirty wife, sex starvation to men are polygamous in nature, my wife disrespects me, she has body odour and more. Are their excuses valid? Perhaps, I don't know, but I won't criticize or judge them because I can't and won't sleep with a man who has body odour either.

You and I, may think or feel differently about this but one thing I know for certain is that out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh. In order words, what a man says reveals what is in his heart. So, if majority are saying un-firm bodies cause them to lose their desire and erections, I will take them at their word and not debate the issue. In the mouth of many witnesses a thing is established, abi? 371 likes was not a joke but rather a concurrence with what was said, even if the other 371 people didn't say it themselves, they agreed with it.

Like you, I am all companionship more than sex itself but men are from Mars and women are from Jupiter. We think differently about these things.

So you believe the words of Nigerian men when they say that a woman losing shape after childbirth is what would make her husband lose interest in her and cheat on her? The answer is NO.

If you look at the lives of most "bachelor's" , you will see that some of these guys keep several girlfriends and are not faithful. These girlfriends have firm bodies and have never given birth, Yet these men refuse to stick to one girlfriend. He gradually gets used to $leeping with several women, it becomes a habit which he takes into marriage. Then they begin to give excuses that their wife's appearance caused it. I am very sure we do read stories on this site, about men who cheat when they are newly married with non pregnant wives, or those who cheat on their wedding nights. Decency and faithfulness is learnt, unfortunately the Nigerian society/religion encourages the unfaithfulness of the male gender.

True love cherishes even a flabby body. I read comments from some foreign couples sometime ago, and majority of them who had been in Marriage for many years, said they valued the companionship they shared in marriage more than "sex". That's how it's supposed to be. Both men and women experience body changes as they age together in marriage, both should still love and respect each other.

Klass99:


There was a thread I can never forget, where a male user said husbands cheat on their wives, because after giving birth their bodies are no longer the same.

As in, boobs fall or become flat, the tummy is bigger or flabby and the vjay is no longer tight, from having to push out their child fa. So, they don't find their wives physically or sexually attractive anymore and would rather go for younger women with firmer bodies, tight vjays and firmer boobs. [/b]

What intrigued me was the 371 likes his comment had at the time I saw his post, meaning, a lot of men supported, approved and applauded what he said. No way in hell was it women liking his comment, I am sure it was guys because his post was/is a reality that resonates with them. I just thought to myself...........this is so demoralizing but interesting to know.

These people tolerate wild animals . The Lions will surely attack enough people.

The worst enemies one can contend with in life, are household enemies. If your brother had the mind to shoot a gun at you, then you better leave that house fast, and go live in a place he doesn't know. Then get a strong lawyer, who will come in and handle the issue of sharing whatever your parents left behind, the sharing should be done in favour of your brother since he's older than you. Some parents are careless and do write a "will".

Fact is that, you don't need an evil brother, cut off totally from him, and pray to ward off any spiritual battle as he may come for you spiritually since he failed to kill you physically.

grailife:
The evidence of the gun shooting is still in my compound right now

Godforbid bad..thing..spitts

I thought there is always a teacher in every school bus, and the teacher is dropped after all the children have reached their different homes? Arrest the proprietor and the teacher who left the bus. Never leave a female child alone with a Nigerian man, even if it's her father, but some people will not hear.

Modified: Ya all Nigerian male *demons* should shvt the up. My dad was a treasure to us, the BEST DAD IN THE WHOLE WORLD. It is you all *demons* am referring, I'm not referring to the men in my family, I am not even referring to men all over the world. I am being specific and referring to Nija men. Every single day, we see news of rape of the girl child in your blogs, papers and environment. No time to reply mentions of pedophiles, mateheww.

PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN CURE, PROTECT THE FEMALE CHILD FROM MEN.

So his first to fourth marriages had problems, yet he doesn't know something is seriously wrong with him? If not for money, what else would a woman be looking for in a man like this?

The prisons will be filled up. Every time the same stupidd stories. If castration or death sentence is given for rape and serious crimes, all these nonsense would have stopped. These men commit crimes because the punishment is little. The laws needs to be amended.

Even the story says that the man was always out late in the night drinking with his friends. That shows he was never a responsible husband. Some of these men always think that the grass is green at the other side. In my opinion, I don't think the woman lost anything good, cuz he was never a responsible man. She should give him time to return home, then if he doesn't, she will surely move on and be fine.

The mother supported the child from birth till 16yrs, let the father take over all responsibilities and needs of the boy. His mother has done enough.

Starships4u:


The boy felt he has grown....
So let him fend for himself...
Let the mom support him from a distance tho... That way she'd regain her respect where he is without being close to affect her mental health.

I totally agree with you. From the OPs write up, if you calculate you will realize that the mother is already in her late 30s. This is the perfect time for her to cut off every pain of the past, dump all baggages, and move on with her life. She can't be suffering till death for a pregnancy mistake she made at 19yrs.

According to the OP, the father was in his 20s when he denied the pregnancy. Not only did he deny the pregnancy, he also lied that the girl was sleeping with other men. So you can see the pain the 19yrs old girl passed through, then after all that pain, here comes the son showing the exact trait of his father. What manner of son hears that his biological mother is sick, yet ignores her? What manner of son abandons his mother despite the painful circumstances of his birth? He is bad, he will continue to cause her pain, his father's evil traits are in him.

dominique:


The saddest part of it all is that father never wanted the boy for anything other than to use him to "pepper" his mother. That's what deadbeat fathers do, try to put the child they abandoned against the mother that struggled alone to raise him. Now that she has thrown their bullshit back at them, that man will start getting irritated with the boy and the boy will start resenting him for making him miss a life changing opportunity. There's no way both of them won't break each other's heads which they both deserve. Useless father and stupid child, they both fit each other die.

If the boy continues to disturb your peace, then block his number, let him live with his dead beat father/step mother, since that was who he chose. He is a bad child, and his bad step mom is just the right person to handle him.

Your cousin should NEVER take him abroad, or send a Kobo to him, he is an evil' child. He saw the pain his mom passed through, but still abandoned his mom and went to his father. He will cause her mom pain if he travels to join her.

I wish that your cousin will have her heart desire, and find a man to start life soonest.

She should go rent a house somewhere. The family members can support her if they can. Or share the rooms in the family home.