What do you want them to love if not money?

Did T. B. Joshua father a child out of wedlock? Is it possible for a stranger to just come out and claim a popular Person like T. B. Joshua was her father? Do you think one can tell such a lie? If it finally turns out that the girl is truly his daughter, then don't blame people who believe all other accusations. I wish there was a way that the girl would go for DNA test with his other children.

My only question is, "did T. B. Joshua truly have any child outside wedlock?" If the answer is yes, then the allegations may be true.

This woman again. Is this not the woman who said wives should not be checking their husbands phones ? Not all married women can give good marital advise.

What are you lacking that makes your wife get entangled with other men? She is working and earning money, so this is not about her golddigging. You must do something about your personality and general appearance.


There are people who had poor upbringing and they are used to talking dirty. You should not conclude that your wife is unfaithful, till you catch her red handed. The way she is flirting with the guy is totally wrong, and it's only a matter of time before she falls into temptation. When she comes back, tell her you want her to end her friendship with the guy. Don't let her know you heard the discussion in the car. Tell her you feel jealous that she went out with the guy .

What do you mean by "only one call can get your brothers locked up?" Unless they do not know their rights, that's when they would allow you lock them up when they committed no crime. You are the one who engaged in crimes, you are the one who should be picked up. Don't blame your brothers, they think you are guilty because of your past life.

Trash trash trash.....I believe in miracles, but I do not believe this particular one is a miracle. The rate at which Nigerians peddle drugs and engage in all kinds of crimes world over, is saddening. Tell us your sources of income.

Hopefully, she will truly change her circle of friends, because it is saddening that a girl of 12yrs had to talk dirty and look up sexual related words in dictionary, so as to please her friends (bad friends).

The man may have a mild mental retardation. Mental retardation is in stages, the mild type can hardly be noticed. The man is $ick.

Either this is a fake story or your wife is a Moslem woman. She prefers Rukkiat to be the second wife for you. Take this to the religion section. Maybe you have been threatening your Moslem wife about a second wife.

Your sister had lost her virginity even before she saw her first period
My suggestion is that your mother should withdraw her from that school. Boarding school gives her all the time to engage in all kinds of nonsense. Let her be going to school from home for closer monitoring. If she was my child, I would flog the nonsense out of her, but flogging her might bring different consequences depending on how she was brought up, so think before you act. Make sure she engages in house chores all the time. If at 12yrs she has the mind to do these things, then she's mature enough to handle house chores.
Let her school from home.

Even if I were to be single when I'm 45yrs, he wouldn't even be qualified. Give him to your sisters, I am not looking for a second husband.

OBTOREPA:

He may be your peace of mind, so if you are qualified please apply.

You cry for the ladies, instead of crying for the men first

KingLennon:
When I see the present generation and upcoming generation of girls; I will just cry inside me why I never got married in the 80's









Social Media and peer influence has finished them ...

The man is an attention seeker. He is not ready for marriage.

So is he ready to marry a 45yr old woman? He is broke, yet has too many rules.

Lanretoye:
People posting rubbish up here,whats extrardinary in what he ordered?.normal things that all these instagram ladies will end up doing after they turn 45years and they are still single.

Yes..... very possible

Jackanda1:
Is it possible to come out of this mess? Do you know anyone who came out of these?

If your father stopped your mother from assisting you to go to college, I believe he wouldn't stop her from helping you to start up a business. Your dad and mom should help you set up a business. If only you would start up something, going back to school will be easier.

A situation where your younger ones were sent to school, and you were not, is not right. Only you can break the chains!!!.

Words of a lazy girl. So in the abroad you wouldn't want to contribute to your home when you marry, or pay when you go on dates while in relationships, therefore UK guys are bad? This type of a girl may not have been working while in Nigeria, all they do is hookup, very lazy. Nija guys will spend on you, use you, then $pit you out. Is it the same naija guys known world over for Yahoo, ritual$ and crime$? Very u$ele$$ talk.

Why should the thoughts of helping her even cross your mind? I thought you should be happy to do as the caretaker says, so that she can spend a longer time in cell, and learn a lesson. You should be much more concerned about how the caretaker can do everything possible to frustrate/ evict them when their rent expire$. You are sounding like you have interest in the girl or her family

Even those who own pet snakes do not toss a snake like that.

The snake had been patient for long.

What a miracle... indeed very lucky. Praise God.

Hmm, so you are still waiting for Miss. Perfect?

As for the Op, my advice is that your brother should think of the attributes of this lady. Does she have good characteristics? If she loves him, is well mannered, etc, then he can forgive her and marry her. If she doesn't possess other good attributes, then he can let go. There is no perfect human and mistakes happen.

luminouz:

Only a mumu will go ahead with the wedding. I will call it off right there and then

You lots don't know women. Any woman who values her integrity will never say "she feels like kissing a random Instagram model'. She doesn't respect her fiance and the fact that she says it's not a big deal...MEANS IT'S A MUDAFUCKING BIG FUCKING DEAL!!! 😡😡😡

Jesus...I broke up with a girl who went to visit her toaster.... They didn't have sex but the fact that she went anyways was enough. Women don't cheat physically without first cheating emotionally. Once you tolerate that, it's downhill from there. There was another girl of EKSU who claimed to love me but at the talking stage, she has a male bestie who according to her sleeps in her room, because she can't sleep alone. She said she can't let him go. I flung her out of my house. She came back saying she has changed but I slammed my door in her face.

N.B: the Lesson is simple. Never tolerate any disrespect from any woman. It always goes downhill from there.

Bastard.....feck off my mentions

KingDash09:
Mumu geh
That’s around 60m

I wish it were possible to give him 20yrs imprisonment. Then when he finishes serving his prison term, he is deported home.

How much is the ring worth when calculated in Naira? Over 6billion? . What a careless guy.

You should have posted this in the religion section, or in some social media groups where one can post anonymously with absolutely no history, because this is a very sensitive topic, and those who had such parents may not want to open up here.

From your write up, it seems both of your parents are into what you are talking about . You have to develop a very strong prayer life, practice holiness, and if you are in that situation yet you don't possess some fruits of the spirit, then you better ask God to give you.

You mentioned "competent spiritualists" in your write up? But the truth is that you cannot use darkness to quench darkness. All spiritualists use dark powers. They do what is called "appeasement". Appeasement is a temporary solution. Look for a strong deliverance ministry with prophetic Mantle and join. Make sure that whatever church you join is genuine.

This can only happen in Nigeria

Why is there no option of "bail"? He is alive and will definitely be fine?. What she did is very wrong, but as a man if you think you cannot be faithful, stay and date all the women you want till you are ready to commit to one woman in marriage, or stay single forever.

You think most modern women care about the above? If you go and marry another woman, her life goes on. Just don't keep turning back to nag or fight for the children.

ogawisdom:
Hmmm why is she hiding it from me?
To continuing billing me I guess?

I will ignore her and unleash my own secret on her.

It means we will keep alot of secrets in that marriage, who says I can't secretly marry and start another family elsewhere before kicking her out

NB I will support her if she is open about it and has been supporting in our home.

What is wrong with this baby husband, always sounding like he's highn on something. He keeps reappearing to start a new rant every time . Your wife divorced you many years ago, she has stayed single to take care of the children, while you remarried, so who is better between the two of you? After all these years, this man cannot just $hut up?

If he is still ranting, it means he has showed same narcissistic behavior in his new marriage and is not happy, his new marriage hasn't healed his past, that's why he keeps dwelling in the past, but thank God his children are grown and can take decisions, they prefer their mother, move on for God's sake

It's not really bad, thinking of surgery is going too far