Here I am trying to fill a form and then I come across the space for OCCUPATION, and I freeze; I really don't know what to put in here coz I love many things that I'm also very good at.

Or when someone I haven't seen in a long time asks me, "What do you do for a living?" and again, I FREEZE.

Am I the only one experiencing this painful phenomenon biko?

Here I am trying to fill a form and then I come across the space for OCCUPATION, and I freeze; I really don't know what to put in here coz I love many things that I'm also very good at.

Or when someone I haven't seen in a long time asks me, "What do you do for a living?" and again, I FREEZE.

Am I the only one experiencing this painful phenomenon biko?

pkang:
I worked with my boss for four years before parting with him. Two years later after I have left for another city, he called me and opened a plumbing shop for me to manage. Sales was too low so we converted the shop to Merrybet shop. Sales was low also because we had a surebet competitor before bet9ja came and slept my customers although the Surebet is still in business.
We relocated on January to a new site with my boss paying 90% of the rent. On our new location, we hardly play 1000 on Saturdays which is a major day where others are playing up to 100000.
I could not complete the payment to the shop because my boss has refused to pay. I have not even received salary for two months. Today the landlord rented the shop and refund me the money for seven months.
My boss is angry at me. Now I have seen a new shop although close to another bet shop but I don't know if I should go head up to rent the shop or tell my boss before doing so.
Secondly, I don't know if I am missing on managerial skills to make the business grow.
Although am an introvert but I don't see that as affecting people from coming to play.
Very confused right now as I am considering leaving .
Advise needed .

First of all, your boss trusted you and you let him down ALTHOUGH you meant well. Even if you made millions from changing his vision for the business, do you think he would trust you next time? He'll remember you can be faster than your shadow. Robert Greene said don't outshine your master.

Secondly, it is bad advice to invest in a business whose business secrets you don't know. And that is why your boss will be more angry with you.

Now listen, your job as a manager is to MANAGE his business, not CHANGE the business towards a new vision. Before you make a fresh mistake, go back to him and give him a detailed report of all that has happened so far.

P.S: You haven't been professional at all as a manager. Take this as a learning experience and correct yourself against the future. I salute your boldness to risk what you did but you are a manager there. Only entrepreneurs can bear risk alone.

(I am completely an independent analyst concerned about truth)

1. Sahara Reporters: Let's start off with where this news seemed to have originated from. Do we really trust this source? I for one have never done that since they surfaced, publishing certain stories in livid anonymity and getting away with it. Plus I know they're out to make money. That's all I have to say for them.

2. Festus Kenyamo, Reputable Doesn't Mean "Truthful": Since I was a kid, I've always heard about him. He's famous, he's notorious but does his fame mean he's a "truthful" guy in this case?

3. Man in Photo Evidence, Not Suleiman: The man in the picture shots I saw sincerely compared with Apostle Suleiman in other pictures of him, doesn't look like Suleiman. I have on many occasions seen close resemblance between people as many have notified me of resembling someone else in their lives. This man is a lookalike, not Apostle Suleiman.
The photo in question looks doctored and manipulated. Look at it closely, especially the cheek and bald head areas - that's not Suleiman.
Besides, this was a chat call and a video recording was possible to be made. If Stephanie really is out for vengeance, why didn't she record a video of the chat which would have been possible with just one button pushed, instead of pictures? Very interesting.

4. El-Rufai is Dead: Months earlier, when Apostle Suleiman took a hot swipe at El-Rufai with the "You're dead" statement, I told myself that the Apostle had swung too far. Is it possible to assume this is the genesis of this scandal - which will conclude that this is a conspiracy?

5. Stephanie - Her Motive, Hypnotized?.. Timaya Mentioned: Watching Stephanie speak, she seemed to me as someone hypnotized into believing a story that did not happen. The way she keeps opening her mouth agape after pertinent points and the sly movement of her eyes will tell a decent body language expert that she believes the story, and not that it actually happened to her.
Let's look at her state of mind: is she hurt that he didn't marry her anymore? Or is she upset and vengeful that makes her eager to bring down the Apostle in the media? Why go to the media instead of the church? Besides she looks smart - would she honestly expect that the Apostle would leave his POWERFUL wife perfect in every way to marry herself Stephanie? Doesn't add up.
Plus she mentioned she was supposed to shoot a video with Timaya recently. Why hasn't Timaya said anything yet about that claim? Is the claim true? Or was Timaya paid up to act as her alibi? I'm sure his PR team would have notified him by now.

6. Stephanie, Kimora Doesn't Care About Music: I "dug" in to discover more about this Kimora musician, Stephanie that is. Here's something interesting; I discovered that the only song she's ever done, both audio and video is titled, "His Girlfriend". For someone serious about "blowing", she has never put that song anywhere else except YouTube. Look at this next.
One "Olosho Mozarti" account uploaded the video of the song on September 26, 2016. By this time, Stephanie had not even opened a YouTube account herself. Instead she opened it the next day, Sept 27, 2016. Funny.
Now again watch this: Stephanie went on to upload this same video to YouTube not immediately after opening the account on Sept 27 but uploaded the music video to her account on DECEMBER 26 2016. How does it make sense? She doesn't care about music.

7. LIVEWire's CONCLUSION: This looks like a beautiful tactic that was planned way ahead of time by the people the Apostle has hurt. And it seems religiously motivated. It was a planned story meant to carry the theme of "you never know someone fully well", but the logical evidence in this report has put me in the COMPLETE CONFIDENCE that APOSTLE JOHNSON SULEIMAN the man of God is very innocent of these accusations.

P.S: Don't look for what to believe. Ask WHY.